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Dream Interpretation / Re: Three different nightmares in less than a week
« on: December 14, 2010, 10:49:07 AM »
Tamsyn – To have so many nightmares close together shows you are in an important point in your life. To be honest you cannot usually have nightmares until you are ready to face what they are about – in your case fear of the unknown and scary things that confront you, and fear of failing.

But the important thing is that nightmares are not there to scare you silly, but as a way to heal something that is holding you back from growing into the person you are capable of. So the thing is to feel the fear and face what it is demonstrating. For instance I once dreamt that I had to walk along a road through a jungle to get to a town I needed to go to. I woke in terror as lions could jump out on me on the road. So the next day I practised in imagination walking along the road and letting the lions attack me – after all what is there to be frighten of, they are only images?

I found that the first lion was really scary, and I felt it was the fear of walking alone. So I realised that because I had become self employed for the first time I was really scared of not surviving. But each lion I met I knew what it was about, and so decided to go it alone and have survived self employed for the past 30 years.

So I feel sure you can face your own fears and come out the other side victorious. See http://dreamhawk.com/dream-dictionary/masters-of-nightmares/

Tony

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Dream Interpretation / Re: dreams
« on: December 13, 2010, 04:43:45 PM »
Laura – This one is so easy to see. It simply means your friend desperately wants sex with you, but is holding back actually doing it, and doesn’t want a child there at the time. I sat this because he woke before reaching the climax. Why not I wonder.


Tony

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Dream Interpretation / Re: puppy, poop, purple!!
« on: December 10, 2010, 01:17:33 PM »
Hey There to you too SleepTight – Well your dream starts off in a very interesting place. The basement suggests you have been looking at your dreams or meditating and there you are in the underworld of dreams. It is important because it was trying to show you something to get you to remember. And what it was trying to impress you with is the need to have a good clean out – which you apparently did with the massive poop. I would have thought you would have been aware of this in some way, or else it is coming soon. You would know it as a mixture of puppy love, enthusiasm ad emotion.

The dream puppy obviously love you, and it communicates with you well. It, like most puppies, is out to please you. Then the CD episode seems to be about music that produce a feeling of being in touch with something important. To quote:

Purple  has always been associated with royalty, with spirituality and the law. In terms of the personality it is seen as relating to the ability to deal with practical matters and with spiritual power. But it can suggest an overbearing attitude. It might also relate to the body, suggesting poor circulation, heart problems, palpitations or indigestion.

Example: When I looked into his liquid brown eyes I just saw directly through his soul and it went way out into some deep purple void which I knew to be the ultimate universe. PL

So where are you going? Maybe it is all about what your love for your boyfriend is doing to you.

Tony

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Dream Interpretation / Re: Complicated dream..interpretation?
« on: December 10, 2010, 11:35:04 AM »
Christian – I sounds as if, in the driving, you were hoping to get somewhere. This can mean that you wanted to change the situation you feel you are in. But instead of making it easier you ended between a ‘rock and a hard place’. In other words things have not been easy.

The baby incident could mean that in trying to make a change in your life you found a new attitude, or a new beginning, but it has been injured – you were not finding it easy to keep the baby/your new attitude as strong and as healthy as you hoped. After all it is a new and vulnerable you.

I do not know what your sister represents to you, but is she a scapegoat for the family. If not try to define what party she plays in your family life. But it would be good to sit occasionally and nurse the baby with some love - in your imagination. See http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/characters-or-people-in-dreams/

Tony

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Dream Interpretation / Re: Deceased mother
« on: December 08, 2010, 09:14:38 AM »
Kruffin - That sounds wonderful, and it seems you are evolving your communications skill.

It feel good.

Tony

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Dream Interpretation / Re: Dead friend
« on: December 07, 2010, 12:32:08 PM »
Ymareth – Yes, plenty of ideas, but I need you to try them out to see if they fit.

It seems to me that you have identified with your dead friend so much that you have had a very real virtual reality experience in reliving your friend’s death. I think that the dodging bullets and emergency vehicles are saying that you were getting nearer to really feeling the death of your friend.

After having felt it as nearly as you could you then see a new view of what happened. It isn’t a very clear after death dream, but it is a way of helping you to feel different about losing him.

Tony

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Dream Interpretation / Re: Three dreams - two recurring themes
« on: December 06, 2010, 12:30:24 PM »
Avalon – The red door – twice – seems to be a warning of dangerous outcomes.

Also I believe the desertion by friend(s) is a way of saying, “Do not trust the attitudes and outlook you have trusted in the past.” Everything is pointing you in a new direction, but you are probably ignoring the signals.

I have seen it so often that when you meet the very worst in life, if you admit defeat an amazing change occurs outwardly and inwardly. So I think your journey was sinking – the boat – and you were still fighting against going down with it.

After all, the dream, ones dreams, are doorways to infinite possibilities. So you can afford to imagine going down with the boat to see what happens. You can experiment in your dreams and come back if it doesn’t work. Then try something else till you find the right way.

Dare to experiment with life and your own attitudes and beliefs.

I met an old Chinese man in an inner journey, and he shared a wisdom with me. He told me that in every situation there is two sides to everything, and in your case both sides do not look good. But he went on to tell me that in every situation there is a third point – the point of transformation. I think you should try the point of transformation.

Tony

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MissC – Wow – what a dreamer!!

I think I can comment on the middle one, and maybe others can comment on the first and third one.

The cousin of your grandmother who lives in a tree house seems to be a part of you that is close nature and probably has some wisdom, but doesn’t have much social ability. Such parts of us are often developed through being an outsider of some sort. This means they cannot get the same satisfaction out of ordinary things, and all that energy can go neurotic or into an unusual adaptation. For instance a nun might have no sexual life, so all that energy could lead her into massive neurosis or into an awareness of the supersensual worlds.

So her inability to get close to anyone suggests there is an element of that is you. But the remark about “that she would literally rot in the house” says that this is what ignoring or ‘no one visiting her’ leads to the disappearance of that aspect. But not disappearance, more like starving it of attention so it gradually dies out – or exists as a shadow. In my exploration of my past I came across a little boy (a young me) who had been shut up in a cellar for 40 years without attention. It was very moving to find him and try to contact him. His first words, “I’m dangerous, like a tiger.” But I could see it was him being very vulnerable and so not trusting anyone to get near him/me. That may have been the cousins rudeness.

So any refinding of aspects of yourself is rewarding, and adds enormously to understanding other people. Sometimes these aspects do not link with the present life, and finding them and allowing them to express is the real resurrection.

Tony

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Dream Interpretation / Re: dream about house, rooftop and friends
« on: December 06, 2010, 10:59:47 AM »
TooCommon - Maybe I should have said  you have an interest in the way you protect yourself from the rain and storms of life?

It is difficult to make sense of all part of a dream without a lot of input from the dreamer - but I try :-[

Also I feel the rest is probably true, even though your present situation isn't as you would like it to be. I say this because dreams are not usually a reflection of everyday life - even though many commentators about say it is. They are more like to remind you of the 'you' you are or can be. So I feel as if you are underneath it all 'COOL'.

And I do not see dreams being random. What makes it appears so is that to really understand a dream we need to open the hatch to our unconscious, go in and look at our dream from there.

Tony

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Dream Interpretation / Re: Recurring dream - sex, losing virginity
« on: December 05, 2010, 12:59:52 PM »
Avalon – Thank you for sharing so much with me. Also it helps to have a clear picture.

From what you describe I see you are a very straightforward and clear person. Most people put their sexual dreams in symbols instead of coming straight out. This means you are a healthy and rather lovely young woman. Also the meanings of the dreams you have described are all centred on what you said: “in more recent dreams, my confidence has gotten better, and I am less and less unsure.”

This shows that they are a mixture of what I call practice and exercise dreams. In many dreams we have a sequence in which we explore our feelings and skills and gradually learn. This can then be used in your waking life. The dream holds no real threat so we can explore and find out what we really want. You can see this in the gradual way you are learning greater confidence and ability.

I would suggest that you pleasure yourself until you reach a climax. Or if you already have, you need to go through it very slowly and with awareness. This is because there is something stopping you in your dreams. This can come out and be resolved if you go slowly and really listen to what you and your body are feeling. There is probably a point where you feel something arising emotionally or even in memory. As you say you are recovering from an assault. So there may be a subtle feeling standing in the way.

As for are you emotionally ready to engage in sex, obviously you still feel a little uncertain, but the practice in your dreams will gradually get to the point when you will know and feel confident. Remember that sex is for two main things – reproduction and bonding. These are so powerful that there is no need to rush. When you are certain it will happen.


Tony

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Dream Interpretation / Re: landing in tuscany
« on: December 03, 2010, 08:39:08 AM »
Thanks - Tony

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Dream Interpretation / Re: dream about house, rooftop and friends
« on: December 03, 2010, 08:38:33 AM »
Hi TooCommon – I take it where you live ‘cool’ is a welcome feeling. It could be uncomfortable in a cold climate.

So it sounds you have achieved a relaxed and good feeling; that from being with friends and in a clean house. Then you found yourself having a wider view of where you were. Being on a hill usually means you have found way of seeing things that were only achieved from a long climb. On a hill we can usually see the way we have come, and the way ahead, or alternatives routes. But your attention was on the rooftops. Do you have an interest in the way people protect themselves from the rain and storms of their life?

I am not sure what the Greek influence means to you.

Tony

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Dream Interpretation / Re: Glassless Windows
« on: December 02, 2010, 11:32:28 AM »
Romanov – It suggests to me that you are in a situation where your inner world and outer world have not got a good  protection. It sounds as if your barrier as been broken. But without knowing what feelings occurred in the dream it is difficult to know whether it is negative or  positive.

I would suggest imagining you create a good window with glass and see what difference that makes to the feelings.

Tony

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Ted – Well, by no means a mental case, simply a vivid dreamer.

How I see the dream, how I understand dreams, is using certain well tested principle; one of which is that anything that moves toward you is an aspect of you that is becoming conscious. So the dog is pushing for your attention – aggressively. I know there is a handler, but it seems likely that it is aggressiveness turned against yourself, and felt in the chest.

Either that or someone is letting their aggressive nature loose on you.

If it is the latter it would show as wounded feelings or emotions, and recognising who and what they are doing can often take away their attack. I had a mother-in-law who was plotting behind my back. Without knowing anything about it I felt I was going crazy. But instead I did an exploration inside and found the culprit, and faced her with it. I was amazed at the time that I could feel as if I was going mad from someone simply plotting against me.

Tony

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Dream Interpretation / Re: landing in tuscany
« on: December 01, 2010, 11:08:49 AM »
I wait too, to see the outcome. Sometimes it takes a few months, but when it comes it is recognizable.

Tony

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