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Title: surprisingly a guy just met appears at my home
Post by: lolla on December 28, 2012, 12:38:27 AM
i had this dream over 5 times now and it has the same feeling.. I'm a 28 years old single female i met this guy for 4 times we don't even know each other but we talk fun light conversation each time we see each other and i think i might be attracted to him

so the first time i had a dream that i was at the house i grew up at which was at anther country (my childhood home )and that he was sleeping at my bed all i felt that i was surprised that my parents knew him and kept telling me not to talk loud so i don't disturb him while he is sleeping at the same spot i used to sleep at the feeling at the dream was "surprise" i was asking what is he doing at my parents house, at my bed room them woke up and starts talking to my parents and i also was surprised how and when he know them that well ?

the second time that he was at the house i live in now doing some paper work and i got out of my room to find him setting at my dinning room he was happy talking to me we were kidding and having a funny conversation but i also had this surprised feeling what is he doing here and how did he appeared here the same felling i had at the first dream

the last one i had today that i was calling one of my female friends who knows him and that he answered her phone so once again i felt surprised why did he answered her phone and how did it end both of us talking laughing at the phone and while i was talking to him i started to feel this light earthquake it wasn't strong i saw the sealing lamp shaking and i told him do you feel the earthquake? it went for few seconds and we continued our conversation

the main feeling at the 3 dreams i am surprised of him appearing where i am and happy at the same time  the second felling that we talk funny and laugh at the  dreams the last one my parents knowing him  

please help me understand my self is it because i like him maybe i do wanna a good realship and i feel lonely these days or dose it mean that maybe there is a chance for me with him ..i need help
Title: Re: surprisingly a guy just met appears at my home
Post by: Tony Crisp on June 21, 2013, 08:18:27 AM
Lolla – You give me the impression of being a loving woman. At 28 you have a lot to give, and you have a powerful urge to find a man who will be good for you. That is a big part of what is behind your dreams. The other is that you have actually met someone who will talk and share pleasure with you. So that is a good and healthy start.

Obviously your loneliness plays a part in your dreams, but there is a chance for a continued friendship. The important partners I have met n my life have always been someone who asked me or just walked up and kissed me – me being a retiring sort of person. So I would suggest you get in a conversation with him and ask him if he is interested in having a coffee with you – or whatever you feel I appropriate. It might not work, but there is nothing lost by trying.

But I am uncertain whether you met him first in waking life or in dreams. Either way you should go up to him. But there is the chance that you are holding back your feelings and need to let them go. See http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/dream-lovers/


Tony