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Same guy
« on: January 02, 2017, 10:22:27 AM »
Greetings and a very happy 2017 and thanks so much for all your guidance last year.
I've been absent for a while as my dreams haven't had the same intense emotional impact, so I've been able to focus on daily life for a change. Phew.

However I do want to ask about this.

For two years now the same guy has been entering my dreams fairly regularly, usually there is a light-hearted element to him, like he's amused by me but also wants to connect with me. It's got to the stage that when I saw him in my dream last night, diving in to a busy swimming pool that I was swimming in, that even in the dream I thought 'what's with this guy, why does he keep coming into my dreams? What does he want and is he to be trusted ?' I've only seen him on stage twice and I've never met him. I don't consciously have a thing for him either. I don't follow his work. But again and again he appears.  My previous dream was that I was sitting outside on a wall writing in my diary and he called me into a Coffey shop, I went as it had just started to rain, he starting joking teasing me, I ordered myself a coffey trying to ignore him, but I was handed two and told that one was for him. In the dreams he's always trying to get my attention. I assumed he was my animus, but is it unusual that the same person over two years represents an individuals animus?

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Re: Same guy
« Reply #1 on: January 02, 2017, 11:35:34 AM »
Hi - I must take time to upgrade the dream dictionary, so must halt from answering your posts – I started the revising in 2006, and haven’t neared the end yet. I believe someone else may start. 

So, for a while I urge you to read

Also, here are so ways you can find your dreams meaning - - or and

Hundreds of questions about your dreams have already been answered if you scroll down to the very bottom of the page were people’s questions/comments were replied to. Also, see


Omega – It is unusual to appear so often and in different settings. But the things we are aware of are enormous. After all, in a day you have taken in millions of bits of information, and in our daily waking consciousness we are almost totally unaware of the immensity of information we each have within us.

I once witnessed a man having a therapy session. I too was busy experiencing stuff within me, but when I looked over at him I saw that he was like a man covered in a stiff outer covering like a chrysalis. He was lying on the floor in front of the therapist, and I crawled over to get a closer look. Remember I was deep in myself at the time, and accessing an ability we all have that is very prevalent in dreams – the ability to synthesis. In other words, we can have an overview of our whole life experience, and in doing so learn enormous amounts about ourselves. This is presented in dream images, which are usually an image that has enormous amounts of information locked in it – as I have said, dream images are like icons on a computer screen - You have to ‘click’ on your dream images to make them come alive. Thinking about them doesn’t work. You need to open yourself to the magic of them. To make them into the wonderful gateways they are you may have to learn certain skills. Skills listed above.

Anyway, I saw that the man who was very learned, had plastered on him the enormous amount of knowledge, none of which had he taken into himself to really experience and digest. For digestion is the breaking down and making it into a living part of oneself – not simply an intellectual learning.

I saw that deep within him was the living flame of Life, and everything needed to be passed through the flame to turn what was essentially dead into living experience. Remember Rider Haggard's Aisha who stood in the flame of Life? This is described in and

So try exploring your associations with the man, for you have treasures in you. See