Sarah
Hello, I wondered if you might help with a dream I can’t stop thinking about? I walk into a room (like a dressing room) in an official building where my husband was standing in a pair of tights enjoying the feeling and sensation of wearing them on his skin. We both looked at one another in slight shock/startled, him at being seen/caught and me at interrupting/catching him. He went to take them off but I said it’s fine just keep them on and that he had better get dressed.
I felt guilty for making him feel uncomfortable and there was a sense that time was an issue, he needed to get dressed and be somewhere important. He put his trousers over the tights. The trousers were part of a uniform, like a army/military formal dress uniform.
I have no ties with the army/military – but in the dream there was a sense of responsibility and urgency to the uniform and to the meeting. I’m not sure if the tights were mine or not in the dream – it was more about the feeling, sensation of the tights on the skin and the pleasure my husband was experiencing wearing them (not in an overly sexual way, more sensual). I felt unnerved, hurt maybe that my husband was exploring/experiencing this sensation. The tights/pantyhose where a natural skin tone and feminine. I understand my husband is me in the dream but not sure I can make sense of being caught and covering up the tights in the military uniform all means. Any thoughts to untangle further would be very helpful.
Many thanks.