Omega – I had a hard time getting into this dream, but feel its major theme is decision making and the result of those decisions. It is also about your drive, your ability to get where you want to go in life – the car.
You start off with the feeling of wanting to avoid what you are facing at the time of the dream. But you ‘go outside’ of the feeling and you are influenced by two major things – the woman and your dad.
Your father’s car is an interesting one because it represents, as far as I can understand it, your father’s drive/ambitions and its influence on you. We often unconsciously take on a lot of our parent’s attitudes. See
http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/the-conjuring-trick The woman gave you a good feeling, was that what caused the car to crash because it was a real change in regard to your previous direction?
The wrecked car need not be a bad sign, but may indicate that your relationship with females has wrecked your involvement with ambition – or else is a way of indicating differences of opinion. Maybe try being the wrecked car and noting your feelings and reactions.
I wonder what you feel about the owner of the chained pen, because it suggests that ‘out of the window’ can mean something you had or felt is now obsolete, superseded, or irrelevant. But you reversed your decision and wanted to be chained to whatever or who the pen links with.
Tony