Jacquie – You are truly in the atmosphere, a field of influence most of feel when near someone or communicating with them. Your grandmother is very much alive in the way she now experiences herself – so disagrees with your feeling that she is dead. Thousands upon thousands of people have told us, having survived what most think of as dying, that although their body has ended they are very alive and can communicate with us – as your grandmother has done in your dream. It is a happy experience.
The imagery of the house you both carry with you from sharing so much by living with her.
I get the feeling that your grandfather is not as adaptable to change as your grandmother, and doesn’t like that changes that one meets after surviving death. Maybe imagine talking to him explaining the enormous change he met, and the amazing opportunities it offers.
Tony