Apologising-Apology
Remember that apologising is different to saying sorry.
Dreaming of apologising: This suggests a feeling of inadequacy in some department of life; feelings of having acted against, or thinking of acting against your own strongest drives; a sense of not having lived your best; a sense that you are not living up to other people’s expectations, or that you are not liked by, or not as good as, other people; realisation of a mistake or lack.
Being apologised to: A recognition that some aspect of a relationship or experience has been, or is, unjust or unwarranted.
Useful questions are:
What am I apologising for and does this apply in any way to waking events?
Is this an apology I am giving or receiving, or is it an expression of guilt?
If being apologised to are you accepting or rejecting the apology?
Comments
hey .. what if someone does appologises to you/me?
Kayla – This suggests that you have recognised that some aspect of a relationship or experience has been, or is, unjust or unwarranted. But without more information it is difficult to know. So it is useful to give a fairly full description of the dream. So it would be good to know who apologised, why, and what it mean to you.
Tony
I had a dream that my exbf that recently broke my heart and has libeled me, played the victim, and has been completely remorseless apologized to me. It was a different face, but I felt his presence without a doubt, and J was sure we had both aged a bit. We were riding in the backseat of someone’s car, I was hurt but I forgave him after he poured out all of his wrongs & asked for forgiveness. What do you think?
Gee Ha – I believe that you were working through the pain he brought about in you and you forgave him.
But that doesn’t mean he would be any different in real life. See http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/questions-2/#Integrate
Tony