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Dream Dictionary

Online Dream Dictionary & Encyclopedia

by Tony Crisp

The Spanish Dictionary is all the work and effort placed in it, as well as many excellent dream interpretations all by Anna Hoser,

Introduction

The latest edition of the Dream Dictionary and Dream Encylopedia is the result of some sixty years experience of working with dreams and their understanding. The Dream Dictionary encompassing articles on a vast range of topics. This gives the reader an unparalleled insight into the study of dreams and the inner life. But there are an enormous amount of Features in the Dream Encylopedia that cover a range of topics about dreams and the inner life.

The aim of the Dream Dictionary is to help you make connections between your dreams and your everyday life; to discover more fully the powerful emotions and reactions that unconsciously direct your decisions and responses in waking. This is not an attempt to give you merely ideas to play with, to agree or disagree with, like fortune telling. It can lead to real insights which empower you to make more of yourself, and find your way through the many decisions with which life confronts you.

Useful Links

Your Guru the Dream

Your Guru Your Body

What Are Dreams

Learn how to Interpret Your Dream

What does my dream mean? – How to explore your dream meaning

Personal Dream Interpretation

A Note About the Author: Tony Crisp

Mind Watching and Dreams

Introduction to Using the Dream Dictionary

Using the Dictionary

The Discovery of Dreams – Things We Need to Remember About Us

Gaining Insight into Your Dreams

Acknowledgement to this Edition

What Is Offered In The Dictionary

The Discovery of Dreams

Deepening Dream Understanding

Seeing under the Surface

Exploring Inner Space

Things I Wished I Had Had Been Taught Earlier in My Life

Features Found on Site: this is a full list of the topics covered by the Dream Encyclopedia (not a list of dream dictionary words). 

  What Are Dreams?

Dreams are one of nature’s miracles, not the result of a wandering mind in sleep. A dream is an interface between the process of life, our core self and our conscious personality. Life existed quite capably for millions of years before the self-aware human personality came on the scene. In all that time the ancestors of the modern human being survived without having a rational mind to reason with, or self consciousness to ask such questions as ‘What do I do about this?’ Nevertheless survival strategies were still developed in their unconscious intelligence. Dreams express this unconscious wisdom that was developed in humans and animals through millions of years of Life experience.

Life’s age old unconscious processes are still the major part of our being, yet we seldom consciously meet them – except in dreams. As our physical and psychological health depend upon a reasonable co-operation between the spontaneous processes of life – such as breathing, digestion and the thousands of other life sustaining activities and our conscious decisions and actions, the encounter in dreams is vital. As I often point out to those I am advising we are a human face on a long line of beautiful animals. In fact “You ride an ancient beast.” The ancient beast is your body, and your conscious self is the modern and recent rider of it. Some ‘riders’ do not understand their animal needs – and the fact that we have several levels of brain that are independent of each other proves this. Still active in us are our Reptile Brain, Our mammalian Brain, and our Human Brain, and the reptile and mammalian brains are still very active and constitute a large part of our human unconscious. See  – Brain Levels and Dreams –  Life’s Little Secrets and Levels of Awareness in Sleeping and Waking.

So, no plant or creature grows from a dead seed, and each living seed carries within it all the past gathered from all its forebears. So, the seed in your mother’s womb is as old as and even older than human kind, and you carry that wisdom or memories in you. But in this life you developed a new brain, and the memories you gathered this time are what you built your personality from, but beneath that is a very ancient self. To meet this ancient self try using Opening to Life

That suggests that dreams cannot be defined under any one heading. Like human beings, they are enormously varied in what they express. Just as one cannot say the human mind is simply a system of memory, one cannot say dreams are just the reflection of experienced events. The mind also deals with problem solving, predicting outcomes of action, playing with possibilities via imagination, creating the new out of old material, replaying traumatic and disturbing events in order to find ways of meeting them constructively. Dreams, being the mental phenomena they are, deal with all of these issues and more. The following definitions give the main functions observable in dreams.

Dreams are:-

  1. Dreams are one of nature’s miracles, not the result of a wandering mind in sleep. A dream is an interface between the process of life, our core self and our conscious personality. Life existed quite capably for millions of years before the self-aware human personality came on the scene. In all that time the ancestors of the modern human being survived without having a rational mind to reason with, or self consciousness to ask such questions as ‘What do I do about this?’ Nevertheless survival strategies were still developed in their unconscious intelligence. Dreams express this unconscious wisdom that was developed in humans and animals through millions of years of Life experience.
  2. Recently I have come to see dreams as the lonely voice of Life calling out to us in our often frantic search for meaning. It calls out from its vastness that is beyond our understanding, and in its loving efforts gathers the fragments of our memory and associations and forms dreams with them. It does this in its efforts to instruct, guide and even heal us; but often we miss seeing that just as Life reaches to us from its vastness using things we might understand, we too must reach beyond our often pitiful understanding to move toward and touch the wonder of Life within us.
  3. An expression of what is happening in the physical body. Some doctors consider dreams to show signs of illness long before they are evident in other ways. Women frequently know they are pregnant very early on through sleep awareness in a dream. See: bodybody dreamsKasatkin_Vasilyconsciousness-mind body split.
  4. A link between the sleeping mind and what is occurring externally. For instance, a person may be falling out of bed and dream of flying or falling.
  5. A way of balancing the physiological and psychological activities in us. When a person is deprived of dreaming in experiments, a breakdown in mind and body quickly occurs. This type of dreaming, or even nightmares, can often be a safety valve releasing tension and emotion not dealt with in waking life. See: compensation theoryself-regulation dreams and fantasyscience and dreams.
  6. An enormously original source of insight and information. Dreams tap our memory, our experience, and scan information held in our unconscious to form new insights from old experience. Dreams often present to us summaries or details of experience we have been unable to access consciously. Sometimes this is as early as life in the womb.  See: creativity and problem solving in dreams.
  7.    That insight comes from an amazing ability dreams have. Mostly we are lost in being aware of this moment or cares of recent events, and of our present environment, but the dream process has another view, that is of our whole life, like flying high and so have a huge view. We have taken in so much life experience, but many of  us have not learnt the amazing lessons we gained by it. But the overall view we get from dreams, visions and our intuition gives us a view that synthesises or whole life and highlights its wonder, its destiny, our real purpose and our life’s real work. See Intuition – Using It
  8. A means of compensating for failure or deprivation in everyday life, and as a means of expressing the otherwise unacknowledged aspects of oneself. Such dreams are a move toward wholeness. See: compensation theory.
  9. In dreams we may be integrating new experience with what we have already gathered and digested. In this way our abilities, such as social skills, are gradually upgraded. See: computercomputer-dream process as aEvans, Christopher.
  10. Dreams often stand in place of actual experience. So through dreams we may experiment with new experience or practice things we have not yet done externally. For instance many young women dream in detail of giving birth. This function of what might be called ‘imagination’ is tremendously undervalued, but is a foundation upon which human survival is built. Seeimagination and dreaming.
  11. An means of exercise for the psyche or soul. Just as the body will become sick if not moved and stressed, so the mind and emotions need stimulus and exercise. Dreams fulfill this need. See Opening to Life
  12. An expression of human supersenses. Humans have an unconscious ability to read body language – so they can assess other humans very quickly. Humans have an unimaginable ability to absorb information, not simply from books, but from everyday events – for example science now tells us that we collect information at an enormous rate, millions of bits every second, but unfortunately we do not synthesis it to see what it means, for most of it is unconscious, only dreams access and use it. With it they constantly arrive at new insights and realisations. Humans frequently correctly predict the future – not out of a bizarre ability, but from the information gathered about the present. All these abilities and more show in our dreams. See: esp in dreams.
  13. A means of solving problems, or formulating creative ideas, both in our personal life, and also in relationships and work. Many people have produced highly creative work directly from dreams. See Creative Dreaming and Problem Solving
  14. A presentation in symbols of past traumatic experience. If met this can lead to deep psychological healing. Such dreams are therefore an attempt on the part of our spontaneous inner processes to bring about healing change. See: abreactioncompensation theorynightmares.
  15. In the widest sense nearly all dreams act as a process of growth or a move toward maturing. Some dreams are very obviously presenting internal forces or dimensions of experience that might lead the conscious personality toward a greater balance and inclusiveness. See: individuationLifeStream.
  16. A way of reaching beyond the known world of experience and presenting intimations from the unknown. Many people have dreams in which ESP, out of the body experiences, and knowledge transcending time and space occur. This type of dream may indicate a link between the present person and people who had lived in the distant past; or between the dreamer and all existing life. Some of these dreams present powerful insights into how the transitory human personality may arise out of an eternal consciousness. They thus deal with the spiritual aspects of human nature. See: Dimensions of Human ExperienceBuddhism and dreamsCayce, Edgarcollective unconsciousBible and dreamsesp in dreamshallucinationshistory of dreamingreligion and dreamsyoga and dreamsDream Yoga

Learn how to Explore Your Dream

I know how much you might like to skip the Introduction to Dream Dictionary, and if you are tempted to do so, I wholeheartedly ask you to read Summing Up. Without understanding the things given there you are likely to completely miss the point of understanding your dreams. The best technique to enter you dream world – Peer Dream Work

You can start using the Dream Dictionary by entering the word you wish to research into the Search Box on the top right of most pages and clicking the search symbol – or you can read some fuller information below about the dictionary and how best to use it.

But the quickest way is to put your word in the search box. 

Your dreams can become vortexes of power to transform your life, and to enhance your perceptions. There is no ‘wave a magic wand’ route to this. It will not happen because you read a great book or look at a good dream dictionary. Those things might help, but the real magic lies in whether you can enter into your dream in the right way. (Try using Being the Person or Thing and Meaning of Your Dream).  

What does my dream mean? – How to explore your dream meanings

It is important in reading the definitions of dream images to realise that not every possible meaning can be covered in this dictionary. So please see if you get the idea of what is being said and allow your own imagination/feelings to fill in the meaning.

There are several ways you can understand the meanings held in your dreams, and there are several levels.

The first is an easily understood level, followed by greater depths:

For instance, speaking as an object or dream person, one needs to take time with it. Learn how to actually describe what you are as that dream object or person. If I dream of a dog, don’t simply describe what you think a dog feels like, but actually take time to tune into the dream image and describe the dog dreamt about. Is it an old or young dog? What is it doing in the dream? Listen to your feelings and describe what it/you feel. Remember that each image is a creation of your own mind and unconscious, so you are really describing yourself. Say whatever comes and consider its value afterwards. Below is a quote from Tiziana Stupia’s book Meeting Shiva 

Tony taught me a process in which a dream could be interpreted and understood by assuming that everything, people and objects alike, in a dream represented aspects of the Self. Sitting cross-legged on the squishy, old-fashioned sofa in the living room of my sadhu’s cave opposite Tony, I’d close my eyes and mentally return to a dream I had the previous night. He would ask me questions about the dream, which I’d answer in the first person. So if I dreamt about a tree, I would ‘become’ the tree, assume its personality and respond from its viewpoint. He’d ask ‘So what kind of tree are you? Are you big or small, old or young? What do you look like? Where are you growing? Why are you in Tiziana’s dream?’

This sounded like a silly exercise at first, but I was soon enough convinced of its validity. It was fascinating to discover a wealth of insight and emotion emerging from my responses, and understand how they related to my current situation. They also pinpointed exactly where I was in my growth process. Sometimes, the dreams would uncover unconscious fears and intuitions. Often, they also held important clues and offered solutions to my problems. It was like doing detective’s work – arduous at times, but rewarding beyond belief.

So below are listed several ways to gain insight and information from your dreams. Take your time with each approach until you get the feel for it, and then experiment with other approaches.

You can enter a key word in the search box. The Dream Dictionary contains interpretations on almost any type of dream subject. So, if you dreamt of a flying saucer landing in a field, and aliens getting out and taking a baby, a snake, and a pregnant dog back into the saucer, you could search separately for each of these subjects in the Dream Dictionary. Find the entry for flying saucer; then the entry for dog, babysnake, pregnant, and so on. For each entry, find further related entries by looking under ‘Similar Articles’ on the right-hand side of the page. Then see Techniques for Exploring your Dreams.

Each entry gives the general meaning of the dream subject, just as an encyclopedia or dictionary does for a word. Several possible meanings are given. This is because as with our speech the position of the word – the context – gives it special meanings. So, a hot dog would be quite different to a black dog, dog-end or dead dog. Therefore, when you read an entry which has several different meanings, sometimes with a ‘;’ between, it simply means any one of them could apply, which means you need to think about the feelings in your dream, the context, the other imagery used. Please do not fall into the trap that one reviewer made of saying that the whole dictionary is about sex. Of course, sex is one meaning among many others. So, use your own sense of your dream as well as any definitions given.

To really explore the meaning, it is useful to use the Dream Dictionary as it is designed, rather than arrive at a ‘thought out’ interpretation. To see a working example of this see Dream Interpretation Example One

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Personal Dream Interpretation

I no longer offer a personal dream interpretation service, but only occasionally if you manage to send  an interesting dream I will respond – the reason is I am getting past my sell by date being 84.

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In the meantime, here is a way to work out your own dream – Getting at Your Dream’s Meaning.

Please note: this a not-for-profit site and it offers real dream interpretations, not dream dictionary features that are not real interpretations. We ask no payment for these interpretations, but it would be a great if you wish to donate anything. I do not ask a fee for what I do, but if you wish to donate you can click on this Paypal Donation  

A Note About the Author: Tony Crisp

I have been interested in the health of mind and body since my early teens. I began writing about these subjects in 1956. My fascination for what lay under the surface of the mind led me personally to explore the unconscious using dreams and other mental and physical disciplines. From 1972 – 94 I worked as a psychotherapist using an eclectic, Humanistic Psychology approach which included dream work and releasing the secrets the body holds. My books include Do You DreamMind and MovementThe Instant Dream Book; Dream DictionaryLife’s Little Secrets –Liberating The Body  – and many more. See My Books.

During those years I worked as a dream columnist for The Daily Mail and She Magazine. I was the regular dream interpreter for the London Broadcasting Company; I ran Teletext’s dream page on UK television’s Channel Four; and for New Zealand Teletext, and now I run this website giving dream help in the many replies to peoples dreams and in as well as many features on subjects connected with the human inner world. See Features

Throughout more than five decades I have been involved in a personal search for the secrets of mind and spirit. In those years I have also taught thousands of people techniques of deep relaxation, meditation, and methods of self exploration using dreams. Wanting to dig deep I explored the use of dreams and taught individuals and groups of people how to use these visions of the night to discover and heal the deepest issues in themselves, and to touch the high ground of their spiritual awareness. I worked for twenty years as a psychotherapist using several approaches, one of which was a way of honouring the body as a doorway to the unconscious mind, the emotions and spiritual experience. See Self-Regulation –  Recognition – Life’s Little Secrets – The LifeStream and Opening to Life

During the sixty years of seeking the wild wondrous beasts of the mind and spirit I dared my own inner adventure. But I also travelled with other people as an ordinary person, not a therapist, sharing their experience of fear and wonder as they unveiled and set loose their fountain of perception. I have travelled countless dream pathways, traversed the timeless with those using awareness enhancing drugs, and wrestled with the vitality of the body as people mimed and shouted their deepest intuitions through movement, dance and voice. See Tony’s Biography

My aim has always to share my findings – actually what I was shown or given from within – was given freely; I never had any teacher or attended a course, of course I read an enormous amount, so I cannot ask for money. If you wish to donate anything to the running of the site you can do so by clicking on https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&hosted_button_id=JYTWAMC4LQLQ4&source=url 

My teacher has been from exploring dreams and occasionally touching the wonder we were born as – not from words written in books about that but by meeting it. See Enlightenment  

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Introduction to Using the Dream Dictionary

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Diccionario de los Sueños

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What Is Offered In The Dictionary

Because of the many nature films shown on television we are used to the idea of mature and intelligent adults spending days or years watching the behaviour of animals such as hyenas or chimpanzees. In her book In The Shadow Of Man, Jane Von Lawick Goodall explains how, by watching chimpanzees and taking note of her observations, radical new insight into the behaviour of chimpanzees arose. She didn’t think beforehand what she expected to find, but simply observed and put together the information that arose. For instance on several occasions she saw the chimpanzees kill another animal and eat its flesh. The knowledge that chimpanzees were meat eaters was entirely new.

In a similar way, by observing dreams and laying bare the emotions and associated ideas and memories we have with the dream imagery, we gradually define our personality, its strengths and weaknesses, we discover new abilities and we grow beyond our old problems, and that in a depth we had never managed previously. I have called this mind watching, but it covers every aspect of human nature, not simply the intellect or thinking.

This mind watching through observation of our dreams first presents information about our personal experiences and memories and how they influenced our growth and influence present responses. Gradually the information arising from such watching leads beyond ones personal self. It shows in many cases how our unique self has arisen from, and has indissoluble links with our forebears, with our culture, with the past as a whole, and with the cosmos itself. It leads from oneself to the edge of the known, and perhaps helps us take a few steps beyond that edge into the unknown, to create new understanding.

This mind watching gradually reveals to us the many aspects of the mind’s working, and with such insight may come the growing ability to use these facets of ourselves. Not only may we discover great vistas of personal memory, but also the roots of our creativity, the subtle senses of our emotions and unconscious, and the treasures of experience we have gathered. See Your Amazing Circle – Self Observation 

So how can we get into this magical world of our dreams and start to harvest the possibilities held there? The following pages of this book are designed to help, guide and inform on how to do this. The book is also a counsellor on what you may find in your dream adventure.

The information about dreams presented in this book has been gathered during fifty years of working with and studying dreams and the dream process. It synthesises the experience of personally helping hundreds of individuals explore their dreams. The examples used have been taken from a collection of over 8000 dreams put onto a computer filing system. The filing system was also used to define general associations with commonly used dream images.

The major input for definition however has arisen from the actual exploration of dreams undertaken by individuals. These are either people I have worked with personally who have deeply felt the emotions and issues behind their dreams, not simply talked them over and come to an intellectual interpretation but a deep insight, or are people who have written up their findings arising from similar work. Added to this is the commonly held associations we have through our language and the way we use imagery within speech. Of course your personal dream imagery may not be using the commonly held associations, or those used by other people, and so you must read the definitions with care and consider if these fit what is implied or dramatised in your dream.

In the entries in the Dictionary are explanations of the many different types of dreams and dream images. Despite some people’s attempt to explain dreams in one simple formula, dreams cover a huge range of phenomena and human experience. Amongst subjects covered in the book are thousands of entries on the researched meaning of the things, people, creatures and places we dream about. There are also many entries on special subjects such as symbols and dreaming; interpreting dreamsrecurring dreamsnightmaressex while asleepteenage girls love dreamsprecognitive dreamstalking in ones sleepthe dream as an adventure; Occultism and Dreamsscience sleep and dreams; and many more.

There are a compete list of these Features and the  Archetypes covered.

Therefore, if you have dreamt of such things as your teeth falling out; being chased; or your marriage partner dying, you will find an explanation of your dream in the following pages.

The aim of the book is to help you make connections between your dreams and your everyday life; to discover more fully the powerful emotions and reactions that unconsciously direct your decisions and responses in waking. The book is not an attempt to give you merely ideas to play with, to agree or disagree with, like fortune telling. It can lead to real insights which empower you to make more of yourself, and find your way through the many decisions life confronts you with.

But you can move directly on to Using the Dictionary – or better still read Meaning of Your Dream

The Discovery of Dreams

In this section are given real practical methods of understanding your dreams. This is not like an intellectual interpretation of your dreams but a real meeting, it is the difference between thinking about something and living it. It is the difference between reading a description of a person and actually meeting them in a deep relationship. These are given for use only if you wish to use them, otherwise there is the dictionary that is also very useful. To start with here are some things to remember about dreaming. They have been gathered from a long involvement with dreams. But you can move directly on to Using the Dictionary.

Dreams are a magical mirror in which your innermost hopes, longings, fears/terrors and genius are made real. They are made real as external environments, people, animals and relationships. It is as if all your deepest feelings, hopes, fear and wonder are projected outward onto a multidimensional screen. It is a world of virtual reality that you feel is real. Unfortunately this wonderful virtual reality world is usually felt as dealing with other people, as externals, like something that can damage us, or something like the Devil that can possess us.

But the greatest truth I have found in exploring dreams – not interpreting them – is that we are alone with ourselves in the world of our dream. If we can acknowledge and admit that our terrors we dream are actually our past hurts that we have not faced presenting themselves for us to heal; that the ghosts and demons that can rampage about our night are embodiments of our fears; that our wonderful visions and insights are an expression of our own infinite potential, then we can walk a pathway to finding what we really are. Audio Introduction to Exploring a Dream

  1. Dreams are virtual realities that we create in our sleep. Even the wonderful dreams of God and angels are an external virtual reality, and mirror of our own inner immensity and our enormous variety. Unfortunately people either accept them as externally real, or as fantasy. But they are reflections of your potential, that cannot be seen in your daily life that is so dominated by your physical senses and hungers and fears.
  2. See The Magical Dream Machine. So the images and fears we experience in our dreams are projection upon the vast screen of our mind. They are all projections from you. Running from them is like trying to escape from yourself.
  3. In life and sleep we have two powerful actions working in us. The first is our waking experience based on having a body, its limitations, vulnerabilities and a particular gender. Our second is the power that gave us life and continues to express as dreams.
  4. While we sleep our conscious self is largely or totally unconscious, and while we sleep our voluntary muscles are paralysed – therefore another will or motivating force moves our body. So we have a Conscious Will, and what I will call a Life Will. The first one we have experience of as we can move our arm or speak in everyday activities; but the second will takes over when we sleep. See Sleep Paralysis
  5. This Life will can move us to speak, to move our body, and in fact do things that we cannot do with our Conscious Will. As Freud pointed out this inner will has full access to our memories. It can do so many other things that are described else where – See ESP in DreamsEdgar Cayce and the Cosmic Mind.
  6. This Life Will or motivator has been active for millions of years and we see it working all the time in animals. We are partly split in half because we are often opposed to what our Life Will in us wants. So the only way to express what is good for us is in dreams when our conscious will is largely passive.
  7. Life Will created your body and pre-existed you as a person you know today. It was working in you prior to your ability to speak or know in the way you do now. But of course it has fantastic wisdom and skills, as can be seen in animals.
  8. Life, if you look around you at Life’s creature, they can take any form. So Life itself is without form. In fact the recent advances in quantum physics suggest that what gives us existence is beyond space and time – beyond understanding.
  9. So dreams do not come from the human unconscious, but from the formless origins of Life – our Core Self. To express in a way that is understandable to us as a person with limited understanding, dreams use all the common imagery and ideas. So people who say that dreams are a mish mash of common everyday events are mistaken. See LifeStreamLevels of Awareness in Sleeping and Waking; .
  10. Our core self can be explained by realising that we are all dependent on the universe. We often feel that the universe is way beyond our understanding, but a few simple facts may help. The first is that the universe as we know it began with what had been called the Big Bang. But before that there was a situation prior to the creation of time and space. That situation is very much like the experience of Edgar Cayce who had an awareness reaching beyond time and space. See God and the Big Bang are the Same Thing
  11. Irish physicist John Stewart Bell put forward a quantum theorem that has revolutionised the way reality is considered. In brief, the theorem states that when two sub-microscopic particles are split and moved to a distance from each other, the action on, or of, particle ‘A’, is instantaneously reproduced with particle ‘B’. This interaction does not rely on any known link or communication and is considered to stand above normal physical laws of nature, as it is faster than light. Prior to such findings it was thought nothing could transcend the speed of light. Nick Herbert, in an interview published in High Frontiers writes: ‘THERE ARE LOTS OF THINGS that are being kept from the public as far as the subjects of physics and consciousness are concerned. Bell’s Theorem was proved in 1964, and it is still not taught in physics classes, and you don’t hear it on your science news programs. A theorem is a proof, and no one has found a flaw in this theorem. It’s such a simple proof that a high school kid can understand it. So physicists can understand it. They have various ways of trying to ignore it, but it can’t be refuted because it’s so simple.’

Our Core self is that amazing part of us existing beyond time and space, and was within us from the start of our universe.

  1. In the world of dreams our most intimate fears and longings are given an exterior life of their own in the form of the people, objects and places of our dream. Therefore our sexual drive may be shown as a person and how we relate to them; or given shape and colour as an object; or given mood as a scene. Our feeling of ambition might thus be portrayed as a business person in our dream – our changing emotions as the sea or a river; while the present relationship we have with our ambition or emotions is expressed in the events or plot of the dream.
  2. You cannot be killed in a dream. All you can experience is the anguish and perhaps fear of dying, but in dreams you cannot die – or drown, or burn or any other threatening thing. We make the mistake of taking our very real values from our outer life into our inner life of dreams.
  3. In dreams, what ever moves away from you in our dreams is going out of your awareness or even life; and whatever moves toward us is emerging into consciousness. Whatever it is that is coming toward us is giving us something whether it is energy, insight, or a frightening dream that is trying to shock us to wake up and clear out the inner mess we are in.  The fact we give it a frightening image is because we are brought up to be scared of ourselves and to not trust Life/Core. If you know the tenets of the AA, you will see that is what they are about – to trust Life.
  4. Most people are frightened of life. I see this in so many dreams sent to me. They do not trust themselves to the powerful action of Life flowing through them. See Life’s Little Secrets.
  5. We have been brain washed to believe that our existence depends upon nothing but accidental events, the survival of the fittest, the chemical and biological mechanical actions. Yet every time I have gone deeply into my ‘unconscious’ and yet maintained awareness, I have found a wonderful power of Life there.
  6. So if your dreams frighten you, I want to say you are frightened of something wonderful that could have grown you and enlarged your experience of yourself. The thing that was full of fear was your own fear put into an image, and yet was a wonderful gift that you avoided receiving.
  7. I too was full of fears and often woke up screaming. Then I learned to trust Life. It is like learning to swim. So please go back into your dream and let the fearful thing be fully experienced instead of waking up in fear. Then it will unveil itself as a thing of light and love.

Deepening Dream Understanding

The methods described above will throw light on most dreams, even if you do not take time to write out fuller associations. When the insights gained in this way become useful, you may wish to increase your skill still further. Therefore, below, and throughout the book, additional information is given on how to draw out the wisdom in dreams. A working attitude toward them is also outlined.

I suggest you only try one method at a time and use it until you are capable or it or it doesn’t work for you, then move on to other methods taking time with them until you find what works best for you.

Although the process of dreams might not be a direct attempt to present MEANING, a dream may nevertheless have a great deal of INFORMATION in it. This becomes clearer if we remember that not many years ago it would have appeared highly superstitious or suspect to claim to be able to tell a person details of their health and parentage from a sample of their urine or blood. Today it is common practice. We accept that a growing amount of information can be gained from these unlikely sources. Blood doesn’t contain meaning, but we can gain information from it. In a similar way a sample of our dreams can also tell us an enormous amount. Sometimes this data is obvious, sometimes it needs processing to uncover, as with urine and blood.

Dream Processing – The following dream needs no deep techniques of processing. The word ‘processing’ is used throughout the book instead of analysis. Analysis has the connotation of giving our own thoughts or opinions to the dream. Processing is used to suggest extraction of information which leads to insight. With this particular dream, all it needs is a few facts brought to it to make clear what information it holds. The dream is that of a young woman, Mrs C. L.

It is a bright sunny day. I am walking across a large concrete car park. It is empty except for a huge trailer from a truck. It has BOOTS written on the side, and stands high off the ground. Being 4’ 9’ tall myself I decide to walk underneath. As I am half way the trailer starts to be lowered on top of me. I try to shout but cannot. I get onto my hands and knees and the trailer still kept coming down. I am now lying on my stomach, convinced it is going to crush me. Then it suddenly stops a couple of inches from my head. I wake feeling terrible.

The dream is interesting, although the information it holds may at first not be obvious. But with a minimum of processing the dream information will become clear. The first technique of processing the dream is to recognise some of the key statements within it. These are I AM WALKING – I TRY TO SHOUT – CONVINCED IT IS GOING TO CRUSH ME.

The reason these are key statements is because the dreamer is saying ‘I am walking’ – ‘I try to shout’ – ‘I …am convinced’. The word ‘I’ is important.

This form of processing has not added anything to the dream. It has simply drawn attention to the information already there in the dreamer’s description of her experience – this is why it is useful to write the dream out fully. If we add a little more information which the dreamer herself connects with the dream, then it becomes even clearer. Mrs C. L. says, ‘I work for BOOTS the chemist. The employees at the shop I work in were told at the beginning of the year that Boots are selling our shop. When that happens I will be made redundant. We were supposed to finish on May 26th. It is now the end of July. The deal fell through so we are now just left hanging indefinitely until a new buyer comes along. I feel very unsettled as I can’t make any plans for the future.’

Having read these comments, it would be difficult not to see the dream as relating to the woman’s work situation, and to her strong anxiety connected with it. She herself says – through her dream – she is ‘convinced it – the situation – is going to crush’ her. She also feels her strong emotions about this – expressed in her attempt to shout – are not being expressed or ‘heard’. From just this one dream, we can be forgiven if we assume that dreams may express in dramatic form our feeling reaction to the circumstances of our everyday life. Taking this dream as information, Mrs. C. L. could see she is feeling crushed by the situation, yet not stating her feelings loudly enough to be heard. She might therefore speak to the manager to clarify the situation for herself.

Here is an even shorter and less complex dream. It has been left just as it was written so its information is immediately apparent. The key words here might be TRYING TO CONTACT HIM and NOT UNDERSTANDING WHY HE LEFT ME. The dream is from Mrs C. J.

Years ago I lost my first husband at twenty nine. I had the same dream continually of being in a phone box trying to contact him, not understanding why he had left me. He died of cancer. Later I remarried and this husband died of a heart attack. Once again the same dream came back so much.

On speculating about the dream from what is immediately apparent, we might say that although it is irrational to continually  try to contact her husband when there has never be any success, nevertheless, her desire to be with him continues year after year. This same part of her cannot understand why he died. We might put such feelings into words as, ‘But what had he done to die so young? Why should it happen to me twice?’ We can also assume that her desire to understand these questions, which is what contacting her husband represents, is expressed in the dream as the telephone.

The dream process has dramatised her situation and inner feelings – given them form and made them experiential. Looking at this dream helps us see how an image, such as the telephone, performs exactly the same sort of function as a spoken word, although in a different way. Namely, it represents feelings and thoughts. That the woman’s questions remain, that her problem is unsolved, is apparent from the fact she does NOT make contact on the telephone, and does not find peace. Understanding her dream shows her the importance of the questions she continually asks herself, and the need to release the emotions behind them. With this she could be free of the dream. If she cannot manage this by herself, taking advantage of the professional help of a therapist might help.

To make it clear how everything is a dream holds personal information, to give an example, I was recently asked by a man who had given no thought to dreams how on earth you could extract any meaning from them. He was wearing a fairly old T-shirt, so I said, “OK, let’s imagine you dreamt of your T-shirt, what would you make of that?”

After a while he said, “I don’t know that I would make anything of it.”

My response was to say, “Right, but now tell me where you bought the T-shirt, and what memories it has for you.” Whereupon he told me memories of being abroad, and that the shirt was part of those memories, and he wasn’t prepared to say what they were as they were so personal.

The important point is that everything we see and deal with, every person, every imagined scene, has such a background of feelings and perhaps memories. It is exactly this background of feelings and information that the dream weaves its story from. To understand it you need to become aware of the usually unconscious feeling responses you have in connection with every thing, place, person and animal you fill your dreams with.

For fuller Dream Processing – Below are described simple techniques that make it possible to quickly gain information from your dreams. They have been put as a series of questions. If you take time to consider and answer the question you will find your way into a new experience of dream understanding.

Read it in: Processing Your Dream  

Seeing under the Surface

The following information is to take you deeply into the dream you are exploring, They are for those who really want to make progess in their life and in their inner world or dreams

Acting on your Dreams – Extracting more from your dream by letting your body and feelings express it can provide a remarkable release of insight. There are several ways of doing this.

Do see the instructions see: Acting on Your Dreams

The Peer Dream Group – This method is the most powerful and deepest method. It includes some of the other techniques mentioned.

The way of working known as the Peer Dream Group came about from our experience that dreams are largely self explanatory if approached in the right way. An exterior expert or authority is not necessary for a profound experience of and insight into dreams and into oneself if certain rules are respected and used. The dreamer is the ultimate expert on their own dream  and themselves but only when we break through to what is usually unconscious mental states, and when treated as such, and supported in their investigation of their dream drama, they can powerfully explore and manifest the resources of their inner life.

To use it see: The Peer Dream Group and What I Have Seen In Dreams

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-carla 2015-08-18 16:16:27

I had the weirdest dream last night! I was laying on a bed being choked by my longtime boyfriend (it felt so real that when I woke up I couldn’t feel my feet) in the background on a TV I could see a picture of a wedding dress and a suit flashing over and over and it kept saying you need this you need this. At the same time as this was happening little colorful plastic circles with the letter S on them were being thrown at me. What could this mean?

    -Anna - Tony's Assistant 2015-08-29 12:11:55

    Dear Carla – Both the television in your dream and the little colourful plastic circles with the letter S I see as symbols of not being aware of some (inner) drama/conflict that is taking place in your (inner) world and of not being able to define your feelings about this.
    So in order to get to the core of your dream (messages) you will have to explore it for yourself as well.
    See http://dreamhawk.com/dream-dictionary/practical-techniques-for-understanding-your-dreams/
    Feeling choked could refer to your fear to express your real (inner) needs and/or taking care that these needs are met.
    So you could ask yourself if you can you still allow Life to express Itself through you?
    See http://dreamhawk.com/approaches-to-being/lifes-little-secrets/
    Another question could be if you feel that you get enough “breathing space” in the relationship with your boyfriend and if getting married is a “need” for you or is it something you “believe” you need?
    Our dreams can graphically illustrate our beliefs and what influence they have upon our decision making, responses and relationships. The importance lies in the fact that many of our beliefs are unconscious. They were absorbed in childhood and often remain without any conscious evaluation. Dreams also tend to explore where such beliefs lead us, and what the outcome of holding them may be in certain circumstances.
    See also http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/beliefs/
    Approaching your dream from another level/viewpoint, it could suggest that you need both the wedding dress AND the suit and this could refer to the need of uniting two different aspects of yourself such as intellect and feelings, practical and intuitive self; the ‘marriage’ between conscious and unconscious self.
    It can also be helpful to enter your dream while awake and explore what your FEELINGS/EMOTIONS are in every part of the dream – you do not mention any of them in your comment – and especially this part; “At the same time as this was happening little colourful plastic circles with the letter S on them were being thrown at me”.
    What do you associate with the letter S?
    Do you perceive that what is “thrown at you in life” – words, emotions that your boyfriend share with you? – is understandable?
    Could there be a need for each of you to learn to understand and sort out what goes on in your inner world?
    See also http://dreamhawk.com/dream-dictionary/abstract/
    Another approach; if you take away the images and events occurring in your dream and simply look to see what feelings or emotions are evident, the dream is often more understandable than if you try to interpret the symbols. Feelings in dreams are nearly always undistorted. You therefore do not need to interpret them, simply to recognise them and see if we can recognise where they occur in waking life.
    See also http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/self-observation/
    Does that give you a start?
    Anna 🙂

-Leticia 2015-08-10 17:48:37

I was sitting up and felt some kind of force trying to enter my mouth but I grabbed it and woke right up

-Chris 2015-08-05 9:52:04

Dear Tony & Anna,

Thank you for this wonderful website and the wealth of information it provides. I have a question about a dream which I was wondering if you could help me with. It is causing me considerable pain.

Basically, I have been suffering from acute stress and had just returned from a week in a respite centre. In that centre I had reverted to OCD checking behaviour, checking my face in the mirror for signs that I might be dieing. That night my girlfriend and I argued and in went to sleep in the attic of our new house.

The dream I had went as follows: At first I saw one female ghost flee the room. I have had this same experience on another occasion. It is however the next part of the dream which disturbs me. Subsequently, feeling that the room was haunted, I saw and interracted with 2 or 3 other ghosts. It was the first which disturbed me the most as this individual, with skin peeling from his face (who may or may not have been standing in front of a mirror – I can’t remember) clearly said to me “I’m going to execute you, but slowly and bloodily.” The next ghost I merely asked for confirmation of this and the forth was a black, old gentleman who gave me a suitcase full of clothes. Finally, on a later occasion when sleeping up there I had the experience of being allowed to escape (by a ghost) from an underground dwelling, only to realise that the space i’d escaped into was a confined space and the ghost was still clinging to my leg.

Any light you can shed on this dream would be most appreciated as it is hampering my sleep and making me consider moving house. It is the threatening ghost aspect which causes me the most trauma.

Kind regards,

Chris

    -Anna - Tony's Assistant 2015-08-07 8:06:59

    Dear Chris – Thank you for your appreciation of Tony’s Life Work :-)
    I will try to give you a hand in understanding your dream, but first I like you to read this:
    “EVERY image and person in your dreams is an expression of your own life process. As such it is alive and intelligent and is something sent to help you. A dream is like a projection from a movie projector, except that you are the projector.
    Everything you see as outside you is coming from you, your emotions, your fears, your beliefs, your joys and explorations and are all you, clothed in the dream images and drama”.
    If you can integrate this then you will understand that “moving house” is not the way to free yourself from what is haunting you – your memories, your feelings, and your guilt – because you cannot run from yourself.
    On a certain level you are aware already of a better approach, because you wrote “I saw and interacted with 2 or 3 other ghosts”. Daring to face your inner ghosts and to interact with them is a wonderful first step.
    I do believe that this interaction gave you some understanding what this is about, although – probably mainly because of fear – you did not understand the message of the ghost.
    You wrote “It was the first which disturbed me the most as this individual, with skin peeling from his face (who may or may not have been standing in front of a mirror – I can’t remember) clearly said to me “I’m going to execute you, but slowly and bloodily.”
    The face, especially if you are looking at yourself in a mirror, can mean that you are facing yourself – facing up to yourself, or need to, ‘face yourself’. This dream often occurs when you are ready to really look at who you are and what facets of yourself you might be ignoring or even hiding.
    The skin peeling from his face I see as a symbol of the need to die to your old way of living; which is not a physical death, but a psychological death.
    Like a snake, changing your old way of life, shedding old attitudes. This might refer to outgrowing a stage of your life and opening up to a wider awareness.
    This usually leaves you feeling vulnerable for a while as you adjust to the change.
    We also usually face a deeply felt experience of death before encountering the archetype of rebirth. Neither the death nor the rebirth or resurrection are things that happen quickly. There may be dreams, waking subjective experiences or a short period in one’s life when death or rebirth are felt very strongly – but the process as a whole is a psychological one which may take years to unfold and stabilise.
    See also http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/the-archetype-of-rebirth-or-resurrection/
    I feel it will be helpful to further explore this ghost for yourself, to get a better feeling understanding of how you perceive inner change and growth, but first I like you to read this entry:
    http://dreamhawk.com/dream-dictionary/change-adaptation/
    To explore this part of your inner world you can use “Being the ghost” and/or “Talking as the ghost”.
    See http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/acting-on-your-dream/#BeingPerson
    and
    http://dreamhawk.com/dream-dictionary/practical-techniques-for-understanding-your-dreams/#TalkingAs
    I believe the suitcase full of clothes is a symbol of the need to sort through your habits, your beliefs, your attitudes, and the emotional environment you have created in your life and your inner world.
    See http://dreamhawk.com/inner-life/inner-world/#MakesInner
    and
    http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/habits/
    The last dream once again shows you that you cannot run away from yourself and what you have created in your inner world.
    I trust that doing your inner work will take away these self-imposed limits, which will give you more inner space and freedom to express your potential.
    See http://dreamhawk.com/dream-dictionary/potential/
    Anna 🙂

-Eliana Abboud 2015-08-01 6:38:05

Good morning
I had a lovely dream.
I was having a vacation in a hotel while I met someone who is start taking care of me. I spent the best days of my lifes there and I don’t want to leave. Then I wake up.
Could you please tell me what it means.
Thanks

-Channing 2015-07-19 14:45:04

Hello, I had a dream last night that I am curious about because I’ve had it before but this time it was different I’ll tell you the one I usually have and then the way it went this time.

On more than one occasion I have had this dream where I was driving come from some unknown place on the interstate and as I try to get off on the exit I’m unable to for some reason its blocked, or I can’t find it, so I just go straight thinking I can get to the other exit and get off or turn around up there but as I keep driving straight, the road goes from interstate highway to this unpaved really gravelly road off of the edge of a cliff where there is a lot of construction going on and the further I try the more construction an undefined the road is until it just is a flat gravelly surface like a rock quarrey. Once I realized I have to turn around something happens every time where I end up falling off of the cliff, now sometimes I can go back and redo it and not fall off the cliff but usually I do and I don’t ever make it back to the interstate.

So this time in the dream I was with a guy who was driving and a girl who was sitting in the back seat, I was in the front passenger seat. We are driving back from wherever we were to home and the same thing happens we are on the interstate driving but this time we see other cars getting off on the exit, one in particular I noticed was a white car because the way it took the exit curve was like in the movie tokyo drift where it kind of glided around it, but when we came up to the exit and the driver went to turn he couldn’t because nothing was there so we drove up a little more and he tried again but nothing was there so he decided to go straight and I told him to try and just go up a little further and turn around because I knew up ahead was no road and it was just gravel and construction.

He decided to keep going straight anyway and we were speeding down the road I looked out the passenger window saw the edge of the cliff as he was taking a curb really fast and I close my eyes because I knew we were about to fall over, but we didn’t. Instead he kept driving straight through the gravel and construction, I asked him to slow down because I didn’t want to fall over the edge but he told me it was okay because he was driving a sports vehicle. And the girl in the back was like it will be able to handle the road. I said I’m not worried about handling the road I’m worried about getting back on to the exit without falling over this cliff but they didn’t really pay me any attention and kept driving.

After a little more driving keep in mind he was speeding so it wasn’t too much he realized there was no other exit and decided to turn around and very sharply turned around and sped back in the other direction as we were driving back I was talking to the girl in the back saying how I should have gotten in the white car, she was like there’s no guarantee that car would have driven any slower and I said it wasn’t about driving slower he just made it on to the exit I’m ready to get home, as we were passing this one area the construction guy was spraying water into the air from some contraption for some reason and the driver rolled down the windows of me and the passenger so we’d get wet, I joked that he did it on purpose then I woke up, I don’t know if we made it back to the interstate or anything.

    -Anna - Tony's Assistant 2015-07-25 12:36:07

    Dear Channing – I salute you for trying a different approach in your last dream. It did not work either to get you where you wanted to go, but it is a start to try something new.
    As far as the other dreams are concerned I will have to repeat Einstein; he stated that we unconsciously drive our self by “doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.”
    In general dreams recur because there are ways the dreamer habitually responds to their internal or external world. Because their attitude or response is unchanging, the dream that reflects it remains the same. It is noticeable in those who explore their dreams using such techniques as described under processing dreams (http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/processing-dreams/) that recurring themes disappear or change because the attitudes or habitual anxieties that gave rise to them have been met or transformed.
    Your dreams express that you are pretty much stuck, for in whatever direction you drive, you meet inner obstacles; unresolved issues, fears, habits that do not work etc. and you do not manage to reach the goal that you have in mind.
    See http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/personal-growth/
    A road under construction I see as a symbol of the need to develop new ways of doing things, learning a different approach. May imply building new habits, new ideals, new patterns of mind; learning new ways to approach old, and so daring to travel new territory, and so a journey into the unknown.
    See http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/habits/
    and
    http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/beliefs/
    Are you willing to do that inner work?
    See http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/self-observation/
    Anna 🙂

-Shone 2015-07-08 19:20:06

Hi. I had a dream this afternoon about the guy i like but this very ironic he’s the only guy that o dreamed about. Anyway here’s the scenario, i was walking and going to the pedestrial lane to cross there but i saw a guy who is standing in the start of the pedestrial lane and when i look on the right side he’s the guy who i really like and he’s smiled at me and i didn’t cross the lane because i woke up already. It was 3 times at the same time in that dream that im almost gonna cross the lane but he was there.

-TaTiAnna Williams 2015-07-02 13:08:56

Hello Mr Crisp, I’m curious about the meaning of a dream that I had where a group of people were chanting something that drove a group of birds to fly to their death.

-Dolly 2015-06-25 22:49:20

Does anyone know when you see a something dressed in white with a nuns cap on mean. I had thus dream when i was 6 yrs old but it has come back to me in my 40s

-Priyanka Singh 2015-06-22 15:51:01

Please describes my dreams i had seen continued that i m in a marriage and my family also their whenever my brothers marriage and sometimes my marriage i cant explain how was the feeling that time

    -Anna - Tony's Assistant 2015-06-23 16:07:04

    Dear Priyanka Singh – If I understood your dreams correctly then you dream a lot about marriages.
    I do not know if you are raised with the belief that dreaming about marriages is a bad omen.
    Many of our beliefs are unconscious. They were absorbed in childhood and often remain without any conscious evaluation.
    See http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/beliefs/
    We are all born with the power of imagination and I believe that imagination coupled with belief can create a hell on earth or a heaven here and now. It is what we believe as truth that creates our inner world. This is so obvious in dreams when people run in terror from the creations of their own imagination.
    See also http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/active-imagination-and-dreams/
    Dreaming about marriages could be about uniting two different aspects of yourself such as intellect and feelings, practical and intuitive self; the ‘marriage’ between conscious and unconscious self.
    But it can have other meanings as well and so please continue reading at
    http://dreamhawk.com/dream-dictionary/marriage/
    Anna 🙂

-karol 2015-06-20 21:09:16

I had a dream that I was walking in a parking lot around noon. I was trying to get away from something bad and I was trying to fix the situation. When I walked in the parking to get on my car I saw a huge owl, and I immediately back away. I was super scared and then my friend came and he started scaring away the owl, but the before the owl walked away he looked at me and hid behind my friends back, and then the owl walked away. I didn’t even get to make it to my car because the owl kept standing there, so I just ran to the place I had to get to.

    -Anna - Tony's Assistant 2015-06-23 14:55:41

    Dear Karol – Your dream is about “I was trying to get away from something bad and I was trying to fix the situation”.
    At first you approach the situation with your rational/thinking mind and when you enter the parking lot you meet the huge owl; a symbol for your intuition and so an opportunity to change your approach by listening to this inner voice as well.
    Your inner male – symbolised by your boyfriend – expresses his fear of this actual doorway to the hidden side of life by chasing the owl away and so the intellectual approach is on the foreground (again).
    Because the owl sees in the dark it represents our intuitive sense that ‘sees’ what is happening in the subtle areas of our feeling and experience. This sense ‘feeds’ by watching or acting as an integrating function with the many dark or hidden aspects of our experience and behaviour. This is also why we tend to be afraid of it, because often we prefer to keep things hidden, perhaps because certain things are painful or because we feel ashamed.
    See also http://dreamhawk.com/inner-life/using-your-intuition-1/
    And
    http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/defence-mechanisms/
    and
    http://dreamhawk.com/dream-dictionary/defence-defend-defended-defending/
    Also we might not like what we see, because we do not want to act upon what we become aware of and so we rather chase the intuitive inner wisdom away.
    So try to explore why you are afraid of your intuition and see if you can make friends with it; try “Being the owl” and/or “Talking as the owl”.
    See http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/acting-on-your-dream/#BeingPerson
    and
    http://dreamhawk.com/dream-dictionary/practical-techniques-for-understanding-your-dreams/#TalkingAs
    Another approach you can use is Power Dreaming to explore different ways of dealing with this situation.
    While awake and relaxed imagine yourself back in the dream and continue it as fantasy or a daydream and move it toward satisfaction. Alter the dream in any way; experiment with it; play with it, until you find a way to fully feel at ease with it. In doing this you must not ignore the feelings of resistance and spontaneous emotion and fantasy that may occur. Satisfaction comes only when you have found a way of integrating these into your conscious imagining.
    See http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/secrets-power-dreaming/
    Good Luck!
    Anna 🙂

-Amy 2015-05-30 3:14:13

Please help me with my weird dream I just had!!

Nursing a little baby back to life. She was on a hospital bed … And Jak span it around 5 times so she fell out… And I took her home to my mum and dads… And they were all arguing… So I said: shhhh she needs to sleep. Shes boiling hot!!!! Jan said: she probably needs to sweat it all out of her. Then I received a text from George my boyfriend saying saying: find the 7/11 sign and take this entrance to the underground. Then a man came up to me totally normal just talkative and was like: you’re hat! V nice or something about my hat… Then he started to get weird… So I walked away, he started to chase me through the underground. He turned into a weird perverted man who wanted me… Everyone was running from him but he only wanted me. I had to run up escalators and barge people out the way he still was always so close to me. Then he had his trousers down at his ankles and was drooling over me. Then I thought I escaped from him But this girl opened the emergency exit which was right next to me!! So he got in and started to chase me again. Finally rob my boss came Into this room and saved me. He told him to sling his hook and the guy was ever so scared of rob. He was in his chef outfit. And told me it wasn’t that bad

    -Anna - Tony's Assistant 2015-06-01 11:40:55

    Dear Amy – Thank you for sharing such an interesting dream with us. Your dream starts with bringing back to life an inner part of you – your inner baby.
    See also http://dreamhawk.com/health-and-healing/inner-baby-and-child/
    When you take the baby to your parental house, you meet your own inner conflict and it is your boyfriend George who helps you to find the right direction; the underground.
    Please explore which association you have with 7/11; like is it a convenience store? A slut? Etc.
    See http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/association-of-ideas-with-dreams/#Working
    The underground is about your journeys into what is usually unconscious in you – such as realisation of childhood traits still active in you as an adult – meeting repressed sexuality – discovery of unexpressed potential or insight; something alternative you are considering or involved in – as in ‘underground’ newspaper; your unconscious connections with other people or things.
    The man you meet in the underground is attracted by your hat; which is a symbol of what you are doing ‘in your head’ in the way you deal with your emotions, sexual desires and relationships because of your attitudes and opinions.
    See also http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/beliefs/
    The way I see it is that the end of the dream merely reveals of what went on in your (inner) world; Rob said “to sling his hook”.
    The “pervert” got hooked onto the part in you which he has not accepted in himself. His hook was a projection on you – your innocence – which led to him and you being the victim of fruitless loves for you.
    Rob perceived it as “it wasn’t that bad”, because once you understand your dream, the solution is simple; in order to feel whole “the pervert” needs you – your innocence – and you need “the pervert”.
    Feeling whole means you have integrated and come to terms with every aspect of who you are. You have met within you the murderer, the saint, the swindler and the honest trader, the sexual pervert and the straight married person, the homosexual and the heterosexual, the darker and the light filled should find a balance in each individual.
    This balance is like a razors edge in which any one-sidedness would lead to imbalance within the individual. But at the same time it is not about being perfect or a saint, but a balanced and whole human being with very wide choices.
    See http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/mountain-path/
    and
    http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/self-acceptance/
    Perhaps you feel like using Power Dreaming to stop running from the pervert and integrate “him”?
    See http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/secrets-power-dreaming/
    Good Luck!
    Anna 🙂

-Lesina 2015-05-27 14:24:30

Pls I just woke up but I had a dream that Im married again. I was wearing a wedding dress and its simple how its made. I saw everyone in the hall so waited but then I saw a man came to get me. Before that my cousin came dancing towards me and said my dress is very nice. I can see 2 different faces of the man that Im going to marry. One was the guy that sold my house and the other was my best friend at school. Pls let me know what this mean.
Thanks

    -Anna - Tony's Assistant 2015-05-28 6:49:47

    Dear Lesina – Being married in your dream can be a symbol of uniting two different aspects of yourself such as intellect and feelings, practical and intuitive self; the ‘marriage’ between conscious and unconscious self.
    Your wedding dress is “simple and very nice”; so where do you meet these feelings about yourself in your waking life, because the dream dress is often a statement of how you feel about yourself at the time of the dream.
    Do you “feel less complex” in your waking life?
    The psychiatrist Carl Jung developed the concept of the “complex”. Complexes are thought to operate “autonomously and interfere with the intentions of the will, disturbing the memory and conscious performance”.
    See http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/autonomous-complex/
    Seeing your cousin dance depends upon what you feel as you watch him. It often suggests enjoyment, self expression, release, allowing your creative or sexual feelings to flow.
    To understand what you unite with in your dream it will need your personal associations with the guy that sold your house and your best friend at school.
    See http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/association-of-ideas-with-dreams/#Working
    Psychologically, we may only express part of our potential in everyday life. In a woman, the more physically dynamic, intellectual and socially challenging side of herself such as assertiveness and taking charge of situations may be given less expression. Apart from this some features, such as innovation and creative rational thought, may be held in latency. Even if this is not true for the modern woman, there are features of her full potential that are held as secondary or latent characteristics, and are depicted by the male in female dreams.
    It is a very positive dream and it suggests your are expressing more of your potential.
    See http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/archetype-of-the-animus-jungs-view-of-the-male-in-the-female/
    Anna 🙂

-Darsey Roque 2015-05-06 7:40:45

Two nights ago , I dreamed that it was my birthday, but did not know what age I was turning . In the dream I was walking in my phone and entered the ballroom , and immediately a Mexican famous band starts to play . Inside the ballroom it was pure darkness and I only saw the people who cared about me. I start crying but no one notices that I’m crying . Also , at the table where we were sitting , both my parents were there , but not my younger brother. What do you think this means ?

-Angela 2015-05-02 3:42:25

I was just wondering about A dream I had last night. Hoping to find a answer as in why I had it. I took a drink out of a cup with cigarette ashes in it and it was so real in my mind I could taste the ashes. I instantly woke up trying to throw them up and even after I awoke I could still taste them. If you can help me out I would be so grateful. Sincerely angela

-himanshu 2015-04-24 8:51:21

Hello Tony,

I had a dream today morning that I am planning to go for an outing with my dad and its late night when a cat dog and a black panther is standing outside my door and the panther is trying to enter my house . But when I went toward thw window thw cat and dog ran away with the black panther but when I came back in he again started peeping from window trying to come in.

Can you please tell me what does it means

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