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Stairs Staircase

As a baby, stairs presented a huge challenge. To deal with them we had to develop several major abilities, such as steady balance, confidence, control of fear of falling, strength of purpose. Therefore, stairs represent many feelings in connection with achievement, failure, climbing and falling. When these feelings also connect with work, relationship, social standing or sex, then we use stairs as a symbol of what we are feeling.

Taking steps toward something; going up or down in life in your own estimation; moving from one environment to another, so a shift in some way; gaining a new skill, or facing a challenge – stairs are difficult and dangerous when we are children, and so probably remain as a symbol of challenge, danger and achievement in adulthood. Many dreams of climbing stairs include feelings of high anxiety. This is either to do with avoiding a danger at the foot of the stairs, or arriving at something threatening or dangerous at the top. But the difficult feelings might not be due to danger, but to finding or realising things that radically change the way you see yourself or the world. The following example illustrates this.

Example: We move into a house and nobody but myself has really taken any notice of the stairs. Nobody has been up. In one dream I try to go up but the children are scared for me. They plead, “don’t go up Mum, just forget them.” Then I wake. In the next dream I wait till they are asleep. Half way up I can see there is a glass roof, the wooden frames painted green. I am terrified but have to go on. Then I wake. Next dream I got up there. It smells very musty. Lots of draw sheets
covering things. See Nothing Can Hurt You in Your Dreams

Running up: Escaping from urges arising from lower down in the body – so a movement of attention towards the abstract or mental away from fears arising from unconscious or sexuality; lack of confidence, a fear of failing or not being capable is also a common feeling in connection with stairs; if running up with pleasure, then it suggests exuberance producing a change in your feelings and situation.

Walking down: Going down stairs, apart from a descent from a higher place, a more inclusive view, is also a controlled fall. This might suggest being in control of a changing situation.

Skimming down: This is a dream often experienced by children. It is almost like flying down the stairs, the feet just touching the edge of the stairs every so often, creating an exhilarating sense of pleasure. The reason for the dream is most likely that going down stairs as a young child is a difficult and dangerous skill. Most of us have fallen at some point. As we gain greater physical control and can run down stairs, a sense of greater achievement arises. Not only stairs, but other areas of our environment that were dangerous, are now a source of pleasure. The dream translates this feeling into the image of skimming the stairs.

Going up stairs: Again, this is about a change of situation or environment, but going up frequently depicts greater excitement, awareness or discovery of new experience.

Going up shows you leaving the everyday, ground level or ordinary world of experience.

So it can be an escape from involvement with others or events, or also an ascent into greater vulnerability.

The example below shows how going upstairs can be an opening or widening of awareness to include areas of experience usually avoided. In fact Mrs. H. takes her awareness down to more everyday levels to escape meeting the light. This shows how we not only avoid unpleasantness, but also something wonderful or out of the ordinary.

Example: ‘I go up the first flight of stairs, then the next, and there is my ex husband’s Nan who is dead and whom I have never met. I don’t see her face but I know it’s her. She is a blinding white light and I run down the stairs.’ Mrs. H.

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-tigresstiff 2011-11-28 0:26:10

Hi Tony,

Hope you had a happy Thanksgiving. I had another interesting dream recently, and I’d love your insight as to what it means.

In this dream, I was part of a group of people on some sort of journey or expedition. The first part of the dream, we were rafting/boating down a river that had some sleeping crocodiles in it. A woman who’d somehow ended up out of the boat was walking through the water carefully, so as to not wake the sleeping crocs. I’m not sure if the woman was me or not, because I could see her as though I was outside of her, but I felt the tension of trying to walk carefully.

The second part of the dream, my group had made it our of the river and were walking along a path when we saw the next part of our journey – the tallest, sky-high vertical, narrow mountain we’d need to scale to get to the top, where we’d find out what was next. There were two side by side paths we could take up, one was a staircase and one was rougher less structured, but still possible to climb path. I chose the second. I was climbing slowly as I was holding onto my little dog (my dog in real life, a 7 lb chihuahua/yorkie rescue named Cinnamon) and I felt her slipping. I wanted to keep her safe. I realized that the crowd was right behind me scaling the mountain and that gave me the confidence to finish the climb with Cinnamon safely in my arms.

Once atop the mountain, there were houses, brand new, for us to stay in while we awaited further instruction.

Thoughts? Thank you!

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    -Tony Crisp 2011-11-30 13:02:04

    Tigresstiff – The journey is how you are feeling about our life and its ups and downs, goals and destinations, challenges and opportunities. It shows your life and what it is achieving The journey cannot be undertaken unless you are willing to travel, to move from one experience, one attitude or way of life to another. And at first it seems slightly threatening – the crocs – and so you go carefully, feeling your way, after it is new to you. You are the woman because you are all the dream characters.

    Then you are feeling more confident and see the tall mountain. This is saying that this is a journey into wider awareness. So climbing the mountain by a less structured path is the struggle with oneself, such as facing lack of confidence and forging on; meeting the difficulties of life and trying to move on. And the fact that you managed it, holding and protecting your vulnerable self, shows you opening to that power of change and growth. In other words, it indicates an influence from your core influencing your personality.

    Obviously others have taken this path, even though difficult, and there are buildings there, a space to dwell before the next stage of your growth. The next stage promises to be a very new experience.

    Tony

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      -tigresstiff 2011-12-02 5:54:32

      Thank you Tony! Very much appreciated. :)

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-Lauren Vargas 2012-03-05 5:12:13

Last week I was having this nightmare about a haunted house. I remember looking up the staircase and being too scared to go up stairs because there was a demon up there.
I’ve had past dreams about living in a house where people I was living with were being possessed; even the animals. I’m trying to make sense of this; I think I have but I’m just not sure.

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-mela 2012-05-14 3:29:26

I had this dream that I was on the top of this huge staircase in town, where everybody was going up and down with no problem; my sister, I and another girl whom I don’t recall who she was, we suppose to go down the stair together in the town; but the girls left me behind and when I wanted to go after them down on the stairs I was too afraid I’ll fall; I was trying to do it, but each time I would get too scared; finally, this lady that I know in reality, appeared and I was almost in tears when I saw it and begged her o help me; she agreed and I start walking with her down the stairs; later on this lady changed into being my mom actually, so finally I got down at the stairs. The staircase is a dream that I have sometimes, though is not the same; but the fear is constant; because the stairs are too tall and I’m terrified. What does it mean and why does it keep repeating? Thanks.

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    -Tony Crisp 2012-05-15 11:45:01

    Mela – Stairs are difficult and dangerous when we are children, and so probably remain as a symbol of challenge, danger and achievement in adulthood. Many dreams of going down stairs include feelings of high anxiety. So this dream was a confrontation with a childhood fear, and you managed it by using the confidence gained from your mother.

    It may be that either you had a fall when young and got frightened of stairs, or else someone else scared you in connection with stairs.

    Tony

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-Joanna Nedrow 2013-11-06 13:34:22

Last night I had a dream I was climbing a spiral staircase in a dark black building. The stairs were dark and winding and the rail was metal and cold. At the top, the roof top, was my best friend of 15 years, Marcos, playing the piano performing a concert for a movie star singing. He stopped and introduced me as someone very special to him. I felt so beautiful and loved and adored. I had a wedding ring on and I was ashamed of it.

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    -Tony Crisp 2013-11-10 11:39:27

    Joanna – You have experienced a long and sometimes difficult climb to greater self realisation. The dark black building is the dark times you have passed through to a form of liberation. The best friend is the love you have found in friendship; a love that probably should not be confused with an outer love, but is certainly an inner one. It is the best you have found and in finding it you achieve what you have wanted all along – feeling so beautiful and loved and adored.

    Of course in the dream you have seen the possibility of love, but usually we lose sight of it again. But it can be found again by trying to stabilise your awareness in the highest you have within you. Also remember that marriage is not shown as a good thing in your dream – but love is. See http://dreamhawk.com/relationship-sex/ages-of-love-2/

    Tony

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-autumnsky123 2014-01-11 12:39:58

Dear Tony

Ever since I was small I always dreams about stair. I remembered when I was 5 ,the stairs near my unit were mashed and on top of the crumbled stair were a picture of my great grandma. Ever since my high school year I have dream about escaping through houses full of stairs, and the house always changes but they were dark and scary. However there were no fear in my dream about stairs, everytime I escaped from the mansion or house, I found myself going back to it and tried to escape it again. My dream always come true, I wonder if these dreams come true as well?

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-chrissy 2014-02-09 7:11:03

My nephews live with me. They came home late from a birthday party. I was worried being thry weren’t home. I had a dream I was someplace and I saw my nephew (6 years old) go in a door. Thought it was the bathroom but it was a hallway and staircase. I called to him and he said up here. I climbed and climbed a winding staircase until I got to the top and found him but he somehow locked himself in a huge room and couldn’t get out. I then woke up.

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-ans6746 2014-06-07 7:27:22

Hi Tony,
I had this strange dream where I was going down really,old and rickety stairs at a public place.My feet were frozen or something and I had a great difficulty climbing down,my cousins were waiting for me down as I had asked them to move ahead because of my speed.It took a long time with frozen feet.I even saw another cousin on one of the floors and promised to get him some books.I tripped on few people and then reached my destination.

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    -Tony Crisp 2014-06-09 8:07:35

    April – It seems you are not confident about being in the public eye when you are not sure if yourself. The frozen feet are an example of this: Perhaps you have ‘cold feet’- somewhat scared of making any moves in case you get hurt or are simply an anxious person.

    Anyway, it seems you learn a lot from your cousins about the way they meet life, so in the dream you manage despite having cold feet. See http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/questions-2/#Summing

    Tony

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-ans6746 2014-06-11 6:46:20

Thankyou Tony.

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-Lissette 2014-07-22 13:31:57

Hi I was dreaming of walking up the stairs but these were steep stairs and everyone even my daughter was passing me by. I countinue to walk up the stairs difficult as it may be but I continue to do it because I know I can.

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