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Dream Interpretation / Re: ex-girlfriend(dream)
« on: January 03, 2011, 02:54:37 PM »
Toocommon – I am sorry I missed seeing this the first time.
In the dreams there are two sides, two themes. The one is that you ignore your ex, and the other is that you are with her and all is well. Then the last dream is about feeling unloved.
If you think about this, you may see that these are things that children do when they are not loved or are deserted. The swing from one extreme to another, trying to find a way to break away or to be loved again. Then the last dream is typical of feeling unloved, and that is a nasty place to be. It isn’t saying you are not lovable, but that something has caused you to feel you are not wanted.
Such feeling are usually started in our childhood and can play on and on for a whole lifetime unless we recognise them and learn to grow beyond them. I know because it as taken me most of my life to grow beyond them. So recognise them as from childhood. Do not blame them on a partner. Do not hope to get love from someone else. Love is from yourself, then it doesn’t matter who is in your life. But that takes some growing. Perhaps Growing up to Love can be of some help to read.
Tony
In the dreams there are two sides, two themes. The one is that you ignore your ex, and the other is that you are with her and all is well. Then the last dream is about feeling unloved.
If you think about this, you may see that these are things that children do when they are not loved or are deserted. The swing from one extreme to another, trying to find a way to break away or to be loved again. Then the last dream is typical of feeling unloved, and that is a nasty place to be. It isn’t saying you are not lovable, but that something has caused you to feel you are not wanted.
Such feeling are usually started in our childhood and can play on and on for a whole lifetime unless we recognise them and learn to grow beyond them. I know because it as taken me most of my life to grow beyond them. So recognise them as from childhood. Do not blame them on a partner. Do not hope to get love from someone else. Love is from yourself, then it doesn’t matter who is in your life. But that takes some growing. Perhaps Growing up to Love can be of some help to read.
Tony