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Dreams => Dream Interpretation => Topic started by: jakejwallace15 on September 30, 2010, 04:23:37 AM
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i had a dream that i had the most beautiful girl with long brown hair and beautiful blue eyes and she was my girlfriend and in reality I have never met her and I dont know who she is. Continuing, we were at the mall and we were about to kiss but right when we kiss I wake up and the dream is gone. Could this have aa meaning? Cause i REALLY want to see her again since we loved each other so much and is it possible that she could be real and be haveing same dream as me? I am 15.
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Jake – I doubt very much that you are having the same dream as this beautiful girl – the reason is that she is the feminine part of yourself. See http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/archetype-of-the-anima-the-female-in-the-male/
I know that doesn’t feel right, but having been through trying to find such a woman, it took me a long time to figure the truth. And the truth is, as far as truth is explainable in words, that we are all mixed sexes. So you have nipples, and women have a tiny penis hidden usually out of sight – the clitoris. Our dreams are forever trying to get us toward our wholeness.
Now in our dreams, if we get beyond seeing them as frightening, or as a reflection of physical life, we have no gender, and can be either sex, or something else. But because in our body we are only half of ourselves – only male or female – we constantly search for what is missing – our female or male self. This causing an awful lot of suffering because we go and fall in love with a woman who we feel in our soul mate. What we are looking for in such women is the female principle which we have lost.
But in our dreams we go in search of it and can actually find it and become whole again – though it is not easily gained. Remember the story of the Sleeping Beauty. The prince has to cut his way through brambles to get through. He sees that many others have died in the attempt. Then when he kisses the sleeping princess she wakes and they marry. In other words the dreamed of lover was woken from the unconscious and they become one. See https://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/what-is-the-unconscious/
Like you, I could never quite make her mine. In one dream I couldn’t get into the place we could marry. In another I didn’t have the right qualities. But I eventually managed it. Only then could I begin to love an actually woman. But since then I was led to meet her - see https://dreamhawk.com/dream-dictionary/tree-trees/#Spirit
So I wish you God’ speed in your quest for love. See a description of a small part of my own journey http://dreamhawk.com/relationship-sex/the-bliss-of-becoming-one/
Tony