Latevia – It seems the theme of your dream was that of clearing out a lot of rubbish left from your previous employment. Such rubbish can be thoughts about work, old opinions or hopes that did not come about, or even your own used up emotions that are left hanging about.
Because such ‘rubbish’ in dreams is an expression of your own energy, it should be used in some way – perhaps by burning it which releases it from its old form.
Your current guy friend is your experience gathered from that relationship, something in you that can do what you wish. So it would be a good idea to imagine gathering all the rubbish and burning it, and this might release you to find a new job.
Tony