Omega - In fact you are everything you dream about. It is only when we identify yourself as your body that we lose the feeling of being everything - for you have the memory of being the new born baby, of being the child, the teenager and everything in between. Also how could you create the living speaking images you dreamt about? See
http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/the-magical-dream-machine/You start the dream with packing the last few things before moving - in the dark. This suggests - because dreams deal with your inner life - that you are only slightly aware of the big changes you are about to make within yourself. See
http://dreamhawk.com/inner-life/inner-world/#MakesInner Very often these big inner changes occur because you have started trying to understand your dreams. Our inner world - our core self - is very responsive and so will try to give as much as possible for you to understand.
You go on to say, "friends are hungover and happy after a party." What I am about to say is largely my personal response, but might have relevance to what follows in your dream. I repeat something written in response to another dream: In life and sleep we have two powerful actions working in us. The first is our waking experience based on having a body, its limitations, vulnerabilities and a particular gender. Our second is the power that gave us life and continues to express as dreams, in our breathing and heartbeat – our life. This I have given the description as the Life Will.
While we sleep our conscious self, your personality is largely or totally unconscious, and while we sleep our voluntary muscles are paralysed – therefore another will or motivating force moves our body. So we have a Conscious Will, and what I will call a Life Will. The first one we have experience of as we can move our arm or speak in everyday activities; but the second will takes over when we sleep, but is evidently at work keeping us breathing, our heart beating and also digesting our food.
What we fail to realise usually because we feel we are all there is, is that our Life Will - our life - has its own agenda, and if we go against it we will fail. So you have a dream like yours. It isn't that the Life Will wants to control you, but being raised in a culture that is largely about getting more money, getting what we want, and believing what might be totally at odds with our best interest, we experience a conflict while we sleep.
Your core self/life will try to care for you. Alcohol is a known poison, and if we take too much of it quickly it will kill us. To quote from National Health Service, Alcohol poisoning occurs when a person drinks a toxic amount of alcohol, usually over a short period of time. This poisoning is exposure to a substance that can damage your health and put your life in danger. "Some people laugh at the behaviour of others who are drunk. Some think it's even funnier when they pass out. But there is nothing funny about the aspiration of vomit leading to asphyxiation or the poisoning of the respiratory center in the brain, both of which can result in death."
So being hungover and happy seems contradictory, because hangovers are caused by doses of a poison that certainly damages your health, but is not yet enough to kill you.
Okay - maybe that was why, considering every character is an aspect of you, that - Someone comes and keys the side of the van, possibly scraping 'fuck you' into the side. I feel this is the energy of everyone who wants me to be unhappy. See
http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/autonomous-complex/ and -
http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/characters-or-people-in-dreams/An obvious conflict.
I am not sure about the hand holding episode except you were trying to deal with it well. Maybe you could explore it to get more information. But the end part is a return to the things mentioned above about the core self wanting to care for you. It seems that habits started when you were young are showing that you need to take care of things.
The black girl is about your inner natural instincts that have been made ill. Maybe trying
http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/secrets-power-dreaming/ will help.
Tony