hi,
thank you for the time & effort you have taken in responding to my dream,
i had to go away and digest what you have tried to relay,
i agree that dreams can tell us what, we have built into our lives that may be true or untrue,
in my reply to tony i stated ,the stone the builders rejected, ressonated with me,
this ref to some experiences i had relating to dreams,most of which i accepted,all except one,regarding something that would happen,yes something prophetic,(stone me if you wish.)that dispite all the others ,still found it hard to accept,
now .you mentioned mary,she was told what was going to happen,she accepted it,knowing the ridicule and turmoil she would experience from those around her,she believed beyond all doubt,as message was from a divine source,
unfortunatly,i am not made of the same stuff,metaphorically speaking,
if there is one theme that has run through my dreams it has to be that of, "self worth"
the female in the dream choosing me over the others,my inner response was,ME ! you must be joking,out of my league,
so if, as you say ,i ask the question what is this dream telling me about myself that is true or untrue, the answer has got to be , i am telling myself that i am not worthy of something,the dream is trying to correct this attitude,
by showing me what i have achieved or could achieve ,with a little belief.
i am still working on it,