It is usually referring to decisions, as in this quote from a dream, “I wanted to go to the grocery store closer to my house rather than the one we were at because it is cheaper. Then I said, “Why don’t I just go get the detergent at the other store?” Then she said, “Never mind, we will just go in here, it doesn’t matter.” Then I had to go to the bathroom.”
Adding ‘don’t’ gives it a negative charge – a decision that you are not happy with
Going: This is a difficult one to be precise, because you can be going off to school; really going to miss me; a party was going on; we were going shopping; I ran up to see what was going on; my love has died and I am going to leave you – and so on. So I would suggest using Processing Dreams
Useful questions and hints:
Can I define what I want to do in the dream, or else its theme?
If you imagine yourself in the dream again what feelings do I have?
Is this something you often do?