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General Discussion / Re: Single 34 ... and lost
« Last post by Tony Crisp on May 25, 2017, 09:12:29 AM »
Please look at  http://dreamhawk.com/relationship-sex/beware-of-love/ and http://dreamhawk.com/relationship-sex/learning-to-love/

Having worked as a therapist for twenty or more years, I find the first one was used again and again in helping people. Also you cannot hope to find love in a partner , unless you have allowed it to flow from you.

General Discussion / Re: Resentment, hate and how to forgive
« Last post by Miephenk on May 24, 2017, 08:03:50 PM »
Thanks for the resources Chris.  I'll check them out - I'm all the way over in South Africa  :)
May I ask if you still have contact with your brother?
General Discussion / Re: The appreciation of a good site!
« Last post by Miephenk on May 24, 2017, 06:45:51 PM »
Yes, I must also add to what a wonderful site this is.  And how it felt so good to get a response from Tony himself on my posts and for others to share their experiences.
General Discussion / Re: Resentment, hate and how to forgive
« Last post by Miephenk on May 24, 2017, 06:42:53 PM »
Thank you Chris, for taking the time to respond to my post.
General Discussion / Re: Single 34 ... and lost
« Last post by Miephenk on May 24, 2017, 06:40:32 PM »
Thank you for taking the time to respond to my post
Questions about dreams / Re: I am a male - strange dream
« Last post by Tony Crisp on May 19, 2017, 11:14:24 AM »
E – I’ll do the best I can, but it might seem strange stuff to you – but it is a strange dream.

When we dream about person communicating with us it can be distorted by our view of what our associations with the person are. Our own view of life becomes a starting point for dream symbolism, but our dream process arrives from a very different world than the world of waking life. Our waking world is one of forms of people, animals and thousands of things, all in time and space. But our dream self is trying to communicate from a world without form, time or space. Please read before reading on http://dreamhawk.com/news/there-is-a-huge-change-happening/ and http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/dimensions-of-human-experience/

So, your dream uses images, scenes and events as ways of communicating things to you. It does this because you have feelings and ideas about those images that make sense to you, yet are trying to communicate very different realisations. 

The fight you lost is the fight to survive as a person, not a body. You lost but you felt that you could have won. Of course you are a winner seen from the ‘big’ view of what you are. Millions of sperm cells started to race to the wonderful female egg cell. But the female egg is picky, and chooses the best sperm with full DNA. But what is growing is a seed that has been alive since the beginning of life on Earth, and carries with it, like any seed, the pattern developed over millions of years, the essence of thousands of lives that survived war, famine, the extremes of seasons and world upheavals. So you are the latest version of that incredible journey – what a fight! In a sense you lost the latest fight because you had not accepted that Life has a lot more of you than you have accessed so far, and your dream was introducing you to MORE.

If you can accept that you are as a personality, only a tiny part of what you have inherited from that incredibly journey of your ancestors, and that most of you is unconscious, and that it is available to become conscious. But because it is unknown to you it seems ‘alien’ – and so in dream imagery you met an alien and it said that he is your body guard and that he’s been watching you your entire life waiting for the right time.

The huge part of you that the seed left in you is a product of Life, and Life has levels of sentience, and so the Huge that you have within you, also has a much greater awareness and was always watching and trying to communicate. And now that you are ready it has.

As for the princess thing its a part of  your larger self - see http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/archetype-of-the-animus-jungs-view-of-the-male-in-the-female/

What you can do – well, here is a start http://dreamhawk.com/inner-life/extending-your-awareness/

Questions about dreams / I am a male - strange dream
« Last post by Tony Crisp on May 19, 2017, 11:09:39 AM »
So I'm male and I had a dream I was in a in a MMA match in which I and the person I was to fight had the first match up of the many people there to fight in the line up we are all dressed as super heroes and I was batman and the dude I was to fight is spider man and I ended up losing and so after losing I leave to get a smoke and I sit down across from this big dude I've never met before at a table outside of the MMA building. And as I sit and light my smoke I take a few puffs he begins to talk to me about the match and I tell him I could have beaten the dude in the spider man outfit if I'd have done this that and the other differently; and he tells me in a kind way that I couldn’t have beaten him. I’ve finished my smoke by this point and it was my last one so I asked if I could bum one off him and he tries to give me his last one but I decline taking his last smoke and thank him.

Its at this point I see him looking around as if he’s worried about something, he tells me its a good thing I lost and I was about to ask why when we see 3 men in black suites (guards from the MMA match) walking towards us. He asks me to come with him so we could get away from them. I felt I could trust him for some reason. So I go with him and we run to his mudded out car and hop into the passenger seat and we speed out of there; and its at this point they start chasing us by car as well as a monster truck that could flatten us if it runs over us (and that’s what they had planned). I ask him why they are chasing him (I wanted to help him) he says they are not after him but they ARE after me, and that he’s here to protect me.

We get onto the interstate and go a few miles before the monster truck catches up to us and is about to run us over so the big dude offers his hand to me and asks me to take it (I assumed he had a plan of escape). So as I reach for his hand I see its kind of blue green in color (was a normal human hand before) and he only has 3 oddly shaped fingers (alien hand I guess). I take his hand and next thing I know we bust out the window shield just in time to escape the truck flattening us and we are flying threw the air (dude is flying us with no wings or anything that would make sense as to why we are able to fly). I look at him and he’s all changed now with that blue green skin that’s kind of see threw with big fins around his neck and 3 fingers on each hand. We are flying for a short time before he lands away from the guys chasing me and I ask him what he is (I still trust him by this point) and he tells me he’s my body guard and that he’s been watching me my entire life waiting for the right time (kind of riddle like). Then he places his hand on my chest and I take on a new form. The form of a pinkish red female alien. He tells me I'm the princess of our world and that they needed to hide me away (for reasons unknown to me) and to keep me safe they made me look human and wiped my memories and replaced them with fake ones so I wouldn’t be found. But now they have found me and its no longer safe on earth anymore so its time to leave.

I wake up after this in a cold sweat and I'm so confused because I’m a straight guy with a wife and a daughter so why would I be dreaming I’m a girl alien princess? I’m also vary distrusting so that I would hop into a car with a stranger is vary unlike me. I really hope you know what this all means because it kind of has me messed up about all this XD
Dream Interpretation / Re: Spider bite
« Last post by ElizVanZee on May 16, 2017, 05:53:00 PM »
Any spider would represent an aspect of your own emotional nature – an aspect from which you can obtain the ability, motivation or inclination to deceive yourself (because the spider spins the ‘web of illusion’).

The spider on the dog would imply that a feeling of deceiving yourself  pertains to the issue of friendship and loyalty. Hitting the spider away is like brushing it off, i.e. being able to disregard the possibility of any self deception. The spider on your daughter can suggest a feeling of self deception may pertain to your actual daughter, or to a very favoured feeling you have, or about yourself in the future. Again this feeling is and can be brushed off.

The spider biting you indicates that a feeling of deceiving or fooling yourself is not working in your favour. Here the deception or illusions relate to an "up in arms" situation - something that makes you very angry. (on the arm) While you do manage to brush it off, it has had an effect upon you. (you are left with big lumps) The lumps can be indicating that the effect of feeling you could be deceiving yourself has "gotten under your skin" - it has become a real source of aggravation. The lumps on the arm also suggest that where you could be up in arms, your own self defensive system (the skin) is not quite "on the level", i.e. your self defensiveness is not honest or legitimate.

What is moving suggests a 'living idea'. Thus the moving lumps can be suggesting that you could see your own  self  defensiveness not being legitimate, as a livable idea. The True Self would seek help at a hospital, i.e. in a situation offering help from a higher source (God). But there is no aspect of yourself (the people) that hears this,

Note that hitting the spider off 3 times indicates that brushing off a feeling that you might be deceiving yourself is a good and godly idea. Also a spider, or any animal, biting you is an insult to your rational thinking.
[PS. I would think twice about manipulating your dreams because they are designed by God to bring you guidance and correction of your thinking. Manipulating dreams simply postpones receiving the information needed now. Use dreams to help you spiritually rather than to serve your ego. Note also that the impression of control in lucid dreaming is but an illusion as you are still asleep and dreaming, living in your own dream world of imagination and fantasy.
Dream Interpretation / Re: Stuck on an Image
« Last post by Tony Crisp on May 14, 2017, 07:54:43 AM »
When leading a huge group of people on a convention, I witnessed an Arabic guru figure get everybody to repeat loudly - "Everything is True - Nothing is true."

It stuck in my mind, and seeing the huge cosmic duality we are mixed up in I gradually saw how true it is. It points to the balance, even the marriage or blending between light and dark, female and male, Good and Evil, conscious and unconscious, high and low, body and spirit - and on and on.

Dream Interpretation / Re: Stuck on an Image
« Last post by Christine on May 13, 2017, 09:59:45 PM »
Thank you Tony...love the story!  And Thank You ElizVanZee...my interpretation was similar.
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