Dream Dictionary
Dream Dictionary
Online Dream Dictionary & Encyclopedia
by Tony Crisp
The Spanish Dictionary is all the work and effort placed in it, as well as many excellent dream interpretations all by Anna Hoser,
Introduction
The latest edition of the Dream Dictionary and Dream Encylopedia is the result of some sixty years experience of working with dreams and their understanding. The Dream Dictionary encompassing articles on a vast range of topics. This gives the reader an unparalleled insight into the study of dreams and the inner life. But there are an enormous amount of Features in the Dream Encylopedia that cover a range of topics about dreams and the inner life.
The aim of the Dream Dictionary is to help you make connections between your dreams and your everyday life; to discover more fully the powerful emotions and reactions that unconsciously direct your decisions and responses in waking. This is not an attempt to give you merely ideas to play with, to agree or disagree with, like fortune telling. It can lead to real insights which empower you to make more of yourself, and find your way through the many decisions with which life confronts you.
Useful Links
Your Guru Your Body
What Are Dreams
Learn how to Interpret Your Dream
What does my dream mean? – How to explore your dream meaning
Personal Dream Interpretation
A Note About the Author: Tony Crisp
Mind Watching and Dreams
Introduction to Using the Dream Dictionary
Using the Dictionary
The Discovery of Dreams – Things We Need to Remember About Us
Gaining Insight into Your Dreams
Acknowledgement to this Edition
What Is Offered In The Dictionary
The Discovery of Dreams
Deepening Dream Understanding
Seeing under the Surface
Exploring Inner Space
Things I Wished I Had Had Been Taught Earlier in My Life
Features Found on Site: this is a full list of the topics covered by the Dream Encyclopedia (not a list of dream dictionary words).
What Are Dreams?
Dreams are one of nature’s miracles, not the result of a wandering mind in sleep. A dream is an interface between the process of life, our core self and our conscious personality. Life existed quite capably for millions of years before the self-aware human personality came on the scene. In all that time the ancestors of the modern human being survived without having a rational mind to reason with, or self consciousness to ask such questions as ‘What do I do about this?’ Nevertheless survival strategies were still developed in their unconscious intelligence. Dreams express this unconscious wisdom that was developed in humans and animals through millions of years of Life experience.
Life’s age old unconscious processes are still the major part of our being, yet we seldom consciously meet them – except in dreams. As our physical and psychological health depend upon a reasonable co-operation between the spontaneous processes of life – such as breathing, digestion and the thousands of other life sustaining activities and our conscious decisions and actions, the encounter in dreams is vital. As I often point out to those I am advising we are a human face on a long line of beautiful animals. In fact “You ride an ancient beast.” The ancient beast is your body, and your conscious self is the modern and recent rider of it. Some ‘riders’ do not understand their animal needs – and the fact that we have several levels of brain that are independent of each other proves this. Still active in us are our Reptile Brain, Our mammalian Brain, and our Human Brain, and the reptile and mammalian brains are still very active and constitute a large part of our human unconscious. See – Brain Levels and Dreams – Life’s Little Secrets and Levels of Awareness in Sleeping and Waking.
So, no plant or creature grows from a dead seed, and each living seed carries within it all the past gathered from all its forebears. So, the seed in your mother’s womb is as old as and even older than human kind, and you carry that wisdom or memories in you. But in this life you developed a new brain, and the memories you gathered this time are what you built your personality from, but beneath that is a very ancient self. To meet this ancient self try using Opening to Life
That suggests that dreams cannot be defined under any one heading. Like human beings, they are enormously varied in what they express. Just as one cannot say the human mind is simply a system of memory, one cannot say dreams are just the reflection of experienced events. The mind also deals with problem solving, predicting outcomes of action, playing with possibilities via imagination, creating the new out of old material, replaying traumatic and disturbing events in order to find ways of meeting them constructively. Dreams, being the mental phenomena they are, deal with all of these issues and more. The following definitions give the main functions observable in dreams.
Dreams are:-
- Dreams are one of nature’s miracles, not the result of a wandering mind in sleep. A dream is an interface between the process of life, our core self and our conscious personality. Life existed quite capably for millions of years before the self-aware human personality came on the scene. In all that time the ancestors of the modern human being survived without having a rational mind to reason with, or self consciousness to ask such questions as ‘What do I do about this?’ Nevertheless survival strategies were still developed in their unconscious intelligence. Dreams express this unconscious wisdom that was developed in humans and animals through millions of years of Life experience.
- Recently I have come to see dreams as the lonely voice of Life calling out to us in our often frantic search for meaning. It calls out from its vastness that is beyond our understanding, and in its loving efforts gathers the fragments of our memory and associations and forms dreams with them. It does this in its efforts to instruct, guide and even heal us; but often we miss seeing that just as Life reaches to us from its vastness using things we might understand, we too must reach beyond our often pitiful understanding to move toward and touch the wonder of Life within us.
- An expression of what is happening in the physical body. Some doctors consider dreams to show signs of illness long before they are evident in other ways. Women frequently know they are pregnant very early on through sleep awareness in a dream. See: body; body dreams; Kasatkin_Vasily; consciousness-mind body split.
- A link between the sleeping mind and what is occurring externally. For instance, a person may be falling out of bed and dream of flying or falling.
- A way of balancing the physiological and psychological activities in us. When a person is deprived of dreaming in experiments, a breakdown in mind and body quickly occurs. This type of dreaming, or even nightmares, can often be a safety valve releasing tension and emotion not dealt with in waking life. See: compensation theory; self-regulation dreams and fantasy; science and dreams.
- An enormously original source of insight and information. Dreams tap our memory, our experience, and scan information held in our unconscious to form new insights from old experience. Dreams often present to us summaries or details of experience we have been unable to access consciously. Sometimes this is as early as life in the womb. See: creativity and problem solving in dreams.
- That insight comes from an amazing ability dreams have. Mostly we are lost in being aware of this moment or cares of recent events, and of our present environment, but the dream process has another view, that is of our whole life, like flying high and so have a huge view. We have taken in so much life experience, but many of us have not learnt the amazing lessons we gained by it. But the overall view we get from dreams, visions and our intuition gives us a view that synthesises or whole life and highlights its wonder, its destiny, our real purpose and our life’s real work. See Intuition – Using It
- A means of compensating for failure or deprivation in everyday life, and as a means of expressing the otherwise unacknowledged aspects of oneself. Such dreams are a move toward wholeness. See: compensation theory.
- In dreams we may be integrating new experience with what we have already gathered and digested. In this way our abilities, such as social skills, are gradually upgraded. See: computer, computer-dream process as a; Evans, Christopher.
- Dreams often stand in place of actual experience. So through dreams we may experiment with new experience or practice things we have not yet done externally. For instance many young women dream in detail of giving birth. This function of what might be called ‘imagination’ is tremendously undervalued, but is a foundation upon which human survival is built. See: imagination and dreaming.
- An means of exercise for the psyche or soul. Just as the body will become sick if not moved and stressed, so the mind and emotions need stimulus and exercise. Dreams fulfill this need. See Opening to Life
- An expression of human supersenses. Humans have an unconscious ability to read body language – so they can assess other humans very quickly. Humans have an unimaginable ability to absorb information, not simply from books, but from everyday events – for example science now tells us that we collect information at an enormous rate, millions of bits every second, but unfortunately we do not synthesis it to see what it means, for most of it is unconscious, only dreams access and use it. With it they constantly arrive at new insights and realisations. Humans frequently correctly predict the future – not out of a bizarre ability, but from the information gathered about the present. All these abilities and more show in our dreams. See: esp in dreams.
- A means of solving problems, or formulating creative ideas, both in our personal life, and also in relationships and work. Many people have produced highly creative work directly from dreams. See Creative Dreaming and Problem Solving
- A presentation in symbols of past traumatic experience. If met this can lead to deep psychological healing. Such dreams are therefore an attempt on the part of our spontaneous inner processes to bring about healing change. See: abreaction; compensation theory; nightmares.
- In the widest sense nearly all dreams act as a process of growth or a move toward maturing. Some dreams are very obviously presenting internal forces or dimensions of experience that might lead the conscious personality toward a greater balance and inclusiveness. See: individuation; LifeStream.
- A way of reaching beyond the known world of experience and presenting intimations from the unknown. Many people have dreams in which ESP, out of the body experiences, and knowledge transcending time and space occur. This type of dream may indicate a link between the present person and people who had lived in the distant past; or between the dreamer and all existing life. Some of these dreams present powerful insights into how the transitory human personality may arise out of an eternal consciousness. They thus deal with the spiritual aspects of human nature. See: Dimensions of Human Experience; Buddhism and dreams; Cayce, Edgar; collective unconscious; Bible and dreams; esp in dreams; hallucinations; history of dreaming; religion and dreams; yoga and dreams; Dream Yoga.
Learn how to Explore Your Dream
I know how much you might like to skip the Introduction to Dream Dictionary, and if you are tempted to do so, I wholeheartedly ask you to read Summing Up. Without understanding the things given there you are likely to completely miss the point of understanding your dreams. The best technique to enter you dream world – Peer Dream Work
You can start using the Dream Dictionary by entering the word you wish to research into the Search Box on the top right of most pages and clicking the search symbol – or you can read some fuller information below about the dictionary and how best to use it.
But the quickest way is to put your word in the search box.
Your dreams can become vortexes of power to transform your life, and to enhance your perceptions. There is no ‘wave a magic wand’ route to this. It will not happen because you read a great book or look at a good dream dictionary. Those things might help, but the real magic lies in whether you can enter into your dream in the right way. (Try using Being the Person or Thing and Meaning of Your Dream).
What does my dream mean? – How to explore your dream meanings
It is important in reading the definitions of dream images to realise that not every possible meaning can be covered in this dictionary. So please see if you get the idea of what is being said and allow your own imagination/feelings to fill in the meaning.
There are several ways you can understand the meanings held in your dreams, and there are several levels.
The first is an easily understood level, followed by greater depths:
For instance, speaking as an object or dream person, one needs to take time with it. Learn how to actually describe what you are as that dream object or person. If I dream of a dog, don’t simply describe what you think a dog feels like, but actually take time to tune into the dream image and describe the dog dreamt about. Is it an old or young dog? What is it doing in the dream? Listen to your feelings and describe what it/you feel. Remember that each image is a creation of your own mind and unconscious, so you are really describing yourself. Say whatever comes and consider its value afterwards. Below is a quote from Tiziana Stupia’s book Meeting Shiva
Tony taught me a process in which a dream could be interpreted and understood by assuming that everything, people and objects alike, in a dream represented aspects of the Self. Sitting cross-legged on the squishy, old-fashioned sofa in the living room of my sadhu’s cave opposite Tony, I’d close my eyes and mentally return to a dream I had the previous night. He would ask me questions about the dream, which I’d answer in the first person. So if I dreamt about a tree, I would ‘become’ the tree, assume its personality and respond from its viewpoint. He’d ask ‘So what kind of tree are you? Are you big or small, old or young? What do you look like? Where are you growing? Why are you in Tiziana’s dream?’
This sounded like a silly exercise at first, but I was soon enough convinced of its validity. It was fascinating to discover a wealth of insight and emotion emerging from my responses, and understand how they related to my current situation. They also pinpointed exactly where I was in my growth process. Sometimes, the dreams would uncover unconscious fears and intuitions. Often, they also held important clues and offered solutions to my problems. It was like doing detective’s work – arduous at times, but rewarding beyond belief.
So below are listed several ways to gain insight and information from your dreams. Take your time with each approach until you get the feel for it, and then experiment with other approaches.
You can enter a key word in the search box. The Dream Dictionary contains interpretations on almost any type of dream subject. So, if you dreamt of a flying saucer landing in a field, and aliens getting out and taking a baby, a snake, and a pregnant dog back into the saucer, you could search separately for each of these subjects in the Dream Dictionary. Find the entry for flying saucer; then the entry for dog, baby, snake, pregnant, and so on. For each entry, find further related entries by looking under ‘Similar Articles’ on the right-hand side of the page. Then see Techniques for Exploring your Dreams.
Each entry gives the general meaning of the dream subject, just as an encyclopedia or dictionary does for a word. Several possible meanings are given. This is because as with our speech the position of the word – the context – gives it special meanings. So, a hot dog would be quite different to a black dog, dog-end or dead dog. Therefore, when you read an entry which has several different meanings, sometimes with a ‘;’ between, it simply means any one of them could apply, which means you need to think about the feelings in your dream, the context, the other imagery used. Please do not fall into the trap that one reviewer made of saying that the whole dictionary is about sex. Of course, sex is one meaning among many others. So, use your own sense of your dream as well as any definitions given.
To really explore the meaning, it is useful to use the Dream Dictionary as it is designed, rather than arrive at a ‘thought out’ interpretation. To see a working example of this see ‘Dream Interpretation Example One‘.
Personal Dream Interpretation
I no longer offer a personal dream interpretation service, but only occasionally if you manage to send an interesting dream I will respond – the reason is I am getting past my sell by date being 84.
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In the meantime, here is a way to work out your own dream – Getting at Your Dream’s Meaning.
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A Note About the Author: Tony Crisp
I have been interested in the health of mind and body since my early teens. I began writing about these subjects in 1956. My fascination for what lay under the surface of the mind led me personally to explore the unconscious using dreams and other mental and physical disciplines. From 1972 – 94 I worked as a psychotherapist using an eclectic, Humanistic Psychology approach which included dream work and releasing the secrets the body holds. My books include Do You Dream; Mind and Movement; The Instant Dream Book; Dream Dictionary; Life’s Little Secrets –Liberating The Body – and many more. See My Books.
During those years I worked as a dream columnist for The Daily Mail and She Magazine. I was the regular dream interpreter for the London Broadcasting Company; I ran Teletext’s dream page on UK television’s Channel Four; and for New Zealand Teletext, and now I run this website giving dream help in the many replies to peoples dreams and in as well as many features on subjects connected with the human inner world. See Features
Throughout more than five decades I have been involved in a personal search for the secrets of mind and spirit. In those years I have also taught thousands of people techniques of deep relaxation, meditation, and methods of self exploration using dreams. Wanting to dig deep I explored the use of dreams and taught individuals and groups of people how to use these visions of the night to discover and heal the deepest issues in themselves, and to touch the high ground of their spiritual awareness. I worked for twenty years as a psychotherapist using several approaches, one of which was a way of honouring the body as a doorway to the unconscious mind, the emotions and spiritual experience. See Self-Regulation – Recognition – Life’s Little Secrets – The LifeStream and Opening to Life
During the sixty years of seeking the wild wondrous beasts of the mind and spirit I dared my own inner adventure. But I also travelled with other people as an ordinary person, not a therapist, sharing their experience of fear and wonder as they unveiled and set loose their fountain of perception. I have travelled countless dream pathways, traversed the timeless with those using awareness enhancing drugs, and wrestled with the vitality of the body as people mimed and shouted their deepest intuitions through movement, dance and voice. See Tony’s Biography
My aim has always to share my findings – actually what I was shown or given from within – was given freely; I never had any teacher or attended a course, of course I read an enormous amount, so I cannot ask for money. If you wish to donate anything to the running of the site you can do so by clicking on https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&hosted_button_id=JYTWAMC4LQLQ4&source=url
My teacher has been from exploring dreams and occasionally touching the wonder we were born as – not from words written in books about that but by meeting it. See Enlightenment
Introduction to Using the Dream Dictionary
Diccionario de los Sueños
Profundización de la comprensión de un sueño; Introducción
What Is Offered In The Dictionary
In a similar way, by observing dreams and laying bare the emotions and associated ideas and memories we have with the dream imagery, we gradually define our personality, its strengths and weaknesses, we discover new abilities and we grow beyond our old problems, and that in a depth we had never managed previously. I have called this mind watching, but it covers every aspect of human nature, not simply the intellect or thinking.
This mind watching through observation of our dreams first presents information about our personal experiences and memories and how they influenced our growth and influence present responses. Gradually the information arising from such watching leads beyond ones personal self. It shows in many cases how our unique self has arisen from, and has indissoluble links with our forebears, with our culture, with the past as a whole, and with the cosmos itself. It leads from oneself to the edge of the known, and perhaps helps us take a few steps beyond that edge into the unknown, to create new understanding.
This mind watching gradually reveals to us the many aspects of the mind’s working, and with such insight may come the growing ability to use these facets of ourselves. Not only may we discover great vistas of personal memory, but also the roots of our creativity, the subtle senses of our emotions and unconscious, and the treasures of experience we have gathered. See Your Amazing Circle – Self Observation
So how can we get into this magical world of our dreams and start to harvest the possibilities held there? The following pages of this book are designed to help, guide and inform on how to do this. The book is also a counsellor on what you may find in your dream adventure.
The information about dreams presented in this book has been gathered during fifty years of working with and studying dreams and the dream process. It synthesises the experience of personally helping hundreds of individuals explore their dreams. The examples used have been taken from a collection of over 8000 dreams put onto a computer filing system. The filing system was also used to define general associations with commonly used dream images.
The major input for definition however has arisen from the actual exploration of dreams undertaken by individuals. These are either people I have worked with personally who have deeply felt the emotions and issues behind their dreams, not simply talked them over and come to an intellectual interpretation but a deep insight, or are people who have written up their findings arising from similar work. Added to this is the commonly held associations we have through our language and the way we use imagery within speech. Of course your personal dream imagery may not be using the commonly held associations, or those used by other people, and so you must read the definitions with care and consider if these fit what is implied or dramatised in your dream.
In the entries in the Dictionary are explanations of the many different types of dreams and dream images. Despite some people’s attempt to explain dreams in one simple formula, dreams cover a huge range of phenomena and human experience. Amongst subjects covered in the book are thousands of entries on the researched meaning of the things, people, creatures and places we dream about. There are also many entries on special subjects such as symbols and dreaming; interpreting dreams; recurring dreams; nightmares; sex while asleep; teenage girls love dreams; precognitive dreams; talking in ones sleep; the dream as an adventure; Occultism and Dreams; science sleep and dreams; and many more.
There are a compete list of these Features and the Archetypes covered.
Therefore, if you have dreamt of such things as your teeth falling out; being chased; or your marriage partner dying, you will find an explanation of your dream in the following pages.
The aim of the book is to help you make connections between your dreams and your everyday life; to discover more fully the powerful emotions and reactions that unconsciously direct your decisions and responses in waking. The book is not an attempt to give you merely ideas to play with, to agree or disagree with, like fortune telling. It can lead to real insights which empower you to make more of yourself, and find your way through the many decisions life confronts you with.
But you can move directly on to Using the Dictionary – or better still read Meaning of Your Dream.
The Discovery of Dreams
Dreams are a magical mirror in which your innermost hopes, longings, fears/terrors and genius are made real. They are made real as external environments, people, animals and relationships. It is as if all your deepest feelings, hopes, fear and wonder are projected outward onto a multidimensional screen. It is a world of virtual reality that you feel is real. Unfortunately this wonderful virtual reality world is usually felt as dealing with other people, as externals, like something that can damage us, or something like the Devil that can possess us.
But the greatest truth I have found in exploring dreams – not interpreting them – is that we are alone with ourselves in the world of our dream. If we can acknowledge and admit that our terrors we dream are actually our past hurts that we have not faced presenting themselves for us to heal; that the ghosts and demons that can rampage about our night are embodiments of our fears; that our wonderful visions and insights are an expression of our own infinite potential, then we can walk a pathway to finding what we really are. Audio Introduction to Exploring a Dream
- Dreams are virtual realities that we create in our sleep. Even the wonderful dreams of God and angels are an external virtual reality, and mirror of our own inner immensity and our enormous variety. Unfortunately people either accept them as externally real, or as fantasy. But they are reflections of your potential, that cannot be seen in your daily life that is so dominated by your physical senses and hungers and fears.
- See The Magical Dream Machine. So the images and fears we experience in our dreams are projection upon the vast screen of our mind. They are all projections from you. Running from them is like trying to escape from yourself.
- In life and sleep we have two powerful actions working in us. The first is our waking experience based on having a body, its limitations, vulnerabilities and a particular gender. Our second is the power that gave us life and continues to express as dreams.
- While we sleep our conscious self is largely or totally unconscious, and while we sleep our voluntary muscles are paralysed – therefore another will or motivating force moves our body. So we have a Conscious Will, and what I will call a Life Will. The first one we have experience of as we can move our arm or speak in everyday activities; but the second will takes over when we sleep. See Sleep Paralysis
- This Life will can move us to speak, to move our body, and in fact do things that we cannot do with our Conscious Will. As Freud pointed out this inner will has full access to our memories. It can do so many other things that are described else where – See ESP in Dreams; Edgar Cayce and the Cosmic Mind.
- This Life Will or motivator has been active for millions of years and we see it working all the time in animals. We are partly split in half because we are often opposed to what our Life Will in us wants. So the only way to express what is good for us is in dreams when our conscious will is largely passive.
- Life Will created your body and pre-existed you as a person you know today. It was working in you prior to your ability to speak or know in the way you do now. But of course it has fantastic wisdom and skills, as can be seen in animals.
- Life, if you look around you at Life’s creature, they can take any form. So Life itself is without form. In fact the recent advances in quantum physics suggest that what gives us existence is beyond space and time – beyond understanding.
- So dreams do not come from the human unconscious, but from the formless origins of Life – our Core Self. To express in a way that is understandable to us as a person with limited understanding, dreams use all the common imagery and ideas. So people who say that dreams are a mish mash of common everyday events are mistaken. See LifeStream; Levels of Awareness in Sleeping and Waking; .
- Our core self can be explained by realising that we are all dependent on the universe. We often feel that the universe is way beyond our understanding, but a few simple facts may help. The first is that the universe as we know it began with what had been called the Big Bang. But before that there was a situation prior to the creation of time and space. That situation is very much like the experience of Edgar Cayce who had an awareness reaching beyond time and space. See God and the Big Bang are the Same Thing
- Irish physicist John Stewart Bell put forward a quantum theorem that has revolutionised the way reality is considered. In brief, the theorem states that when two sub-microscopic particles are split and moved to a distance from each other, the action on, or of, particle ‘A’, is instantaneously reproduced with particle ‘B’. This interaction does not rely on any known link or communication and is considered to stand above normal physical laws of nature, as it is faster than light. Prior to such findings it was thought nothing could transcend the speed of light. Nick Herbert, in an interview published in High Frontiers writes: ‘THERE ARE LOTS OF THINGS that are being kept from the public as far as the subjects of physics and consciousness are concerned. Bell’s Theorem was proved in 1964, and it is still not taught in physics classes, and you don’t hear it on your science news programs. A theorem is a proof, and no one has found a flaw in this theorem. It’s such a simple proof that a high school kid can understand it. So physicists can understand it. They have various ways of trying to ignore it, but it can’t be refuted because it’s so simple.’
Our Core self is that amazing part of us existing beyond time and space, and was within us from the start of our universe.
- In the world of dreams our most intimate fears and longings are given an exterior life of their own in the form of the people, objects and places of our dream. Therefore our sexual drive may be shown as a person and how we relate to them; or given shape and colour as an object; or given mood as a scene. Our feeling of ambition might thus be portrayed as a business person in our dream – our changing emotions as the sea or a river; while the present relationship we have with our ambition or emotions is expressed in the events or plot of the dream.
- You cannot be killed in a dream. All you can experience is the anguish and perhaps fear of dying, but in dreams you cannot die – or drown, or burn or any other threatening thing. We make the mistake of taking our very real values from our outer life into our inner life of dreams.
- In dreams, what ever moves away from you in our dreams is going out of your awareness or even life; and whatever moves toward us is emerging into consciousness. Whatever it is that is coming toward us is giving us something whether it is energy, insight, or a frightening dream that is trying to shock us to wake up and clear out the inner mess we are in. The fact we give it a frightening image is because we are brought up to be scared of ourselves and to not trust Life/Core. If you know the tenets of the AA, you will see that is what they are about – to trust Life.
- Most people are frightened of life. I see this in so many dreams sent to me. They do not trust themselves to the powerful action of Life flowing through them. See Life’s Little Secrets.
- We have been brain washed to believe that our existence depends upon nothing but accidental events, the survival of the fittest, the chemical and biological mechanical actions. Yet every time I have gone deeply into my ‘unconscious’ and yet maintained awareness, I have found a wonderful power of Life there.
- So if your dreams frighten you, I want to say you are frightened of something wonderful that could have grown you and enlarged your experience of yourself. The thing that was full of fear was your own fear put into an image, and yet was a wonderful gift that you avoided receiving.
- I too was full of fears and often woke up screaming. Then I learned to trust Life. It is like learning to swim. So please go back into your dream and let the fearful thing be fully experienced instead of waking up in fear. Then it will unveil itself as a thing of light and love.
Deepening Dream Understanding
I suggest you only try one method at a time and use it until you are capable or it or it doesn’t work for you, then move on to other methods taking time with them until you find what works best for you.
Although the process of dreams might not be a direct attempt to present MEANING, a dream may nevertheless have a great deal of INFORMATION in it. This becomes clearer if we remember that not many years ago it would have appeared highly superstitious or suspect to claim to be able to tell a person details of their health and parentage from a sample of their urine or blood. Today it is common practice. We accept that a growing amount of information can be gained from these unlikely sources. Blood doesn’t contain meaning, but we can gain information from it. In a similar way a sample of our dreams can also tell us an enormous amount. Sometimes this data is obvious, sometimes it needs processing to uncover, as with urine and blood.
Dream Processing – The following dream needs no deep techniques of processing. The word ‘processing’ is used throughout the book instead of analysis. Analysis has the connotation of giving our own thoughts or opinions to the dream. Processing is used to suggest extraction of information which leads to insight. With this particular dream, all it needs is a few facts brought to it to make clear what information it holds. The dream is that of a young woman, Mrs C. L.
It is a bright sunny day. I am walking across a large concrete car park. It is empty except for a huge trailer from a truck. It has BOOTS written on the side, and stands high off the ground. Being 4’ 9’ tall myself I decide to walk underneath. As I am half way the trailer starts to be lowered on top of me. I try to shout but cannot. I get onto my hands and knees and the trailer still kept coming down. I am now lying on my stomach, convinced it is going to crush me. Then it suddenly stops a couple of inches from my head. I wake feeling terrible.
The dream is interesting, although the information it holds may at first not be obvious. But with a minimum of processing the dream information will become clear. The first technique of processing the dream is to recognise some of the key statements within it. These are I AM WALKING – I TRY TO SHOUT – CONVINCED IT IS GOING TO CRUSH ME.
The reason these are key statements is because the dreamer is saying ‘I am walking’ – ‘I try to shout’ – ‘I …am convinced’. The word ‘I’ is important.
This form of processing has not added anything to the dream. It has simply drawn attention to the information already there in the dreamer’s description of her experience – this is why it is useful to write the dream out fully. If we add a little more information which the dreamer herself connects with the dream, then it becomes even clearer. Mrs C. L. says, ‘I work for BOOTS the chemist. The employees at the shop I work in were told at the beginning of the year that Boots are selling our shop. When that happens I will be made redundant. We were supposed to finish on May 26th. It is now the end of July. The deal fell through so we are now just left hanging indefinitely until a new buyer comes along. I feel very unsettled as I can’t make any plans for the future.’
Having read these comments, it would be difficult not to see the dream as relating to the woman’s work situation, and to her strong anxiety connected with it. She herself says – through her dream – she is ‘convinced it – the situation – is going to crush’ her. She also feels her strong emotions about this – expressed in her attempt to shout – are not being expressed or ‘heard’. From just this one dream, we can be forgiven if we assume that dreams may express in dramatic form our feeling reaction to the circumstances of our everyday life. Taking this dream as information, Mrs. C. L. could see she is feeling crushed by the situation, yet not stating her feelings loudly enough to be heard. She might therefore speak to the manager to clarify the situation for herself.
Here is an even shorter and less complex dream. It has been left just as it was written so its information is immediately apparent. The key words here might be TRYING TO CONTACT HIM and NOT UNDERSTANDING WHY HE LEFT ME. The dream is from Mrs C. J.
Years ago I lost my first husband at twenty nine. I had the same dream continually of being in a phone box trying to contact him, not understanding why he had left me. He died of cancer. Later I remarried and this husband died of a heart attack. Once again the same dream came back so much.
On speculating about the dream from what is immediately apparent, we might say that although it is irrational to continually try to contact her husband when there has never be any success, nevertheless, her desire to be with him continues year after year. This same part of her cannot understand why he died. We might put such feelings into words as, ‘But what had he done to die so young? Why should it happen to me twice?’ We can also assume that her desire to understand these questions, which is what contacting her husband represents, is expressed in the dream as the telephone.
The dream process has dramatised her situation and inner feelings – given them form and made them experiential. Looking at this dream helps us see how an image, such as the telephone, performs exactly the same sort of function as a spoken word, although in a different way. Namely, it represents feelings and thoughts. That the woman’s questions remain, that her problem is unsolved, is apparent from the fact she does NOT make contact on the telephone, and does not find peace. Understanding her dream shows her the importance of the questions she continually asks herself, and the need to release the emotions behind them. With this she could be free of the dream. If she cannot manage this by herself, taking advantage of the professional help of a therapist might help.
To make it clear how everything is a dream holds personal information, to give an example, I was recently asked by a man who had given no thought to dreams how on earth you could extract any meaning from them. He was wearing a fairly old T-shirt, so I said, “OK, let’s imagine you dreamt of your T-shirt, what would you make of that?”
After a while he said, “I don’t know that I would make anything of it.”
My response was to say, “Right, but now tell me where you bought the T-shirt, and what memories it has for you.” Whereupon he told me memories of being abroad, and that the shirt was part of those memories, and he wasn’t prepared to say what they were as they were so personal.
The important point is that everything we see and deal with, every person, every imagined scene, has such a background of feelings and perhaps memories. It is exactly this background of feelings and information that the dream weaves its story from. To understand it you need to become aware of the usually unconscious feeling responses you have in connection with every thing, place, person and animal you fill your dreams with.
For fuller Dream Processing – Below are described simple techniques that make it possible to quickly gain information from your dreams. They have been put as a series of questions. If you take time to consider and answer the question you will find your way into a new experience of dream understanding.
Read it in: Processing Your Dream
Seeing under the Surface
Acting on your Dreams – Extracting more from your dream by letting your body and feelings express it can provide a remarkable release of insight. There are several ways of doing this.
Do see the instructions see: Acting on Your Dreams
The Peer Dream Group – This method is the most powerful and deepest method. It includes some of the other techniques mentioned.
The way of working known as the Peer Dream Group came about from our experience that dreams are largely self explanatory if approached in the right way. An exterior expert or authority is not necessary for a profound experience of and insight into dreams and into oneself if certain rules are respected and used. The dreamer is the ultimate expert on their own dream and themselves but only when we break through to what is usually unconscious mental states, and when treated as such, and supported in their investigation of their dream drama, they can powerfully explore and manifest the resources of their inner life.
To use it see: The Peer Dream Group and What I Have Seen In Dreams
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I had three dreams, all with the same theme. Each one felt heavy and emotional. The dreams were about three different houses and someone in each dream was trying to get me to leave. In two of the dreams a relative that had passed over, my father-in-law and my father were the person trying to get me to leave. In the first dream my father-in-law was quite angry, wanting me to leave. Finally, he was driving me away in a car. I cannot remember the second dream now. The third dream, I was with my sister, trying on clothes. At one point I was in my mother-in-laws closet looking at her clothes and said to myself I could not take any of them. My father handed me a pouch and sent me through a door. I did not want to go. He told me I had to do something that had to do with the pouch. At that time, I had on a coat, I had been trying on, that looked like clothing from say, Russia. I loved the way it felt and looked on me. The entire dream then felt Russian. I could not understand the meaning of what was in the pouch. Twice there were vials with instructions that I did not understand. At one point I thought, urine sample. I kept trying to find my way back to my family. I was in a old building with many doors and rooms, of which I was going through. Finally I thought I had found the door that would open back up to where I had started (and my family), yet when I went through the door everything was different and I did not know all the people, of who were all Russian. There was a woman and a child in one room and then I was lead into another room. In that room there was another woman and a shadow of a man and a man who was in charge. He told me I could not go back. I was crying and saying I wanted to go back to my family. He told me it was not possible and that there were several levels (he showed me a plaque with golden words that represented the name of each level) He told me the last two were at the very bottom and that is where I was. I then seemed to calm down a bit and then I woke up.
My father, father-in-law and my mother-in-law are all dead. It was very confusing to me why the two men where trying to get rid of me. And they were angry, especially my father-in-law.
I am 56. I relocated 10 weeks ago to another state away from my family and friends. I live with a roommate and his son. I am happy with my choice, yet beginning to miss everyone, especially since it is the holiday season. My father died two years ago at Christmas. My father-in-law died this fall. My mother-in-law died many years ago. I have never been to Russia.
Victoria – I believe these are old feelings that are dressed up in new clothes. The old feelings are those to do with not being wanted or loved to the extent you needed when you were young. It seems to me that the relocation, although happy, has triggered old memories of not be able to feel close and in contact with family – and friends. Did you in fact go through a lonely time when you were young?
The Russia episode simply means that you are feeling in a strange new situation that is foreign to you. I am not sure why your father and father in law were angry with you. Dreams tend to dramatise a situation, so if you did not feel welcome at some point, or even if you were not shown real love and support, this can turn into a show of anger in a dream. When I explored a dream in which my father figured I found extraordinary pain because my father never showed any warm interest in me. I was amazed that so much pain could have remained unconscious in me for years, and had in fact changed the direction of my life.
So I would think about such things in that light.
Tony
One morning, I went to my boyfriend’s house early to have coffee. Instead, we lied in bed and talked for an hour and a half, but then both fell asleep. When we woke, he started telling me his dream and it was very similar to mine. A Mexican boy of 7 years old walked along his deck outside of his bedroom, came in the door, and was waiting on the sofa in the next room. I just saw the boy (also Mexican) come in and sit at the table in the next room facing where we were–waiting. He thought the boy was 7, but I thought he was 8. I thought the boy had a turquoise t-shirt and shorts on, he thought the boy was wearing brown. Does this dream mean anything? I don’t believe we were talking about children before we fell asleep. My boyfriend is also Mexican.
Michelle – I cannot be certain, but this sounds very much that you shared the experience of the boy entering your life.
I use the words entering your life rather that entering the room, because as you can see the boy appeared differently to both of you. So you could think of the boy as a dead boy or a person coming in an out of body experience. In either case there is no such thing as defined impressions, so you translate the experience in your own way. But that doesn’t mean the experience wasn’t real.
It would be worth asking next time you are together what the boy wants or is waiting for.
Tony
Two nights a go I had a dream that I took a dump with another two persons in the same room. We were sitting facing each other and it seemed in the dream taking a dump together is common. I woke up feeling so weird about it. When I went back to sleep I was back in the same dream. I couldn’t remember the detail, but I knew it was the same scenario.
Slowrunner – This can mean expressing yourself and releasing feelings, often creative. Or letting go of tightly held attitudes, the past, or sexuality, and possibly acceptance of your own natural drives and needs.
To do it with others can simply mean exposing things about you that are usually private. This could also means it can link with the ‘stink’ – the unacceptable parts of you, that you do not want others to know about or be exposed to.
Tony
i keep dreaming of a little boy and girl and in my dream the little boy is playing the drums. i wonder if it means anything. i have to play the radio when i sleep or i keep having the same dream over and over again.
Christina – To have the same dream over and over is telling you the dream is important. Also the boy play8ing the drum is another way of getting attention.
Have you lost something or someone in the dream. Or maybe you could tell me what the girl and boy are doing in these dreams.
Tony
dream interpretation for lines filling a box
Tamara love – Can you give me a bit more information to work on.
Lines of what, filling what sort of box? Also anything else that is relevant.
Tony
For the 2nd night in a row, i woke up out of a bad dream, where i had been wandering the streets and was attacked by a dog and he had hold of me in his teeth by the chest. When the owner released the dream, i lifted my shirt, to show him several wounds that had been caused over the two attacks. Its such a weird dream and to have the same one twice, must have some significance. I’m not a mental case 🙂 yet. Regards Tedfthis
Ted – Well, by no means a mental case, simply a vivid dreamer.
How I see the dream, how I understand dreams, is using certain well tested principle; one of which is that anything that moves toward you is an aspect of you that is becoming conscious. So the dog is pushing for your attention – aggressively. I know there is a handler, but it seems likely that it is aggressiveness turned against yourself, and felt in the chest.
Either that or someone is letting their aggressive nature loose on you.
If it is the latter it would show as wounded feelings or emotions, and recognising who and what they are doing can often take was their attack. I had a mother-in-law who was plotting behind my back. Without knowing anything about it I felt I was going crazy. But instead I did and exploration inside and found the culprit, and faced her with it. I was amazed at the time that I could feel as if I was going mad from someone plotting against me.
Tony
The other night I had a very vivid dream of horses. I was looking at them from up above out of a window and one of two of the 3 horses jumped up and touched their necks on the power line and got shocked. They became very out of control and soon passed away. I was yelling at them from the window upstairs but they didn’t listen. I do not own horses so I thought this vivid dream was strange.
Julie – I wonder what you are doing to create this dream.
The horse usually depicts your natural urges, but ones that have usually been, or can be socialised to some degree. So we can harness such natural energy. The horse also often expresses enthusiasm or pleasurable energy, as your dream horses were. The problem was that they, in their enthusiasm didn’t listen to you.
The power line is usually the descending energies that are the polar opposite to the evolutionary energy that grew you from a seed in your mother’s womb. It could be likened to the sunlight on the plant’s leaves rather than the flow up from the roots. So that is why I asked what you were doing to cause this dream. Were you feeling very stimulated or ‘high’ in some way? Whatever it was it isn’t terrible harmful but you need to understand what you are doing with such potent energy.
Tony
Okay, so this isn’t really a recurring dream, and in fact, i haven’t had this dream since the first night. but the weird part is, I remeber it perfectly and exactly. From the time I had it about a year ago to now, I remeber everysingle detail, except for how I got to the place.
I’m in what appears to be a store. Not like, a wal-mart or a grocery store, but it looked kind of like a drug store. I’m on one side of the check out counter and looking at the double sliding doors, and its incredibly bright out there. so bright, it’s almost unnatural. That when I notice two people on the check out counter, and It’s quite vulgar. The woman is in a red dress and she has black wavy hair, and theres a man inbetween her legs, but still standing up. he also has black hair. And they are staring at me relentlessly. The entire store has no lights, only candles. And I remember trying on sunglasses and bows in a small mirror being bothered by my reflection, and then i remember seeing myself in the mirror with disgust and I cried and smashed the mirror. then I felt something tickle my shoulder and when I looked, the most gorgeous blue butterfly was there. It crawled up my neck and onto my face before flying off, and I followed it. I ended up in a corridor type place with what looked like bookshelves, only with no books. only necklaces, hand mirrors and other random trinkets on the shelves spaced very far apart from each other. I followed the butterfly all the way down to the very end where at the bottom last shelf was a pair of crowns. Like, king and queen crows. it landed on the queen’s crown and I picked it up and wore it for a moment, looking at myself in the hand held mirror. but then i took it off, placed it back where i found it and walked out of the store calmly with the butterfly on my shoulder. then i woke up at about 3 or 4 in the morning. what on earth could this possibly mean, if anything? and why would i remeber it so vividly even after all this time? I mean, i still remember what the butterfly felt like when it crawled on me, and the horrow of my own reflection and the weight of the crown on my head.
Ashley – This has a feel of an exploration of death dream. What I mean by that is one of the biggest questions we are faced with is about death. In our dreams and in life we are constantly trying to find something that satisfies us. In a sense all our cells are calling out to us, “What is going to happen to me?” Even the questions we ask ourselves about what will the future bring are about death.
So your dream has some classical symbols of dying and the things about life and death. You start out in a store – a place where you look for or choose something to satisfy. The sliding doors are another doorway to an incredibly bright light – almost unnatural (supernatural).
Then the woman in the red dress and the man between her legs is about a part of the search for what satisfies – but you do not go into that sexual desire direction. But you are still looking for something, and you see yourself in the mirror and are horrified. This is yourself as you would look if you could see what you have created of your life and with your life. It is another feature of dying – meeting our self as we really are.
Then the butterfly, a wonderful symbol of the soul leaving the earthy life. It leads you along a passageway – the transit between one world and another – and you see a crown – but fail to keep it. Perhaps you had forgotten that we are all children of the Highest.
I see this as a very important dream, and one of many more that will initiate you further into the mystery of you – if you take it to heart.
Tony
pse clarify certain happenings in a dream:
somebody cutting my hair:
i am getting worried about not having enough money to pay
my hair being cut only on one side of my head
Heletje – Usually hair has a lot to do with your appearance and how you want to look. I can also represent your thoughts and ideas.
I would like to know what side of your head your hair was cut, as it makes a difference. But cutting the hair suggests either a change in your self image or a cutting off of ideas and feelings.
Not having enough money says that you are feeling you do not have what it takes to make the changes in yourself that you want. I would suggest finding in yourself the greatest certainty. What have you done or achieved, or dreamed of doing that you can be proud of?
Tony
i keep having a dream of an old woman soiling herself and i put her in the washing machine, and close the door and she bangs on the glass and says sorry, its ok, press the start button, so i press it and see the water fill up and she starts spinning round n makes a big bang n i realise its wrong so i try to stop the cycle and open the door and then i wake up
Teri – Hmm, a difficult one. Did you have any time in your childhood when you were accused of being soiled or dirty? If so I think the old woman is your mother – symbolised of course.
Whoever the woman represents you feel guilt about what you put her through. So do you feel any guilt about anything?
Tony
My dream started I was in a van. All of a sudden there was 3 zombie like creatures in the back. I turned around spotted them. They were trying to bite me. So, I grab a hammer and started beating them in the head. Two of them was motionless. The third came and I jumped out of the van. Then I started running and running. I came to a stop on my road. I couldn’t go home. The road had blood everywhere. Unaware if my family was okay I ran away. Afraid if I went home they would follow me. I pressed on lightning was striking everything. I started to run again. I seen lots of others hurt, but I knew there faite. I ran some more. Crying as I came to each person. Still I ran. Where I was heading I don’t know. This dream really bothered me bc I never watch these kind of movies. Why would I dream something so horrible.
Amber – It seems that you are facing your ideas and feelings about death. As you said, lightning was striking everything, and you knew everyone’s fate (was to die).
Also dreams put into dramatic form what you have done to your inner self, so the awful zombies are parts of you that have been killed or denied life or expression, and so are the living dead.
Also your view of death is awful too. You have been raised in a culture that is terrified of death, and so that is exactly what you felt when confronted by it.
Please read such books as On Life After Death by Dr Elisabeth Kubler-Ross, and There is a River by Thomas Sugrue. They are so full of proof that the present viewpoint is ridiculous. It was started by Newton and the idea that the atom was the very basic substance of the universe and us. And as the atom was physical it was believe that at death that was the end of us. But that view was superseded at the beginning of the 1900’s – but it is still influencing people.
Tony
I was attending a Level II Kundalini yoga course on the Mind and Meditation in Ojo Caliente, New Mexico (I live in Missouri, am 58 years old, single, without children and practice law full time). We studied and meditated for many hours every day. In the middle of the course I had a dream that I am sure is very significant.:
I dreamt that several of us (I can only identify one person, my yoga teacher who introduced me to Kundalini and who was also attending) were on a road, resembling the road where we were staying. We became aware of a commotion on a large hill right next to the road, and we all stopped to look at it. A line of wild boars was running, in perfect line formation head first into a Buffalo at high speed. The boars were coming from the left hand side, the Buffalo from the right (I am not sure what direction that represents), on a collision course. Suddenly, an immature zebra, mostly white with a few stripes (I remember thinking in my dream that he was out of place) walked right into their path from above, at an angle perpendicular to the approaching collision. We all watched in horror as the buffalo and head boar collided, the buffalo going up on its hind legs and falling onto the zebra.
It didn’t seem like the boars or the buffalo were seriously injured, as they all sort of milled around (I was very worried that they would attack the zebra, who was knocked to the ground, with its front legs folded under him, but who appeard to be alive, just shocked).
From the right, riding in the direction that the buffalo had run, but above it on the mountain, a cowboy-classic Marlboro man-very calmly approached on horseback. He was wearing a buckskin jacket, his horse was brown, his hat matched his jacket. He dismounted and approached the zebra, the other animals ignored him. He bent over and put his arms around the zebras chest and rump, encircling him and lifting him up so that he could get his legs underneath him. The zebra stood up and seemded quite fine after this assist.
All of us on the road clapped were very happy that he was ok.
Deirdre – What a wonderful dream. I felt tremendous uplift as I read it, an uplift mixed with how, when we try to move from being a human being dominated by instincts, there is some struggle or suffering.
As far as I can put into words what I felt, it seems that you were dealing with tremendous energies taking place above your present comprehension – that is up a hill. You can call these the two sides of your nature, ying and yang, Ida and Pingali. What was happening was that they were not flowing up the Sushumna, but were meeting head on.
But with all these things where there are two factors there is a third, and that is the place of transformation. And that was the sacrificial action of the zebra.
Then the cowboy came and he is a great figure – as master figure. A master because he has achieved a state of ordinariness and came from above to help. So you touched something extraordinary in the dream, but did not identify with it. So I suggest you reach out to all the creatures and the cowboy and see if you can identify with them.
Tony
I dreamt that everybody, i mean everbody who has ever been in my life for any length of time or meant something, from lovers, to friends to people i liked , to couldnt care less about, people who liked me, loveed me, hated me and vice versa. For the past 3 nights my dreams have picked up from the previous 1. From chasing people who are shooting people, to those people coming to get me the next night to make sure I dont rat them out to the police. Then the police come next door and every1 in my life climbs up a ladder to my house and forces there way in, im scared and trying to prove im not a pain in the ass anymore. All my teeth fall out, i put them in a box. Im in an old house with old crazy women, one being my mum who died in 08. Queen Elizabeth /Victoria, its an old house, with old artefacts. I drive a mercedes benz in the dream, i lose my phone, i see old friends in a big place where im suddenly very rich and able to have anything. Im scared in the dream always that mum and dad will come back and see the mess ive made of the house, my dad returns as an asian? (hes white in real life).My teeth get knoecked out but my front ones which are always falling out as they are false (in real life) just fall on the floor. Please help me .. i cant sleep,
Dianne – I think the crazy house you live in is you. This is because you are so mixed up about so many things – in the dream, and so probably in your life.
It is so difficult to tell someone a path they can travel that will gradually start them on the road to order their life, but perhaps you could find help in the book The Four Agreements: Practical Guide to Personal Freedom (Toltec Wisdom) by Miguel Ruiz.
There are so many things going on in your dream I think the wisest thing is to read about how to live in a different way.
My thoughts are with you.
Tony
Everything around me was green. I was looking at trees, floating toward them while trying to take a picture of them with the green sky in the background. I kept failing, so I was sent back to my starting point several times. After trying two more times, I quit. I then looked up at the rapidly moving green clouds, and when they touched, they turned into a giant, crashing wave.
Zach – I believe this is about you failing to grasp or understand something. And I also believe that something is the process of life – showing by the green and the trees. I suppose everything around you is green – alive with meaning. So when you failed to see that you are a part of the life process, it switched to a new way of saying the same thing, Showing that life is constant change and movement.
Tony
I just woke from a dream where a very colorful snake was in my bedroom. it was evading me, but continued to confront me aggressively.
It went around the bed,along the wall, at the top of the bed, not the floor. when it got to the end of the bed with the pillows, I had to trap the snake before it got away, or bit me. It was beautiful, with yellow and black, but not stripes, more of a marbled mosaic effect. I corralled the snake with a pillow, and grabbed it at the base of the neck, squeezing it so hard as to keep it from turning and biting me, or getting away. I managed to locate a survival sized kBowie knife, and laaid the snake out on the countertop, and cut its head off. Pink oooz came out of both pieces of the snake, and I woke up, freaked out, and wrote this immediately.
Bobby – Snakes can be good or bad news depending how you relate to them. That you and the snake are out to get each other suggests you are struggling either with your sexual feelings or aggression. In a way a snake is a flow of life, and so cutting its head of shows you repressing whatever life it was expressing. Better by far to make friends with the snake or tame it.
Ask yourself what you are struggling with and see if you can find a different relationship with it – yourself.
Tony