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Dream Interpretation / Re: ex-girlfriend(dream)
« on: January 03, 2011, 02:54:37 PM »
Toocommon – I am sorry I missed seeing this the first time.

In the dreams there are two sides, two themes. The one is that you ignore your ex, and the other is that you are with her and all is well. Then the last dream is about feeling unloved.

If you think about this, you may see that these are things that children do when they are not loved or are deserted. The swing from one extreme to another, trying to find a way to break away or to be loved again. Then the last dream is typical of feeling unloved, and that is a nasty place to be. It isn’t saying you are not lovable, but that something has caused you to feel you are not wanted.

Such feeling are usually started in our childhood and can play on and on for a whole lifetime unless we recognise them and learn to grow beyond them. I know because it as taken me most of my life to grow beyond them. So recognise them as from childhood. Do not blame them on a partner. Do not hope to get love from someone else. Love is from yourself, then it doesn’t matter who is in your life. But that takes some growing. Perhaps Growing up to Love can be of some help to read.

Tony

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Questions about dreams / Re: No dreams
« on: January 03, 2011, 12:06:14 PM »
Years ago I had a dream of standing in front of a mysterious wall of something that seemed like clear liquid, yet I could not see through it. So carefully I slowly reached into it, and was very surprised to see a hand reaching out. It moved exactly as my hand did, so realised that what I put in would come out.

I realised afterwards that the strange wall was that which keeps us blind to out inner life, and what we put in comes out.

So give it all you can with love, curiosity, exploration and of course humour.

Tony

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Dream Interpretation / Re: Being brutally murdered...
« on: January 03, 2011, 11:49:25 AM »
Dan – You certainly have a haunted dream life!!

Lots of people have such nightmares, but maybe not so often. I have myself had many, but I have the habit of fighting back, and eventually get the b****** who are trying to kill me.

In every case where I have helped a person explore their nightmare it resolves into the memory of an incident or a serious of incidents that have terrorised the dreamer. And the fact that your father appears in one, even though it is not him in the end, suggests there was an incident that was behind your nightmares.

Sometimes such incidents are not meant to hurt you or frighten you, but because we are small and vulnerable we can be scared easily – just by being left alone.

Death in your nightmares can mean all the things you list. As a child, and even as an adult, we can feel cut to pieces and without any sure place in us where we can live without threat.

As you are becoming aware of dreaming such nightmares, it seems you could move beyond them. I can only suggest, in my absence, some things you might try. For instance you could try challenges the murderer(s) and push them to take of their disguises and to show where they come from, what past event(s) led you to such fears.

Try also fighting back. To enable this you need to realise that you are the creator of your dreams, as troubled as they seem. You can be anything you can imagine in your dreams. Or if that is difficult you can call on any figure to help you – a great warrior, a boxer, superman, in fact anyone you can feel would be of help.

If that sounds like a fantasy trip, ask yourself what are your dreams but a huge playground of fantastic images. Once you realise that you can gradually master your own fears. Perhaps reading http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/the-magical-dream-machine/ will help.

Tony

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Dream Interpretation / Re: Confusion
« on: January 03, 2011, 11:21:53 AM »
I have replied to an old dream of yours I missed the first time. It seems to be a comment again about the situation in the present dream.

I often think that old dreams are like rings in a tree trunk. They mark stages and difficulties of ones growth.

Tony

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Dream Interpretation / Re: Sacrification
« on: January 03, 2011, 11:18:01 AM »
Ray – I have been checking through past posts and I see the one about being killed has not been answered. I believe it was me overlooking some.

This sounds like an enormous conflict in your life about love – or the one you love.

It is quite difficult to unfold the symbolism in your dream, but it seems clear that the gunshot wound is the agony you feel about the love that is not yours to have. And death is a strange thing in dreams. It isn’t like the idea most people have that death is the end of everything. It is often a leaving behind an old way of life, an old and outworn you. Of course that is painful, and the choices it faces us with are a struggle and a pain also.

So it seems that you reached a crisis point and you died to who you were. As this is all taking place at a psychological level it has to be seen as a part of your life, Even so you should see changes in the way you are reacting already. Please see http://dreamhawk.com/relationship-sex/beware-of-love/

Tony

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Dream Interpretation / Re: sunshine....
« on: January 01, 2011, 11:46:16 AM »
Saintlaluna - I see I did not respond to the dream about the noise downstairs.

I think this was about the downstairs noises - your dream self - trying to get your attention.

I hope the others I responded to helped.

Tony

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Dream Interpretation / Re: Dream interpretation
« on: January 01, 2011, 11:41:54 AM »
Hi - I was just checking back, and I believe I answered this one - so hope that is okay.

Tony

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Dream Interpretation / Re: Recurring Subject
« on: December 31, 2010, 01:33:21 PM »
HelloxxxMags – It seems to me, and this is because there are no real feelings of love in your dream, that the friend is one of those guys who are good to be with. You know, if you picture yourself with this guy, and a really good attractive guy comes along, would you run off to be with the new guy. Would you introduce him, as you did in writing your dream, as ‘My best friend’?

Of course you like him, but do you like him enough to take the next step?

Tony

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Dream Interpretation / Re: Being Murdered By a Serial Killer
« on: December 31, 2010, 11:49:51 AM »
SandyMargarita – Such a fascinating and moving dream. Difficult too.

The serial killer never actually appears in your dream, except as the pager, and there is a connection through your boyfriend as he gave you the pager.

Also there was a lot of emotion and fear connected with this, that you felt when you awoke. But the main theme is about being dismembered. And also there is the note that you couldn’t move until you had witnessed being murdered and cut up.

In dreams we can show this type of dismemberment in various ways, but yours seems to be quite vicious. It says that at some time, an invisible person or event caused you to feel dismembered or cut up. Of course this doesn’t mean a physical dismemberment, but one that threatened you and has only just been released to consciousness, probably through your relationship. It often occurs that when we feel supported and secure in a relationship we can allow such feelings to emerge. And such things can happen when we are under anaesthetic or knocked out in some way. So if you were in hospital or dentist it could have happened.

For instance I was given an anaesthetic as a nine year old, and I felt I was dying, and fought like hell against it, but was held down by nurses. This left me with a tremendous fear of people. People could do such things to children even though I was begging and fighting for my life. And the clue here is that you couldn't move.

There are other reasons that could cause you to feel frozen, but I am going for the operation or dentist one. But that could be a mistake on my part, so the only true guide is to feel the terror and fear you felt at the end of your dream, with the support of your boyfriend, and ask yourself where does such emotion come from? Leave yourself open to cry again and allow spontaneous feelings, memories or movements to occur.

Tony

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Dream Interpretation / Re: butterflies
« on: December 31, 2010, 10:57:34 AM »
Thanks.

Please have a look at the poem about butterflies. http://dreamhawk.com/poems/butterflies/

Tony


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Dream Interpretation / Re: Beautiful gift
« on: December 31, 2010, 10:53:24 AM »
Midlander – This is a very different dream than some of the others I have seen, and how lovely it is.

The lovely message seems to be about the quality of the dream and the dream state – if you unwrap it you may lose the message. You would have to be in that wonderful state where dreams can really speak to you.

And what a gift. It appears you have gained a greater assurance of being loved, and I feel that is the gift, given and prepared with such care. I would be useful to see this as something you have achieved and not simply link it to your friend. Although of course there is a link. The old story of paradox.

Then of course back to the world of waking, where you would have to return to the world of dreams to claim the box.

There is also the question of your friend’s illness. How ill is he – or has he been? The reason I ask is that the gifts given are so good – crystals last forever – that I wonder if this was something he felt while ill, or is it a gift given as he is preparing to depart?

Tony

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Questions about dreams / Re: No dreams
« on: December 30, 2010, 12:07:21 PM »
D – My experience of dreaming is that they are like friends. If you are not vitally interested in them, interact with them, and inquire into their secret life, they will only talk to you in platitudes. But if you do these things, then they will take you on an ever deeper experience of YOU. And believe me, when that is really unveiled it is wonderful.


You can enter your dreams by not getting into the mistake of ‘thinking’ about them. Thoughts are made up or words – “I was thinking about what I should do about my bank balance.’ Words are simply associated feelings and ideas about a very small sample of the vastness we live within. Even a meaningful sentence is still only a collection of what we already have ‘thought’ or experienced. So reasoning about a dream can only give you what you already know – in form.

My experience of dreams is that they arise from our Core, as a sort of response to what we do in the world of form and 3 dimensions. Our Core is formless and beyond time and space – as is the Core of the Universe, out of which time and space emerged – out of which you and I have emerged. So to interpret them is useful, but it doesn’t give you the full experience.

To get that you need to read the feature http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/peer-dream-group/ and then practice, practice and practice until you are overwhelmed with passion and insights. Dreams are passionate and such passion brings insights.

It is even better if you can get a partner to enter the dreams in this way.

Tony

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Dream Interpretation / Re: Tongue
« on: December 28, 2010, 01:04:41 PM »
Melissa – I can see what you mean, so I have upgraded the entry about the tongue.

In your dream the tongue obviously is being used for a sexual pleasure or purpose. So the fact that it falls off suggests a real loss. Also you were with a different man each time. As the tongue is used as a form of penis in kissing, it shows some difficulty – probably unconscious about this type of sexual pleasure.

I suppose the question is what feelings did you have about it? Was it some form of damage you did? Did you want his penis to keep – penis envy? Or were there other feelings? It would be useful to ask yourself what you want to do with the men’s penises now you have them. And do not be afraid to fantasy.

Considering that kissing is the very first form of love making – the baby at the breast – it could be a form of thumb sucking. Sex is sometimes seen as that. Not really a real relationship, but a form of comforting thumb sucking.

Tony

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Dream Interpretation / Re: numbers in dreams
« on: December 28, 2010, 01:00:52 PM »
Thanks for the good wishes Mike.

If you get any personal insights about numbers I would be grateful to receive them.

Tony

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Dream Interpretation / Re: Confusion
« on: December 28, 2010, 12:57:11 PM »
Ray – This sounds like sad dream with all that rain. But it did have a good side in that the woman you love came out with an umbrella.

Considering you do not smoke, I see the fact you were smoking as important. As smoking is often a way to deal with unconscious anxiety or stress, it looks as if the situation you were in was causing you a lot of stress and you were trying to get rid of it. The rain was the releasing of feelings, emotions.

Being shot in the head shows how the feeling got so bad it felt like an explosion in your mind. So I think it is a very bad idea that you hide your feelings. I did that for years with a lovely woman, and ended up with a pain that didn’t go away for years. You could make yourself ill. Love is a force of nature, so let it show in some way.

Tony

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