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General Discussion / Re: Single 34 ... and lost
« on: Today at 09:12:29 AM »
Please look at and

Having worked as a therapist for twenty or more years, I find the first one was used again and again in helping people. Also you cannot hope to find love in a partner , unless you have allowed it to flow from you.


Questions about dreams / Re: I am a male - strange dream
« on: May 19, 2017, 11:14:24 AM »
E – I’ll do the best I can, but it might seem strange stuff to you – but it is a strange dream.

When we dream about person communicating with us it can be distorted by our view of what our associations with the person are. Our own view of life becomes a starting point for dream symbolism, but our dream process arrives from a very different world than the world of waking life. Our waking world is one of forms of people, animals and thousands of things, all in time and space. But our dream self is trying to communicate from a world without form, time or space. Please read before reading on and

So, your dream uses images, scenes and events as ways of communicating things to you. It does this because you have feelings and ideas about those images that make sense to you, yet are trying to communicate very different realisations. 

The fight you lost is the fight to survive as a person, not a body. You lost but you felt that you could have won. Of course you are a winner seen from the ‘big’ view of what you are. Millions of sperm cells started to race to the wonderful female egg cell. But the female egg is picky, and chooses the best sperm with full DNA. But what is growing is a seed that has been alive since the beginning of life on Earth, and carries with it, like any seed, the pattern developed over millions of years, the essence of thousands of lives that survived war, famine, the extremes of seasons and world upheavals. So you are the latest version of that incredible journey – what a fight! In a sense you lost the latest fight because you had not accepted that Life has a lot more of you than you have accessed so far, and your dream was introducing you to MORE.

If you can accept that you are as a personality, only a tiny part of what you have inherited from that incredibly journey of your ancestors, and that most of you is unconscious, and that it is available to become conscious. But because it is unknown to you it seems ‘alien’ – and so in dream imagery you met an alien and it said that he is your body guard and that he’s been watching you your entire life waiting for the right time.

The huge part of you that the seed left in you is a product of Life, and Life has levels of sentience, and so the Huge that you have within you, also has a much greater awareness and was always watching and trying to communicate. And now that you are ready it has.

As for the princess thing its a part of  your larger self - see

What you can do – well, here is a start


Questions about dreams / I am a male - strange dream
« on: May 19, 2017, 11:09:39 AM »
So I'm male and I had a dream I was in a in a MMA match in which I and the person I was to fight had the first match up of the many people there to fight in the line up we are all dressed as super heroes and I was batman and the dude I was to fight is spider man and I ended up losing and so after losing I leave to get a smoke and I sit down across from this big dude I've never met before at a table outside of the MMA building. And as I sit and light my smoke I take a few puffs he begins to talk to me about the match and I tell him I could have beaten the dude in the spider man outfit if I'd have done this that and the other differently; and he tells me in a kind way that I couldn’t have beaten him. I’ve finished my smoke by this point and it was my last one so I asked if I could bum one off him and he tries to give me his last one but I decline taking his last smoke and thank him.

Its at this point I see him looking around as if he’s worried about something, he tells me its a good thing I lost and I was about to ask why when we see 3 men in black suites (guards from the MMA match) walking towards us. He asks me to come with him so we could get away from them. I felt I could trust him for some reason. So I go with him and we run to his mudded out car and hop into the passenger seat and we speed out of there; and its at this point they start chasing us by car as well as a monster truck that could flatten us if it runs over us (and that’s what they had planned). I ask him why they are chasing him (I wanted to help him) he says they are not after him but they ARE after me, and that he’s here to protect me.

We get onto the interstate and go a few miles before the monster truck catches up to us and is about to run us over so the big dude offers his hand to me and asks me to take it (I assumed he had a plan of escape). So as I reach for his hand I see its kind of blue green in color (was a normal human hand before) and he only has 3 oddly shaped fingers (alien hand I guess). I take his hand and next thing I know we bust out the window shield just in time to escape the truck flattening us and we are flying threw the air (dude is flying us with no wings or anything that would make sense as to why we are able to fly). I look at him and he’s all changed now with that blue green skin that’s kind of see threw with big fins around his neck and 3 fingers on each hand. We are flying for a short time before he lands away from the guys chasing me and I ask him what he is (I still trust him by this point) and he tells me he’s my body guard and that he’s been watching me my entire life waiting for the right time (kind of riddle like). Then he places his hand on my chest and I take on a new form. The form of a pinkish red female alien. He tells me I'm the princess of our world and that they needed to hide me away (for reasons unknown to me) and to keep me safe they made me look human and wiped my memories and replaced them with fake ones so I wouldn’t be found. But now they have found me and its no longer safe on earth anymore so its time to leave.

I wake up after this in a cold sweat and I'm so confused because I’m a straight guy with a wife and a daughter so why would I be dreaming I’m a girl alien princess? I’m also vary distrusting so that I would hop into a car with a stranger is vary unlike me. I really hope you know what this all means because it kind of has me messed up about all this XD

Dream Interpretation / Re: Stuck on an Image
« on: May 14, 2017, 07:54:43 AM »
When leading a huge group of people on a convention, I witnessed an Arabic guru figure get everybody to repeat loudly - "Everything is True - Nothing is true."

It stuck in my mind, and seeing the huge cosmic duality we are mixed up in I gradually saw how true it is. It points to the balance, even the marriage or blending between light and dark, female and male, Good and Evil, conscious and unconscious, high and low, body and spirit - and on and on.


Dream Interpretation / Re: Stuck on an Image
« on: May 12, 2017, 08:45:35 AM »
Thanks Chris - My longest ever friend on DreamHawk.

Something that has been on my mind recently, is a quote from a book I read maybe forty years ago - The Secret Oral Teachings in Tibetan Buddhist Sects, by Alexandra David-Neel.

"This fact is constantly recalled to the pupils by the Masters who explain the traditional Secret Oral Teaching to them. They never tire of repeating the classic simile of the two chains. Whether one is bound by an iron chain or by a golden chain means, in both cases, to be bound. The activity used in the practice of virtue is the chain of gold while that utilized in evil deeds is the iron chain. Both imprison the doer."

“He who has shaken off the two chains, that of good and that of evil, he is a Brahman.” "A brahman is he who has acquired the knowledge of the Brahman”, that is to say of the Absolute Being, the Supreme Truth. What then is this activity from which one ought to abstain?—It is the disordered activity of the mind which, unceasingly, devotes itself to the work of a builder erecting ideas, creating an imaginary world in which it shuts itself like a chrysalis in its cocoon."

Sorry - I couldn't help myself  :)  :)  :)

Questions about dreams / Re: dream interpretation
« on: May 11, 2017, 08:36:59 AM »

Questions about dreams / Re: dream interpretation
« on: May 10, 2017, 08:06:16 AM »
ZP - A good one.

To quote - "This two-way communication gradually develops as you practice so that you learn to penetrate beyond the imagery and symbols of your dreams, or the spontaneous mimes, sounds or images that arise as you spontaneously open to your dream imagery." Direct Insight arises.

Dream Interpretation / Re: Stuck on an Image
« on: May 08, 2017, 08:55:12 AM »
Chris – If you are right handed, the right leg is the one you usually lead with – it is the one you are most supported by as far as dreams are concerned.

It sounds as if you are not using it as much as your leg needs to make it strong. The exercise it needs is probably more in the attitudes than in physical exercise.

The eye suggests some level of awareness that your knee has. In dreams every area of our body is alive and aware. So it also has feelings, so our personality with its feelings is not a good judge of what your knee sees and feels. So you need to ‘be’ your knee and watch what arises avoiding thinking it all up.

The voice is interesting - Dreams and imagination are a multifaceted way of sensing things. If you consider an early human being, prior to the emergence of complex speech and the ability to think in the abstract symbols we call words, all their thought would most likely have been in images like a waking dream. A human couple in the dawn of our history, standing in wild terrain and seeing dust on the horizon, would need to know very quickly whether the dust was a sign of food to eat or an enemy to run from. Without the tool of thought using words, they would have relied upon their emotional response, and their unconscious scanning of experience and instincts, to aid them. The result would have been experienced as urges to movement and emotion, and as mental imagery. I believe it is because of this long period in our past history, when our ancestors relied on what we might now call intuition - this rapid scanning of information beneath conscious awareness - that we have this latent ability of insight without reasoning. 

I see your voice as an example of this, and there is a way of communicating with your inner voice – by asking it what it meant. It is important to connect with the best in you, with the mass of unconscious life experience and intuition you hold within, with the shoreless sea of life of which you are a part. It is not like fortune telling or Ouija boards or a party trick. It is a meeting with the extra stores of wisdom in yourself. But do not think of the information or insight you gain as if it were an oracle, or prophecy. You are the creator of your life. You ask for inner help to gain more insight, more information from which to make wise decisions - not to search for something to hand decisions over to.

At first you may be ‘stiff’ in your response, but even so you will usually get a direct reaction. A more fluid or subtle response - one in which greater detail or insight arises - comes with practise. The following steps are designed to help even the least intuitive of people find greater access to their own wider awareness.

Imagine you are going to communicate with a part of yourself that has an unlimited amount of information and influence to share with you. What this dimension of yourself gives you will be in direct response to what you ask. So the question you ask will be the factor shaping the response. Therefore it is occasionally worth asking what is the right question to get effective help. Remember that all you receive has to pass through your own body, your emotions and your mind. YOU are the instrument that transforms the communication into understandable experience. If your body is full of tensions and drugs there will obviously be interference. If your emotions are taut with anxiety, flooded with disbelief, there will be blockages. If your mind is rigid in its opinions, locked into habits of thought, you will need to practise listening and receiving. Even if you can be ready to drop these for a few moments the channel can clear.

We can call it body dowsing. Dowsing is not always connected with a stick or rod though. Navaho Indians in the United States practise what they call ‘trembling hands.’ After a simple ritual they allow their hands to move spontaneously. From these movements they understand questions asked of them. The American anthropologist Dr. Clyde Kluckhohn and his wife investigated a practitioner on a Navaho reservation. Mrs. Kluckhohn had lost her handbag three days previously so asked the practitioner, Gregorio, if he could find it. Standing in the open air on a hill, and after rubbing corn pollen on his hands, Gregorio was able to tell them the location of the handbag. This was later confirmed. 

Because the basic level of your intuitive sense tends to express itself as body movements and symbols, it brings a quicker response if you use these from the start, and gradually drop them as your ability refines.

Get into the responsive ‘piano key’ feeling. This is to let your body and emotions become like piano keys, ready to response to delicate touches, by dropping tensions and rigid ideas and feelings. Maybe practice it.

Now mentally ask the question how your body will give you a ‘no’ signal. Each person has a different way of signalling ‘no’. So your signal may be head shaking, a particular movement of a hand or some other part of your body. Remember, to get the ‘No’ signal you must be like piano keys, it must not be done by thinking but by allowing spontaneous movement. If you don't know what that is, watch your breathing, and try yawning a few times till it happens by itself.

Getting this ‘no’ response is the first step in a growing communication between your conscious self and your unconscious faculties. It is your practice area of having a to and fro ‘conversation’. Try it a few times until you are clear about the signal. If there is any uncertainty ask your unconscious for clarification.
Always remember - every part of you is vitally alive and full of intelligence. Your body and mind  will respond and communicate if you can listen. 

Now ask for the ‘yes’ response. Your body will move and give another movement to signify a positive response. 
Although the yes and no response is very basic, it has enormous uses, and many questions you need clarification on can be explored deeply by investigating in this way. All the amazing processes of computers are founded on series of yes and no responses. Investigating a health question for instance, you could ask if your diet was okay in general. If there was a yes response, you could ask if there was a particular aspect of diet that was at fault. Depending on whether there was a yes or no response, you could frame further questions. 
When you have practised using this yes and no response, you can enlarge the vocabulary used in the communication. Your unconscious will readily accept or even suggest symbols or symbolic movement. This means you could set up a sort of ‘keyboard’ representing aspects of the question you want to pursue. 

Questions about dreams / Re: wise dreams.
« on: May 04, 2017, 08:13:20 AM »
Very True  :)

It is important to realise that we are all dual beings. We exist strung between enormous duality – sleep and waking, male and female, pain and pleasure, light and darkness, life and death, and death and resurrection. To be whole we need to accept and meet these opposites. In the pursuit of love we need to recognise that that we must integrate the other gender to become whole. 


Greetings / Re: HI all
« on: May 04, 2017, 08:12:25 AM »
ZP - The images or people in your dreams are all simply images -  All the people, animals, places you see in your dreams, are simply your own feelings, fears, hopes and wonder projected onto the screen of your sleeping mind as images. So, it makes sense to take the image of your dream person, thing or animal back into you and own it. In that way, you are meeting and dealing with the things about yourself you are not owning or conscious of. That is why dreams are often difficult to understand, because we are hiding things from ourselves. To do this you can use Being the Person or Thing

Nearly always when people dream about someone they know or a strange new person or situation they automatically believe the dream is about that person, situation, or animal. But when we think of our friend or partner our thoughts are not them – just our thoughts and feelings about them.

Also, whenever we dream its images are not like real life, because a dream is nothing like outer life where things could hurt you, but is an image like on a cinema screen, so that even if a gun is pointed at you and fired it can do no damage – except if you run in fear; so, all the things that scare you are simply your own fears projected onto the screen of your sleeping mind.

Please read


Sharon – You have experienced a big life change. If you take time to look back and consider what has changed you will be able to define the changes.

But you preferred the old you – this is obvious because the old way of life was one you were used to, and so you will need time to adjust.

The new you has opened a talent or opportunity that you didn’t have before. But at the moment, probably because you cannot fully accept the change, you are not aware of the advantages. Try using to find out.


Dream Interpretation / Re: Packing your case for holiday
« on: May 03, 2017, 07:57:12 AM »
Sharon – It sounds like you are trying to take back from a relaxing time, things which “are not of any value to” you.

It is important to define what these things are. Are they feelings, or thoughts that prevent you travelling easily in your everyday life? Some people carry worries, or attitudes about returning to their workaday life. Try using to find out.


Dream Interpretation / Re: Worms Then Kittens
« on: April 30, 2017, 08:24:46 AM »
Horizen – What comes out of you must have somehow got into you. Maybe you read the feature on ‘Tongue’, and you can see the tongue has a lot of uses. So is it things you have said, or ways you have used your tongue? In any case you have finally got rid of things, feelings that you wanted out.

Getting rid of the worms has allowed you to be more fully in contact with the real natural female part of you – even a bit wild. As humans we are partly domesticated – the kitchen – but have evolved from the wilds of nature, and it is a good mixture.

The guy you used to avoid is in the background of yourself also. It is involved in the growth of the wild in you in some way. See and


Greetings / Re: Hello
« on: April 28, 2017, 08:54:02 AM »
Control of your dreams is not always a wise thing to do. See


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