EllenNoName – This is obviously about the death of your father, a very deeply felt loss, but not that he is going to die tomorrow, the next day or any time soon. I believe that you can see the signs of ageing in him, and this has set you thinking about him dying, even unconsciously; that is where the dream started, and it is like a rehearsal for you. We do this when we haven’t come to terms with death or thought about it seriously. It is also the first step toward being an independent adult.
So think about what death means to you; the death of your father and your mother. Even if it causes you to cry. Think about it till you can talk easily about it – it is not a taboo subject. Read the book Closer to the Light by Dr. Morse. It will give you a realistic view of it.
If you do not meet Death like this it will be a terrible shock when it happens – and it is going to.
And tell your parents how you love them and how much they mean to you – tell them now.
Tony
