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Dream Dictionary

Online Dream Dictionary & Encyclopedia

by Tony Crisp

The Spanish Dictionary is all the work and effort placed in it, as well as many excellent dream interpretations all by Anna Hoser,

Introduction

The latest edition of the Dream Dictionary and Dream Encylopedia is the result of some sixty years experience of working with dreams and their understanding. The Dream Dictionary encompassing articles on a vast range of topics. This gives the reader an unparalleled insight into the study of dreams and the inner life. But there are an enormous amount of Features in the Dream Encylopedia that cover a range of topics about dreams and the inner life.

The aim of the Dream Dictionary is to help you make connections between your dreams and your everyday life; to discover more fully the powerful emotions and reactions that unconsciously direct your decisions and responses in waking. This is not an attempt to give you merely ideas to play with, to agree or disagree with, like fortune telling. It can lead to real insights which empower you to make more of yourself, and find your way through the many decisions with which life confronts you.

Useful Links

Your Guru the Dream

Your Guru Your Body

What Are Dreams

Learn how to Interpret Your Dream

What does my dream mean? – How to explore your dream meaning

Personal Dream Interpretation

A Note About the Author: Tony Crisp

Mind Watching and Dreams

Introduction to Using the Dream Dictionary

Using the Dictionary

The Discovery of Dreams – Things We Need to Remember About Us

Gaining Insight into Your Dreams

Acknowledgement to this Edition

What Is Offered In The Dictionary

The Discovery of Dreams

Deepening Dream Understanding

Seeing under the Surface

Exploring Inner Space

Things I Wished I Had Had Been Taught Earlier in My Life

Features Found on Site: this is a full list of the topics covered by the Dream Encyclopedia (not a list of dream dictionary words). 

  What Are Dreams?

Dreams are one of nature’s miracles, not the result of a wandering mind in sleep. A dream is an interface between the process of life, our core self and our conscious personality. Life existed quite capably for millions of years before the self-aware human personality came on the scene. In all that time the ancestors of the modern human being survived without having a rational mind to reason with, or self consciousness to ask such questions as ‘What do I do about this?’ Nevertheless survival strategies were still developed in their unconscious intelligence. Dreams express this unconscious wisdom that was developed in humans and animals through millions of years of Life experience.

Life’s age old unconscious processes are still the major part of our being, yet we seldom consciously meet them – except in dreams. As our physical and psychological health depend upon a reasonable co-operation between the spontaneous processes of life – such as breathing, digestion and the thousands of other life sustaining activities and our conscious decisions and actions, the encounter in dreams is vital. As I often point out to those I am advising we are a human face on a long line of beautiful animals. In fact “You ride an ancient beast.” The ancient beast is your body, and your conscious self is the modern and recent rider of it. Some ‘riders’ do not understand their animal needs – and the fact that we have several levels of brain that are independent of each other proves this. Still active in us are our Reptile Brain, Our mammalian Brain, and our Human Brain, and the reptile and mammalian brains are still very active and constitute a large part of our human unconscious. See  – Brain Levels and Dreams –  Life’s Little Secrets and Levels of Awareness in Sleeping and Waking.

So, no plant or creature grows from a dead seed, and each living seed carries within it all the past gathered from all its forebears. So, the seed in your mother’s womb is as old as and even older than human kind, and you carry that wisdom or memories in you. But in this life you developed a new brain, and the memories you gathered this time are what you built your personality from, but beneath that is a very ancient self. To meet this ancient self try using Opening to Life

That suggests that dreams cannot be defined under any one heading. Like human beings, they are enormously varied in what they express. Just as one cannot say the human mind is simply a system of memory, one cannot say dreams are just the reflection of experienced events. The mind also deals with problem solving, predicting outcomes of action, playing with possibilities via imagination, creating the new out of old material, replaying traumatic and disturbing events in order to find ways of meeting them constructively. Dreams, being the mental phenomena they are, deal with all of these issues and more. The following definitions give the main functions observable in dreams.

Dreams are:-

  1. Dreams are one of nature’s miracles, not the result of a wandering mind in sleep. A dream is an interface between the process of life, our core self and our conscious personality. Life existed quite capably for millions of years before the self-aware human personality came on the scene. In all that time the ancestors of the modern human being survived without having a rational mind to reason with, or self consciousness to ask such questions as ‘What do I do about this?’ Nevertheless survival strategies were still developed in their unconscious intelligence. Dreams express this unconscious wisdom that was developed in humans and animals through millions of years of Life experience.
  2. Recently I have come to see dreams as the lonely voice of Life calling out to us in our often frantic search for meaning. It calls out from its vastness that is beyond our understanding, and in its loving efforts gathers the fragments of our memory and associations and forms dreams with them. It does this in its efforts to instruct, guide and even heal us; but often we miss seeing that just as Life reaches to us from its vastness using things we might understand, we too must reach beyond our often pitiful understanding to move toward and touch the wonder of Life within us.
  3. An expression of what is happening in the physical body. Some doctors consider dreams to show signs of illness long before they are evident in other ways. Women frequently know they are pregnant very early on through sleep awareness in a dream. See: bodybody dreamsKasatkin_Vasilyconsciousness-mind body split.
  4. A link between the sleeping mind and what is occurring externally. For instance, a person may be falling out of bed and dream of flying or falling.
  5. A way of balancing the physiological and psychological activities in us. When a person is deprived of dreaming in experiments, a breakdown in mind and body quickly occurs. This type of dreaming, or even nightmares, can often be a safety valve releasing tension and emotion not dealt with in waking life. See: compensation theoryself-regulation dreams and fantasyscience and dreams.
  6. An enormously original source of insight and information. Dreams tap our memory, our experience, and scan information held in our unconscious to form new insights from old experience. Dreams often present to us summaries or details of experience we have been unable to access consciously. Sometimes this is as early as life in the womb.  See: creativity and problem solving in dreams.
  7.    That insight comes from an amazing ability dreams have. Mostly we are lost in being aware of this moment or cares of recent events, and of our present environment, but the dream process has another view, that is of our whole life, like flying high and so have a huge view. We have taken in so much life experience, but many of  us have not learnt the amazing lessons we gained by it. But the overall view we get from dreams, visions and our intuition gives us a view that synthesises or whole life and highlights its wonder, its destiny, our real purpose and our life’s real work. See Intuition – Using It
  8. A means of compensating for failure or deprivation in everyday life, and as a means of expressing the otherwise unacknowledged aspects of oneself. Such dreams are a move toward wholeness. See: compensation theory.
  9. In dreams we may be integrating new experience with what we have already gathered and digested. In this way our abilities, such as social skills, are gradually upgraded. See: computercomputer-dream process as aEvans, Christopher.
  10. Dreams often stand in place of actual experience. So through dreams we may experiment with new experience or practice things we have not yet done externally. For instance many young women dream in detail of giving birth. This function of what might be called ‘imagination’ is tremendously undervalued, but is a foundation upon which human survival is built. Seeimagination and dreaming.
  11. An means of exercise for the psyche or soul. Just as the body will become sick if not moved and stressed, so the mind and emotions need stimulus and exercise. Dreams fulfill this need. See Opening to Life
  12. An expression of human supersenses. Humans have an unconscious ability to read body language – so they can assess other humans very quickly. Humans have an unimaginable ability to absorb information, not simply from books, but from everyday events – for example science now tells us that we collect information at an enormous rate, millions of bits every second, but unfortunately we do not synthesis it to see what it means, for most of it is unconscious, only dreams access and use it. With it they constantly arrive at new insights and realisations. Humans frequently correctly predict the future – not out of a bizarre ability, but from the information gathered about the present. All these abilities and more show in our dreams. See: esp in dreams.
  13. A means of solving problems, or formulating creative ideas, both in our personal life, and also in relationships and work. Many people have produced highly creative work directly from dreams. See Creative Dreaming and Problem Solving
  14. A presentation in symbols of past traumatic experience. If met this can lead to deep psychological healing. Such dreams are therefore an attempt on the part of our spontaneous inner processes to bring about healing change. See: abreactioncompensation theorynightmares.
  15. In the widest sense nearly all dreams act as a process of growth or a move toward maturing. Some dreams are very obviously presenting internal forces or dimensions of experience that might lead the conscious personality toward a greater balance and inclusiveness. See: individuationLifeStream.
  16. A way of reaching beyond the known world of experience and presenting intimations from the unknown. Many people have dreams in which ESP, out of the body experiences, and knowledge transcending time and space occur. This type of dream may indicate a link between the present person and people who had lived in the distant past; or between the dreamer and all existing life. Some of these dreams present powerful insights into how the transitory human personality may arise out of an eternal consciousness. They thus deal with the spiritual aspects of human nature. See: Dimensions of Human ExperienceBuddhism and dreamsCayce, Edgarcollective unconsciousBible and dreamsesp in dreamshallucinationshistory of dreamingreligion and dreamsyoga and dreamsDream Yoga

Learn how to Explore Your Dream

I know how much you might like to skip the Introduction to Dream Dictionary, and if you are tempted to do so, I wholeheartedly ask you to read Summing Up. Without understanding the things given there you are likely to completely miss the point of understanding your dreams. The best technique to enter you dream world – Peer Dream Work

You can start using the Dream Dictionary by entering the word you wish to research into the Search Box on the top right of most pages and clicking the search symbol – or you can read some fuller information below about the dictionary and how best to use it.

But the quickest way is to put your word in the search box. 

Your dreams can become vortexes of power to transform your life, and to enhance your perceptions. There is no ‘wave a magic wand’ route to this. It will not happen because you read a great book or look at a good dream dictionary. Those things might help, but the real magic lies in whether you can enter into your dream in the right way. (Try using Being the Person or Thing and Meaning of Your Dream).  

What does my dream mean? – How to explore your dream meanings

It is important in reading the definitions of dream images to realise that not every possible meaning can be covered in this dictionary. So please see if you get the idea of what is being said and allow your own imagination/feelings to fill in the meaning.

There are several ways you can understand the meanings held in your dreams, and there are several levels.

The first is an easily understood level, followed by greater depths:

For instance, speaking as an object or dream person, one needs to take time with it. Learn how to actually describe what you are as that dream object or person. If I dream of a dog, don’t simply describe what you think a dog feels like, but actually take time to tune into the dream image and describe the dog dreamt about. Is it an old or young dog? What is it doing in the dream? Listen to your feelings and describe what it/you feel. Remember that each image is a creation of your own mind and unconscious, so you are really describing yourself. Say whatever comes and consider its value afterwards. Below is a quote from Tiziana Stupia’s book Meeting Shiva 

Tony taught me a process in which a dream could be interpreted and understood by assuming that everything, people and objects alike, in a dream represented aspects of the Self. Sitting cross-legged on the squishy, old-fashioned sofa in the living room of my sadhu’s cave opposite Tony, I’d close my eyes and mentally return to a dream I had the previous night. He would ask me questions about the dream, which I’d answer in the first person. So if I dreamt about a tree, I would ‘become’ the tree, assume its personality and respond from its viewpoint. He’d ask ‘So what kind of tree are you? Are you big or small, old or young? What do you look like? Where are you growing? Why are you in Tiziana’s dream?’

This sounded like a silly exercise at first, but I was soon enough convinced of its validity. It was fascinating to discover a wealth of insight and emotion emerging from my responses, and understand how they related to my current situation. They also pinpointed exactly where I was in my growth process. Sometimes, the dreams would uncover unconscious fears and intuitions. Often, they also held important clues and offered solutions to my problems. It was like doing detective’s work – arduous at times, but rewarding beyond belief.

So below are listed several ways to gain insight and information from your dreams. Take your time with each approach until you get the feel for it, and then experiment with other approaches.

You can enter a key word in the search box. The Dream Dictionary contains interpretations on almost any type of dream subject. So, if you dreamt of a flying saucer landing in a field, and aliens getting out and taking a baby, a snake, and a pregnant dog back into the saucer, you could search separately for each of these subjects in the Dream Dictionary. Find the entry for flying saucer; then the entry for dog, babysnake, pregnant, and so on. For each entry, find further related entries by looking under ‘Similar Articles’ on the right-hand side of the page. Then see Techniques for Exploring your Dreams.

Each entry gives the general meaning of the dream subject, just as an encyclopedia or dictionary does for a word. Several possible meanings are given. This is because as with our speech the position of the word – the context – gives it special meanings. So, a hot dog would be quite different to a black dog, dog-end or dead dog. Therefore, when you read an entry which has several different meanings, sometimes with a ‘;’ between, it simply means any one of them could apply, which means you need to think about the feelings in your dream, the context, the other imagery used. Please do not fall into the trap that one reviewer made of saying that the whole dictionary is about sex. Of course, sex is one meaning among many others. So, use your own sense of your dream as well as any definitions given.

To really explore the meaning, it is useful to use the Dream Dictionary as it is designed, rather than arrive at a ‘thought out’ interpretation. To see a working example of this see Dream Interpretation Example One

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Personal Dream Interpretation

I no longer offer a personal dream interpretation service, but only occasionally if you manage to send  an interesting dream I will respond – the reason is I am getting past my sell by date being 84.

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In the meantime, here is a way to work out your own dream – Getting at Your Dream’s Meaning.

Please note: this a not-for-profit site and it offers real dream interpretations, not dream dictionary features that are not real interpretations. We ask no payment for these interpretations, but it would be a great if you wish to donate anything. I do not ask a fee for what I do, but if you wish to donate you can click on this Paypal Donation  

A Note About the Author: Tony Crisp

I have been interested in the health of mind and body since my early teens. I began writing about these subjects in 1956. My fascination for what lay under the surface of the mind led me personally to explore the unconscious using dreams and other mental and physical disciplines. From 1972 – 94 I worked as a psychotherapist using an eclectic, Humanistic Psychology approach which included dream work and releasing the secrets the body holds. My books include Do You DreamMind and MovementThe Instant Dream Book; Dream DictionaryLife’s Little Secrets –Liberating The Body  – and many more. See My Books.

During those years I worked as a dream columnist for The Daily Mail and She Magazine. I was the regular dream interpreter for the London Broadcasting Company; I ran Teletext’s dream page on UK television’s Channel Four; and for New Zealand Teletext, and now I run this website giving dream help in the many replies to peoples dreams and in as well as many features on subjects connected with the human inner world. See Features

Throughout more than five decades I have been involved in a personal search for the secrets of mind and spirit. In those years I have also taught thousands of people techniques of deep relaxation, meditation, and methods of self exploration using dreams. Wanting to dig deep I explored the use of dreams and taught individuals and groups of people how to use these visions of the night to discover and heal the deepest issues in themselves, and to touch the high ground of their spiritual awareness. I worked for twenty years as a psychotherapist using several approaches, one of which was a way of honouring the body as a doorway to the unconscious mind, the emotions and spiritual experience. See Self-Regulation –  Recognition – Life’s Little Secrets – The LifeStream and Opening to Life

During the sixty years of seeking the wild wondrous beasts of the mind and spirit I dared my own inner adventure. But I also travelled with other people as an ordinary person, not a therapist, sharing their experience of fear and wonder as they unveiled and set loose their fountain of perception. I have travelled countless dream pathways, traversed the timeless with those using awareness enhancing drugs, and wrestled with the vitality of the body as people mimed and shouted their deepest intuitions through movement, dance and voice. See Tony’s Biography

My aim has always to share my findings – actually what I was shown or given from within – was given freely; I never had any teacher or attended a course, of course I read an enormous amount, so I cannot ask for money. If you wish to donate anything to the running of the site you can do so by clicking on https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&hosted_button_id=JYTWAMC4LQLQ4&source=url 

My teacher has been from exploring dreams and occasionally touching the wonder we were born as – not from words written in books about that but by meeting it. See Enlightenment  

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Introduction to Using the Dream Dictionary

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Diccionario de los Sueños

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What Is Offered In The Dictionary

Because of the many nature films shown on television we are used to the idea of mature and intelligent adults spending days or years watching the behaviour of animals such as hyenas or chimpanzees. In her book In The Shadow Of Man, Jane Von Lawick Goodall explains how, by watching chimpanzees and taking note of her observations, radical new insight into the behaviour of chimpanzees arose. She didn’t think beforehand what she expected to find, but simply observed and put together the information that arose. For instance on several occasions she saw the chimpanzees kill another animal and eat its flesh. The knowledge that chimpanzees were meat eaters was entirely new.

In a similar way, by observing dreams and laying bare the emotions and associated ideas and memories we have with the dream imagery, we gradually define our personality, its strengths and weaknesses, we discover new abilities and we grow beyond our old problems, and that in a depth we had never managed previously. I have called this mind watching, but it covers every aspect of human nature, not simply the intellect or thinking.

This mind watching through observation of our dreams first presents information about our personal experiences and memories and how they influenced our growth and influence present responses. Gradually the information arising from such watching leads beyond ones personal self. It shows in many cases how our unique self has arisen from, and has indissoluble links with our forebears, with our culture, with the past as a whole, and with the cosmos itself. It leads from oneself to the edge of the known, and perhaps helps us take a few steps beyond that edge into the unknown, to create new understanding.

This mind watching gradually reveals to us the many aspects of the mind’s working, and with such insight may come the growing ability to use these facets of ourselves. Not only may we discover great vistas of personal memory, but also the roots of our creativity, the subtle senses of our emotions and unconscious, and the treasures of experience we have gathered. See Your Amazing Circle – Self Observation 

So how can we get into this magical world of our dreams and start to harvest the possibilities held there? The following pages of this book are designed to help, guide and inform on how to do this. The book is also a counsellor on what you may find in your dream adventure.

The information about dreams presented in this book has been gathered during fifty years of working with and studying dreams and the dream process. It synthesises the experience of personally helping hundreds of individuals explore their dreams. The examples used have been taken from a collection of over 8000 dreams put onto a computer filing system. The filing system was also used to define general associations with commonly used dream images.

The major input for definition however has arisen from the actual exploration of dreams undertaken by individuals. These are either people I have worked with personally who have deeply felt the emotions and issues behind their dreams, not simply talked them over and come to an intellectual interpretation but a deep insight, or are people who have written up their findings arising from similar work. Added to this is the commonly held associations we have through our language and the way we use imagery within speech. Of course your personal dream imagery may not be using the commonly held associations, or those used by other people, and so you must read the definitions with care and consider if these fit what is implied or dramatised in your dream.

In the entries in the Dictionary are explanations of the many different types of dreams and dream images. Despite some people’s attempt to explain dreams in one simple formula, dreams cover a huge range of phenomena and human experience. Amongst subjects covered in the book are thousands of entries on the researched meaning of the things, people, creatures and places we dream about. There are also many entries on special subjects such as symbols and dreaming; interpreting dreamsrecurring dreamsnightmaressex while asleepteenage girls love dreamsprecognitive dreamstalking in ones sleepthe dream as an adventure; Occultism and Dreamsscience sleep and dreams; and many more.

There are a compete list of these Features and the  Archetypes covered.

Therefore, if you have dreamt of such things as your teeth falling out; being chased; or your marriage partner dying, you will find an explanation of your dream in the following pages.

The aim of the book is to help you make connections between your dreams and your everyday life; to discover more fully the powerful emotions and reactions that unconsciously direct your decisions and responses in waking. The book is not an attempt to give you merely ideas to play with, to agree or disagree with, like fortune telling. It can lead to real insights which empower you to make more of yourself, and find your way through the many decisions life confronts you with.

But you can move directly on to Using the Dictionary – or better still read Meaning of Your Dream

The Discovery of Dreams

In this section are given real practical methods of understanding your dreams. This is not like an intellectual interpretation of your dreams but a real meeting, it is the difference between thinking about something and living it. It is the difference between reading a description of a person and actually meeting them in a deep relationship. These are given for use only if you wish to use them, otherwise there is the dictionary that is also very useful. To start with here are some things to remember about dreaming. They have been gathered from a long involvement with dreams. But you can move directly on to Using the Dictionary.

Dreams are a magical mirror in which your innermost hopes, longings, fears/terrors and genius are made real. They are made real as external environments, people, animals and relationships. It is as if all your deepest feelings, hopes, fear and wonder are projected outward onto a multidimensional screen. It is a world of virtual reality that you feel is real. Unfortunately this wonderful virtual reality world is usually felt as dealing with other people, as externals, like something that can damage us, or something like the Devil that can possess us.

But the greatest truth I have found in exploring dreams – not interpreting them – is that we are alone with ourselves in the world of our dream. If we can acknowledge and admit that our terrors we dream are actually our past hurts that we have not faced presenting themselves for us to heal; that the ghosts and demons that can rampage about our night are embodiments of our fears; that our wonderful visions and insights are an expression of our own infinite potential, then we can walk a pathway to finding what we really are. Audio Introduction to Exploring a Dream

  1. Dreams are virtual realities that we create in our sleep. Even the wonderful dreams of God and angels are an external virtual reality, and mirror of our own inner immensity and our enormous variety. Unfortunately people either accept them as externally real, or as fantasy. But they are reflections of your potential, that cannot be seen in your daily life that is so dominated by your physical senses and hungers and fears.
  2. See The Magical Dream Machine. So the images and fears we experience in our dreams are projection upon the vast screen of our mind. They are all projections from you. Running from them is like trying to escape from yourself.
  3. In life and sleep we have two powerful actions working in us. The first is our waking experience based on having a body, its limitations, vulnerabilities and a particular gender. Our second is the power that gave us life and continues to express as dreams.
  4. While we sleep our conscious self is largely or totally unconscious, and while we sleep our voluntary muscles are paralysed – therefore another will or motivating force moves our body. So we have a Conscious Will, and what I will call a Life Will. The first one we have experience of as we can move our arm or speak in everyday activities; but the second will takes over when we sleep. See Sleep Paralysis
  5. This Life will can move us to speak, to move our body, and in fact do things that we cannot do with our Conscious Will. As Freud pointed out this inner will has full access to our memories. It can do so many other things that are described else where – See ESP in DreamsEdgar Cayce and the Cosmic Mind.
  6. This Life Will or motivator has been active for millions of years and we see it working all the time in animals. We are partly split in half because we are often opposed to what our Life Will in us wants. So the only way to express what is good for us is in dreams when our conscious will is largely passive.
  7. Life Will created your body and pre-existed you as a person you know today. It was working in you prior to your ability to speak or know in the way you do now. But of course it has fantastic wisdom and skills, as can be seen in animals.
  8. Life, if you look around you at Life’s creature, they can take any form. So Life itself is without form. In fact the recent advances in quantum physics suggest that what gives us existence is beyond space and time – beyond understanding.
  9. So dreams do not come from the human unconscious, but from the formless origins of Life – our Core Self. To express in a way that is understandable to us as a person with limited understanding, dreams use all the common imagery and ideas. So people who say that dreams are a mish mash of common everyday events are mistaken. See LifeStreamLevels of Awareness in Sleeping and Waking; .
  10. Our core self can be explained by realising that we are all dependent on the universe. We often feel that the universe is way beyond our understanding, but a few simple facts may help. The first is that the universe as we know it began with what had been called the Big Bang. But before that there was a situation prior to the creation of time and space. That situation is very much like the experience of Edgar Cayce who had an awareness reaching beyond time and space. See God and the Big Bang are the Same Thing
  11. Irish physicist John Stewart Bell put forward a quantum theorem that has revolutionised the way reality is considered. In brief, the theorem states that when two sub-microscopic particles are split and moved to a distance from each other, the action on, or of, particle ‘A’, is instantaneously reproduced with particle ‘B’. This interaction does not rely on any known link or communication and is considered to stand above normal physical laws of nature, as it is faster than light. Prior to such findings it was thought nothing could transcend the speed of light. Nick Herbert, in an interview published in High Frontiers writes: ‘THERE ARE LOTS OF THINGS that are being kept from the public as far as the subjects of physics and consciousness are concerned. Bell’s Theorem was proved in 1964, and it is still not taught in physics classes, and you don’t hear it on your science news programs. A theorem is a proof, and no one has found a flaw in this theorem. It’s such a simple proof that a high school kid can understand it. So physicists can understand it. They have various ways of trying to ignore it, but it can’t be refuted because it’s so simple.’

Our Core self is that amazing part of us existing beyond time and space, and was within us from the start of our universe.

  1. In the world of dreams our most intimate fears and longings are given an exterior life of their own in the form of the people, objects and places of our dream. Therefore our sexual drive may be shown as a person and how we relate to them; or given shape and colour as an object; or given mood as a scene. Our feeling of ambition might thus be portrayed as a business person in our dream – our changing emotions as the sea or a river; while the present relationship we have with our ambition or emotions is expressed in the events or plot of the dream.
  2. You cannot be killed in a dream. All you can experience is the anguish and perhaps fear of dying, but in dreams you cannot die – or drown, or burn or any other threatening thing. We make the mistake of taking our very real values from our outer life into our inner life of dreams.
  3. In dreams, what ever moves away from you in our dreams is going out of your awareness or even life; and whatever moves toward us is emerging into consciousness. Whatever it is that is coming toward us is giving us something whether it is energy, insight, or a frightening dream that is trying to shock us to wake up and clear out the inner mess we are in.  The fact we give it a frightening image is because we are brought up to be scared of ourselves and to not trust Life/Core. If you know the tenets of the AA, you will see that is what they are about – to trust Life.
  4. Most people are frightened of life. I see this in so many dreams sent to me. They do not trust themselves to the powerful action of Life flowing through them. See Life’s Little Secrets.
  5. We have been brain washed to believe that our existence depends upon nothing but accidental events, the survival of the fittest, the chemical and biological mechanical actions. Yet every time I have gone deeply into my ‘unconscious’ and yet maintained awareness, I have found a wonderful power of Life there.
  6. So if your dreams frighten you, I want to say you are frightened of something wonderful that could have grown you and enlarged your experience of yourself. The thing that was full of fear was your own fear put into an image, and yet was a wonderful gift that you avoided receiving.
  7. I too was full of fears and often woke up screaming. Then I learned to trust Life. It is like learning to swim. So please go back into your dream and let the fearful thing be fully experienced instead of waking up in fear. Then it will unveil itself as a thing of light and love.

Deepening Dream Understanding

The methods described above will throw light on most dreams, even if you do not take time to write out fuller associations. When the insights gained in this way become useful, you may wish to increase your skill still further. Therefore, below, and throughout the book, additional information is given on how to draw out the wisdom in dreams. A working attitude toward them is also outlined.

I suggest you only try one method at a time and use it until you are capable or it or it doesn’t work for you, then move on to other methods taking time with them until you find what works best for you.

Although the process of dreams might not be a direct attempt to present MEANING, a dream may nevertheless have a great deal of INFORMATION in it. This becomes clearer if we remember that not many years ago it would have appeared highly superstitious or suspect to claim to be able to tell a person details of their health and parentage from a sample of their urine or blood. Today it is common practice. We accept that a growing amount of information can be gained from these unlikely sources. Blood doesn’t contain meaning, but we can gain information from it. In a similar way a sample of our dreams can also tell us an enormous amount. Sometimes this data is obvious, sometimes it needs processing to uncover, as with urine and blood.

Dream Processing – The following dream needs no deep techniques of processing. The word ‘processing’ is used throughout the book instead of analysis. Analysis has the connotation of giving our own thoughts or opinions to the dream. Processing is used to suggest extraction of information which leads to insight. With this particular dream, all it needs is a few facts brought to it to make clear what information it holds. The dream is that of a young woman, Mrs C. L.

It is a bright sunny day. I am walking across a large concrete car park. It is empty except for a huge trailer from a truck. It has BOOTS written on the side, and stands high off the ground. Being 4’ 9’ tall myself I decide to walk underneath. As I am half way the trailer starts to be lowered on top of me. I try to shout but cannot. I get onto my hands and knees and the trailer still kept coming down. I am now lying on my stomach, convinced it is going to crush me. Then it suddenly stops a couple of inches from my head. I wake feeling terrible.

The dream is interesting, although the information it holds may at first not be obvious. But with a minimum of processing the dream information will become clear. The first technique of processing the dream is to recognise some of the key statements within it. These are I AM WALKING – I TRY TO SHOUT – CONVINCED IT IS GOING TO CRUSH ME.

The reason these are key statements is because the dreamer is saying ‘I am walking’ – ‘I try to shout’ – ‘I …am convinced’. The word ‘I’ is important.

This form of processing has not added anything to the dream. It has simply drawn attention to the information already there in the dreamer’s description of her experience – this is why it is useful to write the dream out fully. If we add a little more information which the dreamer herself connects with the dream, then it becomes even clearer. Mrs C. L. says, ‘I work for BOOTS the chemist. The employees at the shop I work in were told at the beginning of the year that Boots are selling our shop. When that happens I will be made redundant. We were supposed to finish on May 26th. It is now the end of July. The deal fell through so we are now just left hanging indefinitely until a new buyer comes along. I feel very unsettled as I can’t make any plans for the future.’

Having read these comments, it would be difficult not to see the dream as relating to the woman’s work situation, and to her strong anxiety connected with it. She herself says – through her dream – she is ‘convinced it – the situation – is going to crush’ her. She also feels her strong emotions about this – expressed in her attempt to shout – are not being expressed or ‘heard’. From just this one dream, we can be forgiven if we assume that dreams may express in dramatic form our feeling reaction to the circumstances of our everyday life. Taking this dream as information, Mrs. C. L. could see she is feeling crushed by the situation, yet not stating her feelings loudly enough to be heard. She might therefore speak to the manager to clarify the situation for herself.

Here is an even shorter and less complex dream. It has been left just as it was written so its information is immediately apparent. The key words here might be TRYING TO CONTACT HIM and NOT UNDERSTANDING WHY HE LEFT ME. The dream is from Mrs C. J.

Years ago I lost my first husband at twenty nine. I had the same dream continually of being in a phone box trying to contact him, not understanding why he had left me. He died of cancer. Later I remarried and this husband died of a heart attack. Once again the same dream came back so much.

On speculating about the dream from what is immediately apparent, we might say that although it is irrational to continually  try to contact her husband when there has never be any success, nevertheless, her desire to be with him continues year after year. This same part of her cannot understand why he died. We might put such feelings into words as, ‘But what had he done to die so young? Why should it happen to me twice?’ We can also assume that her desire to understand these questions, which is what contacting her husband represents, is expressed in the dream as the telephone.

The dream process has dramatised her situation and inner feelings – given them form and made them experiential. Looking at this dream helps us see how an image, such as the telephone, performs exactly the same sort of function as a spoken word, although in a different way. Namely, it represents feelings and thoughts. That the woman’s questions remain, that her problem is unsolved, is apparent from the fact she does NOT make contact on the telephone, and does not find peace. Understanding her dream shows her the importance of the questions she continually asks herself, and the need to release the emotions behind them. With this she could be free of the dream. If she cannot manage this by herself, taking advantage of the professional help of a therapist might help.

To make it clear how everything is a dream holds personal information, to give an example, I was recently asked by a man who had given no thought to dreams how on earth you could extract any meaning from them. He was wearing a fairly old T-shirt, so I said, “OK, let’s imagine you dreamt of your T-shirt, what would you make of that?”

After a while he said, “I don’t know that I would make anything of it.”

My response was to say, “Right, but now tell me where you bought the T-shirt, and what memories it has for you.” Whereupon he told me memories of being abroad, and that the shirt was part of those memories, and he wasn’t prepared to say what they were as they were so personal.

The important point is that everything we see and deal with, every person, every imagined scene, has such a background of feelings and perhaps memories. It is exactly this background of feelings and information that the dream weaves its story from. To understand it you need to become aware of the usually unconscious feeling responses you have in connection with every thing, place, person and animal you fill your dreams with.

For fuller Dream Processing – Below are described simple techniques that make it possible to quickly gain information from your dreams. They have been put as a series of questions. If you take time to consider and answer the question you will find your way into a new experience of dream understanding.

Read it in: Processing Your Dream  

Seeing under the Surface

The following information is to take you deeply into the dream you are exploring, They are for those who really want to make progess in their life and in their inner world or dreams

Acting on your Dreams – Extracting more from your dream by letting your body and feelings express it can provide a remarkable release of insight. There are several ways of doing this.

Do see the instructions see: Acting on Your Dreams

The Peer Dream Group – This method is the most powerful and deepest method. It includes some of the other techniques mentioned.

The way of working known as the Peer Dream Group came about from our experience that dreams are largely self explanatory if approached in the right way. An exterior expert or authority is not necessary for a profound experience of and insight into dreams and into oneself if certain rules are respected and used. The dreamer is the ultimate expert on their own dream  and themselves but only when we break through to what is usually unconscious mental states, and when treated as such, and supported in their investigation of their dream drama, they can powerfully explore and manifest the resources of their inner life.

To use it see: The Peer Dream Group and What I Have Seen In Dreams

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Comments

-Elida 2011-01-03 11:55:57

Had a dream my daughter aws getting Married who is in a coma dur to a horrible accident 7 months ago in the dream we were looking for the fiance who has passed but in the dream we found him and he was crying cause my Leah was getting married to someone else I a sured him my Friend ship with him was foreveer and he then smiled and faded away what does this mean help please

    -Tony Crisp 2011-01-14 10:37:17

    Elida – I feel this is an awful thing that has happened to your daughter. It is as if she is between two worlds. She has been in a coma for so long it is as if she has died and is now experiencing the life after death. In that world so much time has passed that she cannot hold onto her old life. She has now met her Great Love and so is merging/marrying the Great Love.

    So that is why her fiancé has been willing to let go of her too.

    As I look at your daughter I see her shining.

    Tony

-rachel g 2010-12-31 16:27:41

a few times recently i have dreamt that i was a boy and would go about my daily routine feeling comfortable as if i had always been a boy

    -Tony Crisp 2011-01-12 10:36:17

    Rachel – That is a great dream. It shows you that within yourself you can be anything. It is only our body that has a fixed shape and gender. But anything you fix on you can be in your dreams.

    Therefore I wonder if you have fancied being a boy, and now you can feel what it is like. I have been all sorts of things from a woman, to lots of animals. But my favourite is being bodiless and free.

    Tony

-Ashley B. 2010-12-30 17:32:49

I had a dream about Patrick Swayze on 12/28. It was the young Patrick from the movie ghost. There was a whole bunch of people that I didn’t know. He was making us individual breakfsas and when he got to me I asked him if I could talk to him and ask him some questions. he said point blank “I just want you to know that your granmother is doing fine. I know everything aout her down to what was in her shed and she wanted you to know that she was okay.” Then like someone snapped their fingers I woke up. I woke up on my back (which I never sleep on my back) and this huge heaviness on my chest and I was breathing hard. It felt like something was hovering over me, I could feel tingling in my skin. Ever since then, I have been feeling things in my apartment. Twice last night/early morning (12/30) something turned my closet light on by the switch. I have seen one “ghost.” I mainly think that it was really weird that Patrick would even be in my dreams and that he would be from that time period. I wasn’t alive when the movie Ghost came out and that is what he looked like. I was very close to my grandmother and it was tragic and very painful for me to loose her in 2004 from cancer. I just need to know what this dream means. It really scared me and I would like some input please.

    -Tony Crisp 2011-01-10 14:01:39

    Dear Ashley – You say you were scared and that it was painful to loose her. But those feeling can only come from you living in the belief that the dead are in a strange and frightening world, or that you believe you are less than what you are.

    Obviously you have the ability to explore that world, a world full of wonders and challenges, but your fear holds you back.

    For myself when I began my exploration, I had a simple feeling that life wasn’t out to get my. I had a real feeling the Life loved me. And gradually the problems in my wife I discovered where there because I had put them there. I saw that I had existed throughout all time, so the mistakes I had made in the past were now here for me to have another go at them.

    Please read the little book Life After Death by Elisabeth Ross.

    Tony

-Sarah 2010-12-30 9:34:01

I have been having alot of dreams about giving birth/breast feeding or just nurturing a new born for the past year or so. I have even had a disturbing dream where I was lying in my bed, there was a cot next to me and I could hear a baby crying…a shadow came in and took the child.
Does anyone know what these dreams could resemble? I’m not pregnant nor have I ever been. Thanks (:

    -Tony Crisp 2011-01-10 13:11:34

    Thanks (:

    Sarah – The babies you give birth to need not refer to a physical child. As a woman you are designed to have children, a miraculous thing, but you can create in many other ways. You have the power of creation, and in you it is trying to get your attention, but you cannot let go of it being physical creation. So instead you are crushing your creativity. In fact at one point it is taken away from you, and you probably felt bad about that.

    So if you are not going t actually become a mother to a physical child, at least nurture the dream baby and hep it grow up. Then it will become an actual reality in your life in a creative act.

    Even men dream of giving birth sometimes when they birth a creative realisation.

    Here is a quote from something I wrote:

    Women who have had children and have decided to have no more often dream that they are in never-ending labour. This points to a problem which is new to women, and must be very widespread. In the past, there were few – if any – effective birth controls. Women continued to bear children until they were incapable and, in general, their biological drives urged them to do so. But when the conscious personality dares to stop, and can implement the decision with contraceptives, what happens to the biological drive? The dreams suggest that the drive to reproduce goes on functioning unconsciously, and unless satisfied in some way, may be felt as a sense of dissatisfaction or even psychosomatic illness.
    Human experience is changing at an alarming pace, outstripping what we are instinctively prepared for. Birth control is readily available, and so are abortions. When children grow up, they are these days more likely to move to another town, city or country than to a couple of streets away. The list of changes goes on and on.
    Women must learn to deal with these problems wisely if they are to remain physically and psychologically healthy. How many childless women, for instance, breed cats or dogs, perhaps in an unconscious attempt to solve an emotional problem? This morning while waiting in our local post office, I heard a woman saying that when her 17-year-old dog had been put down, she could hardly talk to anyone for a week, and that much of her hair had fallen out. There is a huge reservoir of creative/destructive energy to be found in women who choose not to have children, and in men whose paternal role is disappearing. How we deal with this may be the making or breaking of our society.

    Tony

-lupe 2010-12-29 23:01:57

i had a dream that i was in mexico with my family and we were walkin down this path to get to our home i guess but my sister was pregnant so we were walking very slow and all of a sudden her water broke but then after that me and all the rest of my family appeared at a party there was a bunch of people that i cant even recognize but any ways me and my cousin were outside just siting and i dont kno how but i ended up having a white dog with me and i loved it so much then i saw a bunch of other little tiny dogs just like it running around all over the place after that its kind of a blur all i kno is something bad happend then i could see everyone was crying and my dog was lying on a chair tired and panting with its tongue out so i went up to it and it smiled at me then i gave it a kiss on the forehead then it went back to when we were walking to our house and when we finally got there me and my mom were rushing for i dnt kno what reason i was just putting random things in a box. and thats where it ended it was so weird O_o

    -Tony Crisp 2011-01-10 12:26:09

    Lupe – This is a slightly missed up dream, and I get the feeling you do not know where you want to be, in what situation you want to be with your family. The image of your sister and her waters breaking is so wonderful, but somehow you are then at a party.

    The white dog is a special little dream creature, the best of your natural feelings, but you are haunted by the feeling that you are somehow a bad person, or you do not see yourself as good. But your good feelings survive that. It might be that you have been criticised when young, and sometimes have the feeling you were bad.

    But yet you are still attached to your family and mother. And I think that if you stay tuned to the feeing of the white dog it will help.

    Tony

-Rachel 2010-12-28 21:58:50

Please help.. HORRIBLE HORRIBLE :'(
My dream starts out, im living in a huge house, some sort of shared house coz there is other people and there kids living there too. Also everyone from when i went to school is there. Im living there with my dad and my 2 children but in my dream i have 3 baby boy triplets too. (this is the second dream i have had were i have 3 baby boy triplets other than my 2 current kids) Someone dies and i duck out with my friend to go to the funeral for a minute (leaving my kids playing in the yard while my dad sleeps inside as i am late) I go with my friend to the funeral in this big hall in the middle of the buildings of the ‘shared house’.
Inisde there are people dancing, they are people from my old dance school (ballet) I am jealous because i can no longer dance like them anymore. Everyone is watching them.
I tell my friend ill be back in a minute, im just going to tell dad i am here, i said. I walk to the back of the building where the play ground is and my kids are nowhere to be seen? Confused and scared i am looking for them.. I eventually find some kind of blue plastic conatiner it is like a maori statue with little holes where the pattern is. In the top of it i can see a childs severed head, the mangled remains of his little body in the rest of the container.this is an older child who i feel no connection to. i keep looking for mine fearing i will find them the same. In the background i hear a faint voice.. its my eldest sons voice.. he is saying *Mummyyy.. theres anothhher onee… mummy thers another oneee!* I keep looking and find my eldest son (the one that i heard the voice of) In another identical plastic container.. his head in the top. I cry histerically frantically looking for my other child (9months) And my 3 triplets.(who i dont have in real life) I start telling myself its a dream although i know its real, i am pannicking. I cant find them.. i put the containers in a plastic bag and go inside to get my car keys. i am rushing around looking for the children as i go. i find a little blue ‘meat mincer’ looking contracption.. it is toy -sized (its the same plastic as the moari statue looing containers) i also find a toy sized axe in the same plastic. getting more scared i rush into get my dad and leave, on the way past one of the rooms i find my eldest son in there (the same one i had found dead and had in the pladtic bag in my hand in the container) he is playing but he seems strange.. i grab his arm and take him with me, i go into my fathers room and i cant wake him from his sleep. i am telling him we need to go, we need to get out of here, please wake up! he wont wake up from his sleep.
All of a sudden i am outside on my own with a black woman with metal in her teeth and about 6 of my friends. We all know she did it but are pretending to be nice because we are feared for our safety, she is crazy. she says to my friend she will give her a chance to kill her and exposes her neck. My friend punches her in the neck and she feels nothing. She starts laughing at us all saying she is going to kill us, we f&*cked up our last chance. everyone is laughing with her pretending to get along with her.. i am so confused. I keep saying.. she is serious! she is serious! inside my head. all of a sudden i am on top of her with 2 broken alcohol bottles.. i am stabbing her over and over trying to destroy her arms and legs because i feel like nothign will kill her. i am stabbing her arms over and over trying to cut them off, the bottles is all i have for a weapon and she is laughing as i am stabbing.
all of a sudden i am under the house in a shed/storage room type of thing and i have the plastic bag again with the older childs body and my sons body.. i dont have the son i found in the room anymore… jst his body. and my dad still isnt with me. i am near the car and for some reason it musnt be working? becaus i am thinking how i am going to get out.. the balck woman comes to the door way and she is being nice to me.. this is the same woman who i know has killed all my children. She is giving my money for a taxi.. coins, she says to me just leave.. you will never find the rest of them. I go along being nice to her and take the coins.. she goes to give me a $5 note and i say i am fine.. i will figure a way to get where i need to go. She gets angry tat i have refused the money so i agree and take it.. i walk past her … Now i wake up!
I woke up and cried! it was such an awful awful dream please.. what does all this mean :(:(:(:(:(

    -Tony Crisp 2011-01-08 13:36:33

    Rachel – As far as I can see, you suffer a lot of anxiety about losing your children. There can be many reasons for this. Have you been separated from them at some time; or do you live in an area where there is a lot of violence? Of course that is simply me guessing, but I feel you need to find a way of dealing with the amount of fear you are displaying in your dream.

    In your dream it is a black woman who threatens you, and in terms of dreams, this simply says it is a part of you that haunts you. In your dream you try to kill her, but of course you cannot kill a part of yourself. So it is better to see if you can find a new way of relating to her. But if you can get help dealing with anxiety it would be good.

    There is a way through this if you can do it. It is to gradually change the way you see each of the people in your dream. Tell them that you love them, and even if you feel weak, ask for help form the Life in you. I know it sound strange asking for help, but there are wonderful powers that are around us. Of course it may take time to manifest, but hold on to whatever you believe is good in your life. And you can also ask for help for any great figure we know of to come to our aid in our dreams. If you read http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/example-15-life-changes/ I think it will make it more understandable.

    Tony

-Patie 2010-12-27 11:16:14

I think my last email is dormant. Again. My dream I was a nurse assisting a very old lady in a wheelchair. There is another nurse with me to my right observing all activities. The old lady is wriggling slightly in her wheelchair every now and then. I notice a snake in her vagina. It slithers out to the edge of her vulva every now at then. I attempt a few times to grab it to take it out but it slides back in. Then I grab it and pull it and once the head is out the rest of the snake slides out quickly from her womb. I hold the snake up and readjust my grib so that it does not bite. It is black and about two foot long. Both I and the other nurse are just looking at it wriggling in my upreached arms. The only feeling sense I have in the dream is disgust at the sliminess of the snake. The old lady seems to pay no heed and the other nurse is just observing the whole process.

    -Tony Crisp 2011-01-05 15:18:02

    Patie – I am sorry I take so long to answer, but there is too many to cope with. Often I have to spend ages thinking over and exploring the dreams. So bear with me.

    This is an interesting dream, and thank you for sending it. Freud said that snake represents the sexual instinct, but that is only partly true. They are the life energy that can express as sex, but are the energy behind or at the base of all our expressions – hunger, emotions, speaking and all that is encompassed by the head. That is why in India and Egypt there is often depicted a snake at the forehead – a seven headed snake.

    So your dream is obviously about the snake at its sexual level of expression. It is black snake, meaning it has been unconscious or hidden, and you being a nurse suggests a healing function is taking place.

    Now the interesting thing is –why is it coming out of an old lady? So sexual feelings that were previously not acknowledged is now brought to light from an older woman. Is this something you have been confronted with recently? Have you been struggling with old ideas about sex and morality? Whatever it is, you have brought it to view and can change it.

    Remember that the snake is much more than sex. In medical symbolism the snakes are twinned around the staff of life – the spine. Remember also that it has seven possibilities, so think carefully what you want to do with it.

    If you wish to learn more about the possibilities of the snake, see The Chakras – Part One.

    Tony

-Patie 2010-12-27 10:53:49

In my dream I am a I think a nurses aid to an very old lady in a wheelchair. There is at least one other nurse like myself. The old lady in the wheelchair every now and then wriggles slightly. Something is niggling her. I am standing in front of her and notice a snake with white eyes showing his head from the front of her vagina. It appears and retreats (like a snail in a shel) never coming out past her vulva. I have to try and grab his head and watch waiting to grab it when it appears. I fail once or twice as it slithers back in quickly. Then i grab him behind his head and have to pull (like assisting a birth). Once I get his head out the rest of him comes from her womb very quickly slithering out of her. I hold him up in the air adjusting both my hands so behind his head so he does not bite. He is black, slimy, and about two feet long. That is the end me holding him up and the other nurse is to my right watching. The only sense of feeling in the dream is kind of disgust at how slimy and slippery the snake is.

-Alex 2010-12-27 10:10:25

It was christmas morning and there was some sort of lotto drawing being held on tv. I wake out of bed to use the bathroom but me and my older brother get into an altercation to who is going to use the bathroom first. He wins because I didn’t want to start fighting him for real. At this point my father calls me to his room and he grabs my penis aggressively and didn’t want to let go. The room was dark, just lighted by the tv. My mother was downstairs so I went too and she went to give me a gift wrapped up when me and her got into an argument and I threw the gift she had given me at her and said” I don’t want it, you can keep it” and I left. A few moment later I feel an immense remorse (which I feel as I’m typing in my waking life). I felt bad for my mother who is so fragile now and has given so much for us. I hugedg her and embraced in tears. She thought I had hit my head was the reason I was crying…but I knew the reason why.

Tell me… What should I make of this? Thank You.

    -Tony Crisp 2011-01-05 14:39:34

    Alex – The dream seems to be dominated by male competition. First of all with your brother and then you father. I am therefore guessing this a male dominated family, so when your mother offers you something from herself you are still in a combating mode, a competing place.

    Fortunately you then allow your heart to feel what she was actually giving you, and I think it would be good for you to write down what you felt afterwards. You say she has “given so much for us,” but it would be good for you to say more, as it is a precious gift and you need to unwrap it.

    Tony

-Kat 2010-12-26 21:37:44

Hello, I had a dream recently where my mom, sister, and I were at a store or someplace similar. I saw my teacher there, and he saw me. He said hi walking towards me, then he said hey again and put his arm around my neck and kissed my forehead. My face was full of shock and I was blushing bright red. My mom and sister were behind me, basically with their jaws dropped.
That’s all I can remember from that dream, but I’m just wondering if you have an idea of what it means… Thanks.

    -Tony Crisp 2011-01-03 15:17:37

    It means darling Kat that you have a crush on the teacher – but maybe he doesn’t. Such feelings are a very real way of helping you to allow such enormous feelings in a safe way. Usually it is safe unless a teacher mucks up the situation.

    Gradually you will get beyond this stage, but meanwhile do not crush what you feel. They are very powerful feelings and enable you to find and experience an ideal you can later build into your life with a man who will be a proper partner.

    Tony

-Tony Crisp 2010-12-23 11:29:46

Hi Jonathon – I am pretty well kept at it full time answering people dream queries, but if I can I would like to work with you, so let me know how.

Tony

-Angelica 2010-12-20 16:38:55

I really need help understanding my dream. My dream begain with me, my crush, and one of my siblings sitting down on a wood bench. Then a light came from the dark sky. It was like a spotlight. I was scared of it for some reason. It shined on us then disappeared. Then suddently the world around as turned into water and my sibling was gone. Both me and my crush could breath underwater and see each other clearly. Then we kissed each other and two glowing circle objects came. We each grabbed one. My crush’s glowing object changed color while mine remained pure white. U could not stare at them because they were as bright as the sun. Mine felt like i was holding something glass. The object then dissapeared. That’s when my dream ended. Good luck trying to understand such a weird dream.

-Morgan 2010-12-19 18:40:48

I’m walking down a wooded path in florida and then i come accross shoe shiners. i dont know or understand this. i am 29 years old and i am a machanice.

    -Tony Crisp 2010-12-30 13:12:57

    Morgan – I get the feeling that you are not feeling as if you have achieved as much as you would like. Or to put it another way you feel sometimes as if you do not measure up.

    And that is simple a feeling, and if you learn to stand aside from it you can be whatever you feel inclined to be. It is good to let your best shine out of you.

    Tony

-catherine 2010-12-17 22:41:05

Whilst my grandad was dying he kept telling us that he saw a man with a beard sitting on a horse in the room. We’re all really confused and would like to know what it means…

-Jess 2010-12-17 20:05:54

A few months ago, my grandpa died after a heart surgery. Last night i had a dream about him and he was dying. My uncle that im not too fond of was trying to resuscitate him, but in my grandpa’s living will he said he did not want to be resuscitated. My dreams don’t normally phase me, but this one was intense and im wondering what it means. any help in understanding would be greatly appreciated

    -Tony Crisp 2010-12-29 14:13:20

    Jess – You didn’t’ say what you felt when your grandpa died – whether it was hard for you to accept or not.

    Because somewhere there is the feeling that he should not be allowed to die. Now is that your own feeling disguised as your uncle, or is it an actual thing going on in the family- he shouldn’t have died.

    It could therefore mean that if someone in the family really doesn’t feel good about him dying, and if they have some sort of reason for that feeling, it could interfere with his passage from death to a new life.

    Tony

    -Tony Crisp 2010-12-29 14:54:57

    Catherine – When people are near to death they often see people from their past coming to meet them. But it doesn’t sound as if the person on the horse was anyone you granddad recognised.

    However, each of us have several people who are part of our unseen life, people who are there to support and guide.

    It seems to me that the man on the horse was there to give your granddad strength, a helper to give him strength for his difficult time.

    Tony

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