Here is a link minus the advertising (well, it's minimal standard YouTube fare):
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=OPSAgs-exfQI can relate to the tension. This video made me melt, but just yesterday I saw a photo of a beautiful woman who had just given birth who was obviously ecstatic and I felt a surge of anger that she was wearing a summer dress rather than putting the baby right on the skin. I spent a good part of the day today hiking in the woods and sorting out my feelings about it, taking back the projection and feeling into the baby's actual experience.