Hi Tony,
Your views on the two dreams are most appreciated.
I have taken the time to go through the first and second links and I am happy to say that my viewpoint on the interpretation of dreams has changed quite a lot since then. I used to previously think that my dreams were a way of warning me of coming events. However, after going through what you said in the links, I have realised that the dreams are a mirror of my inner self and they can be used to improve my perspective on life. Indeed it cannot be done overnight and will need a lot of work but I am thankful that I can use it to solve some of the problems I am facing in my outer life.
I do have another question on a couple of dreams I dreamt some years ago. This was that my uncle who lives overseas had fallen ill and was hospitalised. I did mention this to my father and a week later he checked on my uncle and it so happened that he had met with an accident and was hospitalised around a week ago. This baffled me somewhat as I was not very close to this uncle but yet had dreamt of this incident.
Another dream was that a cousin of mine whom I was very close to, was getting out of a limousine. It so happened that on that particular day my cousin gave us a surprise visit and it shocked me as to the simiilarity to my dream.
Would appreciate if you could give me your views on these two dreams. This is what mostly made me believe that dreams were showing coming events or sometimes warnings.
Thanks