Cheat Cheated Cheating
Being dishonest with yourself. Not living up to your real feelings. Feelings about being betrayed or your trust abused in some way.
But such dreams can occur to any woman. especially with ex’s. Dreamers often take theor dreams to mean a link with the actual person, but every thing and everybody represents something other that actula life. But when you think about a lover, a friend, an ex or a person you know, you are only taking in your thoughts, impressions and feelings about them. So many people do not realise that they have an inner person equally as powerful as the external person you know. You have taken in millions of bits of memory, lessons learnt, life experiences along with all the feelings or problems met by meeting or living with them, and they change you and make you the person you are. The memories and experience we gather unconsciously change us and are not lost. It is part of you and is symbolised in dreams as a person or event. Such an inner person can appear in dreams because you still carry the memories or impressions of them, and so they influenced what you hold within you.
These are meories that have altered your reactions and unless you realise they are energies working in you, and not an external person, you will go on living in a fantasy, and perhaps painful world. You need to integrate your past experience. See How Can I Integrate The Effects From Parents Garnparents or Ex’s
This can also be about acting in a way that takes advantage of another person to win; feeling one’s partner is ‘cheating’ on you, or you on them; taking love, money or opportunity under false pretences; not giving as good as you get; feeling you are not respected.
Some dreams are about social situations, such as being cheated by ones employer by not being fairly paid, or not getting your money’s worth in what you have paid for. But we might feel cheated by life events as well.
At times, as when we dream of a partner cheating, it is about feelings of suspicion, distrust or of not being loved or respected.
Example: Last night I had a dream that I was coming through a door way to find that my girlfriend/fiancée was kissing a guy….. and she looked up at me and just said we were over and I started crying begging her to stay with me, and she just kept walking away like I didn’t matter anymore… she started kissing that guy again like they had been dating for a while or something and acted like it didn’t bother me… I woke up crying because it felt real… would you have any idea what this mean?
Example: In my dream I’m with my ex girlfriend (who I still hang out with) we are hanging out being really close and lovey on each other. Then I leave the room for something and when I come back she is with a man. In this reoccurring dream she is always with a different guy and I don’t know who any of them are. When I walk in they are really close to each other and holding hands sometimes she is sitting on his lap. In my dream it always breaks my heart and I tell her how I feel and she acts like she doesn’t care. Then I wake up. In real life we were together for 2 years and I’m a girl. While we were together she cheated on me with men. We still hang out today but we are just friends with benefits.
This type of dream is usually from a young woman who either sees her boyfriend with another man or has powerful suspicions that he is seeing someone else. The dreamer is actually meeting her unresolved feelings of jealousy, of feeling not as good as the other person and not being lovable. Please see Ages of Love; Infidelity
Useful Questions and Hints:
Where can I locate these feeling sin my waking life, and what do they connect with?
If I am cheated on in my dream, is this about fears or reality?
Is this about relationship with a person, an organisation or life events?
See Learning to Love – Secrets of Power Dreaming – Easy Dream Understanding
Comments
I had a dream that I had cheated on my fiancé with my ex. Now I absolutely hate my ex; and he treated me horribly. I’d never do anything like that in real life for any reason. Although the way the dream was formatted it was almost like I was in shameless. My ex also said something horrible in my dream. I messaged my fiancé what had happened and I got a response but it was unlike what he would have actually said. It read, “I knew under that shy facade you were mean and cruel.” I started crying in the dream and then I woke up feeling horrible. I don’t understand why I would have a dream like this. I love him very much and he loves me very much; I read that could be a sign of that I feel I’m being cheated out of time with him? But that still doesn’t explain anything to me.
Hi – The answers I give arise not out of me thinking up things to say, but from fifty years of exploring dreams in depth. So some of what I write may seem wild. This may be because dreams arise and are experienced by a level of your mind or awareness that very few people have any concept or experience of – usually called the unconscious. So their view of dreams arise from their thinking mind, a very different creature than the thing giving you Life. Life dreamt millions of years before even humankind awoke and developed self awareness – a very young and precocious child. So I try to describe what takes place in the deeps of you.
But it would help you to understand your dreams, if you would read – http://dreamhawk.com/news/summing-up/ and also http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/features-found-on-site/ which has so much information in.
Nothing can replace your own ability to understand your dream. With a little effort you can do this by practising what is described in – http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/acting-on-your-dream/#BeingPersonor http://dreamhawk.com/dream-dictionary/getting-at-your-dreams-meaning/
Tony
Angela – Please see http://dreamhawk.com/dream-dictionary/exs/ and http://dreamhawk.com/approaches-to-being/questions-2/#Integrate
I had a dream that i was baby sitting2 kids the older one was a boy about 7 or 8 the youngest was a girl about 5. I went to the kitchen came back and he hadthe little girl on top of him and he was loving it.i looked at him and said how fucked up of you she’s only 6 years old. He stopped and followe me out of the room and then he tried to please me
Hi I keep having a recurring d re am that I am going to cheat on my partner with a man but I always stop before anything eventual happens , then my partner walks into the dream and I feel guilty and have to decide if I am going to leave him or not , I never do but always wake up feeling extremely guilty and upset , I love my partner ND although thi b gs have changed in our relationship since having our daughter ie touchy Feely stuff I still really love him please help me decifer what this means it is reoccurring dream but with different men of different stature, I am confused and it is making me doubt my self in this relationship ship please help ?
Dear Samantha – Please read this first; http://dreamhawk.com/dream-dictionary/what-we-need-to-remember-about-us-3/#Pleasure
You can love your partner and still feel unfulfilled in your relationship at this moment. You wrote “things have changed in our relationship since having our daughter i.e. touchy-feely stuff”.
To give you a broader understanding of the changes you went and are going through, I like you to read this article; http://juliakaradi.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/19/2014/09/Childbirth-as-Initiation1.pdf
Feeling guilty about your (sexual) needs – a need for physical closeness and emotional openness – is not a helpful approach http://dreamhawk.com/dream-dictionary/guilt/
I believe that curiosity is more helpful and that it is important to explore why you cannot allow yourself to fulfil your needs in your dreams and if this also applies to your waking life.
Do you feel that changes in your relationship as far as touchy-feely stuff is concerned, affect the way you perceive yourself? http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/sex-and-identity/
Could you learn to see your inner male as a synthesis of all your male contacts – your partner and also “different men of different stature” – and join with them in your dreams as a means also to help you grow? http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/archetype-of-the-animus-jungs-view-of-the-male-in-the-female/
and
http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/sex-in-your-dreams/
Anna 🙂
Mines was quite odd… long story short, we meet this new group of people, scene: some how end up in casino hotel. Go into room and see one guy from the new group of people, cheating on his girl.. (I don’t know the people in my waking life).. explain that?
I saw my female friend in my dream that she came to my home with a male friend for a dinner but finally i knew that the male friend is her boy friend.
What does it mean..
I had an adulterous relationship with a man in real life (it happened three times and I was the “other woman”) and then this morning I dreamt of him coming to me and wanting to be with me and his partner was upset at first, but then she became friendly with me and told me I can have him. It’s the first time I actually remembered the dream with happy ending (him showing his desire of me and being with him), but I couldn’t figure out what this means, especially about his partner willing to give him to me. The dream was very sexual and I even ended up kissing a girl, but I told her I wasn’t into her because I wanted him. Please help, thanks!
I hardly leave comments, but i did some searching and wound up here Cheat
Cheated Cheating | Dream Dictionary | dreamhawk.com.
And I actually do have a couple of questions for you if it’s allright.
Is it only me or does it appear like a few of these comments come across like they are written by brain dead visitors?
😛 And, if you are posting on additional online sites, I’d like to keep up with everything new you have to post.
Could you make a list of the complete urls
of all your community sites like your linkedin profile, Facebook page or twitter feed?
Sunny – Here is a list you asked for:
https://www.facebook.com/pages/dreamhawkcom/578558282225032 – https://www.linkedin.com/profile/view?id=238065187&trk=nav_responsive_tab_profile – Twitter I can never get it to respond to my login so I am giving up on it.
Thanks for your interest, and I agree that much is waffle. Also I cannot put a proper answer to such posts because they would be too long – but you might like to see http://dreamhawk.com/dream-dictionary/infidelity/ – http://dreamhawk.com/relationship-sex/ages-of-love-2/ and http://dreamhawk.com/relationship-sex/learning-to-love/ – http://dreamhawk.com/approaches-to-being/questions-2/#Summing in which I try to expand on the subject.
Also I had to delete your link because it is the policy of this site not to allow advertising in the posts – sorry; as it was interesting.
Tony
Last night I had a dream that my boyfriend (now fiance) cheated on me. It felt so real and I even woke up crying. In the dream he had no guilt about it and wouldn’t let me leave him. It’s just really weird because he cheated on me with my now ex best friend on my 18th birthday, 6 weeks after I had our daughter. I’m really just hoping it’s just me being paranoid about what he did and not that he’s going to do it again. 🙁
My dream? I walked into a room full of familiar faces to see my wife on the floor with her legs spread wide exposing her vagina. The men in the room were trying not to look but she continued exposinf her self. I got angry and went to the back and I mean really angry. She comes to the back as if she didn’t do anything, saying that she didn’t do anything wrong, as if it is okay. I grab her by the face which I would never do in real life and yelled at her. She acted as if it wasn’t a big deal. I tried to close the door because my children starting walking to the door and getting upset because of the argument. The dream switches to a kickball game where the ball wasn’t ideal. It was a basketball hard and I couldn’t catch it. I left the game only to see over someone’s shoulder them looking at multiple pictures of my wife exposing her vagina before I arrived. The anger returned and I begged the person to give me a copy of the photos so I can show my wife. The anger returned and I woke up. I have searched every individual image in the dream but can’t seem to put it together. Any help?
Hi I had a dream last night my boyfriend cheated on me. In my real life he lied about talking to the same girl for like 6 months which before that I asked him not to talk to her and trusted him not to. Then I found out he was talking to her a couple weeks ago. And had this dream he was cheating last night. Do you think that he’s not telling me something like he cheated on me? It’s driving me crazy. I also just had a beautiful baby boy with him a couple months ago, that’s why I am afraid to leave.