Sunway – I had a dream years ago in which I could not get into the place the wedding took place. The reason was there were things I needed to learn and change personally. Later dreams showed me slowly getting to being married.
Your dream is more about your spiritual marriage, and you were not included for the same reason as in my dream. The second dream is a continuation of the first and you have not put your name as a bridegroom. Each one is about you, so I wonder why you have not put yourself forward.
I suggest that you ask your inner self what it is you need to learn or do to become married in your dreams, then carefully watch your dreams.
Also the dreams are not directly about marriage in waking life, but about finding a real connection with you female self. Of course, when you manage that wedding you are much more likely to find a wife in the world.
Tony