Chris – I am assuming you are right handed – it makes a difference to what the dream says. It appears that you have been badly hurt or injured in the past, but you are now healed. But of course such injuries always leave scars. However, the difficulties you met have given you greater inner confidence and a man’s strength inside you.
You are still slightly in the dark about the changes going on with you at the moment. The man is your way of learning a different way of dealing with men and the man you hold inside you. You do not see his face as his personality isn’t so important, what is important in any meeting is to see basically what faces you. When seeing a person, it is good, as you did, to see how he presents himself – he is showing you he is a male – also to ‘see’ the whole person – feet, legs, genitals and chest. Most often we may fail to see what is hidden under the outer camouflage we usually wear.
You saw, you were ready to be close and held, you were confident.
Tony