Hi Tony.
Thank you so much for replying to my question of why do I dream about my grandparents dying over and over.
Yes, I was extremely close to them both. Growing up I remember looking forward to the school holidays when I would spend a week with them (and my younger sister). I remember walking everywhere with my Pop and he would stop and chat to his friends and comment "these are my granddaughters". I remember my younger sister hated that Pop would talk to everyone, to try to introduce us to everyone, but I loved that Pop was proud to show us off (so to speak).
I truly do miss them (even more than my nanna (mum's mum) who we spent more time with - Nan would stay at our home for the whole of Dec and 1/2 of January) very much.
I do have my grandmother's wedding ring which although doesnt fit me (and I will not get it re-sized) I do take it out of its box, hold it, and tell Grandma how much I miss her. I dont have anything else of Grandma & Pop apart from a photo on my fridge of Grandma & Pop that was taken one Christmas, which I look at all the time (telling them that I love them so much).
Yes, I do agree that the connection between my husband and I was different and yes I do agree with you that he came back (in a dream) to make sure that I was coping ok without him.
Yes, I do really miss the closeness that I had with my grandma & pop. I always wanted to live with them (after my parents split up) but obviously, I couldnt.
Thank you very much for the link, I will read up on it
Thank you for the opportunity to speak to you about my dream
Take care and have a great day
Melinda (aka Kenblade12)