Lolla – You give me the impression of being a loving woman. At 28 you have a lot to give, and you have a powerful urge to find a man who will be good for you. That is a big part of what is behind your dreams. The other is that you have actually met someone who will talk and share pleasure with you. So that is a good and healthy start.
Obviously your loneliness plays a part in your dreams, but there is a chance for a continued friendship. The important partners I have met n my life have always been someone who asked me or just walked up and kissed me – me being a retiring sort of person. So I would suggest you get in a conversation with him and ask him if he is interested in having a coffee with you – or whatever you feel I appropriate. It might not work, but there is nothing lost by trying.
But I am uncertain whether you met him first in waking life or in dreams. Either way you should go up to him. But there is the chance that you are holding back your feelings and need to let them go. See
http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/dream-lovers/Tony