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Tony Crisp

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Dead Husband-Imported
« on: July 19, 2018, 09:37:03 AM »
Hello Tony,
 
My husband died 5 month ago in a tragic motorcycle accident. He called me and left me a message before passing, which I got hours later, and I think over and over again how I could have been able to help him if I would have picked up that phone call. I’ve had a few dreams with him where he comes back, like as if his passing was a mistake, but he is not happy, he seems upset to be back, like he is anxious, impatient to go, he’s looking around. Also, when he just passed I dreamt with him diving, which he loved, and brought from the bottom of the ocean a stone that had engraved “Jesus loves me”.
Thanks for your time.

Ursula
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Re: Dead Husband-Imported
« Reply #1 on: July 19, 2018, 09:40:24 AM »
Hi Ursula – I feel you ought to take hold of that wonderful stone your husband brought from the bottom of the sea and while you hold it in your imagination share your love with him.

There is often an anxious or difficult time soon after death for those who died, but it quickly passes. I think it is harder for young people to die than the old. This is because the dead have lost their body, with all its physical appetites and desires, so they have a great adjustment to make. With age many of the things we so longed for in youth drop away – if we are lucky.

Also I feel that your dreams of him being anxious are most likely created by your feelings that you could have prevented his accident. But such feelings are simply your own and playing them over and over is the way we torment ourselves – it can also upset the dead, for they are very much a part of you. Apparently they are so muc momre aware, that is a way they are also tuned into the lives of those they love.

This is part of a woman’s description of her experience of meeting life after death:

Relief from the piercing light is achieved 
where windows open on to darkest space. 
Her anxiety easing, she approaches the central display: 
an exceptional, universal camera obscura. 
Far from static it reveals the whole world and 
with just one thought from the viewer's mind, 
a place and a loved one instantly appear 
presented real time for one to observe. 
Standing mystified, a presence then joins her and 
informs her with seemingly no external voice at all: 
"This is the place where people come after death's fall." 
 
With instant recognition of her self-mortification, 
she spontaneously utters: "Oh, so I'm dead!" 
The presence inwardly sighs: "No, 
you've misunderstood my intention: 
I've brought you here to show that each of the dead 
choose someone to guide and watch over on earth. 
And that you have a someone still loving you. 
Your self-destruction is unnecessary; 
you just need to give life a reasonable chance. 
Please think on this experience and what I have said; 
your duty is still to life, it's not yet to death." 
 
 Wide awake and bed room returned, 
she shakes her young head in disbelief. 
If it were but a dream, would she not be drowsy? 
But she feels as alert, as she was in the lighthouse. 
Bemused yet compos mentis she arises and 
finally she prepares to venture to sleep. 
Under the covers consciousness leaves her and 
she won't be roused again this mystical night. 
But in the morning she hears her door thumping; 
her housemate yelling that a guest's arrived: 
a priest is there to see her - a holy surprise! 
 
This transcendent encounter should 
encourage all of us to be self-kind, 
and is a testament to the protective 
powers of our all inspiring mind.

Tony