Dream Dictionary
Dream Dictionary
Online Dream Dictionary & Encyclopedia
by Tony Crisp
The Spanish Dictionary is all the work and effort placed in it, as well as many excellent dream interpretations all by Anna Hoser,
Introduction
The latest edition of the Dream Dictionary and Dream Encylopedia is the result of some sixty years experience of working with dreams and their understanding. The Dream Dictionary encompassing articles on a vast range of topics. This gives the reader an unparalleled insight into the study of dreams and the inner life. But there are an enormous amount of Features in the Dream Encylopedia that cover a range of topics about dreams and the inner life.
The aim of the Dream Dictionary is to help you make connections between your dreams and your everyday life; to discover more fully the powerful emotions and reactions that unconsciously direct your decisions and responses in waking. This is not an attempt to give you merely ideas to play with, to agree or disagree with, like fortune telling. It can lead to real insights which empower you to make more of yourself, and find your way through the many decisions with which life confronts you.
Useful Links
Your Guru Your Body
What Are Dreams
Learn how to Interpret Your Dream
What does my dream mean? – How to explore your dream meaning
Personal Dream Interpretation
A Note About the Author: Tony Crisp
Mind Watching and Dreams
Introduction to Using the Dream Dictionary
Using the Dictionary
The Discovery of Dreams – Things We Need to Remember About Us
Gaining Insight into Your Dreams
Acknowledgement to this Edition
What Is Offered In The Dictionary
The Discovery of Dreams
Deepening Dream Understanding
Seeing under the Surface
Exploring Inner Space
Things I Wished I Had Had Been Taught Earlier in My Life
Features Found on Site: this is a full list of the topics covered by the Dream Encyclopedia (not a list of dream dictionary words).
What Are Dreams?
Dreams are one of nature’s miracles, not the result of a wandering mind in sleep. A dream is an interface between the process of life, our core self and our conscious personality. Life existed quite capably for millions of years before the self-aware human personality came on the scene. In all that time the ancestors of the modern human being survived without having a rational mind to reason with, or self consciousness to ask such questions as ‘What do I do about this?’ Nevertheless survival strategies were still developed in their unconscious intelligence. Dreams express this unconscious wisdom that was developed in humans and animals through millions of years of Life experience.
Life’s age old unconscious processes are still the major part of our being, yet we seldom consciously meet them – except in dreams. As our physical and psychological health depend upon a reasonable co-operation between the spontaneous processes of life – such as breathing, digestion and the thousands of other life sustaining activities and our conscious decisions and actions, the encounter in dreams is vital. As I often point out to those I am advising we are a human face on a long line of beautiful animals. In fact “You ride an ancient beast.” The ancient beast is your body, and your conscious self is the modern and recent rider of it. Some ‘riders’ do not understand their animal needs – and the fact that we have several levels of brain that are independent of each other proves this. Still active in us are our Reptile Brain, Our mammalian Brain, and our Human Brain, and the reptile and mammalian brains are still very active and constitute a large part of our human unconscious. See – Brain Levels and Dreams – Life’s Little Secrets and Levels of Awareness in Sleeping and Waking.
So, no plant or creature grows from a dead seed, and each living seed carries within it all the past gathered from all its forebears. So, the seed in your mother’s womb is as old as and even older than human kind, and you carry that wisdom or memories in you. But in this life you developed a new brain, and the memories you gathered this time are what you built your personality from, but beneath that is a very ancient self. To meet this ancient self try using Opening to Life
That suggests that dreams cannot be defined under any one heading. Like human beings, they are enormously varied in what they express. Just as one cannot say the human mind is simply a system of memory, one cannot say dreams are just the reflection of experienced events. The mind also deals with problem solving, predicting outcomes of action, playing with possibilities via imagination, creating the new out of old material, replaying traumatic and disturbing events in order to find ways of meeting them constructively. Dreams, being the mental phenomena they are, deal with all of these issues and more. The following definitions give the main functions observable in dreams.
Dreams are:-
- Dreams are one of nature’s miracles, not the result of a wandering mind in sleep. A dream is an interface between the process of life, our core self and our conscious personality. Life existed quite capably for millions of years before the self-aware human personality came on the scene. In all that time the ancestors of the modern human being survived without having a rational mind to reason with, or self consciousness to ask such questions as ‘What do I do about this?’ Nevertheless survival strategies were still developed in their unconscious intelligence. Dreams express this unconscious wisdom that was developed in humans and animals through millions of years of Life experience.
- Recently I have come to see dreams as the lonely voice of Life calling out to us in our often frantic search for meaning. It calls out from its vastness that is beyond our understanding, and in its loving efforts gathers the fragments of our memory and associations and forms dreams with them. It does this in its efforts to instruct, guide and even heal us; but often we miss seeing that just as Life reaches to us from its vastness using things we might understand, we too must reach beyond our often pitiful understanding to move toward and touch the wonder of Life within us.
- An expression of what is happening in the physical body. Some doctors consider dreams to show signs of illness long before they are evident in other ways. Women frequently know they are pregnant very early on through sleep awareness in a dream. See: body; body dreams; Kasatkin_Vasily; consciousness-mind body split.
- A link between the sleeping mind and what is occurring externally. For instance, a person may be falling out of bed and dream of flying or falling.
- A way of balancing the physiological and psychological activities in us. When a person is deprived of dreaming in experiments, a breakdown in mind and body quickly occurs. This type of dreaming, or even nightmares, can often be a safety valve releasing tension and emotion not dealt with in waking life. See: compensation theory; self-regulation dreams and fantasy; science and dreams.
- An enormously original source of insight and information. Dreams tap our memory, our experience, and scan information held in our unconscious to form new insights from old experience. Dreams often present to us summaries or details of experience we have been unable to access consciously. Sometimes this is as early as life in the womb. See: creativity and problem solving in dreams.
- That insight comes from an amazing ability dreams have. Mostly we are lost in being aware of this moment or cares of recent events, and of our present environment, but the dream process has another view, that is of our whole life, like flying high and so have a huge view. We have taken in so much life experience, but many of us have not learnt the amazing lessons we gained by it. But the overall view we get from dreams, visions and our intuition gives us a view that synthesises or whole life and highlights its wonder, its destiny, our real purpose and our life’s real work. See Intuition – Using It
- A means of compensating for failure or deprivation in everyday life, and as a means of expressing the otherwise unacknowledged aspects of oneself. Such dreams are a move toward wholeness. See: compensation theory.
- In dreams we may be integrating new experience with what we have already gathered and digested. In this way our abilities, such as social skills, are gradually upgraded. See: computer, computer-dream process as a; Evans, Christopher.
- Dreams often stand in place of actual experience. So through dreams we may experiment with new experience or practice things we have not yet done externally. For instance many young women dream in detail of giving birth. This function of what might be called ‘imagination’ is tremendously undervalued, but is a foundation upon which human survival is built. See: imagination and dreaming.
- An means of exercise for the psyche or soul. Just as the body will become sick if not moved and stressed, so the mind and emotions need stimulus and exercise. Dreams fulfill this need. See Opening to Life
- An expression of human supersenses. Humans have an unconscious ability to read body language – so they can assess other humans very quickly. Humans have an unimaginable ability to absorb information, not simply from books, but from everyday events – for example science now tells us that we collect information at an enormous rate, millions of bits every second, but unfortunately we do not synthesis it to see what it means, for most of it is unconscious, only dreams access and use it. With it they constantly arrive at new insights and realisations. Humans frequently correctly predict the future – not out of a bizarre ability, but from the information gathered about the present. All these abilities and more show in our dreams. See: esp in dreams.
- A means of solving problems, or formulating creative ideas, both in our personal life, and also in relationships and work. Many people have produced highly creative work directly from dreams. See Creative Dreaming and Problem Solving
- A presentation in symbols of past traumatic experience. If met this can lead to deep psychological healing. Such dreams are therefore an attempt on the part of our spontaneous inner processes to bring about healing change. See: abreaction; compensation theory; nightmares.
- In the widest sense nearly all dreams act as a process of growth or a move toward maturing. Some dreams are very obviously presenting internal forces or dimensions of experience that might lead the conscious personality toward a greater balance and inclusiveness. See: individuation; LifeStream.
- A way of reaching beyond the known world of experience and presenting intimations from the unknown. Many people have dreams in which ESP, out of the body experiences, and knowledge transcending time and space occur. This type of dream may indicate a link between the present person and people who had lived in the distant past; or between the dreamer and all existing life. Some of these dreams present powerful insights into how the transitory human personality may arise out of an eternal consciousness. They thus deal with the spiritual aspects of human nature. See: Dimensions of Human Experience; Buddhism and dreams; Cayce, Edgar; collective unconscious; Bible and dreams; esp in dreams; hallucinations; history of dreaming; religion and dreams; yoga and dreams; Dream Yoga.
Learn how to Explore Your Dream
I know how much you might like to skip the Introduction to Dream Dictionary, and if you are tempted to do so, I wholeheartedly ask you to read Summing Up. Without understanding the things given there you are likely to completely miss the point of understanding your dreams. The best technique to enter you dream world – Peer Dream Work
You can start using the Dream Dictionary by entering the word you wish to research into the Search Box on the top right of most pages and clicking the search symbol – or you can read some fuller information below about the dictionary and how best to use it.
But the quickest way is to put your word in the search box.
Your dreams can become vortexes of power to transform your life, and to enhance your perceptions. There is no ‘wave a magic wand’ route to this. It will not happen because you read a great book or look at a good dream dictionary. Those things might help, but the real magic lies in whether you can enter into your dream in the right way. (Try using Being the Person or Thing and Meaning of Your Dream).
What does my dream mean? – How to explore your dream meanings
It is important in reading the definitions of dream images to realise that not every possible meaning can be covered in this dictionary. So please see if you get the idea of what is being said and allow your own imagination/feelings to fill in the meaning.
There are several ways you can understand the meanings held in your dreams, and there are several levels.
The first is an easily understood level, followed by greater depths:
For instance, speaking as an object or dream person, one needs to take time with it. Learn how to actually describe what you are as that dream object or person. If I dream of a dog, don’t simply describe what you think a dog feels like, but actually take time to tune into the dream image and describe the dog dreamt about. Is it an old or young dog? What is it doing in the dream? Listen to your feelings and describe what it/you feel. Remember that each image is a creation of your own mind and unconscious, so you are really describing yourself. Say whatever comes and consider its value afterwards. Below is a quote from Tiziana Stupia’s book Meeting Shiva
Tony taught me a process in which a dream could be interpreted and understood by assuming that everything, people and objects alike, in a dream represented aspects of the Self. Sitting cross-legged on the squishy, old-fashioned sofa in the living room of my sadhu’s cave opposite Tony, I’d close my eyes and mentally return to a dream I had the previous night. He would ask me questions about the dream, which I’d answer in the first person. So if I dreamt about a tree, I would ‘become’ the tree, assume its personality and respond from its viewpoint. He’d ask ‘So what kind of tree are you? Are you big or small, old or young? What do you look like? Where are you growing? Why are you in Tiziana’s dream?’
This sounded like a silly exercise at first, but I was soon enough convinced of its validity. It was fascinating to discover a wealth of insight and emotion emerging from my responses, and understand how they related to my current situation. They also pinpointed exactly where I was in my growth process. Sometimes, the dreams would uncover unconscious fears and intuitions. Often, they also held important clues and offered solutions to my problems. It was like doing detective’s work – arduous at times, but rewarding beyond belief.
So below are listed several ways to gain insight and information from your dreams. Take your time with each approach until you get the feel for it, and then experiment with other approaches.
You can enter a key word in the search box. The Dream Dictionary contains interpretations on almost any type of dream subject. So, if you dreamt of a flying saucer landing in a field, and aliens getting out and taking a baby, a snake, and a pregnant dog back into the saucer, you could search separately for each of these subjects in the Dream Dictionary. Find the entry for flying saucer; then the entry for dog, baby, snake, pregnant, and so on. For each entry, find further related entries by looking under ‘Similar Articles’ on the right-hand side of the page. Then see Techniques for Exploring your Dreams.
Each entry gives the general meaning of the dream subject, just as an encyclopedia or dictionary does for a word. Several possible meanings are given. This is because as with our speech the position of the word – the context – gives it special meanings. So, a hot dog would be quite different to a black dog, dog-end or dead dog. Therefore, when you read an entry which has several different meanings, sometimes with a ‘;’ between, it simply means any one of them could apply, which means you need to think about the feelings in your dream, the context, the other imagery used. Please do not fall into the trap that one reviewer made of saying that the whole dictionary is about sex. Of course, sex is one meaning among many others. So, use your own sense of your dream as well as any definitions given.
To really explore the meaning, it is useful to use the Dream Dictionary as it is designed, rather than arrive at a ‘thought out’ interpretation. To see a working example of this see ‘Dream Interpretation Example One‘.
Personal Dream Interpretation
I no longer offer a personal dream interpretation service, but only occasionally if you manage to send an interesting dream I will respond – the reason is I am getting past my sell by date being 84.
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In the meantime, here is a way to work out your own dream – Getting at Your Dream’s Meaning.
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A Note About the Author: Tony Crisp
I have been interested in the health of mind and body since my early teens. I began writing about these subjects in 1956. My fascination for what lay under the surface of the mind led me personally to explore the unconscious using dreams and other mental and physical disciplines. From 1972 – 94 I worked as a psychotherapist using an eclectic, Humanistic Psychology approach which included dream work and releasing the secrets the body holds. My books include Do You Dream; Mind and Movement; The Instant Dream Book; Dream Dictionary; Life’s Little Secrets –Liberating The Body – and many more. See My Books.
During those years I worked as a dream columnist for The Daily Mail and She Magazine. I was the regular dream interpreter for the London Broadcasting Company; I ran Teletext’s dream page on UK television’s Channel Four; and for New Zealand Teletext, and now I run this website giving dream help in the many replies to peoples dreams and in as well as many features on subjects connected with the human inner world. See Features
Throughout more than five decades I have been involved in a personal search for the secrets of mind and spirit. In those years I have also taught thousands of people techniques of deep relaxation, meditation, and methods of self exploration using dreams. Wanting to dig deep I explored the use of dreams and taught individuals and groups of people how to use these visions of the night to discover and heal the deepest issues in themselves, and to touch the high ground of their spiritual awareness. I worked for twenty years as a psychotherapist using several approaches, one of which was a way of honouring the body as a doorway to the unconscious mind, the emotions and spiritual experience. See Self-Regulation – Recognition – Life’s Little Secrets – The LifeStream and Opening to Life
During the sixty years of seeking the wild wondrous beasts of the mind and spirit I dared my own inner adventure. But I also travelled with other people as an ordinary person, not a therapist, sharing their experience of fear and wonder as they unveiled and set loose their fountain of perception. I have travelled countless dream pathways, traversed the timeless with those using awareness enhancing drugs, and wrestled with the vitality of the body as people mimed and shouted their deepest intuitions through movement, dance and voice. See Tony’s Biography
My aim has always to share my findings – actually what I was shown or given from within – was given freely; I never had any teacher or attended a course, of course I read an enormous amount, so I cannot ask for money. If you wish to donate anything to the running of the site you can do so by clicking on https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&hosted_button_id=JYTWAMC4LQLQ4&source=url
My teacher has been from exploring dreams and occasionally touching the wonder we were born as – not from words written in books about that but by meeting it. See Enlightenment
Introduction to Using the Dream Dictionary
Diccionario de los Sueños
Profundización de la comprensión de un sueño; Introducción
What Is Offered In The Dictionary
In a similar way, by observing dreams and laying bare the emotions and associated ideas and memories we have with the dream imagery, we gradually define our personality, its strengths and weaknesses, we discover new abilities and we grow beyond our old problems, and that in a depth we had never managed previously. I have called this mind watching, but it covers every aspect of human nature, not simply the intellect or thinking.
This mind watching through observation of our dreams first presents information about our personal experiences and memories and how they influenced our growth and influence present responses. Gradually the information arising from such watching leads beyond ones personal self. It shows in many cases how our unique self has arisen from, and has indissoluble links with our forebears, with our culture, with the past as a whole, and with the cosmos itself. It leads from oneself to the edge of the known, and perhaps helps us take a few steps beyond that edge into the unknown, to create new understanding.
This mind watching gradually reveals to us the many aspects of the mind’s working, and with such insight may come the growing ability to use these facets of ourselves. Not only may we discover great vistas of personal memory, but also the roots of our creativity, the subtle senses of our emotions and unconscious, and the treasures of experience we have gathered. See Your Amazing Circle – Self Observation
So how can we get into this magical world of our dreams and start to harvest the possibilities held there? The following pages of this book are designed to help, guide and inform on how to do this. The book is also a counsellor on what you may find in your dream adventure.
The information about dreams presented in this book has been gathered during fifty years of working with and studying dreams and the dream process. It synthesises the experience of personally helping hundreds of individuals explore their dreams. The examples used have been taken from a collection of over 8000 dreams put onto a computer filing system. The filing system was also used to define general associations with commonly used dream images.
The major input for definition however has arisen from the actual exploration of dreams undertaken by individuals. These are either people I have worked with personally who have deeply felt the emotions and issues behind their dreams, not simply talked them over and come to an intellectual interpretation but a deep insight, or are people who have written up their findings arising from similar work. Added to this is the commonly held associations we have through our language and the way we use imagery within speech. Of course your personal dream imagery may not be using the commonly held associations, or those used by other people, and so you must read the definitions with care and consider if these fit what is implied or dramatised in your dream.
In the entries in the Dictionary are explanations of the many different types of dreams and dream images. Despite some people’s attempt to explain dreams in one simple formula, dreams cover a huge range of phenomena and human experience. Amongst subjects covered in the book are thousands of entries on the researched meaning of the things, people, creatures and places we dream about. There are also many entries on special subjects such as symbols and dreaming; interpreting dreams; recurring dreams; nightmares; sex while asleep; teenage girls love dreams; precognitive dreams; talking in ones sleep; the dream as an adventure; Occultism and Dreams; science sleep and dreams; and many more.
There are a compete list of these Features and the Archetypes covered.
Therefore, if you have dreamt of such things as your teeth falling out; being chased; or your marriage partner dying, you will find an explanation of your dream in the following pages.
The aim of the book is to help you make connections between your dreams and your everyday life; to discover more fully the powerful emotions and reactions that unconsciously direct your decisions and responses in waking. The book is not an attempt to give you merely ideas to play with, to agree or disagree with, like fortune telling. It can lead to real insights which empower you to make more of yourself, and find your way through the many decisions life confronts you with.
But you can move directly on to Using the Dictionary – or better still read Meaning of Your Dream.
The Discovery of Dreams
Dreams are a magical mirror in which your innermost hopes, longings, fears/terrors and genius are made real. They are made real as external environments, people, animals and relationships. It is as if all your deepest feelings, hopes, fear and wonder are projected outward onto a multidimensional screen. It is a world of virtual reality that you feel is real. Unfortunately this wonderful virtual reality world is usually felt as dealing with other people, as externals, like something that can damage us, or something like the Devil that can possess us.
But the greatest truth I have found in exploring dreams – not interpreting them – is that we are alone with ourselves in the world of our dream. If we can acknowledge and admit that our terrors we dream are actually our past hurts that we have not faced presenting themselves for us to heal; that the ghosts and demons that can rampage about our night are embodiments of our fears; that our wonderful visions and insights are an expression of our own infinite potential, then we can walk a pathway to finding what we really are. Audio Introduction to Exploring a Dream
- Dreams are virtual realities that we create in our sleep. Even the wonderful dreams of God and angels are an external virtual reality, and mirror of our own inner immensity and our enormous variety. Unfortunately people either accept them as externally real, or as fantasy. But they are reflections of your potential, that cannot be seen in your daily life that is so dominated by your physical senses and hungers and fears.
- See The Magical Dream Machine. So the images and fears we experience in our dreams are projection upon the vast screen of our mind. They are all projections from you. Running from them is like trying to escape from yourself.
- In life and sleep we have two powerful actions working in us. The first is our waking experience based on having a body, its limitations, vulnerabilities and a particular gender. Our second is the power that gave us life and continues to express as dreams.
- While we sleep our conscious self is largely or totally unconscious, and while we sleep our voluntary muscles are paralysed – therefore another will or motivating force moves our body. So we have a Conscious Will, and what I will call a Life Will. The first one we have experience of as we can move our arm or speak in everyday activities; but the second will takes over when we sleep. See Sleep Paralysis
- This Life will can move us to speak, to move our body, and in fact do things that we cannot do with our Conscious Will. As Freud pointed out this inner will has full access to our memories. It can do so many other things that are described else where – See ESP in Dreams; Edgar Cayce and the Cosmic Mind.
- This Life Will or motivator has been active for millions of years and we see it working all the time in animals. We are partly split in half because we are often opposed to what our Life Will in us wants. So the only way to express what is good for us is in dreams when our conscious will is largely passive.
- Life Will created your body and pre-existed you as a person you know today. It was working in you prior to your ability to speak or know in the way you do now. But of course it has fantastic wisdom and skills, as can be seen in animals.
- Life, if you look around you at Life’s creature, they can take any form. So Life itself is without form. In fact the recent advances in quantum physics suggest that what gives us existence is beyond space and time – beyond understanding.
- So dreams do not come from the human unconscious, but from the formless origins of Life – our Core Self. To express in a way that is understandable to us as a person with limited understanding, dreams use all the common imagery and ideas. So people who say that dreams are a mish mash of common everyday events are mistaken. See LifeStream; Levels of Awareness in Sleeping and Waking; .
- Our core self can be explained by realising that we are all dependent on the universe. We often feel that the universe is way beyond our understanding, but a few simple facts may help. The first is that the universe as we know it began with what had been called the Big Bang. But before that there was a situation prior to the creation of time and space. That situation is very much like the experience of Edgar Cayce who had an awareness reaching beyond time and space. See God and the Big Bang are the Same Thing
- Irish physicist John Stewart Bell put forward a quantum theorem that has revolutionised the way reality is considered. In brief, the theorem states that when two sub-microscopic particles are split and moved to a distance from each other, the action on, or of, particle ‘A’, is instantaneously reproduced with particle ‘B’. This interaction does not rely on any known link or communication and is considered to stand above normal physical laws of nature, as it is faster than light. Prior to such findings it was thought nothing could transcend the speed of light. Nick Herbert, in an interview published in High Frontiers writes: ‘THERE ARE LOTS OF THINGS that are being kept from the public as far as the subjects of physics and consciousness are concerned. Bell’s Theorem was proved in 1964, and it is still not taught in physics classes, and you don’t hear it on your science news programs. A theorem is a proof, and no one has found a flaw in this theorem. It’s such a simple proof that a high school kid can understand it. So physicists can understand it. They have various ways of trying to ignore it, but it can’t be refuted because it’s so simple.’
Our Core self is that amazing part of us existing beyond time and space, and was within us from the start of our universe.
- In the world of dreams our most intimate fears and longings are given an exterior life of their own in the form of the people, objects and places of our dream. Therefore our sexual drive may be shown as a person and how we relate to them; or given shape and colour as an object; or given mood as a scene. Our feeling of ambition might thus be portrayed as a business person in our dream – our changing emotions as the sea or a river; while the present relationship we have with our ambition or emotions is expressed in the events or plot of the dream.
- You cannot be killed in a dream. All you can experience is the anguish and perhaps fear of dying, but in dreams you cannot die – or drown, or burn or any other threatening thing. We make the mistake of taking our very real values from our outer life into our inner life of dreams.
- In dreams, what ever moves away from you in our dreams is going out of your awareness or even life; and whatever moves toward us is emerging into consciousness. Whatever it is that is coming toward us is giving us something whether it is energy, insight, or a frightening dream that is trying to shock us to wake up and clear out the inner mess we are in. The fact we give it a frightening image is because we are brought up to be scared of ourselves and to not trust Life/Core. If you know the tenets of the AA, you will see that is what they are about – to trust Life.
- Most people are frightened of life. I see this in so many dreams sent to me. They do not trust themselves to the powerful action of Life flowing through them. See Life’s Little Secrets.
- We have been brain washed to believe that our existence depends upon nothing but accidental events, the survival of the fittest, the chemical and biological mechanical actions. Yet every time I have gone deeply into my ‘unconscious’ and yet maintained awareness, I have found a wonderful power of Life there.
- So if your dreams frighten you, I want to say you are frightened of something wonderful that could have grown you and enlarged your experience of yourself. The thing that was full of fear was your own fear put into an image, and yet was a wonderful gift that you avoided receiving.
- I too was full of fears and often woke up screaming. Then I learned to trust Life. It is like learning to swim. So please go back into your dream and let the fearful thing be fully experienced instead of waking up in fear. Then it will unveil itself as a thing of light and love.
Deepening Dream Understanding
I suggest you only try one method at a time and use it until you are capable or it or it doesn’t work for you, then move on to other methods taking time with them until you find what works best for you.
Although the process of dreams might not be a direct attempt to present MEANING, a dream may nevertheless have a great deal of INFORMATION in it. This becomes clearer if we remember that not many years ago it would have appeared highly superstitious or suspect to claim to be able to tell a person details of their health and parentage from a sample of their urine or blood. Today it is common practice. We accept that a growing amount of information can be gained from these unlikely sources. Blood doesn’t contain meaning, but we can gain information from it. In a similar way a sample of our dreams can also tell us an enormous amount. Sometimes this data is obvious, sometimes it needs processing to uncover, as with urine and blood.
Dream Processing – The following dream needs no deep techniques of processing. The word ‘processing’ is used throughout the book instead of analysis. Analysis has the connotation of giving our own thoughts or opinions to the dream. Processing is used to suggest extraction of information which leads to insight. With this particular dream, all it needs is a few facts brought to it to make clear what information it holds. The dream is that of a young woman, Mrs C. L.
It is a bright sunny day. I am walking across a large concrete car park. It is empty except for a huge trailer from a truck. It has BOOTS written on the side, and stands high off the ground. Being 4’ 9’ tall myself I decide to walk underneath. As I am half way the trailer starts to be lowered on top of me. I try to shout but cannot. I get onto my hands and knees and the trailer still kept coming down. I am now lying on my stomach, convinced it is going to crush me. Then it suddenly stops a couple of inches from my head. I wake feeling terrible.
The dream is interesting, although the information it holds may at first not be obvious. But with a minimum of processing the dream information will become clear. The first technique of processing the dream is to recognise some of the key statements within it. These are I AM WALKING – I TRY TO SHOUT – CONVINCED IT IS GOING TO CRUSH ME.
The reason these are key statements is because the dreamer is saying ‘I am walking’ – ‘I try to shout’ – ‘I …am convinced’. The word ‘I’ is important.
This form of processing has not added anything to the dream. It has simply drawn attention to the information already there in the dreamer’s description of her experience – this is why it is useful to write the dream out fully. If we add a little more information which the dreamer herself connects with the dream, then it becomes even clearer. Mrs C. L. says, ‘I work for BOOTS the chemist. The employees at the shop I work in were told at the beginning of the year that Boots are selling our shop. When that happens I will be made redundant. We were supposed to finish on May 26th. It is now the end of July. The deal fell through so we are now just left hanging indefinitely until a new buyer comes along. I feel very unsettled as I can’t make any plans for the future.’
Having read these comments, it would be difficult not to see the dream as relating to the woman’s work situation, and to her strong anxiety connected with it. She herself says – through her dream – she is ‘convinced it – the situation – is going to crush’ her. She also feels her strong emotions about this – expressed in her attempt to shout – are not being expressed or ‘heard’. From just this one dream, we can be forgiven if we assume that dreams may express in dramatic form our feeling reaction to the circumstances of our everyday life. Taking this dream as information, Mrs. C. L. could see she is feeling crushed by the situation, yet not stating her feelings loudly enough to be heard. She might therefore speak to the manager to clarify the situation for herself.
Here is an even shorter and less complex dream. It has been left just as it was written so its information is immediately apparent. The key words here might be TRYING TO CONTACT HIM and NOT UNDERSTANDING WHY HE LEFT ME. The dream is from Mrs C. J.
Years ago I lost my first husband at twenty nine. I had the same dream continually of being in a phone box trying to contact him, not understanding why he had left me. He died of cancer. Later I remarried and this husband died of a heart attack. Once again the same dream came back so much.
On speculating about the dream from what is immediately apparent, we might say that although it is irrational to continually try to contact her husband when there has never be any success, nevertheless, her desire to be with him continues year after year. This same part of her cannot understand why he died. We might put such feelings into words as, ‘But what had he done to die so young? Why should it happen to me twice?’ We can also assume that her desire to understand these questions, which is what contacting her husband represents, is expressed in the dream as the telephone.
The dream process has dramatised her situation and inner feelings – given them form and made them experiential. Looking at this dream helps us see how an image, such as the telephone, performs exactly the same sort of function as a spoken word, although in a different way. Namely, it represents feelings and thoughts. That the woman’s questions remain, that her problem is unsolved, is apparent from the fact she does NOT make contact on the telephone, and does not find peace. Understanding her dream shows her the importance of the questions she continually asks herself, and the need to release the emotions behind them. With this she could be free of the dream. If she cannot manage this by herself, taking advantage of the professional help of a therapist might help.
To make it clear how everything is a dream holds personal information, to give an example, I was recently asked by a man who had given no thought to dreams how on earth you could extract any meaning from them. He was wearing a fairly old T-shirt, so I said, “OK, let’s imagine you dreamt of your T-shirt, what would you make of that?”
After a while he said, “I don’t know that I would make anything of it.”
My response was to say, “Right, but now tell me where you bought the T-shirt, and what memories it has for you.” Whereupon he told me memories of being abroad, and that the shirt was part of those memories, and he wasn’t prepared to say what they were as they were so personal.
The important point is that everything we see and deal with, every person, every imagined scene, has such a background of feelings and perhaps memories. It is exactly this background of feelings and information that the dream weaves its story from. To understand it you need to become aware of the usually unconscious feeling responses you have in connection with every thing, place, person and animal you fill your dreams with.
For fuller Dream Processing – Below are described simple techniques that make it possible to quickly gain information from your dreams. They have been put as a series of questions. If you take time to consider and answer the question you will find your way into a new experience of dream understanding.
Read it in: Processing Your Dream
Seeing under the Surface
Acting on your Dreams – Extracting more from your dream by letting your body and feelings express it can provide a remarkable release of insight. There are several ways of doing this.
Do see the instructions see: Acting on Your Dreams
The Peer Dream Group – This method is the most powerful and deepest method. It includes some of the other techniques mentioned.
The way of working known as the Peer Dream Group came about from our experience that dreams are largely self explanatory if approached in the right way. An exterior expert or authority is not necessary for a profound experience of and insight into dreams and into oneself if certain rules are respected and used. The dreamer is the ultimate expert on their own dream and themselves but only when we break through to what is usually unconscious mental states, and when treated as such, and supported in their investigation of their dream drama, they can powerfully explore and manifest the resources of their inner life.
To use it see: The Peer Dream Group and What I Have Seen In Dreams
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My friend had a dream that some sort of figure was sitting on his chest and he couldn’t move and they were trying to shove something down his throat. then he woke and he was really really scared because it felt real. what does this mean?
Amanda – Of course the dream was real, but not in the way people feel or afraid it is real. We have all been so sure that everything comes from outside, that it is difficult for people to realise that the REAL world is within them. Science shows this; there is nothing outside us. We create it all, even pain is created in the brain, and so we cannot see outside of us – we create it within us. See: http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/the-magical-dream-machine/
A man in the US recently cut his arm off with a band saw because he had to to save his life. He said he felt not pain. The reason being that he knew it had to be done, and so he cut out the pain. Pain can be violent when we fear it and try to avoid it, but otherwise it is a warning.
So if we see the dream of your friend and turned it into an inner reality and not an outer, we have to ask the question, “What is making it difficult to breathe and to move. This usually point to having been bullied at some time, or having something rammed down his throat or someone’s will pushed into him.
He needs to learn techniques of assertiveness.
Because this is his dream, perhaps he can imagine himself getting hold of the person who is on his chest and hit him where it hurts, or poke his eyes out. I am indicating his dream here, where no one actually gets hurt. But it is important to exert his own power. Even believing that he has the power to change the dream will do wonders. See http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/the-magical-dream-machine/
Tony
Hi, I had very strange dream where we sat with my friend in a room of his apartment. Later, a big black and hairy dog entered the room and approached us. We didn’t know whose dog it was and i don’t remember if it was aggressive or not. I think he was barking. Then, young muscular man entered the room ( i don’t know him) and right away started to punch my friend in a face with enormous speed, about twenty times in a period of five seconds. He didn’t touch me. Then man was leaving with a dog and the light went off. I think the man was an owner of a dog and was beating my friend because of the dog but I am not sure.
what this crazy dream might mean?
I had a dream a few night ago that my mom who past away in july 09,Brought me some wood alot of wood.I asked her well momma what am I supposed to with the wood,She didn’t answer she walked out and left in a car.I couldn’t stop her. I am trying to figure out what it means with no luck at all.I hope someone here can help me figure it out.Thanks
Michelle – Well, it would make a very big difference what sort of wood your mother brought. Was it timber for building something? Was it wood for burning; for making decking outside a house? Or could she have built a fence with it?
So all I can do is to give you general meanings.
In general wood is about things that have grown or developed in your life in the past and are now useful material to use in what you are making of yourself. It often indicates the intellect or intellectual information – material that in itself is not alive, but is nevertheless useful. For wood in the sense of many trees.
Idioms: Babe in the woods; neck of the woods; out of the woods; touch wood, wooden head; a wooden performance.
Wooden things: The past, or structures of thought or behaviour you have built, which originally had life, but are now habitual. Being ‘wooden’ lacking life or feeling.
Wooden room or house: A part of your nature that has been carefully cultivated or created out of past experience.
But your mother plays an important role in your dream, and again you didn’t give any indication of what your past with her was like. What you felt about her is what she means in your dream. In your dreams our most intimate fears and longings are given an exterior life of their own in the form of the people, objects and places of our dream. Therefore our sexual drive may be shown as a person and how we relate to them; or given shape and colour as an object; or given mood as a scene, something that haunts our memory shown as a ghost or demon. Our feeling of ambition might thus be portrayed as a business person in our dream – our changing emotions as the sea or a river; while the present relationship we have with our ambition or emotions is expressed in the events or plot of the dream.
So if you can see what she is in you, then you could see that she really wanted to give you something and then left it for you to do whatever the wood and you mother mean.
Tony
I had 3 children 2 girls and a boy shannon age 9,liam age 5 and katie-jo age 3 and last night I had a dream that shannon and katie-jo died dont know how and remember seeing shannons face in the cofen
Suzanne – Dreaming that your child dies can have several meanings. In some dreams a parent, much to their horror dreams of killing their child; or as one dreamer said, “I saw him jump off a bridge to his death.” This occurred at a time when her young son was making his first moves toward independence, and it was a difficult thing for the mother to face – the loss of her son. So it can easily be shown as the death of ones child in a dream. Another women describes it differently as follows:
‘I am standing outside a supermarket with heavy bags wearing my Mac, though the sun is warm. My daughter and two friends are playing music and everyone stops to listen. I start to write a song for them, but they pack up and go on a bus whilst I am still writing. I am left alone at the bus stop with my heavy burden of shopping, feeling incredibly unwanted.’ Mrs F
Mrs F was dreaming about her young daughter leaving her, and she has to grieve it, almost like a death.
But our dream child can represent many things, and it is useful to realise that any person, object or scene in a dream is not a symbol – it is not dead thing that has to be interpreted – it is a living part of you and can only be understood by relating to it. So in this way I have found that a child can represent whatever our strongest feelings about them are. It can represent your marriage or partnership because it is what you have created between you. In that case the death of the child can depict something like an awful argument that feels as if it the marriage has died.
A child and its death can also show you how you have killed out the growing or adventurous side of you; or if you see your child as vulnerable and needing protection it could show you the death of that part of your feelings.
So you need to ask yourself what your dream child depicts as a living part of you.
Tony
what does it mean when you have a dream where you are giving birth but there are two men in the delivery room waiting on me to have this baby to see who is the father?
Jenifer – It could mean many things. For instance who is your father?
But I take it you are not pregnant, so I feel the dream is about you bringing to birth a new you, another part of you that you are pregnant with, and who is the one who has stimulated this part of you to a new life.
In this case it doesn’t have to be just one person. If you think about the people in your life who have influenced you and helped you to grow and discover new things, it could be many people. But the dream suggests it is two men who have played an important part in your growth.
Tony
I dreamed that i was in the bed with 2 man.on my right is my cousin husband and on my left is my friend husband…but my cousin was just wathing us and it sems like its okey to her.and also it change i saw a reciept that i owed $60.000 to a laundry.I go to the laundry and tell them that i already pay for it.and they told me that $ 60.000 is the fine for one year of not paying.
Jessica – It seems from your dream that you need men around you, probably it is comforting to be wanted and supported. Whether this is evident in just this dream or whether is an ongoing thing I cannot tell.
But the laundry bill reminds you that haven’t taken care of your cleaning up process enough. Laundry depicts attitudes that need to be, or have been, cleansed, or experience that needs re-evaluating.
Tony
i had a dream lastnight, that my boyfriend was having sex with my grandma, and then he had sex with a girl i know named Bevan. what does this mean?
Amanda – You didn’t say how you felt about the dream. That usually gives me a lead.
But I wonder whether you have thought how it would be to be a male. I say that because if this were a male dream it all seems sensible. Men are often sexually attracted to older women – in their dreams anyway. The reason in that the older woman is a mother figure, and often they want sex with their mother. This is all unconscious of course and they wouldn’t usually admit to it. Then the younger woman is natural.
So have you been wondering what it would be like to have sex as a male?
Tony
Greetings! I’m currently a film/TV production student working with an idea for a show about dreams. I’m looking to shoot a pilot before I graduate this year and would love to discuss the possibility of collaboration. I’m looking for a dream interpreter, a dream book author, and a psycho therapist who could engage in dialogue with the interpreter and author. My number is 323.915.7297. I’m in Los Angeles.
Me and another woman, who identified with as a friend, accompanied me by spacecraft to another planet after saying goodbye to my brother (as a toddler, but he is older than me) in his bedroom where we grew up. Space was beautiful, the trip was short but meaningful. Upon arrival to the new planet, me and my friend started to look for someone or something that we had ?lost? Then i was alone. The landscape was sandy and garbage was strewn about, as I walked, I came uopn a trail of broken glass. I followed it, until I became aware that I was walking along a wall, where I saw light shining through a small doorway. I peeked in the doorway, but I didn’t go inside. I saw a large beautiful blooming peach coloured gladiola at the edge of a cliff. The cliff’s edge was a small plateau, and then three steps lead from it to me. The steps were worn out; I was afraid to go down them to look at the flower, for fear of falling off the cliff. I also noticed a lush green forest in the valley down below. I got nervous for looking too long, because I was afraid curiosity would win and I would die. Just as I was about to turn away and continue on my way, I saw a small child’s arm. I spoke softly to it, it came into view, its face very plain, its eyes blue. I coaxed it to come away from the edge, towards me, out of danger from falling off the edge. It looks at me, and sort of smiled, and started to come my way. Then, at the base of the stairs, she reached down, at which point I saw two sets of undeveloped breasts, like those of a child, growing on her back. She picked up an infant by the arm, showing it to me like a rag doll, and she said “dead baby!”. She then repeated the phrase and showed my another one, closer to the base of the stairs. I knew she wasn’t going to come to me, but I still hoped she would. She kept repeating the phrase, then started to point to herself. I wanted to look away, because I knew she was going to jump. But I couldn’t. She said “dead baby” once more, and did a sort of back dive off the cliff. I backed out of the doorway and leaned against the wall, and I heard her scream.
I have to go a step at a time with your dream. So starting with the first scene in the bedroom, it is about a place you felt safe and caring – for your brother. And you were accompanied by a feeling of being at ease with yourself.
Then the space flight it could suggest going beyond your usual levels of experience; in other words extending your awareness beyond that of the senses.
With that extension of what you are aware of you see a lot of the garbage within you that needs to be cleared up. And then it is difficult to go where you are going for two reasons, the broken glass and your fear.
The light is about a further stretch of awareness or insight as you peep through the door attracted by the light. The light is about being more aware of yourself and your surroundings. And that leafs to the most important thing – the thing you didn’t like to face fully, that you were afraid of falling into.
It is about something beautiful that is growing, but at the same time something’s that were dead or killed. If you were not afraid you could easily have grabbed the child and saved her. The nipples may suggest she had the possibility of being a very good mother.
So I think the dream is about part of you that were damaged in childhood and so could not grow and died. Yet within you it tried again and again but was killed, probably by some stupid remarks or attitude of adult to adults. I know it doesn’t sound much, and the drama of the dream is awful in what it display, but for you to not be able to allow something beautiful is awful, and here it is within your reach. All you need to do is to face the fear and take hold of that child. Imagine it while awake and keep doing it with rests in between until you can face the fear and save the young you.
Here is an example of a man doing just that. I was at a very large school. Looking around I came to a large gymnasium. Near the end where I stood was a diving board, about 20ft. off the ground. Girls were learning to dive off the board and land flat on their back on the floor. If they landed flat they didn’t hurt themselves – like falling backwards standing up. I was sure they would hurt themselves and it was difficult to watch.
The girls are in fact taking a risk, but learning to do so in a way that does not damage them. This becomes clearer when we realise that Des had recently changed from being an employee to becoming self-employed. He was feeling a lot of anxiety about where his next week’s income was coming from, and how long he could last living in this new way.
He felt that the diving board was the big jump he was taking into the unknown. He was afraid he was going to land ‘flat on his back’. In English this suggest loss of control, and being ‘on ones back’ links with illness or defeat. The girls, he felt, represented his daring, in taking his new step in career, and also his vulnerability. All this was easy for him to realise, but it didn’t take away his anxiety.
Des sat and relaxed, imagining himself back in his dream, feeling anxious the girls might damage themselves. He changed the scene slightly by turning the gymnasium floor into a swimming pool. This shifted the mood from one of possible danger to one of fun or play. Then he had an urge to climb up on the board as one of the girls and dive off. As he did this he felt the full flow of his anxiety. Even so he managed to land on his back on the bare floor. So, like the girls in the dream, he climbed up again and repeated the dive. After running through this a number of times Des opened his eyes and smiled. He said, ‘It’s just a feeling. Anxiety, I mean. It’s just a feeling. When I dive off that board I feel anxious. But when I repeat it over and over I start to recognise that it is like a tape playing. The feeling doesn’t actually do me any harm, it’s just something that plays in certain situations. What I learn from this is that feelings don’t harm me unless I hold onto them. I can have the feeling of falling flat on my back and get up from it and take another risk. It’s okay. My anxiety isn’t a reflection of reality, only of how I feel. There is a big difference.’
Des continued in his self-employment, with gradually lessening anxiety, and is still self-employed years later.
Tony
i dream a boy gave birth to a boy
Gloria – Anything can happen in dreams. Men give birth to babies, so can a boy.
In us, within our dream self we are not simple one sex. But we tend to get ourselves identify with one gender because of our body. But the thing that gives us life can be anything. Remember that as you grew from a seed within your mothers womb you went through the whole evolutionary process, from a single celled creature to multiple cells. So that was like plant life, then to animal cells when you had gills like a fish, and so on up the scale till you reached your present body. And that body conditioned the life in you in very particular ways.
Like light, that is invisible until it hits a surface, light can be any colour; so too with Life.
Tony
Last night I had the weirdest dream. In someparts of the dream I’m myself and in someparts I’m looking at myself. It begins with being pregnant and giving birth in a matter of seconds. I was expexcting it to hurt but there was no pain just the feeling of bearing down. I have the baby and she is so beautiful, the most beautiful thing I have ever seen and the feeling of immense love comes over me. *Its crazy because I have no children but I always have wanted to have a son*. Anyways, I name her Daria Nicole and my last name. I have no clue where that name comes from Cause I have never heard it before. Her intials come out to be DNA which I state I have to change her last name because having the intials DNA is strange. But I can’t give her her fathers name because he his married to someone else. But none the less I am overwelmed by how beautiful she is and how much I love her….. This is where it gets strange. As I’m holding her and talking to her dad I start to see bees appear. The Furry Big Butt Bees. I’m terrified now because I hate bees and I don’t want them to get to my baby. So I’m screaming for anybody to get rid of the bees. Bees are coming from everywhere, out the light fixture, out the floor. Then I look down and I am no longer holding the baby, she’s dissappeared. Her father has dissapeared too. Then an older woman grabs my arm and pulls me down to the corner of the floor into the swarm of the bees. I’m freaking out, expecting for them to sting me as they swarm all around me. But someone tells me it won’t hurt (not sure who it was). I take a deep breath to relax and then I wake up.
Mari – Daria is a Persian name and means wealthy. It is also used in an animated TV series.
I have the feeling that you would to have the baby from your man, but have worries because he is worried. I believe that is what the bees represent, buzzing worries, buzzing around.
Every baby is divine, so it is no wonder that you love her. In a dream you would feel it intensely. In a body the divine would be clothed in flesh.
And of course if you wanted you could have the baby, either in the flesh or in your dream life. If you cherish her she will certainly appear again in you dreams.
I sense the older woman is your female wisdom talking to you.
Tony
i had a dream the other night i was on holidays and miraculousley my farther burst in the room crying saying my mother had died please could you tell me what this means?
Kimberley – I wish I knew how old you are, because age can make a lot of difference about the meaning.
So I am assuming you are quite young, is so this may be about becoming more independent from your mother. We often dream of the death of a parent as it gives us a feeling of what it is like to live without them.
I do not get the feeling this is a prediction of your mother’s death. But it is worth being warned, and do not wait to tell her you love her – if you do.
Tony
my girlfriend always has this dream that we fall apart. like she has someone new and me too. and she doesn’t love me anymore. and everytime i go back to her. she always turns me down. and never wanna get back together.
Andy – That is certainly not a good dream to be on the end of. It suggests that your girl friend is full of doubts about her ability to stay in a relationship. And also her dream also says she sees you with someone else too.
That doesn’t mean it will all come true, but she does need to work our what she wants and who she wants.
Tony
i had a dream that my girlfriend was telling me that if i sit at the bottom of her bed and looked in the bathroom that i can see the eyes of a demon in the mirror thats in there but she was asleep. and we have both hear a female voice say our name in the bathroom while bathing, and one night i was in the living room and the female voice told me not to stray from them.
Anthony – Wow, a puzzling dream. Puzzling because there are so many possible reasons for it.
The first might be that if the threshold between your waking and dreaming/sleeping self is not strong, then you could easily hear a voice speaking to you. If that is so, you have to ask yourself the question as to who or what is speaking to you. Because a voice can speak out of your fears or traumas, and so can be very destructive.
If it is a voice of something you feel you can trust, why is it telling you not to stray? It sounds a bit like you might be acting under fear of the demon eyes. And that is certainly the path to confusion. That is because dreams are a direct reflection not of outer life, but of you, your fears, your hopes, your confusion.
As I have said, if there is a demon about, don’t be afraid of it but go to it and give it a good pinch to test if it is real. I have never found one in my long life of dreams that was evil or able to do me any harm. They all turned out to be my own energy turned back on itself – evil = live. Devil = Lived. Fear tends to turn our outgoing energies back on themselves.
So please let the urge to BE, to Live and be a creative force flow through you.
Tony
I keep dreaming about my ex-girlfriend. She lives far away from me and thats why we couldnt be togheter, even if i wanted it soo bad.
So, in my dreams i randomly see her for example, I was sitting on the bus on my way home from school, and i suddenly see her through the bus-window on a bus-stop. We were just looking at eachother not trying to make further contact.
In my two most recent dreams I was acually having sex with her and in the other one i saw her randomly in my city, and i felt so happy.
Anyone knows why this occur? I wanted to be with her so much, but we just couldn’t be togheter because of the distance. To meet eachother we had to take a plane which we did a couple of times.
If anyone knows how i can stop dreaming about her, please respond to this comment. I love her, but I have to get over her. It has been like almost half a year since we “break-up” and right now we are being “friends with benefits”…
Tom – You need to realise if you wish to stop these dreams that you are not dreaming about her. She has never appeared in your dreams. What you experience is what you might call a photocopy of her – but it is a copy that is like a virtual reality in which you can interact with her image in a real way.
This is understandable when you realise that any thought or feeling you experience about her in waking is also only a photocopy. Thoughts are never ever the real person. Your thoughts are images and feelings you conjure. They are images and feelings you create when you ‘think’ about her. This is were so many people get up tight and in pain when there is a relationship break up. They find it hard to admit it is all their own responses, and if they realise it is not about the actual person it might help.
At the moment you are feeling you want this type of relationship with a woman, and you use her image even to express your sexual needs, but if you found another woman it you liked it would all change. Having lived a long life and survived many loves, I can see that it can be hard or it can be easy. But do not fall into the trap of feeling that your thoughts are anything more that photocopies of the real thing.
You can transfer your feelings to another image if you realise that you want the feelings and contact you had with her, but it is not good to keep on wanting her. But because you keep on having ‘benefits’ it keeps it all alive. If you had firm resolve not to keep torturing yourself it could end. Please see Growing up to Love.
Tony