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Dream Interpretation / Re: Rejected and Emaciated

« on: January 05, 2016, 07:26:19 PM »

Hmmmmmmm......

Well I guess its time for me to grow up, Tony!

Your golden statement is "the girl who is still with feelings and yet is not thrown by them.".  I think I am getting there..... fingers crossed.

May you live long!
Romanov

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Dream Interpretation / Rejected and Emaciated

« on: January 03, 2016, 04:13:31 PM »

Dear Tony,

Your advice needed please!

"Zee is sitting on a circular, three-legged, white stool beside a single bed.  Sitting on the single bed are two young girls.  One is darker than the other.  I walk into this room and go plonk myself on the bed between the two girls. The dark girl on the right hand side,closer to Zee, is informing him about her plans of the future.  Which if I remember correctly have something to do with leaving her job and getting settled down with him.  He answers back, that these are not his plans or that he is gay.  Now even in this dream  I am thinking that this girl has assumed too much.

Anyway, at this point I cringe at witnessing this, and I want to get up and leave the room.  As I am about to get up, the dark girl starts crying, having her heart broken by Zee's response.  Surprisingly, as I get up instead of leaving the room, I head towards the girl and embrace her.  As I take her into my arms, I feel her crying is deep, and she is emaciated. I am almost holding a skeleton. Her clothes are loose on her, and her trousers almost slip down, which I pull up.  At the same time, Zee (who is sitting behind me) pulls down the corner of my shirt which has risen up on my butts.  I realize that I don’t want others to see her crying so I take her to another room, and I still hold her in my embrace.  The other fairer, healthier girl was left behind sitting on the singe bed."

Zee is a dear male friend. He is gay. But over the years his body language had been very confusing. I thought he had been interested and for sometime had been without a guy.  Then one day, I got to know that he got back together with a guy who had earlier betrayed him.  I confessed my feelings to him, and I was scolded in return.  I feel deep hurt sometimes, but most of the days, I have taken it well.  I vacillate between whether I should remain friends with him or break all ties!  Am I not accepting the fact that I am deeply hurt?

Your interpretation would help me back on the right track!

Best regards
Romanov

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Dream Interpretation / Dead Cockroaches

« on: November 07, 2015, 11:04:02 AM »

Dear Tony,

I live in an old apartment building with old drain pipes. So from time to time, I get surprise visits from medium sized red cockroaches, who crawl up the drain. Eeeeeky I know! 

And the dream is:
" I walk into the lounge from a bedroom, and my sister screams, bringing my attention to a small round eyed insect, stuck rather comfortably between my fourth and pinky toe. As she yells, I flail my leg in the air and get rid of the insect.  And at that moment, I observe that there are many, many, dead cockroaches on their back, on the floor between my sister and me."

Awaiting your insight!

Romanov

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Dream Interpretation / Re: Dead Mouse

« on: October 26, 2015, 05:59:43 PM »

Phew Tony! For a second there I thought, this dream might be about Finances.

I have consistent digestive issues, so you might actually be spot on.  I tried to think like a hungry mouse, and stumbled on the idea of eating fruits.  But I am sorry, I cannot go as far as eating insects. 

Thanks a million!

Romanov

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Dream Interpretation / Dead Mouse

« on: October 24, 2015, 07:45:28 PM »

Hi Tony,

Hope all is great at your end!

As part of a long winded dream, most of which I don't remember, is this absurd scene.  I open a door to a dark room, and am shocked to see a grey, dead mouse.  The dead mouse seems to be standing up, being eaten by a whole lot of worms.  This dead mouse in sitting on top of a thin, square foam which is covered by a dark cover.

Could this be a health related dream? I would be grateful for any clues that might help?

Best regards
Romanov

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Dream Interpretation / Re: Boss, Field & Plastic Baskets

« on: October 04, 2015, 05:47:01 PM »

Thank you Tony!

It is interesting how a cheerful, happy dream can be followed within a few days by a nightmare.  Before I could absorb the full scale of your interpretation, I have had this nightmare,which includes a dead field (grave yard) and a cemented mandala in the middle of it (among other very depressing symbols).

On another note: Is it possible for the prophetic dreams to lose their meaning/importance/validity within a few days, depending on whatever is happening in reality (in parallel)?

Best regards
Romanov

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Dream Interpretation / Boss, Field & Plastic Baskets

« on: September 27, 2015, 07:59:17 PM »

Hi Tony,

Hope all is great at your end.

In this dream, there is a motorcycle and a colleague mimics my boss and makes fun of him.  There were other details that I have forgotten.  Then I am in a semi-circular room with many windows.  This room reminds me of the style of bungalows that were made in 1960's and 1970's here.  The room seems like a library, or a room full of books at least. The boss, his older brother and a third man with white hair are behind and around a table, right in front of an open window.  I ask them about a disease I have, apparently they read about the disease or its cure in a newspaper.  They are not giving me a straight answer.  All answers seem to be in jest.  The guy with the white hair said, its in Boston Globe.  I turn around and respond equally in jest, that I do LOVE all of you.  And love is somehow in capital letters.  At this moment it crosses my mind, that I hope the man in the middle (my boss) doesn't take it literally.  As I turn around I pick up two plastic baskets: one square and broken from a side and another smaller, circular one, sitting in the square one (a circle within a square).  And I have my actual brown bag with black handles dangling from my right shoulder.

As I leave taking the baskets and the bags with me, the thought crossing one of the brothers is "thank goodness she is taking her baskets with her" and the other one (my boss) thinks,"she is taking her baskets as well!?"   With my things in my hand, I go down a spiral staircase.  The steps are made of pure grey cement, no marble or mosaics. 

The weather outside is very sunny, clear blue skies. There is a feeling that the external staircase leads to a dirt lane in a grown green field probably wheat.  The feeling and the colours of this dream were refreshing.

Your thoughts please.

Best regards
Romanov

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Dream Interpretation / Re: Thorn, Bougainvillea and a Soldier

« on: August 19, 2015, 08:14:24 PM »

Dear Christine,

No I don't mind you intepreting at all.  The more the merrier!   

That can change now.  Acting with wisdom is actually simpler than we make it out to be.   

Thank you for giving hope.  And I completely agree that wisdom is simpler than we make it out to be!

Romanov

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Dream Interpretation / Re: Thorn, Bougainvillea and a Soldier

« on: August 19, 2015, 08:08:35 PM »

Dear Tony,

You are spot on about;

"was probably something you both carried maybe from the way you were reared, and so was restimulated by your sister."

My mother was a schizophrenic, anti-social, anti-human, compassion-less being, who thought everything was negative with the world.  I sometimes feel, my sister has been unable to shed those learnings, and views the world in the same way.

And yes, I have experimented with a "different sort of a holiday" when the darkness was worse, and it more or less had healed me, till now. I don't want to go back to that black hole again.

Thanks for the references.  I will be reading them all.

Best regards
Romanov

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Dream Interpretation / Re: Tony & Anna are taking a short break but will start again on the 25th of August

« on: August 19, 2015, 07:56:21 PM »

Dear Both,

Have a great break!

Best regards
Romanov

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Dream Interpretation / Re: Thorn, Bougainvillea and a Soldier

« on: August 15, 2015, 05:32:35 PM »

I am very much in the dark room, these days Tony. 
Its interesting how vacations are supposed to lift your spirit, specially if you have enjoyed them, but I came back completely listless.  I was happier when I went. I wonder if unconsciously, I absorbed my sister's negativity? 

Its difficult to see a way out of darkness.  I know action is the remedy, but the problem is depression takes away any energy to act, to act with wisdom.

I do appreciate your help though. Thanks.

Love
Romanov

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Dream Interpretation / Thorn, Bougainvillea and a Soldier

« on: August 09, 2015, 10:35:18 AM »

Hi Tony,

Writing after ages.  Hope all's great with you.

This dream has considerably confused me.

"I am walking up, a slightly inclined dirt road beside a mountain.  Its barren.  And its a pitch dark night.  At some distance my sister is following me.  After walking further up, I am faced with a thorn bush.  Actually it seems its a bougainvillea bush, with pink & white flowers, surrounded by many thorns in a circular fashion.  This thorn bush is obstructing my way. And I am not sure what to do. On my way to this point, I have seen  (Rangers)/Soldiers in a white van eating, drinking etc.  As I stand confused in front of the thorn bush, one of the soldiers comes over.  He is fit and well built.  For a split second, I fear that he is going to arrest me.  But silently, and with one single, strong jerk, he takes the thorn bush out of the ground, and throws it away. 

After its removed, I see two pathways. There is a dirt road that goes up further in the mountain, and the other one that is focused are "cobbled/stone" steps going down."

Please help. Thank you.
Romanov

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Dream Interpretation / Re: Double and Single beds

« on: October 17, 2014, 08:12:34 PM »

Thank you Tony, it always helps!

Cheers
Romanov

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Dream Interpretation / Double and Single beds

« on: October 14, 2014, 07:20:02 PM »

Hi Tony,

I know this is work related dream, and the last part is what intrigues me most.

Its a pitch black night.  I wonder if its 07:00 p.m. and time to leave? On an open rooftop I walk towards my boss.  He makes some facial expression and I realize that I need to go after an employee who has gone upstairs and is looking at different pipes on the wall.  After I go up the stairs and talk to the staff, I come down to the roof top again.  And I tell my boss that employees will make more work for themselves!! He nods, agrees and repeats the same statement.

He then leads me to two adjacent rooms on side of the rooftop.  Through the window in the room, I see two neatly made, white, double -beds, standing side-by-side.  And in a smaller connected room there is a single bed, again white and neatly made.  There is a water cooler standing on a side too.

Then there is a red Toyota car, that moves out of its parking position and leaves.  Apparently the girl driving the car is my ex-Thai friend.  I look through the window of the rooms again, and exclaim, that "she has also taken her single bed with her!!" So the smaller room is now empty and the focus is on the neatly made double beds.

For reference , my Thai friend used to sit very late in the office. She had very little personal life left.  In my new job, I have been keeping late hours too. My boss has a brother, who is "almost" another boss for me!  So I am wondering if these two double beds refer to both of them in anyway?

And why the night? Most of my dreams always show the dark sky/night?

Love
Romanov

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Dream Interpretation / Re: Chin, Boss and Plant

« on: July 20, 2014, 07:27:25 PM »

You have provided interesting insights Tony!

Well currently I am working for a local company, its not even an MNC!  While in my recent past, I was associated with an INGO, and I was working outside of my country of birth for many years....  So having returned back home and working for a local agency, I have been feeling a bit trapped, and too localized...

I guess I need to value, what I have.  Thanks a million!

Romanov