Dreamy – Again you get the rubbish in your dream, but this time aspects of you are involved in sorting through; also you have a garage/warehouse full of it. (It took me more than twelve years of hard work to clear most of my trash collection.)
Remember we have a huge past, for no plant or creature grows from a dead seed, and each living seed carries within it all the past gathered from all its forebears. So, the seed in your mother’s womb is as old as and even older than human kind, and you carry that wisdom or memories in you. But in this life you developed a new brain, and the memories you gathered this time are what you built your personality from, but beneath that is a very ancient self.
The collection of random rubbish is what we are blocked by in our growth process. For the first level we meet if we are actually meeting real growth is a cleaning process, and unblocking of the immense rubbish we all have – and don’t get the idea that you are different because you are on the growth path. See
https://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/integration-meeting-oneself/#RealiseYou have two parts of you that have got the insight into dreams and what you are capable of in them – the two girls who jumped. But the main part of you is still stuck in judgements developed from the waking world. People are very confused about the difference between their waking life and their dream life. They believe that what they dream is the same as what they meet in waking life. In other words, we take as a truth that what is important outwardly is as important in our dreams. So, you are as upset by a dream as if it had actually happened in waking life. Such mistakes make us feel things that are ridiculous.
But whenever we dream its images are not like real life, because a dream is nothing like outer life where things could hurt you, but is an image like on a cinema screen, so that even if a gun is pointed at you and fired it can do no damage – except if you run in fear; so, all the things that scare you are simply your own fears projected onto the screen of your sleeping mind. So those parts of you than can jump from a great height have realised that, but YOU need to imagine yourself doing it to overcome the fear of doing it in dreams.
Your neighbour seems to be a helpful and organising talent you have learnt from your social contacts.
Tony