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Title: Had a dream and think it might have some important meaning. Please help.
Post by: Davshan on February 02, 2014, 03:18:37 AM
I had a very strange dream today. I remember being in a small house, and I think had an argument with someone. Can't remember that part clearly. Then, I went outside and ended up staying in the middle of a country side. There were beautiful green fields with short grass very nicely trimmed. There were electricity wires. The sky was very clear and blue with very small spots of clouds which were almost invisible. Then, someone (I believe that was the person I had argued with before. Couldn't see the person, just heard the voice. I think it was a male's voice) had told me that the birds are flying away and we need to catch them. I saw many very small, blue and green, very beautiful birds flying over the electric wires. The birds were chirping and flying kind of chaotically, but still toward one direction.  I enjoyed looking at them, but the voice was telling me I have to catch them, because they supposed to be in a cage. I started running after them, but as soon as I would reach one, it would just chirp and fly away. I remember feeling worried that I wouldn't be able to catch them, and they will fly away. At the end, it started getting darker and I wasn't able to catch them. I felt worried.
I woke up feeling worried and happy at the same time. It was a very strange feeling.
Please help me understand why had I seen this dream. I have a feeling it might have some important for me meaning.
Title: Re: Had a dream and think it might have some important meaning. Please help.
Post by: Tony Crisp on February 02, 2014, 09:51:08 AM
Davshan - The dream is about escaping, control and freedom.

The small house where an argument occurred represents a state of mind or life that didn't offer much opportunity. Then you were experiencing the natural you in the country side, a you without restrictions of thought or behaviour.

But the old programs crept in again - a program or habitual belief started probably by your father or a male - telling you that you should keep yourself under control - cage the birds.

The uncertainty this produced created a dark sky. Please the following - http://dreamhawk.com/dream-dictionary/control-controlled-controlling/ - http://dreamhawk.com/interesting-people/animal-children/#Program - http://www.ted.com/talks/jill_bolte_taylor_s_powerful_stroke_of_insight.html

So please see if you can define what is naturally you and what is asking you to control your urges - the birds.

Title: Re: Had a dream and think it might have some important meaning. Please help.
Post by: Davshan on February 02, 2014, 05:23:26 PM
I appreciate your reply a lot!
You are right about a habitual believe. It was created by a male figure in my life. I started figuring that out. Now, I have to figure out what is natural me. I know it might sound strange, but I feel kind of lost: I don't know what am I anymore, I choose jobs that someone else thinks would be a good job for me. I am not being physically forced to do anything, but end up doing almost everything what other want me to do. Well, I feel lost. I felt a lot more secured 10 years ago.
Lately, I started realizing more and more that I am leaving the life that someone else wants me to live. Now, I have to figure out what my natural I is. I've been trying to do it some time, but can't come up with any solutions so far.
I see you have a lot of books being offered on Amazon.com. Would you suggest any of them for my situation?
Thank you again for your response. I really appreciate it a lot!
Title: Re: Had a dream and think it might have some important meaning. Please help.
Post by: Tony Crisp on February 05, 2014, 10:53:13 AM
Davsan - That is a difficult one to answer. But first I think it is important to read http://dreamhawk.com/interesting-people/animal-children/#Program

But that is just a start to finding the natural you. It would then help if you read http://dreamhawk.com/inner-life/inner-world/ but everything I have said is just a part of the problem of actually getting to the core you. But we are all born with an incredible potential. We all have the power of infinite change, the power to move toward anything we wish. We can be a murderer, a saint or a sinner. There is nothing to stop us. Many people say, “Why does God allow evil to exist in the world?” The reason is that we would be like robots without the ability to choose a direction – even if the direction is unconsciousness.

To take you a bit further see - http://dreamhawk.com/inner-life/jesse-watkins-experience-of-enlightenment/ also http://dreamhawk.com/news/avoiding-being-my-own-victim/ and http://dreamhawk.com/body-and-mind/methods-of-awakening/ and http://dreamhawk.com/approaches-to-being/lifes-little-secrets/

And as you go on the journey realise that nothing that is said or written is an absolute truth - but all things are like food that can be eaten and only the things we can use to build our diamond body will be used - the rest will be passed out as crap. Also remember that there is never a right or wrong because we live as dual creatures, forever suspended between light and dark, male and female, form and formless and so on and on.

Title: Re: Had a dream and think it might have some important meaning. Please help.
Post by: Davshan on February 07, 2014, 12:09:37 PM
I just had another very strange dream. Woke up crying.
I was called to visit my aunt, who I haven't seen for a long time, but recently spoke of. I was told she has a cancer and can't fight it anymore. She had only a few days left. When I arrived, I was very sad and was ready to see her being very sick. She didn't look that sick, but had a huge bandage warped around her shoulder. You could see that there was some inflamation under the bandages and it was really bad. My aunt was smiling and looked happy. So she talked to me about this deases and her soon departure as a meter of fact. Then she left and I had realized that she was acting like that knowing that she only has a couple of days left. I thought to myself that she forced herself to smile despite the terrible pain that her friend said she had, just so I don't get upset....Sudenly, I am in my grand mother room. My grand mother is laying in her bed. I am standing next to her. She has a box with some kind of papers inside and starts showing it to me. She is telling me that this box has all of the papers and clothes necessary to bury her. She keeps on talking about that. I am trying to convince her that it is too early for her to talk about duying. She is saying no, it is not to early. My grand mother shows also that she took care of me by transferring her bank account to my name. I am thinking to myself that it is unbelievable that she took time to make it easy for me, she loves me. She is saying she is too old and it will happen soon, so she wants me to know where everything is so it will be easier for me to bury her.
I woke up crying and crying, and crying with a very uneasy feeling of something bad happening soon. Since both of the relatives are from my mother side, I started thinking that something bad might happen to my mother.

However, I had looked up some words in your dictionary. From what I understood, my life is going through some changes. I can see some connection of this to the little birds flying away in my other dream that I had seen recently. Am I really going through some major changes in my life?

Sorry, Tony, I haven't gotten a chance to look at the links you provided me with in your last reply. There might be answers to my question there. However, Powerful Stroke of Insight video left me speechless. It is unbelievable how much did Jill learn from her experience. What she was saying, had helped me to look at some aspects of my life differently.
Thank you for your help!
Title: Re: Had a dream and think it might have some important meaning. Please help.
Post by: Tony Crisp on February 09, 2014, 11:02:01 AM
Davshan - Thank you for taking time to follow the links. Yes, the Stroke of Insight video is wonderful to watch.

Your dream seems to be about being ready to meet the loss of an old and loved part of you - your grandmother. A grandmother is usually about all the wisdom and influence received from you family, and although your dream is saying this will go, the essence of it is passing in to you through transferring the bank account. It will not be evident immediately, but watch and wait. It is a great change and a wonderful gift.