Chris – You are both ready to be yourself without any pretence – but also anxious about how others would react to seeing you like this – naked.
Fear is a very powerful filter to what we allow of ourselves. And in the dream the ‘other people’ are parts of you too and so there is a two way action taking place in you – the power to be naked in front of others and the fear of what this would do to you.
The filter is controlled by what you fear, what you allow yourself to feel or experience, whether you instinctively pull away from pain, and what you believe or disbelieve. It usually is tuned quite without your awareness unless you start carefully observing what you repress, what you edit out of what plays in your consciousness. In that way you can work with the process instead of being its victim. It is therefore worthwhile to read
http://dreamhawk.com/approaches-to-being/questions-2/#Summing The being of light I have recently started to call ‘becoming aware of your future potential’ rather than a spirit guide. Obviously the light being already is influencing you and will continue to do so now you have experienced him. In experiencing the changes made through his influence you will be expressing, and so experiencing, your future. It is very much worthwhile to really get to know this part of your experience by exploring your dream. See also
http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/archetype-of-the-animus-jungs-view-of-the-male-in-the-female/ There is a strong sexual element in your dream – but as it becomes one pointed – “and start sexually stimulating me” you felt some disconnection between your body – being sexually stimulated – and your mind.
Your mind and your sexual self are simply different levels or dimensions of your total being. We often have a conflict with our will – conscious decisions – and the enormous instinctive power of sexual feelings. I quote from the Ox Herding Pictures – “This is where the person becomes really aware of what he is dealing with, the enormous power of the instincts and how they rule one’s life. A new realisation, and one not easily understood, for the person is still under the influence of the inner animal. It has lived its life from its own instincts without any thought, and is a creature of habits. Facing these and the tricks they play on the mind asks a lot."
But of course we are a being of multi levels or dimensions, and aim is to slowly come to terms with all the levels:
Example: “Then it moved to the top of my head where it felt like a hole was and light was pouring in. I felt that the light was the influence of the universal consciousness entering me. This led to realisations as it touched me. The first was that at the brow or in the middle of my brain was another smaller light. This light was the universal reproducing itself in me. It was the same light except it was an expression of me knowing and expressing the universal as me. Then it went to my throat and I was led to realise that the ‘universal me’ could express itself in speech and song there; self-expression. Then the area of my heart was shown as an expression of empathy; my abdomen was about integrating and my sexual organs were the place where the universal could reproduce itself.
Of course the light can enter you through your genitals as well as the head.
In doing so we find a balance that does not repress any area but does not become overwhelmed by it either. See
http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/integration-meeting-oneself/Tony