Dream Dictionary
Dream Dictionary
Online Dream Dictionary & Encyclopedia
by Tony Crisp
The Spanish Dictionary is all the work and effort placed in it, as well as many excellent dream interpretations all by Anna Hoser,
Introduction
The latest edition of the Dream Dictionary and Dream Encylopedia is the result of some sixty years experience of working with dreams and their understanding. The Dream Dictionary encompassing articles on a vast range of topics. This gives the reader an unparalleled insight into the study of dreams and the inner life. But there are an enormous amount of Features in the Dream Encylopedia that cover a range of topics about dreams and the inner life.
The aim of the Dream Dictionary is to help you make connections between your dreams and your everyday life; to discover more fully the powerful emotions and reactions that unconsciously direct your decisions and responses in waking. This is not an attempt to give you merely ideas to play with, to agree or disagree with, like fortune telling. It can lead to real insights which empower you to make more of yourself, and find your way through the many decisions with which life confronts you.
Useful Links
Your Guru Your Body
What Are Dreams
Learn how to Interpret Your Dream
What does my dream mean? – How to explore your dream meaning
Personal Dream Interpretation
A Note About the Author: Tony Crisp
Mind Watching and Dreams
Introduction to Using the Dream Dictionary
Using the Dictionary
The Discovery of Dreams – Things We Need to Remember About Us
Gaining Insight into Your Dreams
Acknowledgement to this Edition
What Is Offered In The Dictionary
The Discovery of Dreams
Deepening Dream Understanding
Seeing under the Surface
Exploring Inner Space
Things I Wished I Had Had Been Taught Earlier in My Life
Features Found on Site: this is a full list of the topics covered by the Dream Encyclopedia (not a list of dream dictionary words).
What Are Dreams?
Dreams are one of nature’s miracles, not the result of a wandering mind in sleep. A dream is an interface between the process of life, our core self and our conscious personality. Life existed quite capably for millions of years before the self-aware human personality came on the scene. In all that time the ancestors of the modern human being survived without having a rational mind to reason with, or self consciousness to ask such questions as ‘What do I do about this?’ Nevertheless survival strategies were still developed in their unconscious intelligence. Dreams express this unconscious wisdom that was developed in humans and animals through millions of years of Life experience.
Life’s age old unconscious processes are still the major part of our being, yet we seldom consciously meet them – except in dreams. As our physical and psychological health depend upon a reasonable co-operation between the spontaneous processes of life – such as breathing, digestion and the thousands of other life sustaining activities and our conscious decisions and actions, the encounter in dreams is vital. As I often point out to those I am advising we are a human face on a long line of beautiful animals. In fact “You ride an ancient beast.” The ancient beast is your body, and your conscious self is the modern and recent rider of it. Some ‘riders’ do not understand their animal needs – and the fact that we have several levels of brain that are independent of each other proves this. Still active in us are our Reptile Brain, Our mammalian Brain, and our Human Brain, and the reptile and mammalian brains are still very active and constitute a large part of our human unconscious. See – Brain Levels and Dreams – Life’s Little Secrets and Levels of Awareness in Sleeping and Waking.
So, no plant or creature grows from a dead seed, and each living seed carries within it all the past gathered from all its forebears. So, the seed in your mother’s womb is as old as and even older than human kind, and you carry that wisdom or memories in you. But in this life you developed a new brain, and the memories you gathered this time are what you built your personality from, but beneath that is a very ancient self. To meet this ancient self try using Opening to Life
That suggests that dreams cannot be defined under any one heading. Like human beings, they are enormously varied in what they express. Just as one cannot say the human mind is simply a system of memory, one cannot say dreams are just the reflection of experienced events. The mind also deals with problem solving, predicting outcomes of action, playing with possibilities via imagination, creating the new out of old material, replaying traumatic and disturbing events in order to find ways of meeting them constructively. Dreams, being the mental phenomena they are, deal with all of these issues and more. The following definitions give the main functions observable in dreams.
Dreams are:-
- Dreams are one of nature’s miracles, not the result of a wandering mind in sleep. A dream is an interface between the process of life, our core self and our conscious personality. Life existed quite capably for millions of years before the self-aware human personality came on the scene. In all that time the ancestors of the modern human being survived without having a rational mind to reason with, or self consciousness to ask such questions as ‘What do I do about this?’ Nevertheless survival strategies were still developed in their unconscious intelligence. Dreams express this unconscious wisdom that was developed in humans and animals through millions of years of Life experience.
- Recently I have come to see dreams as the lonely voice of Life calling out to us in our often frantic search for meaning. It calls out from its vastness that is beyond our understanding, and in its loving efforts gathers the fragments of our memory and associations and forms dreams with them. It does this in its efforts to instruct, guide and even heal us; but often we miss seeing that just as Life reaches to us from its vastness using things we might understand, we too must reach beyond our often pitiful understanding to move toward and touch the wonder of Life within us.
- An expression of what is happening in the physical body. Some doctors consider dreams to show signs of illness long before they are evident in other ways. Women frequently know they are pregnant very early on through sleep awareness in a dream. See: body; body dreams; Kasatkin_Vasily; consciousness-mind body split.
- A link between the sleeping mind and what is occurring externally. For instance, a person may be falling out of bed and dream of flying or falling.
- A way of balancing the physiological and psychological activities in us. When a person is deprived of dreaming in experiments, a breakdown in mind and body quickly occurs. This type of dreaming, or even nightmares, can often be a safety valve releasing tension and emotion not dealt with in waking life. See: compensation theory; self-regulation dreams and fantasy; science and dreams.
- An enormously original source of insight and information. Dreams tap our memory, our experience, and scan information held in our unconscious to form new insights from old experience. Dreams often present to us summaries or details of experience we have been unable to access consciously. Sometimes this is as early as life in the womb. See: creativity and problem solving in dreams.
- That insight comes from an amazing ability dreams have. Mostly we are lost in being aware of this moment or cares of recent events, and of our present environment, but the dream process has another view, that is of our whole life, like flying high and so have a huge view. We have taken in so much life experience, but many of us have not learnt the amazing lessons we gained by it. But the overall view we get from dreams, visions and our intuition gives us a view that synthesises or whole life and highlights its wonder, its destiny, our real purpose and our life’s real work. See Intuition – Using It
- A means of compensating for failure or deprivation in everyday life, and as a means of expressing the otherwise unacknowledged aspects of oneself. Such dreams are a move toward wholeness. See: compensation theory.
- In dreams we may be integrating new experience with what we have already gathered and digested. In this way our abilities, such as social skills, are gradually upgraded. See: computer, computer-dream process as a; Evans, Christopher.
- Dreams often stand in place of actual experience. So through dreams we may experiment with new experience or practice things we have not yet done externally. For instance many young women dream in detail of giving birth. This function of what might be called ‘imagination’ is tremendously undervalued, but is a foundation upon which human survival is built. See: imagination and dreaming.
- An means of exercise for the psyche or soul. Just as the body will become sick if not moved and stressed, so the mind and emotions need stimulus and exercise. Dreams fulfill this need. See Opening to Life
- An expression of human supersenses. Humans have an unconscious ability to read body language – so they can assess other humans very quickly. Humans have an unimaginable ability to absorb information, not simply from books, but from everyday events – for example science now tells us that we collect information at an enormous rate, millions of bits every second, but unfortunately we do not synthesis it to see what it means, for most of it is unconscious, only dreams access and use it. With it they constantly arrive at new insights and realisations. Humans frequently correctly predict the future – not out of a bizarre ability, but from the information gathered about the present. All these abilities and more show in our dreams. See: esp in dreams.
- A means of solving problems, or formulating creative ideas, both in our personal life, and also in relationships and work. Many people have produced highly creative work directly from dreams. See Creative Dreaming and Problem Solving
- A presentation in symbols of past traumatic experience. If met this can lead to deep psychological healing. Such dreams are therefore an attempt on the part of our spontaneous inner processes to bring about healing change. See: abreaction; compensation theory; nightmares.
- In the widest sense nearly all dreams act as a process of growth or a move toward maturing. Some dreams are very obviously presenting internal forces or dimensions of experience that might lead the conscious personality toward a greater balance and inclusiveness. See: individuation; LifeStream.
- A way of reaching beyond the known world of experience and presenting intimations from the unknown. Many people have dreams in which ESP, out of the body experiences, and knowledge transcending time and space occur. This type of dream may indicate a link between the present person and people who had lived in the distant past; or between the dreamer and all existing life. Some of these dreams present powerful insights into how the transitory human personality may arise out of an eternal consciousness. They thus deal with the spiritual aspects of human nature. See: Dimensions of Human Experience; Buddhism and dreams; Cayce, Edgar; collective unconscious; Bible and dreams; esp in dreams; hallucinations; history of dreaming; religion and dreams; yoga and dreams; Dream Yoga.
Learn how to Explore Your Dream
I know how much you might like to skip the Introduction to Dream Dictionary, and if you are tempted to do so, I wholeheartedly ask you to read Summing Up. Without understanding the things given there you are likely to completely miss the point of understanding your dreams. The best technique to enter you dream world – Peer Dream Work
You can start using the Dream Dictionary by entering the word you wish to research into the Search Box on the top right of most pages and clicking the search symbol – or you can read some fuller information below about the dictionary and how best to use it.
But the quickest way is to put your word in the search box.
Your dreams can become vortexes of power to transform your life, and to enhance your perceptions. There is no ‘wave a magic wand’ route to this. It will not happen because you read a great book or look at a good dream dictionary. Those things might help, but the real magic lies in whether you can enter into your dream in the right way. (Try using Being the Person or Thing and Meaning of Your Dream).
What does my dream mean? – How to explore your dream meanings
It is important in reading the definitions of dream images to realise that not every possible meaning can be covered in this dictionary. So please see if you get the idea of what is being said and allow your own imagination/feelings to fill in the meaning.
There are several ways you can understand the meanings held in your dreams, and there are several levels.
The first is an easily understood level, followed by greater depths:
For instance, speaking as an object or dream person, one needs to take time with it. Learn how to actually describe what you are as that dream object or person. If I dream of a dog, don’t simply describe what you think a dog feels like, but actually take time to tune into the dream image and describe the dog dreamt about. Is it an old or young dog? What is it doing in the dream? Listen to your feelings and describe what it/you feel. Remember that each image is a creation of your own mind and unconscious, so you are really describing yourself. Say whatever comes and consider its value afterwards. Below is a quote from Tiziana Stupia’s book Meeting Shiva
Tony taught me a process in which a dream could be interpreted and understood by assuming that everything, people and objects alike, in a dream represented aspects of the Self. Sitting cross-legged on the squishy, old-fashioned sofa in the living room of my sadhu’s cave opposite Tony, I’d close my eyes and mentally return to a dream I had the previous night. He would ask me questions about the dream, which I’d answer in the first person. So if I dreamt about a tree, I would ‘become’ the tree, assume its personality and respond from its viewpoint. He’d ask ‘So what kind of tree are you? Are you big or small, old or young? What do you look like? Where are you growing? Why are you in Tiziana’s dream?’
This sounded like a silly exercise at first, but I was soon enough convinced of its validity. It was fascinating to discover a wealth of insight and emotion emerging from my responses, and understand how they related to my current situation. They also pinpointed exactly where I was in my growth process. Sometimes, the dreams would uncover unconscious fears and intuitions. Often, they also held important clues and offered solutions to my problems. It was like doing detective’s work – arduous at times, but rewarding beyond belief.
So below are listed several ways to gain insight and information from your dreams. Take your time with each approach until you get the feel for it, and then experiment with other approaches.
You can enter a key word in the search box. The Dream Dictionary contains interpretations on almost any type of dream subject. So, if you dreamt of a flying saucer landing in a field, and aliens getting out and taking a baby, a snake, and a pregnant dog back into the saucer, you could search separately for each of these subjects in the Dream Dictionary. Find the entry for flying saucer; then the entry for dog, baby, snake, pregnant, and so on. For each entry, find further related entries by looking under ‘Similar Articles’ on the right-hand side of the page. Then see Techniques for Exploring your Dreams.
Each entry gives the general meaning of the dream subject, just as an encyclopedia or dictionary does for a word. Several possible meanings are given. This is because as with our speech the position of the word – the context – gives it special meanings. So, a hot dog would be quite different to a black dog, dog-end or dead dog. Therefore, when you read an entry which has several different meanings, sometimes with a ‘;’ between, it simply means any one of them could apply, which means you need to think about the feelings in your dream, the context, the other imagery used. Please do not fall into the trap that one reviewer made of saying that the whole dictionary is about sex. Of course, sex is one meaning among many others. So, use your own sense of your dream as well as any definitions given.
To really explore the meaning, it is useful to use the Dream Dictionary as it is designed, rather than arrive at a ‘thought out’ interpretation. To see a working example of this see ‘Dream Interpretation Example One‘.
Personal Dream Interpretation
I no longer offer a personal dream interpretation service, but only occasionally if you manage to send an interesting dream I will respond – the reason is I am getting past my sell by date being 84.
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In the meantime, here is a way to work out your own dream – Getting at Your Dream’s Meaning.
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A Note About the Author: Tony Crisp
I have been interested in the health of mind and body since my early teens. I began writing about these subjects in 1956. My fascination for what lay under the surface of the mind led me personally to explore the unconscious using dreams and other mental and physical disciplines. From 1972 – 94 I worked as a psychotherapist using an eclectic, Humanistic Psychology approach which included dream work and releasing the secrets the body holds. My books include Do You Dream; Mind and Movement; The Instant Dream Book; Dream Dictionary; Life’s Little Secrets –Liberating The Body – and many more. See My Books.
During those years I worked as a dream columnist for The Daily Mail and She Magazine. I was the regular dream interpreter for the London Broadcasting Company; I ran Teletext’s dream page on UK television’s Channel Four; and for New Zealand Teletext, and now I run this website giving dream help in the many replies to peoples dreams and in as well as many features on subjects connected with the human inner world. See Features
Throughout more than five decades I have been involved in a personal search for the secrets of mind and spirit. In those years I have also taught thousands of people techniques of deep relaxation, meditation, and methods of self exploration using dreams. Wanting to dig deep I explored the use of dreams and taught individuals and groups of people how to use these visions of the night to discover and heal the deepest issues in themselves, and to touch the high ground of their spiritual awareness. I worked for twenty years as a psychotherapist using several approaches, one of which was a way of honouring the body as a doorway to the unconscious mind, the emotions and spiritual experience. See Self-Regulation – Recognition – Life’s Little Secrets – The LifeStream and Opening to Life
During the sixty years of seeking the wild wondrous beasts of the mind and spirit I dared my own inner adventure. But I also travelled with other people as an ordinary person, not a therapist, sharing their experience of fear and wonder as they unveiled and set loose their fountain of perception. I have travelled countless dream pathways, traversed the timeless with those using awareness enhancing drugs, and wrestled with the vitality of the body as people mimed and shouted their deepest intuitions through movement, dance and voice. See Tony’s Biography
My aim has always to share my findings – actually what I was shown or given from within – was given freely; I never had any teacher or attended a course, of course I read an enormous amount, so I cannot ask for money. If you wish to donate anything to the running of the site you can do so by clicking on https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&hosted_button_id=JYTWAMC4LQLQ4&source=url
My teacher has been from exploring dreams and occasionally touching the wonder we were born as – not from words written in books about that but by meeting it. See Enlightenment
Introduction to Using the Dream Dictionary
Diccionario de los Sueños
Profundización de la comprensión de un sueño; Introducción
What Is Offered In The Dictionary
In a similar way, by observing dreams and laying bare the emotions and associated ideas and memories we have with the dream imagery, we gradually define our personality, its strengths and weaknesses, we discover new abilities and we grow beyond our old problems, and that in a depth we had never managed previously. I have called this mind watching, but it covers every aspect of human nature, not simply the intellect or thinking.
This mind watching through observation of our dreams first presents information about our personal experiences and memories and how they influenced our growth and influence present responses. Gradually the information arising from such watching leads beyond ones personal self. It shows in many cases how our unique self has arisen from, and has indissoluble links with our forebears, with our culture, with the past as a whole, and with the cosmos itself. It leads from oneself to the edge of the known, and perhaps helps us take a few steps beyond that edge into the unknown, to create new understanding.
This mind watching gradually reveals to us the many aspects of the mind’s working, and with such insight may come the growing ability to use these facets of ourselves. Not only may we discover great vistas of personal memory, but also the roots of our creativity, the subtle senses of our emotions and unconscious, and the treasures of experience we have gathered. See Your Amazing Circle – Self Observation
So how can we get into this magical world of our dreams and start to harvest the possibilities held there? The following pages of this book are designed to help, guide and inform on how to do this. The book is also a counsellor on what you may find in your dream adventure.
The information about dreams presented in this book has been gathered during fifty years of working with and studying dreams and the dream process. It synthesises the experience of personally helping hundreds of individuals explore their dreams. The examples used have been taken from a collection of over 8000 dreams put onto a computer filing system. The filing system was also used to define general associations with commonly used dream images.
The major input for definition however has arisen from the actual exploration of dreams undertaken by individuals. These are either people I have worked with personally who have deeply felt the emotions and issues behind their dreams, not simply talked them over and come to an intellectual interpretation but a deep insight, or are people who have written up their findings arising from similar work. Added to this is the commonly held associations we have through our language and the way we use imagery within speech. Of course your personal dream imagery may not be using the commonly held associations, or those used by other people, and so you must read the definitions with care and consider if these fit what is implied or dramatised in your dream.
In the entries in the Dictionary are explanations of the many different types of dreams and dream images. Despite some people’s attempt to explain dreams in one simple formula, dreams cover a huge range of phenomena and human experience. Amongst subjects covered in the book are thousands of entries on the researched meaning of the things, people, creatures and places we dream about. There are also many entries on special subjects such as symbols and dreaming; interpreting dreams; recurring dreams; nightmares; sex while asleep; teenage girls love dreams; precognitive dreams; talking in ones sleep; the dream as an adventure; Occultism and Dreams; science sleep and dreams; and many more.
There are a compete list of these Features and the Archetypes covered.
Therefore, if you have dreamt of such things as your teeth falling out; being chased; or your marriage partner dying, you will find an explanation of your dream in the following pages.
The aim of the book is to help you make connections between your dreams and your everyday life; to discover more fully the powerful emotions and reactions that unconsciously direct your decisions and responses in waking. The book is not an attempt to give you merely ideas to play with, to agree or disagree with, like fortune telling. It can lead to real insights which empower you to make more of yourself, and find your way through the many decisions life confronts you with.
But you can move directly on to Using the Dictionary – or better still read Meaning of Your Dream.
The Discovery of Dreams
Dreams are a magical mirror in which your innermost hopes, longings, fears/terrors and genius are made real. They are made real as external environments, people, animals and relationships. It is as if all your deepest feelings, hopes, fear and wonder are projected outward onto a multidimensional screen. It is a world of virtual reality that you feel is real. Unfortunately this wonderful virtual reality world is usually felt as dealing with other people, as externals, like something that can damage us, or something like the Devil that can possess us.
But the greatest truth I have found in exploring dreams – not interpreting them – is that we are alone with ourselves in the world of our dream. If we can acknowledge and admit that our terrors we dream are actually our past hurts that we have not faced presenting themselves for us to heal; that the ghosts and demons that can rampage about our night are embodiments of our fears; that our wonderful visions and insights are an expression of our own infinite potential, then we can walk a pathway to finding what we really are. Audio Introduction to Exploring a Dream
- Dreams are virtual realities that we create in our sleep. Even the wonderful dreams of God and angels are an external virtual reality, and mirror of our own inner immensity and our enormous variety. Unfortunately people either accept them as externally real, or as fantasy. But they are reflections of your potential, that cannot be seen in your daily life that is so dominated by your physical senses and hungers and fears.
- See The Magical Dream Machine. So the images and fears we experience in our dreams are projection upon the vast screen of our mind. They are all projections from you. Running from them is like trying to escape from yourself.
- In life and sleep we have two powerful actions working in us. The first is our waking experience based on having a body, its limitations, vulnerabilities and a particular gender. Our second is the power that gave us life and continues to express as dreams.
- While we sleep our conscious self is largely or totally unconscious, and while we sleep our voluntary muscles are paralysed – therefore another will or motivating force moves our body. So we have a Conscious Will, and what I will call a Life Will. The first one we have experience of as we can move our arm or speak in everyday activities; but the second will takes over when we sleep. See Sleep Paralysis
- This Life will can move us to speak, to move our body, and in fact do things that we cannot do with our Conscious Will. As Freud pointed out this inner will has full access to our memories. It can do so many other things that are described else where – See ESP in Dreams; Edgar Cayce and the Cosmic Mind.
- This Life Will or motivator has been active for millions of years and we see it working all the time in animals. We are partly split in half because we are often opposed to what our Life Will in us wants. So the only way to express what is good for us is in dreams when our conscious will is largely passive.
- Life Will created your body and pre-existed you as a person you know today. It was working in you prior to your ability to speak or know in the way you do now. But of course it has fantastic wisdom and skills, as can be seen in animals.
- Life, if you look around you at Life’s creature, they can take any form. So Life itself is without form. In fact the recent advances in quantum physics suggest that what gives us existence is beyond space and time – beyond understanding.
- So dreams do not come from the human unconscious, but from the formless origins of Life – our Core Self. To express in a way that is understandable to us as a person with limited understanding, dreams use all the common imagery and ideas. So people who say that dreams are a mish mash of common everyday events are mistaken. See LifeStream; Levels of Awareness in Sleeping and Waking; .
- Our core self can be explained by realising that we are all dependent on the universe. We often feel that the universe is way beyond our understanding, but a few simple facts may help. The first is that the universe as we know it began with what had been called the Big Bang. But before that there was a situation prior to the creation of time and space. That situation is very much like the experience of Edgar Cayce who had an awareness reaching beyond time and space. See God and the Big Bang are the Same Thing
- Irish physicist John Stewart Bell put forward a quantum theorem that has revolutionised the way reality is considered. In brief, the theorem states that when two sub-microscopic particles are split and moved to a distance from each other, the action on, or of, particle ‘A’, is instantaneously reproduced with particle ‘B’. This interaction does not rely on any known link or communication and is considered to stand above normal physical laws of nature, as it is faster than light. Prior to such findings it was thought nothing could transcend the speed of light. Nick Herbert, in an interview published in High Frontiers writes: ‘THERE ARE LOTS OF THINGS that are being kept from the public as far as the subjects of physics and consciousness are concerned. Bell’s Theorem was proved in 1964, and it is still not taught in physics classes, and you don’t hear it on your science news programs. A theorem is a proof, and no one has found a flaw in this theorem. It’s such a simple proof that a high school kid can understand it. So physicists can understand it. They have various ways of trying to ignore it, but it can’t be refuted because it’s so simple.’
Our Core self is that amazing part of us existing beyond time and space, and was within us from the start of our universe.
- In the world of dreams our most intimate fears and longings are given an exterior life of their own in the form of the people, objects and places of our dream. Therefore our sexual drive may be shown as a person and how we relate to them; or given shape and colour as an object; or given mood as a scene. Our feeling of ambition might thus be portrayed as a business person in our dream – our changing emotions as the sea or a river; while the present relationship we have with our ambition or emotions is expressed in the events or plot of the dream.
- You cannot be killed in a dream. All you can experience is the anguish and perhaps fear of dying, but in dreams you cannot die – or drown, or burn or any other threatening thing. We make the mistake of taking our very real values from our outer life into our inner life of dreams.
- In dreams, what ever moves away from you in our dreams is going out of your awareness or even life; and whatever moves toward us is emerging into consciousness. Whatever it is that is coming toward us is giving us something whether it is energy, insight, or a frightening dream that is trying to shock us to wake up and clear out the inner mess we are in. The fact we give it a frightening image is because we are brought up to be scared of ourselves and to not trust Life/Core. If you know the tenets of the AA, you will see that is what they are about – to trust Life.
- Most people are frightened of life. I see this in so many dreams sent to me. They do not trust themselves to the powerful action of Life flowing through them. See Life’s Little Secrets.
- We have been brain washed to believe that our existence depends upon nothing but accidental events, the survival of the fittest, the chemical and biological mechanical actions. Yet every time I have gone deeply into my ‘unconscious’ and yet maintained awareness, I have found a wonderful power of Life there.
- So if your dreams frighten you, I want to say you are frightened of something wonderful that could have grown you and enlarged your experience of yourself. The thing that was full of fear was your own fear put into an image, and yet was a wonderful gift that you avoided receiving.
- I too was full of fears and often woke up screaming. Then I learned to trust Life. It is like learning to swim. So please go back into your dream and let the fearful thing be fully experienced instead of waking up in fear. Then it will unveil itself as a thing of light and love.
Deepening Dream Understanding
I suggest you only try one method at a time and use it until you are capable or it or it doesn’t work for you, then move on to other methods taking time with them until you find what works best for you.
Although the process of dreams might not be a direct attempt to present MEANING, a dream may nevertheless have a great deal of INFORMATION in it. This becomes clearer if we remember that not many years ago it would have appeared highly superstitious or suspect to claim to be able to tell a person details of their health and parentage from a sample of their urine or blood. Today it is common practice. We accept that a growing amount of information can be gained from these unlikely sources. Blood doesn’t contain meaning, but we can gain information from it. In a similar way a sample of our dreams can also tell us an enormous amount. Sometimes this data is obvious, sometimes it needs processing to uncover, as with urine and blood.
Dream Processing – The following dream needs no deep techniques of processing. The word ‘processing’ is used throughout the book instead of analysis. Analysis has the connotation of giving our own thoughts or opinions to the dream. Processing is used to suggest extraction of information which leads to insight. With this particular dream, all it needs is a few facts brought to it to make clear what information it holds. The dream is that of a young woman, Mrs C. L.
It is a bright sunny day. I am walking across a large concrete car park. It is empty except for a huge trailer from a truck. It has BOOTS written on the side, and stands high off the ground. Being 4’ 9’ tall myself I decide to walk underneath. As I am half way the trailer starts to be lowered on top of me. I try to shout but cannot. I get onto my hands and knees and the trailer still kept coming down. I am now lying on my stomach, convinced it is going to crush me. Then it suddenly stops a couple of inches from my head. I wake feeling terrible.
The dream is interesting, although the information it holds may at first not be obvious. But with a minimum of processing the dream information will become clear. The first technique of processing the dream is to recognise some of the key statements within it. These are I AM WALKING – I TRY TO SHOUT – CONVINCED IT IS GOING TO CRUSH ME.
The reason these are key statements is because the dreamer is saying ‘I am walking’ – ‘I try to shout’ – ‘I …am convinced’. The word ‘I’ is important.
This form of processing has not added anything to the dream. It has simply drawn attention to the information already there in the dreamer’s description of her experience – this is why it is useful to write the dream out fully. If we add a little more information which the dreamer herself connects with the dream, then it becomes even clearer. Mrs C. L. says, ‘I work for BOOTS the chemist. The employees at the shop I work in were told at the beginning of the year that Boots are selling our shop. When that happens I will be made redundant. We were supposed to finish on May 26th. It is now the end of July. The deal fell through so we are now just left hanging indefinitely until a new buyer comes along. I feel very unsettled as I can’t make any plans for the future.’
Having read these comments, it would be difficult not to see the dream as relating to the woman’s work situation, and to her strong anxiety connected with it. She herself says – through her dream – she is ‘convinced it – the situation – is going to crush’ her. She also feels her strong emotions about this – expressed in her attempt to shout – are not being expressed or ‘heard’. From just this one dream, we can be forgiven if we assume that dreams may express in dramatic form our feeling reaction to the circumstances of our everyday life. Taking this dream as information, Mrs. C. L. could see she is feeling crushed by the situation, yet not stating her feelings loudly enough to be heard. She might therefore speak to the manager to clarify the situation for herself.
Here is an even shorter and less complex dream. It has been left just as it was written so its information is immediately apparent. The key words here might be TRYING TO CONTACT HIM and NOT UNDERSTANDING WHY HE LEFT ME. The dream is from Mrs C. J.
Years ago I lost my first husband at twenty nine. I had the same dream continually of being in a phone box trying to contact him, not understanding why he had left me. He died of cancer. Later I remarried and this husband died of a heart attack. Once again the same dream came back so much.
On speculating about the dream from what is immediately apparent, we might say that although it is irrational to continually try to contact her husband when there has never be any success, nevertheless, her desire to be with him continues year after year. This same part of her cannot understand why he died. We might put such feelings into words as, ‘But what had he done to die so young? Why should it happen to me twice?’ We can also assume that her desire to understand these questions, which is what contacting her husband represents, is expressed in the dream as the telephone.
The dream process has dramatised her situation and inner feelings – given them form and made them experiential. Looking at this dream helps us see how an image, such as the telephone, performs exactly the same sort of function as a spoken word, although in a different way. Namely, it represents feelings and thoughts. That the woman’s questions remain, that her problem is unsolved, is apparent from the fact she does NOT make contact on the telephone, and does not find peace. Understanding her dream shows her the importance of the questions she continually asks herself, and the need to release the emotions behind them. With this she could be free of the dream. If she cannot manage this by herself, taking advantage of the professional help of a therapist might help.
To make it clear how everything is a dream holds personal information, to give an example, I was recently asked by a man who had given no thought to dreams how on earth you could extract any meaning from them. He was wearing a fairly old T-shirt, so I said, “OK, let’s imagine you dreamt of your T-shirt, what would you make of that?”
After a while he said, “I don’t know that I would make anything of it.”
My response was to say, “Right, but now tell me where you bought the T-shirt, and what memories it has for you.” Whereupon he told me memories of being abroad, and that the shirt was part of those memories, and he wasn’t prepared to say what they were as they were so personal.
The important point is that everything we see and deal with, every person, every imagined scene, has such a background of feelings and perhaps memories. It is exactly this background of feelings and information that the dream weaves its story from. To understand it you need to become aware of the usually unconscious feeling responses you have in connection with every thing, place, person and animal you fill your dreams with.
For fuller Dream Processing – Below are described simple techniques that make it possible to quickly gain information from your dreams. They have been put as a series of questions. If you take time to consider and answer the question you will find your way into a new experience of dream understanding.
Read it in: Processing Your Dream
Seeing under the Surface
Acting on your Dreams – Extracting more from your dream by letting your body and feelings express it can provide a remarkable release of insight. There are several ways of doing this.
Do see the instructions see: Acting on Your Dreams
The Peer Dream Group – This method is the most powerful and deepest method. It includes some of the other techniques mentioned.
The way of working known as the Peer Dream Group came about from our experience that dreams are largely self explanatory if approached in the right way. An exterior expert or authority is not necessary for a profound experience of and insight into dreams and into oneself if certain rules are respected and used. The dreamer is the ultimate expert on their own dream and themselves but only when we break through to what is usually unconscious mental states, and when treated as such, and supported in their investigation of their dream drama, they can powerfully explore and manifest the resources of their inner life.
To use it see: The Peer Dream Group and What I Have Seen In Dreams
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I dream about my ex girlfriend (who i still hang out with) cheating on me with men. In this reacurring dream im with her and we are being verry close. Then i step out of the room for something and when i come back she is with a man and they always are close to each other like they are toghether. i feal my heart breking so i tell her how i feel and she acts like she dosent care. In the dream ist always a differnt guy and i never know who it is
I answered this one in the Discussion Forum – but here it is again.
Jaclyn – This is about the confusion you live in inside you. It is usually childlike emotions such as jealousy, feeling you are unloved or deserted that causes such misery.
If you can admit that these are feelings that babies or young children have, and you are still at that age emotionally, it will help you leave such things behind. If you can admit that it gives you a chance to grow out of it. If you can’t shift from being a child emotionally your love life will be a continual torture.
Most of us have not actually matured to the point of being capable of love. The very roots of love arise out of the incredible survival drives of a baby totally desiring its mother to give utter and complete attention to it. Without that attention, millions of years of survival in harsh environments, tell the baby it will die. So it holds on to that connection with its mother or carer with every jungle trick it knows. These includes tantrums, acting out sickness, sulking, anger, emotional cut off to see if the parent still cares; and if you haven’t outgrown those, then you will use them in your adult relationships. In detail this means that you will have all those exotic and erotic feelings about the one you love as long as they don’t dare look at another person, and as long as they fulfil all your needs of dependency, fear, and all the other hang-ups we don’t really admit to ourselves.
Look around – most of us do not grow up. I know this story very deeply, because it happens to be mine. I fell in love with a woman and was like five year old child. It took a long time to grow up – but it was worth it.
Tony
I dreamed my and fiance and I were layin in the bed together. I got out of the bed to get the kids dressed for school. As I walked away from the bed, a woman was laying on the opposite side of the bed. My fiance was attempting to get close to her. I asked what he was doing and he said nothing, but proceeding to get close to this woman. I walked over to the bed and choked him. As i was choking him, he turned around and it was not my fiance’s face, it was a stranger. Can you help me understand what is happening?
i had a dream with my ex-boyfriend of over 10 years ago and he was really skinny and non-muscular in the dream, i reality he is a very muscular person. in the dream we were in a very close and loving moment
Jenny – In your dream self you may be seeing your ex-boyfriend as he really is inwardly – or else you have downgraded him because you are moving on. I am not sure which it is. Only you can tell from your inner feelings.
Tony
I need help translating this about my ex boyfriend..who I was very much in love with. still am. we havent talked or seen eachother in about a year..but here it is:
Him and I had somehow decided to meet up somewhere and catch up, apparently we decided on a castle made of stone with vines on its side, which was supposed to be a common place people hungout in the winter. And yes, it was the middle of winter in my dream. My mother and I had gotten their first. My mother and I never agreed on him. But when I told her that he was coming to see me, she immediately wanted to leave but I made her stay. She was wearing a black coat, i thinkkk she was wearing gloves..her hands were in her pockets. Anyways, I randomly was standing in the front of the castle, and I saw his brother’s car driving towards us finally, and I waved and smiled at them both; him and his brother, and He smiled at me, his brother said hi. In my dream, I then turned my head so I saw the parking lot, which was incredibly beyond crowded. I decided I would wander around inside while they found a spot to park. Inside, there was a main floor, then there were wooden stairs that were slightly spiraled in a way, and then upstairs there were about three rooms. I stood in a room with a bunkbed, and a regular bed. The whole inside of the castle was wooden..but while I stood in this room I remembered thinking “this is the room that I lost my virginity to him in..” but in real life, it was not. so that confused me a little..haha. but thennn it seemed like it was taking him a longg time to come inside, so I started just walking around, I ended up in the back of the castle. I decided to call him and ask him where he was, and he told me he was inside the castle on the main floor. So I walked around the side of the castle, and when I got to the front of the outside of the castle, he opened the door, and started walking towards me smiling. He was wearing glasses (which he has in reallife) and he was wearing a black shirt with a white ninja turtle on it.. we hung up our phones then, and started talking. He started talking to me first, and he was talking about me. He started saying how so many people in his life had failed him..but then he never finished his thought. in my dream i got the feeling that he was going to say ‘but you never did”. Before we entered the door, my mother happened to be walking behind us, trying to follow us, but eventually she just let us walk inside as she stayed outside. We were walking very close to eachother, almost touching shoulders. We started walking up the stairs, and when we got to the highest part we just sat there. A little girl that he had apparently talked to while he was here came up to talk to us about shaving..and then left. After she left he was just laying down while I was sitting up, and he was staring at me with the same look he used to. I felt love. And I had a thought in my dream saying “this time, I know I’ll do it right.”
Lucy – The first clue is it is in the middle of winter – a big freeze. It sounds as if there was a cold spell when love died out and you would like to warm it up again.
A castle is a place of defence against attack, but may be that has changed now, and somehow you can agreed to meet. There is a lot going on, with some sexual heat in the background. The other people about make it complicated – your mother, the brother. Then there is the hope you entertain that you were the one he could depend upon – but not joy.
You become close, but not close enough – is it this time?
It seems the whole dream is a travelling through your longings and emotions about what you hoped will be a loving relationship. But you haven’t quite got there. So considering you create your own dreams – obviously out of all the feelings and fears – why did you not move toward satisfaction? Why not learn to have the love of your dreams – in your dreams? Learn to create the ending you want by visualising.
Tony
my dream was so detailed. basically it was like I was in a very very fancy hotel, an incredibly expensive one, and I was sitting in the restaurant part of that hotel at a circular table with my family, the table had a white cloth over it. The waiter came up and gave us menu’s.. I dont remember looking at my menu in particular, but in my dream my family kept showing me the pictures of the food they wanted from their menu’s. Now, I’m a vegetarian. And these pictures were absolutely cruel. There was a white cat that was dead and had chunks missing out of it. I dont recall the other ones specifically..there was a pig at some point. But then in the end, my mother ordered this snake meal where they cut off the head of the snake to separate the head and the tail. I remember putting my head down in my arms, feeling incredibly nauseated. but for some reason, everyone in the dream seemed to think I was asleep. and then I wokeup. I need help interpreting this..anyy answers will be incredibly helpful!
Brittney – Let me say first that I was a very strict vegetarian for 20 years of my life – I still am, but not strictly.
Now when I look at your dream I see that you are in a very smart hotel that is built on the principles you abhor – killing animals for ‘high living’. And then, when you are confronted by other people’s choices you feel nauseated and everyone thought you were asleep. Asleep to what I wonder?
Maybe your dream is confronting you with your view of death – death is the end!
Dreams and the unconscious do not see death like that. The view of the unconscious is that death doesn’t exist as we think of it. It sees Life as it is around us – predator and predated. It sees that life eats itself, and that is how it survives. Nothing is lost or taken away. We are all part of an amazing cycle of life. Death is a giving of self so life can continue in its cycle. Even the sun, in its dying, gives us life as it pours out its energy.
So I ask you what makes you feel nauseated? I think it is a question your dreams can answer?
Tony
I had a dream where I slit open my scrotum so I could dig out a bunch of worms. They each looked like huge, long caterpillars and were translucent and colored like gummy worms. I just kept pulling more and more out of my scrotum like it was a plastic grocery sack. What the heck does that mean?
James – Wow, there is a dream that could worry you!
It obviously links with your male potency, your sense of being man, so your identity as a male. But the gummy worms open up all sorts of possibilities that you are trying to get rid of.
Cutting yourself open like that seems to be an act of desperation, as if there is something pressing. So I would ask yourself what is it I you are feeling strongly about your sexuality? What am I doing with my feelings about my manhood, fertility? What did I feel in the dream that could be a clue? I ask this as it could be seen as a funny thing.
Tony
I constantly have a dream that me and my best friend/boyfriend of 3 years just suddenly aren’t together..I never know why, but I am either with another guy or simply alone and just have this horrible feeling in my stomach, and know its not right. In my dream I get upset my bf never called or contacted me after breaking up, and I never know why we ended either. The dream ends with me giving in and trying to find a way to call him but then I wake up. The obvious conlusion would be I think i belong with my bf, but is there anything else possibly?
I had a dream that i was laying on my side in the bed facing my wall but the weird part was the bed i was laying in was the same one i actually have so it was like the dream was real & all of a sudden my bedroom door blew open with this strong force of wind & then i closed my eyes because ui was scared of what it might be i thought it was a demon or something idk why but i just kept my eyes closed & then i woke up crying & my door was opened which was weird because i always close my door before i go to bed please tell me what this means ????
Janeeka – I knew your birthday was in May because your dream told me – you had that powerful bull there protecting you. That tells me also that you do not need to be afraid of the dark because you have a lot of strength if you care to own it.
We are all capable of a lot of things we do now admit too. So I am guessing that if you had shut the door and it was open when you looked, it was either a parent who looked in and forgot to close it; or the wind, or you have the power to open it while you sleep. Stranger things have happened. So do not start frightening yourself with thoughts of demons or ghosts.
Tony
i had a dream that i found a new love, he truly loved me but then he died.
Erika – This suggests that you feel, deep down, that you are either not worthy of love, or frightened of losing it when it comes.
That is not a good place to be, so I suggest that you change the ending of the dream to one of fulfilment. This might not be easy as your unconscious feelings need to be changed by practice. So visualise an ending you would like.
Tony
I had a dream the other night where i heard my husband call me into the living room. I actually got up and started walking to the living room but something told me to stop and i said it is the devil and layed down and went back to sleep. What does this mean? I am scared. My husband was in bed asleep the whole time.
i had a dream today that my dead mother was alive a pregnant. what does it mean?
Theresa – This is mostly guesswork on my part, but it could be that this is a communication with your mother, and she is going through big change; one that is bringing forth a new her. Such things happen in the afterworld. People go through enormous changes, and the pregnancy could be a sign of this.
Either that or you are bringing forth a new part of you.
Tony
I had a dream last night of a big snake on the roof and suddenly fell on my head. then a long time friend (died already in real) saw me and asking how is me.
Jazz – A snake touching your head is a good sign. It shows your energy awakening the ability to see things usually hidden from people. In your case a conversation with a dead friend.
Tony
I had this dream where i was running and hiding from 4 men tryin to shoot me.. i went into a white house, and found myself in the bathroom, looking at a bathtub full of water and tons of little fish, one that stuch out to me that was alot bigger than the rest, lots of large fins and half of it was purple the other half like a clear, white. I was also holding a black cat that talked, and there were 2 black kittens in this bathroom aswell.. this dream was very vivid and the men trying to shoot me were no longer there….
Shanda – Are you making this up? Here is dream you sent to me a few days ago:
I had this dream the other night that was so vivid and strange!
I was running from 4 men who were trying to shoot me, so I sliced open the screen in a window, and escaped the house I was in with them. I went into a different white house and found myself in the bathroom. Everything was very white and bright, the bathtub was the only thing i was looking at.
It was full of water and tons of tiny fish. One fish was a lot bigger and stuck out to me the most. It was very pretty, large fins something like an angelfish, it was half purple and a clearish white. As these fish are swimming around I am holding a female black cat that is talking with me, I mentioned her babies to her and there were 2 other black kittens, but they did not speak. The men never found me here.. I woke up after telling this cat her babies were there with us….
So I see it is from the same email address – so the answer is under comments.
Hey Ho – Tony
In my dream I was watching a man in some distant trees and saw that he was taking little live rodents and eating them alive, only eating certain parts. He heard me and jumped up and pulled over his head a wolf-head mask with the nape fur falling down his back. His body was muscular and he was wearing naught but a leather flap or skirt or something. He started chasing me, but didn’t seem to be running as fast as he could be. I ran to an opening where I saw a few of my friends and got behind one of them explaining my plight and asking for help. When the man came out of the trees he pulled off his mask and his face was very handsome. It was also covered in very small, intricate and beautiful tattooed designs that looked the color of henna, but that I understood to be permanent. He was the most beautiful man I had ever seen, with long dark hair pulled back loosely. He smiled and shook the hands of all of my friends introducing himself as “Dr. Folsom.” I came out and he took my hand….and thats all I remember.
The “Folsom” thing I’m assuming is just my subconscious saying, “You need more Johnny Cash,” so don’t worry about that part.
Hilary – This is a fascinating dream. It reminds me very much of the book Don’t Cry Wolf by Farley Mowat. He lived in the wilds of Canada with a family of wolves, and learnt to eat what they ate – small rodents – and was very healthy on the diet.
I believe you have met, in your dream, the natural instinctive in you. But although scared, you have been hiding in the familiar way of feeling and thinking – your friends – and because of your love of the natural you have found the wonderful mixture of animal self and human self. Truly a very beautiful thing – a real human being that has its roots in animal but makes it noble in its human life. In general the Caucasian race has cut the animal out of their lives.
The Native Americans understood this and had their animal totems. Maybe you have a little such blood in you to dream such a dream.
Tony
I had this dream of my brother being in prison. I was trying to visit him, but he would not give his inmate number and refused to see me. I was crying very hard, begging and pleading for him to please give the number so i can see him, but he wouldn’t. The weirdest part is, i was seeing him through a glass”
Kristina – Of course this could be about your actual brother, but that is so unusual. It seems more likely that you have imprisoned your internal brother. So what feelings do you have about your brother – are they rivalry, anger, feelings of persecution, love and admiration, authority, or an outgoing ability to deal with the world? Define how you see him and ask what this mirrors in you.
And how are you keeping this part of you a prisoner, and passionate feelings you have about seeing him, where do you notice them in your waking life. Is it to do with your potential that has been imprisoned?
Seeing – that you can see through a glass. This has the feel in it of the sentence, “For now we see through a glass, darkly; but then face to face.” And your struggle to visit your brother has something of not being able to see him face to face. And this may be because you have held back that part of you.
Tony