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Tony Crisp

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Husband Wearing Pantyhose
« on: November 20, 2017, 12:31:38 PM »
Sarah

Hello, I wondered if you might help with a dream I can’t stop thinking about? I walk into a room (like a dressing room) in an official building where my husband was standing in a pair of tights enjoying the feeling and sensation of wearing them on his skin. We both looked at one another in slight shock/startled, him at being seen/caught and me at interrupting/catching him. He went to take them off but I said it’s fine just keep them on and that he had better get dressed.

I felt guilty for making him feel uncomfortable and there was a sense that time was an issue, he needed to get dressed and be somewhere important. He put his trousers over the tights. The trousers were part of a uniform, like a army/military formal dress uniform.

I have no ties with the army/military – but in the dream there was a sense of responsibility and urgency to the uniform and to the meeting. I’m not sure if the tights were mine or not in the dream – it was more about the feeling, sensation of the tights on the skin and the pleasure my husband was experiencing wearing them (not in an overly sexual way, more sensual). I felt unnerved, hurt maybe that my husband was exploring/experiencing this sensation. The tights/pantyhose where a natural skin tone and feminine. I understand my husband is me in the dream but not sure I can make sense of being caught and covering up the tights in the military uniform all means. Any thoughts to untangle further would be very helpful.

Many thanks.
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Re: Husband Wearing Pantyhose
« Reply #1 on: November 20, 2017, 12:33:40 PM »
Sarah – Dreams are certainly ever creative in the dramas they portray. Yours is a teaser – in many ways.

But a theme that is noticeable is the duality of the situation. See http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/your-guru-the-dream-step-two/#Themes

Have you read http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/archetype-of-the-animus-the-male-in-the-female/ which is a great look at the major duality we all face – the male in the female, and the female in the male. This is reminiscent of the yin and yang symbol where the dark and the light are shown as complementary to each other and not at war. Also in the dark there is a spot of light, and in the light a spot of dark. See the image in http://dreamhawk.com/tony-crisp/biographical-information/

Your dream husband was definitely a male, but had a ‘spot’ of female in him. And that despite his very male military exterior.

I have a sense that this is a dream about educating you in your amazing duality, and a way you might find the depth of this is by using http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/acting-on-your-dream/#BeingPerson - – http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/lucidity/ and http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/exploring-a-dream-2/

Tony