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Twin

There are several possibilities when you dream of a twin or twins.

The first one is that it is part of you that has got split off from your main development. So they can be one of the many polar opposites or splits in our being – the split between waking consciousness and sleep or the unconscious; the split between what we want in our deepest desires, and what we can allow ourselves socially; the split caused by infant trauma; the split between our sense of eternity and the facts of physical mortality; introversion and extroversion; something of self which has got split off, or perhaps even ‘died at birth’, leaving us feeling only half a person; the lack of balance in our being.

Twins can also represent duality, conflict, or two sides of an issue, but also the emergence of something new, something that was denied, that you were born with, but never acknowledged as part of yourself. It can also be your unconscious relationship with another person, such as occurs in a telepathic link. In some cases though it is about separation, and the feelings you have about that, or about the denied or unrealised part of yourself.

But if you were a twin at birth and you twin died it could be a reference to them and your continued link with them. To quote from http://www.twinlesstwins.org/GRIEF/ProfessionalResearch/TwinBereavement.aspx –

“When we lose a twin, it feels for many of us like the literal end of our lives. That is true, in that it is the end of life as we have known it since the moment of our conception. As one twin explained to me: ‘The day my twin died, the lights went out.’ Another twin said to me, ‘After Daphne died, it was as if I couldn’t breathe. I’d never in my life thought about breathing. I just took it for granted that Daphne and my breath were part of being alive.’ When our twin dies, we must begin to breathe again; we must begin again with our lives, starting with what truly feels like the end.”

“Twins begin their identify formation in the womb. Whether fraternal or identical, they receive different stimuli and resources in the womb environment and, therefore, have different experiences that affect their fetal development. But from their cellular origins, they are ushered into the womb in relationship, both to their mother and to each other. And early on, they begin to show distinct, individual, and also interactive patterns of behavior and temperament, which have been observed and documented by researchers with the use of ultra-sonography. These patterns are often repeated after birth.”

But here is another possibility, explained by man who was trying to find himself.

There is a part of me that he has never actually involved in this present life. It has never been expressed. It has never been incarnated. It is almost as if it was not born with me. It has never expressed through the body. It hasn’t made itself real through the body. So it is almost as if it has been a spiritual twin, a ghost, a spirit guide. It is influencing his life – God, what a story – and yet is so frustrated. Frustrated all the time because it can’t live its life. It is pushing and pushing me toward what it wants to do, yet it is not felt as wholly me. It is not something I have built into my life and trusts, and so I do not live it in the same way as he lives the other areas of my life.

An amazing conception happened after two eggs were fertilised at the same time in the womb. Both Kylie and her partner Remi Horder, 17, are of mixed race. Their mothers are both white and their fathers are black. According to the Multiple Births Foundation, baby Kian must have inherited the black genes from both sides of the family, whilst Remee inherited the white ones. The odds against of a mixed race couple having twins of dramatically different colour are a million to one.

A mixed-race British couple has defied the odds — twice — by producing two sets of twins in which one sibling appears to be black and the other white.

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-Lee 2012-08-21 11:34:27

Okay, so I am not a twin, I dont know twins, none of my children are twins and I am not a gemini.

Last night I had a dream that I had been sick, vomitting whiteness. I had come back from the Dr, The Dr told me that I was sick because I felt torn, like I had to choose between my twin and my partner?? (He and I have been together for 7years, its not a new relationship)

The actual part of going to see the Dr I didnt dream, I know it had happened, but I didnt see it.

A bit later my partner walked into the room wearing a red shirt. he was so happy to see that I was okay that he hugged me really tight,

It was like it was a new relationship, even though we have been together for so long.

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-Igbeita Jonathan 2012-09-12 10:17:44

A girl had a dream always seeing twins what does it mean please tell me about it

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-danielle 2013-04-19 19:23:37

i have had a dream recently my sister just had two twin babies and in my dream only one baby is there and that’s the health baby and the scene where my dreams at is at my moms house in the front parking lot outside in a no roof van and it weird she had two twin boys and in my dream i think the baby is a girl.Ive had another dream like this before but different i went to jail in the end i need help please help me email me back asap.i really appreciate your opinion and is there anyone my mom could take me to see about these dreams i never get any sleep from these dreams either!.

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-Cassandra 2013-06-28 4:41:53

I had the same dream 3 night in a row. It was so real. I had twin one boy and one girl but I know I was have a boy. They when to pull the baby out it was a girl then they said there one more baby and it a boy. Then me and the baby father are walking down the hallway and people keep saying we didn’t know you were expecting. I don’t know what the dream trying to tell me so if you could help?

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-kenya crisp 2013-08-23 15:53:39

I like your last name LOL

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-Rebecca ... 2013-10-09 21:48:16

I had a dream one night that my mother looked at me and said that i had a twin, but it died in the womb. So then when i woke up, i asked my mom if i had a twin, or if the doctors mentioned anything to her about possibly carrying another baby besides me. She told me no, that i was the only baby. Im not sure what to think of this.

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-tonya 2013-10-21 18:03:26

Hello,
I had a dream about a woman leaving her twin babies at my door with a note asking me to take care of them. I ran out to confront her before she got away to ask her about leaving her babies behind.The woman just handed me court documents appointing me as the guardian of the twins and assuring me that everything has been taking care of legally. I don’t know what my dream can possibly mean. Please Help!

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-Danielle 2013-11-11 10:49:25

Hey I have just had a baby a little girl named Scarlett 7 weeks ago but I keep dreaming that I have other babies to sometimes tiwns one time 8 babies and another 3 Scarlett is always one of them but am really confused why I keep having these dreams ?? Can anyone help ?

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-brittany 2014-04-30 14:27:42

Every time I’ve dreamed of my son since the time he was born, I always dream he has a twin. I see Liam perfect and healthy and his brother smaller, malnourished and underdeveloped. Its like I forget this other baby exists so I only take care of my actual son. What could this mean?

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-Kelly M 2014-07-21 15:24:59

Help!! I had a weird dream it was that my best friend found out she was pregnant and when I came home I went over to see her and there was two twin girls! I took one and walk around with her. At first she was crying then she stopped. I held ER close it seemed like ten minutes then I woke up.
Please tell me what this means!?? *i only saw the other twin for a breif second*

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-Jessica 2014-09-23 3:11:15

umm… I just had a dream with twin girls around 7 or so and I don’t know any twins at all and I am not a twin at all and I don’t know what to make out of it

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-Cindy 2014-10-11 19:15:39

I just had a dream of my daughter being held by my husband and I saw her bears moving and I go over and it’s my daughter but my husband was also holding her. Then turtles were walking across a spider web toward me… but the whole time my husband wasn’t as confused and scared as I was. Any help?

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