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Dream Interpretation / Can't Find Make Up or Clothes to Wear

« on: December 25, 2017, 12:10:30 PM »

Natasha

I have the same dream situation every night. I am somewhere I have just moved or am visiting and I haven't brought clothing that fits the situation I am going to be in. I am always looking for clothing(or makeup) that I had intended to bring/wear, and cant find it. I have to wear what I can find or try to buy/borrow something to prepare for the situation. The dream is me trying to find what I need for the situation.

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Dream Interpretation / Dead Husband in love with my Best Friend

« on: December 25, 2017, 11:48:55 AM »

Shelia

Why do I keep having Reoccurring dreams that my late husband was in love with my best friend

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Dream Interpretation / Destructive Coma - From Comments

« on: December 17, 2017, 11:29:48 AM »

Squeak

I am just wondering a couple of things so if any can shed any light on them then that would be great. I recently went into a coma for 31 days. I don’t remember anything of the night I went into it or the whole couple of weeks before it. I have remembered some after some time of coming out of it but not all. Luckily I always kept journals growing up and after reading them I kinda remembered some but just bits and pieces. Sometimes when a person starts telling me about a certain event or day etc. I will get a complete flash back and recall it all. Sometimes it happens so quick it’s hard to even make out what it was. This happens when I see certain things or hear about certain events that cause them. They aren’t sure why or how I fell into the coma. And I wasn’t not suppose to even come out of it.

For about a week they kept telling my family that I wouldn’t make it through the night but somehow I always did. After I stopped breathing on my own and showed no signs of brain activity plus being hooked up to everything you can be hooked up to plus I did flatline a couple of times but somehow I kept coming back. When I awoke I didn’t know anything other then that I was in a hospital room. I didn’t know who or what the hell I was and of course I freaked out. It wasn’t till my mother came running into the room that I actually calmed down and was able to relax cause I somehow knew who she was. Not her name or anything like that just felt the comfort and I knew I was ok cause she was there. Later I found out finally that I was in a coma for 31 days and the reason why I head two big tubes coming out of my head is because they had to drill two holes to relieve the pressure.

They said that the whole leftbside of my brain looks as if I had a massive stroke. I am 30 I think. I really can’t remember my date of birth. But other then that they had nothing to tell me that explained anything. Now I was in a very good hospital but it was in the middle of Oklahoma and we don’t have many neurologist or even doctors for it on the matter. I had no dreams. I didn’t hear anything or see anything at all. I briefly remember being at a friends house then that’s it. Blank till I awoke in the hospital. Even now I have it very hard to remember things at times and terrible headaches that make it even hard to sleep.

I was engaged to a girl and we have been for awhile but I couldn’t remember who she even was. And upon trying to learn and know who she was well I guess you can say was to much for her to handle so she went off one day on me and I can barely remember that. So after we separated I lost my chance on learning the most about everything like who I was and who she was or just anything from our past and have had to try to figure things out on my own. She wasn’t anything that I thought that I would even think about marriage with and always felt as if I just didn’t even know who this person was.

I have now been diagnosed with a form of epilepsy and if certain random quick loud sounding or lights and specially flashing lights go off around me or by me it shocks my whole body. Especially my head and eyes. They will hurt real bad. And now if my heart rate gets to high by me getting worked up in anyway I will have a seizure. I get lost in stores cause I will just go blank and not know who I am or where the hell im at. So driving is a bit of a no.

But I guess my questions are did anyone else have such a memory loss and gaps of their life they can’t think of and does it mean anything that I didn’t dream or see and hear anything while I was in the coma? And my last one is how do you know for sure your not just still in one? The reason why I ask is because I sometimes feel as if I am just in a dream and this is all just not real. I’m no psychic but I have had things pop into my head via it be just a random thought or a daydream where I have seen something happen and then later it does happen just as I seen or heard it. I don’t believe in fortune telling or anything like that but if I can’t recall anything then I can’t say it deja vu so is that a thing that’s occurs or am I actually awake and aware but just not able to somehow believe or feel like I am. Not to mention that everything that has or was going on before I went into a coma was good or becoming better and even being the time when I was happy and fully happy and after the coma it’s just been one long decline and bad things happening over and over again.

So my real question is that does this mean anything or anyone or if can be explained in anyway that would be beneficial to me then please let me know. Cause I never once had a dream or vision of any kind nor sound. And all I come across is things about people having them and etc. So if anyone can shed a light on any of that then I’d thank you for doing so. And if I am somehow in a damn coma then does anyone know how to wake yourself up? Lol sounds crazy but it’s all very true and just wondering if anyone can answer. Thank ya.

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Dream Interpretation / Is she seeing death everywhere - From Comments

« on: December 14, 2017, 10:40:42 AM »

Ashley Castaneda

My dream started at my grandmother’s house, she’s been dead for a while but in this dream she is alive. It was dark windy and cold outside and there was something unsettling lurking about to where I couldn’t fall asleep. I step outside with an oil lamp fighting the wind and see a little girl in a white dress angry facing the skies, her eyes were blood red. I had to yell over the blows for her to hear me and asked what she was doing out here? She faced me and looked towards the top of the house, then every other direction with fear in her face. I then asked is she seeing death everywhere.

She nods yes, she’s only around 5. I take her hand and night turns to day and the winds are gone. Her eyes are still red only now she is calm. I look behind me to see the house and what she was seeing. I saw many men hung from trees and atop a barn and the house. Not just by rope but by stakes or branches through the bodies. She was scared so I knew I had to get her someplace safe. We step to cross a road in the old town, to my left were 2 bulls and rams made of solid metal pounding their hooves and clanking their horns as dust kicks up around them. I knew they were going to see us but it was the only way, to cross the road. We took more steps and the ground begins to rumble, they begin to charge and I realize I’m dreaming. I told my dream self that it was okay, you can cross the street and you won’t die if they hit you because it’s not real. Let’s see if we can cross the road to save her. We have to try. I felt us walk with our eyes closed and the bulls along with other horned animals brushed against us as they charged towards other people and this gas station on the side. We weren’t hit. We made it across and stood on some green grass with a small old clay/stone church behind us. Safe.

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Dream Interpretation / Then I drowned - From Comments

« on: December 13, 2017, 01:55:31 PM »

Emily

I recently had this dream and I really cant shake it off. I’ve been thinking about what it means and what to do with that meaning.

In this dream my family, boyfriend and I were having dinner. We all knew a dustater was coming, but we didn’t know what yet. Moments later there was a knock on the door. It was an officer telling us to evacuate as soon as possible because a flood was coming. we all rushed out of the house and started walking to the end of the block. it wasn’t till we reached the end that I realized i had forgotten my phone and it was necessary for me to have it because i needed to tell my friend the flood was near and she needed to leave immediately. my boyfriend voluntary said he’s get it because he was a fast runner. As we were waiting we saw the flood come our way. My boyfriend hadn’t returned and i was extremely worried because i knew i was going to die. mainly because i couldn’t swim. i knew my time was up, and all i wanted was to die with him, but he was nowhere near. the flood took me and my family wasn’t near me anymore either. i was alone and then my location changed and i was in a big solid box filled with water. I was unable to survive because there were no air hole or even a little are above with air. it was completely filled with water,but i wasn’t alone. I was with 3 other spread out people. And that’s when i saw my boyfriend again. I tried to reach out to him and call him but i couldn’t because he was too far for me to reach. I wasn’t sure if he saw me or chose to ignore me but he swam past me and i had drowned.

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Dream Interpretation / I could possibly have a nightmare - From Comments

« on: December 08, 2017, 11:38:10 AM »

Anonymous


I had a dream during an afternoon nap that I was on a green field, someone walked past who offended me and my life, so I defended it by telling them about my personal achievements that make me great. Then I lay down on this green lawn and suddenly realised that I am dreaming and I am inside my mind then I thought very quickly of what to think of because I realised I could possibly have a nightmare within it, so I thought of being in water. I closed my eyes and I was inside water, thinking of nothing, but just listening to the sound of water which was slightly uncomfortable, but very refreshing and relaxing because the tiiiiiny discomfort kept me focused and controlling my mind. Then someone knocked on my door and I had to wake up, so I did.

What could that experience mean for me?

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Dream Interpretation / Shouldn’t I change my job? Should I ignore it? - Imported from Comments

« on: December 08, 2017, 09:31:34 AM »

Victoria

Hi, could you help to interpret my dream?

I was walking in the evening in some port with some people and my boyfriend and all looked beautiful.
I saw a beautiful boat/restaurant anchored.

Then the water became very wavy, the boat started moving more and more and finally within minutes it sank with all people aboard. Then after another moment while observing it we saw some people that sank being brought up by the huge after wave and they were crashed into the port walls.

Currently I have a stable job and am doing some interviews to change. I also starting my side business besides my main job. Should I stop it? Shouldn’t I change my job? Should I ignore it?

Thanks!

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Dream Interpretation / Swimming in a figure 8 against a star lit sky

« on: December 07, 2017, 08:57:20 AM »

Justin

Hello, I had just woken up from this dream but I can get my mind off it.

It started as me living in a house by myself with boxes everywhere then it skipped ahead to me moving back in with my mother (I was around 16/17 in the dream) as we were loading up the car everyone kept seeing a black figure yet I saw an otter. Most of the time it would be a glimpse then it was gone. I went to get the last of my stuff and a blanket I had left. I grabbed the unfolded blanket and got really claustrophobic and started twisting around trying to get outside but my brother kept asking what was wrong.

Them I felt someone choking me. I ran outside to breath. It skipped again to me and my family sitting around talking about the figure/otter and we didn’t know what to call it so we called it a God. I closed my eyes in the dream and saw the otter again. But this time it was swimming in a figure 8 against a star lit sky and the color of the otter was kind of astral like the picture on the top of this page. It then skipped forward again to me in the bath tub with the hot and cold water running. I kept asking myself “are you a God” “you can’t be a God” then I noticed I ran out of hot water so I said “if you’re a God, turn this water hot”

After noticing no change I went to turn the water off but the cold water knob was missing while the hot water one was still there. Then I woke up. I can’t seem to get the dream out of my head.

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Dream Interpretation / Where is my Dead Friend? - Imported from Comments

« on: November 28, 2017, 11:29:59 AM »

I just recently suffered a loss of a cousin I had cut ties with due to drug use. I loved him dearly, but once I started a family I had to move forward without him and now I have dreams where I hear him telling me to wake up, or calling to me. I see his body rotting in my dreams, also. Sometimes I’m trapped in a coffin with him and he’s missing his eyes and mouth. I have so much regret for moving on without him. We tried to get him help several times, but it was relapse after relapse which eventually claimed him. I’m not really sure how to deal with all of this, or even understand my dreams. We were so close for a long period. Any advice is welcome at this point.

Jane

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Dream Interpretation / A Tree with a Human Face and Body

« on: November 23, 2017, 10:53:25 AM »

Joseph

I had a dream of trees with human face and half body of human figure and we’re roots to the upper body to the ground, I requested Love, happiness and Good life…it requested only a cold drink which can be referred to water. What does that mean?

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Dream Interpretation / Dreams Are A Huge Living Mirror

« on: November 22, 2017, 10:25:45 AM »

Anonymous

In essence, your dream led you to fall into another reality or dimension of experience, one that was actively drawing you into it. In dreams, going under the water depicts your awareness going deeper into your own mind or awareness. In a real way, you were aware of parts of you were not used to existing in. See http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/what-is-the-unconscious/ and http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/dimensions-of-human-experience/

Many people as their awareness reaches beyond what they feel is their normal self feel scared. Such resistances cause us to create awful dreams and fears as a means of avoiding our own inner world and its wonders. So you felt that you would drown, die if you stayed in the experience. But when you ‘gave up’ you returned to the waking world having gained a necessary lesson – that in fact in the dream world you do not need to breath for you have no physical body, just a dream image of a body. So you took the inner world of dreams to have the same rules as in the physical world so you had a chest pain through holding your breath.

But when we dream its images are not like real life, because a dream is nothing like outer life where things could hurt you, but is an image like on a cinema screen that even if a gun is pointed at you and fired it can do no damage – except if you run in fear. So all the things that scare you are simply your own fears projected onto the screen of your sleeping mind.

Because dreams are a huge and living mirror. So please learn the lesson, that all your beliefs, fears, ideas and even genius, are all mirrored in your dreams and turned into living people and events as dream images. As such you have no need to fear them. See http://dreamhawk.com/dream-dictionary/masters-of-nightmares/

Example: Facing my adversary and becoming lucid in the dream, I allowed the adversary to kill me with a sword, knowing all the while that absolutely no harm could come from this experience. Fully lucid and looking at my dream attacker I said: "You can plunge the sword through me if you wish," whereupon my adversary did just that. Then I drew the sword out of my dream body and very lovingly and wisely gave it back to the adversary and said: "Thank you." 

It can help to read http://dreamhawk.com/news/summing-up/

Tony

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Dream Interpretation / Husband Wearing Pantyhose

« on: November 20, 2017, 12:31:38 PM »

Sarah

Hello, I wondered if you might help with a dream I can’t stop thinking about? I walk into a room (like a dressing room) in an official building where my husband was standing in a pair of tights enjoying the feeling and sensation of wearing them on his skin. We both looked at one another in slight shock/startled, him at being seen/caught and me at interrupting/catching him. He went to take them off but I said it’s fine just keep them on and that he had better get dressed.

I felt guilty for making him feel uncomfortable and there was a sense that time was an issue, he needed to get dressed and be somewhere important. He put his trousers over the tights. The trousers were part of a uniform, like a army/military formal dress uniform.

I have no ties with the army/military – but in the dream there was a sense of responsibility and urgency to the uniform and to the meeting. I’m not sure if the tights were mine or not in the dream – it was more about the feeling, sensation of the tights on the skin and the pleasure my husband was experiencing wearing them (not in an overly sexual way, more sensual). I felt unnerved, hurt maybe that my husband was exploring/experiencing this sensation. The tights/pantyhose where a natural skin tone and feminine. I understand my husband is me in the dream but not sure I can make sense of being caught and covering up the tights in the military uniform all means. Any thoughts to untangle further would be very helpful.

Many thanks.

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Dream Interpretation / 6 feet under alone, in the dark, cold, screaming - Imported from Comments

« on: November 17, 2017, 10:33:26 AM »

Hi Tony,

I'm Tera, I had a dream I was buried alive 6 feet under alone, in the dark, cold, screaming to get out, heart racing, crying! This dream happened last night and I woke up at 4:44 a.m. freaked out! I couldn’t go back to sleep, and was thinking about how to live longer, quitting smoking, exercise etc. It’s like a weight I’m carrying heavy with me today. What does it mean and what can I do? Please God don’t let this be a reoccurring dream! I’m overwhelmed!

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Dream Interpretation / Meeting Dark Figures - Imported from Comments

« on: November 14, 2017, 11:43:41 AM »

Josh
   
Just a quick question, found this site looking for answers to a dream that I had last night. But before I get to the dream I should say that I have been seeing a dark figure in my everyday life wether it be at work or at home I’ve seen it probably 20-30 times over a 4 year period. I was out to dinner last night with some friends and we all started sharing things we have seen or that have happened to us in are life’s we can’t explain and I told everyone that I had been seeing a dark figure and that was the end of the conversation. Now to the dream.

I went to bed around 12pm, and in my dream I was standing in a void with the same shadow figure behind me lightly shoving me and I didn’t wanna show fear so I stayed and didn’t move. After that the figure started yelling at me to leave saying “YOU CANT BE HERE… YOU NEED TO LEAVE” and I got a extremely hard shove to the back, and I woke up to my head hitting the floor at the opposite end on my bed. When I went back to bed I didn’t dream at all. All of this happened in a 4 hour span.

Any answers would be greatly appreciated I’m just not sure what any of it means.

Thanks.

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Dream Interpretation / Fighting The Other You - Imported from Comments

« on: November 09, 2017, 10:01:12 AM »

Tara

Many thanks Tony.
I appreciate how you have presented the duality between A and B, the good and evil. I wasn't getting the duality aspect of it. I hated that there was a 'B' around because all I was yearning for is to be 'A'.

But now the new possibility arises that the two can co-exist and I don't have to resent 'B' so much. (wow I can't believe I used the words hated and resent.I had no idea I felt so strongly).

My whole life I have been seeking 'A' to get away from ' B' . Am I seeking the impossible?
Will ' B' always exist in waking life while 'A' remains Unconscious ?