I have had two dreams now where I was visited by my boyfriends passed sister. She passed away almost three years ago, not quite, but I have only been dating him ten months. I am naturally an empathetic person, and I can take on the feelings and burdens of others easily, but I have never met her. My first dream, I was with her. I found out later the outfit she was wearing in my dream (which took me a while to disclose to my boyfriend, feeling anxious about it) was an outfit she wore to a wedding years before. I will try and sum it up in short, but we were in a cement/maze like, open area, grey skies, and there were other people there in this area, but they paid us no mind. We were in the dead center of this place, on two high standing chairs. She looked at me, smiled and was very inquisitive about me. She asked me a lot of questions about myself, and I regret to say I remember what context we spoke, but not the specifics, because i was so focused an insecure on the fact i couldn't understand why she was talking to me and why i was there. Eventually, after a short conversation, she began tearing up and becoming distressed. There is something wrong with me, she said, and she pulled out her left hand that looked diseased and burned. She grew very upset and she disappeared, and I see her , a flying dragon, and the walls around me began to crumble and quake. There are a few more details, but these are the main ones. I felt so strange after this dream, because I didn't feel like I was dreaming in my dream. I knew I was dreaming in my dream, but I did not feel the dream like state that I do sometimes. She was not a part of me. The next dream it was as if I summoned her. I don't know how to explain it. Long story short, we were in a bedroom and she was asleep on the bed. I knew I was in a dream, but I had it in my head that we could all spend the day together. Her brother , her , and I. I lay down on the bed, and I woke her up, and our faces were side by side as she looked at me in the eyes, very real evaluation and just looking at me. She seemed slightly impatient, but I felt so joyful. Eventually she got up after my encouragement and addressed her own death saying she didn't know what happened she just woke up and couldn't reach anyone and no one could reach her. She kept trying to get me to turn on her phone service. She brought me a phone and I asked what kind of phone it was and she said she didn't know, and I asked okay well, what kind of service, again she said she didn't know, she just cant reach anyone and no one has contacted her. blah blah blah, next big thing I had set up this shop, kind of science center wonder thing, and my boyfriend and i were down there looking at the things, he didn't even notice she didn't come with, but i could see her up on the balcony of this shop with the bedroom door open as she paced the railing looking at me, obviously distressed. I knew she couldn't come down, and i woke up. I am now experiencing weird events in my waking life, with things i experienced much more frequently as a kid, and haven't had anything like it since except for a couple of random incidents in my life. I am feeling she is wanting me to help her communicate, or she is saying something to me, and I am just not getting the message. I have never really researched anything like this before, but it is causing me real anxiety. I am trying to accept this is what may be happening, after my last wake life experience was enough to send me into a panic attack. Any help on what some of these symbols might mean tat she has sent me, or what I should do with them would be helpful. This has been the most helpful site I have found so far, and I have been trying to understand and look for answer for a month, but have come up with very little. Thanks anyone for helping and their insight and sorry for any typing errors, I'm afraid I have quick fingers, but careless.