Archetype of the Great Mother
The symbols of this archetype are the Virgin Mary; sometimes one’s own mother; a divine female; an old or ageless woman; the Earth; a blue grotto; the sea; a hole, as shown in the first illustration; a whale; a cave, a tree, blood or the colour of blood. Whatever the image it often contains great religious feeling or spiritual uplift. After all, our mother was the most powerful being in our early world. ‘Did she admire hunters; then we would kill dragons and cleanse the world. Did she feel the weight of the world; then we would be the peace maker and bring her joy.’ (W.V. Caldwell).
In many older cultures this break was worked out in the custom of tribal ritual. At a certain age the children were taken from their parents home and lived together with the other young males or females. Today we have to manage these subtleties of our psyche alone. A woman must find a way of transforming the pleasure – or absence of it – of her mother’s breast into a love for a male. If she cannot she may wish to return to the breast of another female, or be the man her father never was for her. A man must find a way of transforming his unconscious desire for his mother into love of a woman which is more than a dependent or demanding baby or youth. If he cannot he may seek his mother in a likely woman, ignoring who that woman is as a real person. And this acceptance of our mother as she really is – a human being – precedes the acceptance of ourselves as we really are.
Example: I had the experience of finding myself sinking deep beyond my personality, my conscious self, and facing enormous forces or beings I had never been aware of. It started with a feeling of dying, and after experiencing that I felt the presence of my dead mother. I saw her face as a young mother, my mother. But then with fascination I saw her face was one face amongst countless others. I began to realise that I was confronting something difficult to explain, something that was a reality at a level or a dimension I had not met or experienced before. It was a huge being which I began to see was capable of taking in and holding every mothers experience and person, and was itself a complete synthesis of all mothers, in fact She was The Mother of everything. It was difficult for me as a human being to grasp its magnificence. I realised in my own small way why people in every culture kneel before the images of this Mother. In some wonderful way She was my mother and yet behind and working through my mother was The Mother.I saw too that every woman I had loved or dreamed of was a meeting with this Great Mother. Then, because I saw and felt in the presence of this Figure, hurts I had done to the nature of women, I wept and asked forgiveness. I was shown that it wasn’t what I had done to any woman, but the hurt I had given to the nature of womanhood, with its great drives and energies that make women want a child and love from a man. Then in forgiveness She took me into herself and I felt and still feel AWE.
To meet this aspect of ourselves we must be both admiring of the natural in and around us, but also resourceful. The danger for a man might be that he loses himself in desire for all women or one woman. For a woman, that she becomes a spiritual whore, thinking she can uplift all through her womb. The point for the woman is that she is only incidentally part of the creative act of childbirth. The processes of creation are far deeper than her personality. To feel she is personally holding all that power can lead to hubris.
Therefore the place of males in this greatest of wonders had no significance except perhaps as a provider. This most ancient of mysteries is still presented in our present culture by the archetypal image of the Virgin Mary – the woman holding the child. In the past she was known in her various guises as Athena – the shaker of spears; Ishtar; Cybele; Rhea; Astarte; the Egyptian Isis; Demeter; Hecate; Diana; Venus; Quan Yin; Rhada, Ishtar, Aphrodite, Freya, Kali, Cybele, Magna Mater, Hera, Durga, Devi, and Shakti.
The most ancient of these mother goddesses is the Earth itself, mother to us all. P. W. MARTIN says ‘She is the maiden. She is the earth mother. She is the queen of the underworld. She is the goddess of war, the goddess of nature, the goddess of love, the goddess of marriage, the mountain goddess, the goddess of the chase, the goddess of herds, goddess of agriculture, goddess of fecundity, goddess of the moon.’ Her blood, and all women’s blood, flowing onto the earth, during her menstruation, is the miracle of Life, creation and death. Every woman who allows her blood to flow, takes part in the life of the Great Mother, as she and every menstruating woman, allows the death if the old and the birth of a new possibility for the continuance of life on Earth – a great and miraculous act.
As can be seen, the aspects, the powers, therefore the personal relationship with this archetype are varied. The great mother can be devouring and destructive like the Indian goddess Kali. She can be loving and healing like the Fairy Godmother. What this means in personal experience is that if one meets with the loving aspect, a man may feel permeated by love, bathed in it as if he were in great peace in the womb of all life.
A young woman may develop a fixation upon an older woman such as a female teacher, and devote enormous energy to emulate her or be of service to her. Conversely, experiencing the effect of the devouring mother, a woman might hold fast to her children, using every bonding and binding force she can. This negative aspect of the mother directly connects with feelings of dread about death.
The image of the cave – one of the symbols of the Great Mother – may indicate not only a holy place full of divine light, but also a death pit crawling with corruption. Recent explorations of the psyche show that such a symbol acts in a similar way to an icon on a computer screen. The picture the icon displays may be of a printer. When we click on the icon a distant printer reproduces what is on the screen. The icon is not the printer, but the icon has full connection with the printer and the picture indicates its function.
So whatever image of the Great Mother we meet, it is only a synthesis of something much more potent and full of action and feelings than itself. But the image is full of clues as to what lies latent in it if we activate it. The recent findings mentioned show that the cave or the negative mother images often connect with prenatal experiences, particularly with awful experiences of birth, shown as hell and the tortures of hell. In past cultures such imagery, while full of meaning, was never defined beyond its mythological aspect. One of the great developments of recent times is to trace the way the unconscious produces such imagery to depict life experiences which are deeply buried or completely non-verbal. See: Levels of the Mind.
A modern portrayal of the Great Mother
The Great Mother may not have these connections for us personally, but may represent unformed, or largely unconscious feelings we have about how we are linked with the process of life, and have within us the splendour of this mystery. For a woman this may be particularly potent at times. It connects her with the forces of death and renewal occurring within her during every menstruation. It connects her with the tremendous link with natural forces of mothering and the strength of womanhood and the female principle in the Earth and universe. After all, it is from the earth, matter, Mater, that our body is formed, and at death will return. Below a man describes his feelings and imagery experienced when he explored a dream in which a bull is being led up a meadow toward a cow – the cow being one of the symbols of the Great Mother.
Example: The sexual drive cannot be dragged, it will be led, and it must be treated as intelligent, as a living creature or process. In the dream the bull, depicting my sexual drive, is following, is willing to be led. And it is being led by the woman. This means that the cow, the woman, the earth, always leads the sexual drive in the male animal. All things are born by the great cow, the earth. The earth holds all the seeds in it. I am kneeling and honouring the Great Cow. The woman was leading me because she represents this power. In youth I, the bull, fed at the teats of the cow. Even now I suck the teats of the Great Cow, mother earth, as I eat the grass. The mother can also destroy. Anthony.
In her book The Once and Future Goddess Elinor Gadon writes that for her ‘In the late twentieth century there is a growing awareness that we are doomed as a species and planet unless we have a radical change of consciousness. The re-emergence of the Goddess is becoming the symbol and metaphor for this transformation of culture.’ But I believe that it is the re-emergence of the self we have all lost – the integration of all we are, male, female and pure consciousness.
Useful Questions and Hints:
Do I know how to accept this deeply unconscious creative process in me to take hold of my being and express through me?
What times in my life have I met or experienced this power of the goddess, of nature working in and around me?
In my relationships with women can I or do I recognise the goddess in them?