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Dream Interpretation / Please help interpret: Crying, wrapped in a blanket by a cliff
« on: February 02, 2015, 09:30:02 AM »
TONY
The dream I had was about my special someone. It was morning of Jan 30. I was already awake at around 6:30 am and slept again. The dream happened around 8 am.
DREAM:
I was on an island with my special someone. We were in a high place, like by a cliff. I think it’s a bit dark. We were intimate, cuddling under a blanket (sharing the same blanket, no detail if naked). Under the blanket, I was above him and I saw his face (a bit side view), looking at me. He looks sad. He said something, I can’t remember the exact phrase, but it had the word “time” in it. I leaned closer to him and kissed him in the lips. We continued kissing. It felt real, like I was really kissing him..
Then there was this scene (daytime) where I was wearing like a workout outfit (racer top and shorts) for an exercise thing held on the island. I was with 2 other people, a male instructor (in the middle) and another female. I can’t remember their faces. While my special someone was just behind us watching while we execute the exercise routines (it’s more like stretching). This time, I can’t see clearly the face of my special someone, just a figure I think? My special someone caught my attention to tell me “your hands are lingering” (translated from my language). He’s referring to my hand gestures that were wrong, that they were not like what the male instructor were doing. I think we just laughed.
Then back to the cliff scene, it was I think sunset already. My special someone and I were wrapped in a blanket (sharing the same blanket). We were facing the horizon, both looking at pink skies. He was behind me, hugging me. I was holding and touching his arms. Soon I started crying. I think he was crying too. I felt sad and helpless, like hoping and wishing for something. From the cliff, I saw that the island was a bit messy though. It had some litters scattered on the grass/ground. I don’t know what happened next. I am not sure if it that really was the end of it or my dream was just cut off because my mom woke me up already.
A few days before, I also dreamed about him. It was just a short one. It was that I received a Facebook message from him that said, “Hey, how are you?” That’s it. I felt happy to see that I checked my phone to see but then I realized it was just a dream.
BACKGROUND ON OUR STORY:
In 2013 I moved to another province (an island) to study for 1 year. A month or so before my graduation, I suddenly started getting close to a guy (the man in my dream) also from the same course.
I felt a connection with him. I liked him and fell for him. I thought he felt the same. I was about to graduate and return to my hometown while he will be left behind (he is a local in the island). He made me promise to him that I come back. And I did promise. He also said that there will be no last between us. A few nights before I was about to leave, he hugged me and asked why I have to go. He said it will be empty when I leave. Then he kissed me..
But then on the day of my departure, he suddenly dumped me via SMS. He said it’s probably goodbye. He said long distance relationship is just hard and he doesn’t want to make the same mistakes (referring to recent thing with a girl whom he had sort of LDR with). That the short time we had together was enough to make him fall for me. That he was already happy we had a thing for a moment. He was sorry for taking the chance. That right now maybe he doesn’t deserve my love.
My heart was so broken. I expressed my sadness, but in the end I chose to accept and just thanked him for what we had. What he replied hurt me even more. He said that it’s not only because of LDR that he thought he had to let me go. He was confused and thought he was in love. He can’t let go of his past (the previous girl) and he was desperate he wanted something to cover the hole and he took it all out on me. That he was in love, not with me, but with her. That it was all his mistake for making the move.
Even though I was devastated, I chose to understand his situation and cared about him. I told him it’s disheartening things ended up this way, but in the end I still offered my friendship (I meant it).
We remained friends on social media, but have not been in interacting or anything, thinking we both needed time to let it pass. I am in the process of accepting and healing but I still check on him regularly. And just recently (a few days ago), I found out he unfriended me on Facebook. And it keeps me wondering why. I have not posted any rants/hate posts or something, but out of the blue he did that. It hurt so much. A few days after, that dream happened.
I do not want to lose him. I set aside my hurt and offered my friendship to keep him in my life, holding on to that hope that eventually we can save whatever's left of the friendship and that soon we'll be ok again. But my heart broke when he did that.
What could my dream mean? I don't know if there's anything I need to do..
Thank you and I appreciate your help.
The dream I had was about my special someone. It was morning of Jan 30. I was already awake at around 6:30 am and slept again. The dream happened around 8 am.
DREAM:
I was on an island with my special someone. We were in a high place, like by a cliff. I think it’s a bit dark. We were intimate, cuddling under a blanket (sharing the same blanket, no detail if naked). Under the blanket, I was above him and I saw his face (a bit side view), looking at me. He looks sad. He said something, I can’t remember the exact phrase, but it had the word “time” in it. I leaned closer to him and kissed him in the lips. We continued kissing. It felt real, like I was really kissing him..
Then there was this scene (daytime) where I was wearing like a workout outfit (racer top and shorts) for an exercise thing held on the island. I was with 2 other people, a male instructor (in the middle) and another female. I can’t remember their faces. While my special someone was just behind us watching while we execute the exercise routines (it’s more like stretching). This time, I can’t see clearly the face of my special someone, just a figure I think? My special someone caught my attention to tell me “your hands are lingering” (translated from my language). He’s referring to my hand gestures that were wrong, that they were not like what the male instructor were doing. I think we just laughed.
Then back to the cliff scene, it was I think sunset already. My special someone and I were wrapped in a blanket (sharing the same blanket). We were facing the horizon, both looking at pink skies. He was behind me, hugging me. I was holding and touching his arms. Soon I started crying. I think he was crying too. I felt sad and helpless, like hoping and wishing for something. From the cliff, I saw that the island was a bit messy though. It had some litters scattered on the grass/ground. I don’t know what happened next. I am not sure if it that really was the end of it or my dream was just cut off because my mom woke me up already.
A few days before, I also dreamed about him. It was just a short one. It was that I received a Facebook message from him that said, “Hey, how are you?” That’s it. I felt happy to see that I checked my phone to see but then I realized it was just a dream.
BACKGROUND ON OUR STORY:
In 2013 I moved to another province (an island) to study for 1 year. A month or so before my graduation, I suddenly started getting close to a guy (the man in my dream) also from the same course.
I felt a connection with him. I liked him and fell for him. I thought he felt the same. I was about to graduate and return to my hometown while he will be left behind (he is a local in the island). He made me promise to him that I come back. And I did promise. He also said that there will be no last between us. A few nights before I was about to leave, he hugged me and asked why I have to go. He said it will be empty when I leave. Then he kissed me..
But then on the day of my departure, he suddenly dumped me via SMS. He said it’s probably goodbye. He said long distance relationship is just hard and he doesn’t want to make the same mistakes (referring to recent thing with a girl whom he had sort of LDR with). That the short time we had together was enough to make him fall for me. That he was already happy we had a thing for a moment. He was sorry for taking the chance. That right now maybe he doesn’t deserve my love.
My heart was so broken. I expressed my sadness, but in the end I chose to accept and just thanked him for what we had. What he replied hurt me even more. He said that it’s not only because of LDR that he thought he had to let me go. He was confused and thought he was in love. He can’t let go of his past (the previous girl) and he was desperate he wanted something to cover the hole and he took it all out on me. That he was in love, not with me, but with her. That it was all his mistake for making the move.
Even though I was devastated, I chose to understand his situation and cared about him. I told him it’s disheartening things ended up this way, but in the end I still offered my friendship (I meant it).
We remained friends on social media, but have not been in interacting or anything, thinking we both needed time to let it pass. I am in the process of accepting and healing but I still check on him regularly. And just recently (a few days ago), I found out he unfriended me on Facebook. And it keeps me wondering why. I have not posted any rants/hate posts or something, but out of the blue he did that. It hurt so much. A few days after, that dream happened.
I do not want to lose him. I set aside my hurt and offered my friendship to keep him in my life, holding on to that hope that eventually we can save whatever's left of the friendship and that soon we'll be ok again. But my heart broke when he did that.
What could my dream mean? I don't know if there's anything I need to do..
Thank you and I appreciate your help.