Sara – Well, I feel that this is a very interesting situation. It seems that you are exploring things about you that you have not touched/experienced before. The large house is a classical image of your long past, a past that is built into you unconsciously and you haven’t explored before. It is what I call House of the Ancestors. See http://dreamhawk.com/stories/the-house-of-the-ancestors/
Those things are to do with the enormous heritage your – your family – have inherited from the past. And in this dream it is about parts of you held like precious jewels you have not yet given birth to in this life. Yet you have felt the tension of them in you that you feel is blissful and can allow into your life when you are ready – two of them; wonderful!
And your sister’s dream is, I feel, a statement that the need to pee isn’t about the toilet. That is like sacrilege. That is why it crumbled. It is about acknowledging the inner wonder you can give birth to. And it is an inner wonder that can appear if you allow it. You simply need to say YES to it.
And thank you for your blessings. I add them to the brightness and with hope they shine out.