Dear Tony Thank you for your response, you made me cry. I suppose as a mum all we want is for our kids to have a straightforward, happy, uncomplicated life. I know thats not always possible, but I'm very much a "live life for today!" which stems from losing my brother when he was 16. I am determined to make sure that my son understands that he is perfectly normal to be having these feelings and worries and that mum and dad are here to get him through. I will endeavour to reassure him more specifically and we will be drawing a hero to stick on his wall beside his bed this weekend. Thank you again.