Santhi – I have an intuition that the ring with the three diamonds actually represents the three aspect of love, one of which is loving without possessing. But the one that was lost was about a tragic thing that you forgot – a hurt to your love that you tried to forget. But you have met more of yourself as you have grown and the memory of the loss has come back.
But you remembered and found the diamond, but as is the manner of such things you lost it again. And this time when it did come back to you it is no longer a hard diamond that can be smahed, but a pure thing that can be stretched and pliable, as such love should be.