DREAM INTERPRETERDream meanings - enabling you to interpret your own dreams Tony Crisp |
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ADONIS - The beautiful and self sacrificing side of love; feelings of 'worshipping' someone, or desire to be worshipped and adored. Useful questions are: Are you in a self sacrificing relationship? What does this dream depict of your love and of being loved? Are you facing a deep need to be loved at the moment? ADOPTION - To be adopted is double sided. It implies either the loss of parents or being rejected or left by them. On the other side it means someone has accepted you and taken you as their own child. If adopted: Might be a sign of feeling unwanted or insecure in your family or relationships. Many children have a fantasy or belief that they were really adopted by their actual parents. This may be a way of coping with difficulties or even cruelty by parents. It enables the child to emotionally distance themselves to some extent from their parents. Some children long to discover that its real parents had lost it and will return to take it back into the love and acknowledgment it needs. This because the present relationships do not satisfy its need to feel special and wanted. If adopting a child: You may be longing to become a parent, but uncertain about your own ability to produce a child; a need to express the enormous power of your love and caring; some sense of feeling abandoned and the attempt to give that part of yourself the love and security it needs. See: abandoned; child; family and relationships. Useful questions are: Do I feel a lack of connection with my parents? Is there a longing in me to go home - in other words to find myself in loving and caring company? Are you dealing with your child self and caring for it - if so define what it needs and how to give it/yourself those thing. ADRIFT Feelings showing you without any determining direction or anchor in life, such as family ties, sense of duty, personal motivations or involving interests or relationships etc. If you are willingly adrift, or purposely set something adrift it might be you are opening yourself to what is beyond your control, the ebb and flow of the great forces in life, the trackless way. Useful questions are: Am I lacking direction in a situation? Am I allowing something beyond my control to take its course? Is this expressing my dropping of dependency and attachment? ADULTERY But adultery depicts the union with, or giving of innermost feelings to, persons or objects for which you have no committed relationship, or do not have a deep affinity with. Or it may be an urge caused by physical or emotional hungers, or needs deeper than the social and religious codes pressing upon you. It is also a way of opening a door to new influences, a new direction in life that will in some way change you, flow back to you with its own needs, light and shadows. Exactly what your dream reveals depends on your feelings in the dream and the events shown.. Seeing your partner having sex with someone else: You are probably deeply uncertain about your own value and doubt whether you are lovable. These feelings may hide painful dependence upon the loved person. This dependence may be based upon childhood needs that were never met, or were betrayed. This can of course be an intuition, but be careful in deciding which. If the relationship is felt as pleasant it can be a simple desire for sexual change, satisfaction and adventure that is not satisfied in waking life. If it is resisted, it is nevertheless your own fantasy, so may be desire masked by guilt. Dream adultery can also be a means of personal attack within a relationship. This because you are having sex with someone else so hitting or hurting your partner. If the adultery is felt as a threat, it may express anxieties about your relationship. A woman being someone's mistress: Can be any of the above, but occasionally anxiety about security. This because becoming a mistress might bring financial or emotional support. Seeing your partner having sex with someone else: You might be deeply uncertain about your own value and doubt whether you are lovable. These feelings may hide painful dependence upon the loved person. This dependence may be based upon childhood needs that were never met, or were betrayed. It can reflect anxiety or intuition about your partners fidelity. It can also mask a desire to be rid of your partner, to leave them. The adultery would give you an excuse to leave them. Dreamer commits adultery: We all have sexual desires that sometimes attach to people other than our partner - or to people it would be difficult in reality to have a sexual relationship with. If you are having sex with another person, the dream may therefore be a release of sexual feelings. If so it is a harmless way of exploring sex with another person, or an expressions of wish fulfillment, desire for sexual variety, or guilt about wayward desires. Resisted adultery: A sign of struggle with your sexual desires; expression of strength meeting opposition in life, therefore strength to overcome difficulties. Maurice Nicoll, in his book The New Man, points out that the biblical mentions of adultery were not only direct references to that as a real act, but also to a symbolical meaning. As a symbol adultery represented being unfaithful to the one God - whoring after other gods. Taken in general, adultery might therefore carry a similar meaning, a sense of being unfaithful in a committed relationship, whether that relationship is marital, social, work or to ones ideals. Useful questions are: Am I somehow cheapening a valuable experience in life? Do I long for something that is physically or emotionally forbidden to me? Am I not admitting the needs I have ? Does this show an area of my life that is full of energy that I do not let flow into my everyday life? |
DREAM INTERPRETERDream meanings - enabling you to interpret your own dreams Tony Crisp |
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ADVANCEMENT - Desire for improvement in ones life; a sense of confidence in your abilities at the time of the dream, or that you are making headway in a situation or in life generally. In many dreams the advance is being made by someone or something that is getting ever closer. Sometimes there is a sense of anxiety with this. This portrays something we are confronting in ourselves or in life that is making inroads on our confidence and energy. Define what it is by considering where you meet this feeling while awake. If the advancing person or thing is not threatening, it shows a growing awareness of a situation, a developing relationship or internal experience that is getting ever nearer or more imminent. Idioms: In advance of; make advances to. Useful questions are: What do I feel in the dream, and where do those feelings arise in waking life? What am I advancing into or to? What am I leaving behind or moving away from? Is there anything or anyone helping me? ADVENTURE/ADVENTUROUS/ADVENTURER - The dream is probably depicting new experiences you are daring to allow yourself, or that circumstances have pushed you into or confronted you with. Perhaps you are making changes within yourself, or in your external life. You are probably taking risks, doing something new. The context in the dream will state whether the risk is worth taking, or whether fears or other factors hold you back. Dream adventures often show you deeply involved in something, trying out skills against difficulties, and very often appear when you are exploring your own inner world involving your past or wider awareness. There can of course be sexual adventures in which you move into challenges of expressing your feelings or facing your fears. If difficult: Facing things about yourself that are painful or you wish to avoid; afraid of, or there are difficulties with; change. On an interesting/pleasant adventure: Undertaking something new and/or difficult; a new opportunity presenting itself; making a change; undertaking the journey to meeting oneself; learning new skills and expressing new potentials. Useful questions are: What is it in waking life that is challenging you or involving you deeply? Are you making changes that call on new skills? Have new levels of inner experience opened, if so what? What skills or qualities do I need in this? ADVERT/ADVERTISE/ADVERTISEMENT/ADVERTISER - See ad-advert ADVICE Whether the advice is given or received, this usually suggests information you need to think about, and perhaps act upon. Being given advice: What you need to know but perhaps wouldn't take from someone else; intuition - occasionally of utmost importance, especially if the figure in the dream is one you feel natural respect or veneration for. Feeling pressured by other people's opinions; sometimes it represents the influence of other people in your life - the pressure of other people's opinions, or your own sense of what you feel others expect of you. Giving advice: Conscience; sense of 'ought' or 'should'; what you desire to say but haven't; what you know to be useful unconsciously, but perhaps haven't accepted; trying to influence another person or some aspect of yourself. In the example below, Renee, the dreamer, may be exploring attitudes and discovering an appropriate response to a situation.
Useful questions are: Is this advice about an issue in my waking life - if so what is the essence of it? If giving advice is this something you should personally take notice of? What is the subject of the advice - health, love, work - and does it apply to that area of your life? |
DREAM INTERPRETERDream meanings - enabling you to interpret your own dreams Tony Crisp |
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AERIAL/ANTENNA Intuition or contact with others through subtle means. Useful questions are: What is the signal I am picking up and what message can I extract from it? What is the theme of the dream saying about the aerial and how does that link with my life? Can I transmit as well as receive? AEROBATICS/AEROBATIC This suggests you are, or are going to be daring in your life or undertakings. This could connect with any aspect of your life, but is often connected to relationship, work, or ones efforts toward personal growth. The success or failure of the flying will show how fearful or confident you are in expressing your daring. This is largely a matter of nerve, and anxiety can bring you down. It doesn't matter that you are watching someone else do the aerobatics, it will still most likely refer to yourself. That is unless you know the person flying the plane. Then it might suggests an observation you are making of them. Useful questions are: What is it I am daring to do that is risky or adventurous at the moment? Am I showing off in some way trying to attract the attention of others? Does this reflect in any way with the relationship I am in at the moment? AEROPLANE/AIRCRAFT/AIRPLANE - The plane in your dream shows all the amazing possibilities of change, of varied experience, of romance, business and discovery in life today. But it also holds all the possibilities of failure, of not being able to get your projects or relationship off the ground, along with delays, unexpected threats, and the possible tragedy and loss you might meet in life. Your dream airplane communicates this in the action your dream portrays. The plane journey, for instance, suggests a change in your life, leaving your ordinary affairs behind. It is a journey into the unknown, into taking risks. Perhaps you are making a move toward, or away from, love and opportunity. It is risky because the plane can fall from the sky, and you can meet feelings of failure or despair. A plane can also attack, and this shows fears, anxiety about being exposed to attack from other people or events. This does not mean you will be attacked, only that you fear it. To climb aboard a plane: suggests embarking upon dramatic movement from one way of life, or one situation in life, to another; a leap into the unknown, into chance - so it is a powerful symbol of change. Perhaps that flight into chance, into life and its mysterious possibilities might be okay. But it might fall from the sky too. Meanwhile, on the plane you will not have your feet on the ground, you will not be secure, everything is ?up in the airµ. The plans, the love, the hopes and efforts might die, might lead to tragedy with all its rippling effects moving into the web of relationships and events connected with the flight of the plane. An attacking aircraft: Feeling attacked either by your own doubts and self criticism, or that of others. Being grounded: Sense of not getting anywhere and frustration; plans and hopes that haven't connected with achievement or opportunity maybe this isn't the right time yet. Difficulty landing: Difficulty achieving goal or making it real in a down to earth way; anxiety about where life events are taking you; feeling out of control or not being in control; difficulties or fears about being in someone else's hands. Falling out of plane: Usually anxiety, sometimes about death or failure of high hopes. It is also the opportunity to fly if you can overcome your anxieties. Plane falling rapidly: Pit feeling in stomach that one gets when feeling anxiety about the outcome of a situation; sense of failure or guilt; apprehension about the future of a project or direction; anxiety about something. Plane journey: The plane is also a means of leaving things behind, rising above or finding a way of escaping difficulties or the past. It is a way we move beyond the limitations of any one locality, racial customs, family attitudes or religious environments. It is the power of the mind to move among and learn from or experience these many states of being. It offers a much wider or more inclusive view of where you are and where you are going in life. Private plane: Ones personal activities and plans not deeply connected with other people. The crashed or wrecked plane: Worry about failing. Can be anxiety bringing down your ambition or adventurousness; a loss of self confidence or mental equilibrium; warning about a business project; broken dreams and hopes. Sometimes shows or refers to a break up in a relationship. Watching a plane crash: A sense of emergency; feeling you are aware of an important social or national event. Sensing something difficult happening or having happened in your life, like a divorce or loss of business or love for instance. Can sometimes relate to childhood traumas that make it difficult for you to get your life taking flight. The plane journey: Shows a move toward independence; leaving home or friends; success. Watching a plane land safely: The arrival back to oneself of the actions, words and energies sent out into the world. As a simple example, we may have a carpet to give away because we are moving. We tell a neighbour who passes the information to someone else. This new person wants the carpet. A completely new person therefore lands, or arrives in our life. The landing plane may also mean coming down to earth again, or making something more applicable in an everyday sense. The example below clearly shows one aspect of what a plane means, being daring in a new area, taking risks in life, braving a new work area or relationship. David is calling on a part of himself that is withdrawn and inactive to ?get upµ and be involved in something daring. Sometimes the plane in the sky represents feeling threatened by something new or unknown. This is shown in the second example.
Useful questions are: Am I taking a ?flightµ into a new or challenging situation or relationship? What am I leaving behind or arriving at? Are there radical shifts of life style I am involved in? Do some events in my life feel like a 'plane crash'? |
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