Lolla – You give me the impression of being a loving woman. At 28 you have a lot to give, and you have a powerful urge to find a man who will be good for you. That is a big part of what is behind your dreams. The other is that you have actually met someone who will talk and share pleasure with you. So that is a good and healthy start.
Obviously your loneliness plays a part in your dreams, but there is a chance for a continued friendship. The important partners I have met n my life have always been someone who asked me or just walked up and kissed me – me being a retiring sort of person. So I would suggest you get in a conversation with him and ask him if he is interested in having a coffee with you – or whatever you feel I appropriate. It might not work, but there is nothing lost by trying.
Tony