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Dream Dictionary

Online Dream Dictionary & Encyclopedia

by Tony Crisp

The Spanish Dictionary is all the work and effort placed in it, as well as many excellent dream interpretations all by Anna Hoser,

Introduction

The latest edition of the Dream Dictionary and Dream Encylopedia is the result of some sixty years experience of working with dreams and their understanding. The Dream Dictionary encompassing articles on a vast range of topics. This gives the reader an unparalleled insight into the study of dreams and the inner life. But there are an enormous amount of Features in the Dream Encylopedia that cover a range of topics about dreams and the inner life.

The aim of the Dream Dictionary is to help you make connections between your dreams and your everyday life; to discover more fully the powerful emotions and reactions that unconsciously direct your decisions and responses in waking. This is not an attempt to give you merely ideas to play with, to agree or disagree with, like fortune telling. It can lead to real insights which empower you to make more of yourself, and find your way through the many decisions with which life confronts you.

Useful Links

Your Guru the Dream

Your Guru Your Body

What Are Dreams

Learn how to Interpret Your Dream

What does my dream mean? – How to explore your dream meaning

Personal Dream Interpretation

A Note About the Author: Tony Crisp

Mind Watching and Dreams

Introduction to Using the Dream Dictionary

Using the Dictionary

The Discovery of Dreams – Things We Need to Remember About Us

Gaining Insight into Your Dreams

Acknowledgement to this Edition

What Is Offered In The Dictionary

The Discovery of Dreams

Deepening Dream Understanding

Seeing under the Surface

Exploring Inner Space

Things I Wished I Had Had Been Taught Earlier in My Life

Features Found on Site: this is a full list of the topics covered by the Dream Encyclopedia (not a list of dream dictionary words). 

  What Are Dreams?

Dreams are one of nature’s miracles, not the result of a wandering mind in sleep. A dream is an interface between the process of life, our core self and our conscious personality. Life existed quite capably for millions of years before the self-aware human personality came on the scene. In all that time the ancestors of the modern human being survived without having a rational mind to reason with, or self consciousness to ask such questions as ‘What do I do about this?’ Nevertheless survival strategies were still developed in their unconscious intelligence. Dreams express this unconscious wisdom that was developed in humans and animals through millions of years of Life experience.

Life’s age old unconscious processes are still the major part of our being, yet we seldom consciously meet them – except in dreams. As our physical and psychological health depend upon a reasonable co-operation between the spontaneous processes of life – such as breathing, digestion and the thousands of other life sustaining activities and our conscious decisions and actions, the encounter in dreams is vital. As I often point out to those I am advising we are a human face on a long line of beautiful animals. In fact “You ride an ancient beast.” The ancient beast is your body, and your conscious self is the modern and recent rider of it. Some ‘riders’ do not understand their animal needs – and the fact that we have several levels of brain that are independent of each other proves this. Still active in us are our Reptile Brain, Our mammalian Brain, and our Human Brain, and the reptile and mammalian brains are still very active and constitute a large part of our human unconscious. See  – Brain Levels and Dreams –  Life’s Little Secrets and Levels of Awareness in Sleeping and Waking.

So, no plant or creature grows from a dead seed, and each living seed carries within it all the past gathered from all its forebears. So, the seed in your mother’s womb is as old as and even older than human kind, and you carry that wisdom or memories in you. But in this life you developed a new brain, and the memories you gathered this time are what you built your personality from, but beneath that is a very ancient self. To meet this ancient self try using Opening to Life

That suggests that dreams cannot be defined under any one heading. Like human beings, they are enormously varied in what they express. Just as one cannot say the human mind is simply a system of memory, one cannot say dreams are just the reflection of experienced events. The mind also deals with problem solving, predicting outcomes of action, playing with possibilities via imagination, creating the new out of old material, replaying traumatic and disturbing events in order to find ways of meeting them constructively. Dreams, being the mental phenomena they are, deal with all of these issues and more. The following definitions give the main functions observable in dreams.

Dreams are:-

  1. Dreams are one of nature’s miracles, not the result of a wandering mind in sleep. A dream is an interface between the process of life, our core self and our conscious personality. Life existed quite capably for millions of years before the self-aware human personality came on the scene. In all that time the ancestors of the modern human being survived without having a rational mind to reason with, or self consciousness to ask such questions as ‘What do I do about this?’ Nevertheless survival strategies were still developed in their unconscious intelligence. Dreams express this unconscious wisdom that was developed in humans and animals through millions of years of Life experience.
  2. Recently I have come to see dreams as the lonely voice of Life calling out to us in our often frantic search for meaning. It calls out from its vastness that is beyond our understanding, and in its loving efforts gathers the fragments of our memory and associations and forms dreams with them. It does this in its efforts to instruct, guide and even heal us; but often we miss seeing that just as Life reaches to us from its vastness using things we might understand, we too must reach beyond our often pitiful understanding to move toward and touch the wonder of Life within us.
  3. An expression of what is happening in the physical body. Some doctors consider dreams to show signs of illness long before they are evident in other ways. Women frequently know they are pregnant very early on through sleep awareness in a dream. See: bodybody dreamsKasatkin_Vasilyconsciousness-mind body split.
  4. A link between the sleeping mind and what is occurring externally. For instance, a person may be falling out of bed and dream of flying or falling.
  5. A way of balancing the physiological and psychological activities in us. When a person is deprived of dreaming in experiments, a breakdown in mind and body quickly occurs. This type of dreaming, or even nightmares, can often be a safety valve releasing tension and emotion not dealt with in waking life. See: compensation theoryself-regulation dreams and fantasyscience and dreams.
  6. An enormously original source of insight and information. Dreams tap our memory, our experience, and scan information held in our unconscious to form new insights from old experience. Dreams often present to us summaries or details of experience we have been unable to access consciously. Sometimes this is as early as life in the womb.  See: creativity and problem solving in dreams.
  7.    That insight comes from an amazing ability dreams have. Mostly we are lost in being aware of this moment or cares of recent events, and of our present environment, but the dream process has another view, that is of our whole life, like flying high and so have a huge view. We have taken in so much life experience, but many of  us have not learnt the amazing lessons we gained by it. But the overall view we get from dreams, visions and our intuition gives us a view that synthesises or whole life and highlights its wonder, its destiny, our real purpose and our life’s real work. See Intuition – Using It
  8. A means of compensating for failure or deprivation in everyday life, and as a means of expressing the otherwise unacknowledged aspects of oneself. Such dreams are a move toward wholeness. See: compensation theory.
  9. In dreams we may be integrating new experience with what we have already gathered and digested. In this way our abilities, such as social skills, are gradually upgraded. See: computercomputer-dream process as aEvans, Christopher.
  10. Dreams often stand in place of actual experience. So through dreams we may experiment with new experience or practice things we have not yet done externally. For instance many young women dream in detail of giving birth. This function of what might be called ‘imagination’ is tremendously undervalued, but is a foundation upon which human survival is built. Seeimagination and dreaming.
  11. An means of exercise for the psyche or soul. Just as the body will become sick if not moved and stressed, so the mind and emotions need stimulus and exercise. Dreams fulfill this need. See Opening to Life
  12. An expression of human supersenses. Humans have an unconscious ability to read body language – so they can assess other humans very quickly. Humans have an unimaginable ability to absorb information, not simply from books, but from everyday events – for example science now tells us that we collect information at an enormous rate, millions of bits every second, but unfortunately we do not synthesis it to see what it means, for most of it is unconscious, only dreams access and use it. With it they constantly arrive at new insights and realisations. Humans frequently correctly predict the future – not out of a bizarre ability, but from the information gathered about the present. All these abilities and more show in our dreams. See: esp in dreams.
  13. A means of solving problems, or formulating creative ideas, both in our personal life, and also in relationships and work. Many people have produced highly creative work directly from dreams. See Creative Dreaming and Problem Solving
  14. A presentation in symbols of past traumatic experience. If met this can lead to deep psychological healing. Such dreams are therefore an attempt on the part of our spontaneous inner processes to bring about healing change. See: abreactioncompensation theorynightmares.
  15. In the widest sense nearly all dreams act as a process of growth or a move toward maturing. Some dreams are very obviously presenting internal forces or dimensions of experience that might lead the conscious personality toward a greater balance and inclusiveness. See: individuationLifeStream.
  16. A way of reaching beyond the known world of experience and presenting intimations from the unknown. Many people have dreams in which ESP, out of the body experiences, and knowledge transcending time and space occur. This type of dream may indicate a link between the present person and people who had lived in the distant past; or between the dreamer and all existing life. Some of these dreams present powerful insights into how the transitory human personality may arise out of an eternal consciousness. They thus deal with the spiritual aspects of human nature. See: Dimensions of Human ExperienceBuddhism and dreamsCayce, Edgarcollective unconsciousBible and dreamsesp in dreamshallucinationshistory of dreamingreligion and dreamsyoga and dreamsDream Yoga

Learn how to Explore Your Dream

I know how much you might like to skip the Introduction to Dream Dictionary, and if you are tempted to do so, I wholeheartedly ask you to read Summing Up. Without understanding the things given there you are likely to completely miss the point of understanding your dreams. The best technique to enter you dream world – Peer Dream Work

You can start using the Dream Dictionary by entering the word you wish to research into the Search Box on the top right of most pages and clicking the search symbol – or you can read some fuller information below about the dictionary and how best to use it.

But the quickest way is to put your word in the search box. 

Your dreams can become vortexes of power to transform your life, and to enhance your perceptions. There is no ‘wave a magic wand’ route to this. It will not happen because you read a great book or look at a good dream dictionary. Those things might help, but the real magic lies in whether you can enter into your dream in the right way. (Try using Being the Person or Thing and Meaning of Your Dream).  

What does my dream mean? – How to explore your dream meanings

It is important in reading the definitions of dream images to realise that not every possible meaning can be covered in this dictionary. So please see if you get the idea of what is being said and allow your own imagination/feelings to fill in the meaning.

There are several ways you can understand the meanings held in your dreams, and there are several levels.

The first is an easily understood level, followed by greater depths:

For instance, speaking as an object or dream person, one needs to take time with it. Learn how to actually describe what you are as that dream object or person. If I dream of a dog, don’t simply describe what you think a dog feels like, but actually take time to tune into the dream image and describe the dog dreamt about. Is it an old or young dog? What is it doing in the dream? Listen to your feelings and describe what it/you feel. Remember that each image is a creation of your own mind and unconscious, so you are really describing yourself. Say whatever comes and consider its value afterwards. Below is a quote from Tiziana Stupia’s book Meeting Shiva 

Tony taught me a process in which a dream could be interpreted and understood by assuming that everything, people and objects alike, in a dream represented aspects of the Self. Sitting cross-legged on the squishy, old-fashioned sofa in the living room of my sadhu’s cave opposite Tony, I’d close my eyes and mentally return to a dream I had the previous night. He would ask me questions about the dream, which I’d answer in the first person. So if I dreamt about a tree, I would ‘become’ the tree, assume its personality and respond from its viewpoint. He’d ask ‘So what kind of tree are you? Are you big or small, old or young? What do you look like? Where are you growing? Why are you in Tiziana’s dream?’

This sounded like a silly exercise at first, but I was soon enough convinced of its validity. It was fascinating to discover a wealth of insight and emotion emerging from my responses, and understand how they related to my current situation. They also pinpointed exactly where I was in my growth process. Sometimes, the dreams would uncover unconscious fears and intuitions. Often, they also held important clues and offered solutions to my problems. It was like doing detective’s work – arduous at times, but rewarding beyond belief.

So below are listed several ways to gain insight and information from your dreams. Take your time with each approach until you get the feel for it, and then experiment with other approaches.

You can enter a key word in the search box. The Dream Dictionary contains interpretations on almost any type of dream subject. So, if you dreamt of a flying saucer landing in a field, and aliens getting out and taking a baby, a snake, and a pregnant dog back into the saucer, you could search separately for each of these subjects in the Dream Dictionary. Find the entry for flying saucer; then the entry for dog, babysnake, pregnant, and so on. For each entry, find further related entries by looking under ‘Similar Articles’ on the right-hand side of the page. Then see Techniques for Exploring your Dreams.

Each entry gives the general meaning of the dream subject, just as an encyclopedia or dictionary does for a word. Several possible meanings are given. This is because as with our speech the position of the word – the context – gives it special meanings. So, a hot dog would be quite different to a black dog, dog-end or dead dog. Therefore, when you read an entry which has several different meanings, sometimes with a ‘;’ between, it simply means any one of them could apply, which means you need to think about the feelings in your dream, the context, the other imagery used. Please do not fall into the trap that one reviewer made of saying that the whole dictionary is about sex. Of course, sex is one meaning among many others. So, use your own sense of your dream as well as any definitions given.

To really explore the meaning, it is useful to use the Dream Dictionary as it is designed, rather than arrive at a ‘thought out’ interpretation. To see a working example of this see Dream Interpretation Example One

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Personal Dream Interpretation

I no longer offer a personal dream interpretation service, but only occasionally if you manage to send  an interesting dream I will respond – the reason is I am getting past my sell by date being 84.

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In the meantime, here is a way to work out your own dream – Getting at Your Dream’s Meaning.

Please note: this a not-for-profit site and it offers real dream interpretations, not dream dictionary features that are not real interpretations. We ask no payment for these interpretations, but it would be a great if you wish to donate anything. I do not ask a fee for what I do, but if you wish to donate you can click on this Paypal Donation  

A Note About the Author: Tony Crisp

I have been interested in the health of mind and body since my early teens. I began writing about these subjects in 1956. My fascination for what lay under the surface of the mind led me personally to explore the unconscious using dreams and other mental and physical disciplines. From 1972 – 94 I worked as a psychotherapist using an eclectic, Humanistic Psychology approach which included dream work and releasing the secrets the body holds. My books include Do You DreamMind and MovementThe Instant Dream Book; Dream DictionaryLife’s Little Secrets –Liberating The Body  – and many more. See My Books.

During those years I worked as a dream columnist for The Daily Mail and She Magazine. I was the regular dream interpreter for the London Broadcasting Company; I ran Teletext’s dream page on UK television’s Channel Four; and for New Zealand Teletext, and now I run this website giving dream help in the many replies to peoples dreams and in as well as many features on subjects connected with the human inner world. See Features

Throughout more than five decades I have been involved in a personal search for the secrets of mind and spirit. In those years I have also taught thousands of people techniques of deep relaxation, meditation, and methods of self exploration using dreams. Wanting to dig deep I explored the use of dreams and taught individuals and groups of people how to use these visions of the night to discover and heal the deepest issues in themselves, and to touch the high ground of their spiritual awareness. I worked for twenty years as a psychotherapist using several approaches, one of which was a way of honouring the body as a doorway to the unconscious mind, the emotions and spiritual experience. See Self-Regulation –  Recognition – Life’s Little Secrets – The LifeStream and Opening to Life

During the sixty years of seeking the wild wondrous beasts of the mind and spirit I dared my own inner adventure. But I also travelled with other people as an ordinary person, not a therapist, sharing their experience of fear and wonder as they unveiled and set loose their fountain of perception. I have travelled countless dream pathways, traversed the timeless with those using awareness enhancing drugs, and wrestled with the vitality of the body as people mimed and shouted their deepest intuitions through movement, dance and voice. See Tony’s Biography

My aim has always to share my findings – actually what I was shown or given from within – was given freely; I never had any teacher or attended a course, of course I read an enormous amount, so I cannot ask for money. If you wish to donate anything to the running of the site you can do so by clicking on https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&hosted_button_id=JYTWAMC4LQLQ4&source=url 

My teacher has been from exploring dreams and occasionally touching the wonder we were born as – not from words written in books about that but by meeting it. See Enlightenment  

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Introduction to Using the Dream Dictionary

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Diccionario de los Sueños

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What Is Offered In The Dictionary

Because of the many nature films shown on television we are used to the idea of mature and intelligent adults spending days or years watching the behaviour of animals such as hyenas or chimpanzees. In her book In The Shadow Of Man, Jane Von Lawick Goodall explains how, by watching chimpanzees and taking note of her observations, radical new insight into the behaviour of chimpanzees arose. She didn’t think beforehand what she expected to find, but simply observed and put together the information that arose. For instance on several occasions she saw the chimpanzees kill another animal and eat its flesh. The knowledge that chimpanzees were meat eaters was entirely new.

In a similar way, by observing dreams and laying bare the emotions and associated ideas and memories we have with the dream imagery, we gradually define our personality, its strengths and weaknesses, we discover new abilities and we grow beyond our old problems, and that in a depth we had never managed previously. I have called this mind watching, but it covers every aspect of human nature, not simply the intellect or thinking.

This mind watching through observation of our dreams first presents information about our personal experiences and memories and how they influenced our growth and influence present responses. Gradually the information arising from such watching leads beyond ones personal self. It shows in many cases how our unique self has arisen from, and has indissoluble links with our forebears, with our culture, with the past as a whole, and with the cosmos itself. It leads from oneself to the edge of the known, and perhaps helps us take a few steps beyond that edge into the unknown, to create new understanding.

This mind watching gradually reveals to us the many aspects of the mind’s working, and with such insight may come the growing ability to use these facets of ourselves. Not only may we discover great vistas of personal memory, but also the roots of our creativity, the subtle senses of our emotions and unconscious, and the treasures of experience we have gathered. See Your Amazing Circle – Self Observation 

So how can we get into this magical world of our dreams and start to harvest the possibilities held there? The following pages of this book are designed to help, guide and inform on how to do this. The book is also a counsellor on what you may find in your dream adventure.

The information about dreams presented in this book has been gathered during fifty years of working with and studying dreams and the dream process. It synthesises the experience of personally helping hundreds of individuals explore their dreams. The examples used have been taken from a collection of over 8000 dreams put onto a computer filing system. The filing system was also used to define general associations with commonly used dream images.

The major input for definition however has arisen from the actual exploration of dreams undertaken by individuals. These are either people I have worked with personally who have deeply felt the emotions and issues behind their dreams, not simply talked them over and come to an intellectual interpretation but a deep insight, or are people who have written up their findings arising from similar work. Added to this is the commonly held associations we have through our language and the way we use imagery within speech. Of course your personal dream imagery may not be using the commonly held associations, or those used by other people, and so you must read the definitions with care and consider if these fit what is implied or dramatised in your dream.

In the entries in the Dictionary are explanations of the many different types of dreams and dream images. Despite some people’s attempt to explain dreams in one simple formula, dreams cover a huge range of phenomena and human experience. Amongst subjects covered in the book are thousands of entries on the researched meaning of the things, people, creatures and places we dream about. There are also many entries on special subjects such as symbols and dreaming; interpreting dreamsrecurring dreamsnightmaressex while asleepteenage girls love dreamsprecognitive dreamstalking in ones sleepthe dream as an adventure; Occultism and Dreamsscience sleep and dreams; and many more.

There are a compete list of these Features and the  Archetypes covered.

Therefore, if you have dreamt of such things as your teeth falling out; being chased; or your marriage partner dying, you will find an explanation of your dream in the following pages.

The aim of the book is to help you make connections between your dreams and your everyday life; to discover more fully the powerful emotions and reactions that unconsciously direct your decisions and responses in waking. The book is not an attempt to give you merely ideas to play with, to agree or disagree with, like fortune telling. It can lead to real insights which empower you to make more of yourself, and find your way through the many decisions life confronts you with.

But you can move directly on to Using the Dictionary – or better still read Meaning of Your Dream

The Discovery of Dreams

In this section are given real practical methods of understanding your dreams. This is not like an intellectual interpretation of your dreams but a real meeting, it is the difference between thinking about something and living it. It is the difference between reading a description of a person and actually meeting them in a deep relationship. These are given for use only if you wish to use them, otherwise there is the dictionary that is also very useful. To start with here are some things to remember about dreaming. They have been gathered from a long involvement with dreams. But you can move directly on to Using the Dictionary.

Dreams are a magical mirror in which your innermost hopes, longings, fears/terrors and genius are made real. They are made real as external environments, people, animals and relationships. It is as if all your deepest feelings, hopes, fear and wonder are projected outward onto a multidimensional screen. It is a world of virtual reality that you feel is real. Unfortunately this wonderful virtual reality world is usually felt as dealing with other people, as externals, like something that can damage us, or something like the Devil that can possess us.

But the greatest truth I have found in exploring dreams – not interpreting them – is that we are alone with ourselves in the world of our dream. If we can acknowledge and admit that our terrors we dream are actually our past hurts that we have not faced presenting themselves for us to heal; that the ghosts and demons that can rampage about our night are embodiments of our fears; that our wonderful visions and insights are an expression of our own infinite potential, then we can walk a pathway to finding what we really are. Audio Introduction to Exploring a Dream

  1. Dreams are virtual realities that we create in our sleep. Even the wonderful dreams of God and angels are an external virtual reality, and mirror of our own inner immensity and our enormous variety. Unfortunately people either accept them as externally real, or as fantasy. But they are reflections of your potential, that cannot be seen in your daily life that is so dominated by your physical senses and hungers and fears.
  2. See The Magical Dream Machine. So the images and fears we experience in our dreams are projection upon the vast screen of our mind. They are all projections from you. Running from them is like trying to escape from yourself.
  3. In life and sleep we have two powerful actions working in us. The first is our waking experience based on having a body, its limitations, vulnerabilities and a particular gender. Our second is the power that gave us life and continues to express as dreams.
  4. While we sleep our conscious self is largely or totally unconscious, and while we sleep our voluntary muscles are paralysed – therefore another will or motivating force moves our body. So we have a Conscious Will, and what I will call a Life Will. The first one we have experience of as we can move our arm or speak in everyday activities; but the second will takes over when we sleep. See Sleep Paralysis
  5. This Life will can move us to speak, to move our body, and in fact do things that we cannot do with our Conscious Will. As Freud pointed out this inner will has full access to our memories. It can do so many other things that are described else where – See ESP in DreamsEdgar Cayce and the Cosmic Mind.
  6. This Life Will or motivator has been active for millions of years and we see it working all the time in animals. We are partly split in half because we are often opposed to what our Life Will in us wants. So the only way to express what is good for us is in dreams when our conscious will is largely passive.
  7. Life Will created your body and pre-existed you as a person you know today. It was working in you prior to your ability to speak or know in the way you do now. But of course it has fantastic wisdom and skills, as can be seen in animals.
  8. Life, if you look around you at Life’s creature, they can take any form. So Life itself is without form. In fact the recent advances in quantum physics suggest that what gives us existence is beyond space and time – beyond understanding.
  9. So dreams do not come from the human unconscious, but from the formless origins of Life – our Core Self. To express in a way that is understandable to us as a person with limited understanding, dreams use all the common imagery and ideas. So people who say that dreams are a mish mash of common everyday events are mistaken. See LifeStreamLevels of Awareness in Sleeping and Waking; .
  10. Our core self can be explained by realising that we are all dependent on the universe. We often feel that the universe is way beyond our understanding, but a few simple facts may help. The first is that the universe as we know it began with what had been called the Big Bang. But before that there was a situation prior to the creation of time and space. That situation is very much like the experience of Edgar Cayce who had an awareness reaching beyond time and space. See God and the Big Bang are the Same Thing
  11. Irish physicist John Stewart Bell put forward a quantum theorem that has revolutionised the way reality is considered. In brief, the theorem states that when two sub-microscopic particles are split and moved to a distance from each other, the action on, or of, particle ‘A’, is instantaneously reproduced with particle ‘B’. This interaction does not rely on any known link or communication and is considered to stand above normal physical laws of nature, as it is faster than light. Prior to such findings it was thought nothing could transcend the speed of light. Nick Herbert, in an interview published in High Frontiers writes: ‘THERE ARE LOTS OF THINGS that are being kept from the public as far as the subjects of physics and consciousness are concerned. Bell’s Theorem was proved in 1964, and it is still not taught in physics classes, and you don’t hear it on your science news programs. A theorem is a proof, and no one has found a flaw in this theorem. It’s such a simple proof that a high school kid can understand it. So physicists can understand it. They have various ways of trying to ignore it, but it can’t be refuted because it’s so simple.’

Our Core self is that amazing part of us existing beyond time and space, and was within us from the start of our universe.

  1. In the world of dreams our most intimate fears and longings are given an exterior life of their own in the form of the people, objects and places of our dream. Therefore our sexual drive may be shown as a person and how we relate to them; or given shape and colour as an object; or given mood as a scene. Our feeling of ambition might thus be portrayed as a business person in our dream – our changing emotions as the sea or a river; while the present relationship we have with our ambition or emotions is expressed in the events or plot of the dream.
  2. You cannot be killed in a dream. All you can experience is the anguish and perhaps fear of dying, but in dreams you cannot die – or drown, or burn or any other threatening thing. We make the mistake of taking our very real values from our outer life into our inner life of dreams.
  3. In dreams, what ever moves away from you in our dreams is going out of your awareness or even life; and whatever moves toward us is emerging into consciousness. Whatever it is that is coming toward us is giving us something whether it is energy, insight, or a frightening dream that is trying to shock us to wake up and clear out the inner mess we are in.  The fact we give it a frightening image is because we are brought up to be scared of ourselves and to not trust Life/Core. If you know the tenets of the AA, you will see that is what they are about – to trust Life.
  4. Most people are frightened of life. I see this in so many dreams sent to me. They do not trust themselves to the powerful action of Life flowing through them. See Life’s Little Secrets.
  5. We have been brain washed to believe that our existence depends upon nothing but accidental events, the survival of the fittest, the chemical and biological mechanical actions. Yet every time I have gone deeply into my ‘unconscious’ and yet maintained awareness, I have found a wonderful power of Life there.
  6. So if your dreams frighten you, I want to say you are frightened of something wonderful that could have grown you and enlarged your experience of yourself. The thing that was full of fear was your own fear put into an image, and yet was a wonderful gift that you avoided receiving.
  7. I too was full of fears and often woke up screaming. Then I learned to trust Life. It is like learning to swim. So please go back into your dream and let the fearful thing be fully experienced instead of waking up in fear. Then it will unveil itself as a thing of light and love.

Deepening Dream Understanding

The methods described above will throw light on most dreams, even if you do not take time to write out fuller associations. When the insights gained in this way become useful, you may wish to increase your skill still further. Therefore, below, and throughout the book, additional information is given on how to draw out the wisdom in dreams. A working attitude toward them is also outlined.

I suggest you only try one method at a time and use it until you are capable or it or it doesn’t work for you, then move on to other methods taking time with them until you find what works best for you.

Although the process of dreams might not be a direct attempt to present MEANING, a dream may nevertheless have a great deal of INFORMATION in it. This becomes clearer if we remember that not many years ago it would have appeared highly superstitious or suspect to claim to be able to tell a person details of their health and parentage from a sample of their urine or blood. Today it is common practice. We accept that a growing amount of information can be gained from these unlikely sources. Blood doesn’t contain meaning, but we can gain information from it. In a similar way a sample of our dreams can also tell us an enormous amount. Sometimes this data is obvious, sometimes it needs processing to uncover, as with urine and blood.

Dream Processing – The following dream needs no deep techniques of processing. The word ‘processing’ is used throughout the book instead of analysis. Analysis has the connotation of giving our own thoughts or opinions to the dream. Processing is used to suggest extraction of information which leads to insight. With this particular dream, all it needs is a few facts brought to it to make clear what information it holds. The dream is that of a young woman, Mrs C. L.

It is a bright sunny day. I am walking across a large concrete car park. It is empty except for a huge trailer from a truck. It has BOOTS written on the side, and stands high off the ground. Being 4’ 9’ tall myself I decide to walk underneath. As I am half way the trailer starts to be lowered on top of me. I try to shout but cannot. I get onto my hands and knees and the trailer still kept coming down. I am now lying on my stomach, convinced it is going to crush me. Then it suddenly stops a couple of inches from my head. I wake feeling terrible.

The dream is interesting, although the information it holds may at first not be obvious. But with a minimum of processing the dream information will become clear. The first technique of processing the dream is to recognise some of the key statements within it. These are I AM WALKING – I TRY TO SHOUT – CONVINCED IT IS GOING TO CRUSH ME.

The reason these are key statements is because the dreamer is saying ‘I am walking’ – ‘I try to shout’ – ‘I …am convinced’. The word ‘I’ is important.

This form of processing has not added anything to the dream. It has simply drawn attention to the information already there in the dreamer’s description of her experience – this is why it is useful to write the dream out fully. If we add a little more information which the dreamer herself connects with the dream, then it becomes even clearer. Mrs C. L. says, ‘I work for BOOTS the chemist. The employees at the shop I work in were told at the beginning of the year that Boots are selling our shop. When that happens I will be made redundant. We were supposed to finish on May 26th. It is now the end of July. The deal fell through so we are now just left hanging indefinitely until a new buyer comes along. I feel very unsettled as I can’t make any plans for the future.’

Having read these comments, it would be difficult not to see the dream as relating to the woman’s work situation, and to her strong anxiety connected with it. She herself says – through her dream – she is ‘convinced it – the situation – is going to crush’ her. She also feels her strong emotions about this – expressed in her attempt to shout – are not being expressed or ‘heard’. From just this one dream, we can be forgiven if we assume that dreams may express in dramatic form our feeling reaction to the circumstances of our everyday life. Taking this dream as information, Mrs. C. L. could see she is feeling crushed by the situation, yet not stating her feelings loudly enough to be heard. She might therefore speak to the manager to clarify the situation for herself.

Here is an even shorter and less complex dream. It has been left just as it was written so its information is immediately apparent. The key words here might be TRYING TO CONTACT HIM and NOT UNDERSTANDING WHY HE LEFT ME. The dream is from Mrs C. J.

Years ago I lost my first husband at twenty nine. I had the same dream continually of being in a phone box trying to contact him, not understanding why he had left me. He died of cancer. Later I remarried and this husband died of a heart attack. Once again the same dream came back so much.

On speculating about the dream from what is immediately apparent, we might say that although it is irrational to continually  try to contact her husband when there has never be any success, nevertheless, her desire to be with him continues year after year. This same part of her cannot understand why he died. We might put such feelings into words as, ‘But what had he done to die so young? Why should it happen to me twice?’ We can also assume that her desire to understand these questions, which is what contacting her husband represents, is expressed in the dream as the telephone.

The dream process has dramatised her situation and inner feelings – given them form and made them experiential. Looking at this dream helps us see how an image, such as the telephone, performs exactly the same sort of function as a spoken word, although in a different way. Namely, it represents feelings and thoughts. That the woman’s questions remain, that her problem is unsolved, is apparent from the fact she does NOT make contact on the telephone, and does not find peace. Understanding her dream shows her the importance of the questions she continually asks herself, and the need to release the emotions behind them. With this she could be free of the dream. If she cannot manage this by herself, taking advantage of the professional help of a therapist might help.

To make it clear how everything is a dream holds personal information, to give an example, I was recently asked by a man who had given no thought to dreams how on earth you could extract any meaning from them. He was wearing a fairly old T-shirt, so I said, “OK, let’s imagine you dreamt of your T-shirt, what would you make of that?”

After a while he said, “I don’t know that I would make anything of it.”

My response was to say, “Right, but now tell me where you bought the T-shirt, and what memories it has for you.” Whereupon he told me memories of being abroad, and that the shirt was part of those memories, and he wasn’t prepared to say what they were as they were so personal.

The important point is that everything we see and deal with, every person, every imagined scene, has such a background of feelings and perhaps memories. It is exactly this background of feelings and information that the dream weaves its story from. To understand it you need to become aware of the usually unconscious feeling responses you have in connection with every thing, place, person and animal you fill your dreams with.

For fuller Dream Processing – Below are described simple techniques that make it possible to quickly gain information from your dreams. They have been put as a series of questions. If you take time to consider and answer the question you will find your way into a new experience of dream understanding.

Read it in: Processing Your Dream  

Seeing under the Surface

The following information is to take you deeply into the dream you are exploring, They are for those who really want to make progess in their life and in their inner world or dreams

Acting on your Dreams – Extracting more from your dream by letting your body and feelings express it can provide a remarkable release of insight. There are several ways of doing this.

Do see the instructions see: Acting on Your Dreams

The Peer Dream Group – This method is the most powerful and deepest method. It includes some of the other techniques mentioned.

The way of working known as the Peer Dream Group came about from our experience that dreams are largely self explanatory if approached in the right way. An exterior expert or authority is not necessary for a profound experience of and insight into dreams and into oneself if certain rules are respected and used. The dreamer is the ultimate expert on their own dream  and themselves but only when we break through to what is usually unconscious mental states, and when treated as such, and supported in their investigation of their dream drama, they can powerfully explore and manifest the resources of their inner life.

To use it see: The Peer Dream Group and What I Have Seen In Dreams

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-Kristin 2011-03-11 1:09:01

I don’t remember if there was more to my dream before this, but what I remember starts out that I’m on my knees, in a room, and my teeth are not falling out but many of them are already missing, and where the should be I am bleeding profusely from my gums. I check to feel if my heart is still beating, because in the dream I must have thought I was dying. At first, its not, but then it starts beating rapidly. I am trying to yell to my stepfather, or to somebody for help, and I somehow know my stepfather is coming but he is just taking a long time. Also, I do not have a stepfather in real life, my parents are still together. And in my dream, my stepfather is a character from one of my favorite TV shows. I wake up before anything else happens. What does this dream mean? It scared me a lot.

    -Tony Crisp 2011-03-16 11:55:35

    Kristin – This is a dream that is typical of being frightened of dying. Also it shows you being anxious about what it means to get old and your teeth falling out, and you losing your youthful looks.

    It would have helped me to know what character it was and what you feel about him. The stepfather is probably a continuing worry about change in your life, and so a stepfather would mean the loss of your family as it was.

    Tony

-Hope Coleman 2011-03-10 11:41:03

This is a dream I had… this morning…

I dreamed that I was at my mom’s and house which is on a farm… they have a chicken house, cows and Tractors… I noticed their was this air plane and someone jumping out of it and they did a cool trick (they jumped out and the parachute come out in vibrant colors of Blue, red, yellow and green and then they get to the ground and the person let it go and then catches another one that was being pulled by something. I can‘t remembers what)…… It was Mr. Ritchie and I think the dude that does Ed’s voice (off of Full Metal Alchemist) was there near the shed… I was saying that it was really cool and this kid (smartass and I think his name was ivory) says… oh but u not cool… Of course that hurts my feeling and I start to cry and walks towards my (my mom‘s) grandma’s (deceased) house…. I told Vic and Mr. Ritchie that I was ok… I just needed some time alone… I walk in my grandma’s trailer that is near my mom’s and dad’s house… and Grandma Gooding was standing in the kitchen warming up food which what looked like meat loaf… Looking just as vibrant as she did when I was younger… Bright blue eyes standing straighter and seem in a good mood… I go sit down on the burgundy couch like normal and the first thing she asks when I sees me is where your kid is? I blink and said I didn’t have a kid…. She gives me this weird look and says oh… ok… When you having one… or something like that… I get mad and blow up on her and said I don’t know…. I said I hope soon… then she asks me what’s wrong. I told her that Ivory (I believe the name of the kid) had hurt my feelings and he was rude too me…. She said if I was his mother… I would bend him over my knee and give him a few good licks (smacks)…. Then he wouldn’t be so rude now would he? I told her no…. and thank for listening and I love you… Then I wake up…

What does this mean?
Was my grandma coming to me and telling me to get my butt in gear or it was her way of saying it was coming soon? Please help… I was happy to see grandma so good after she has been sick and just passed last year on Nov 5….

    -Tony Crisp 2011-03-16 9:53:20

    Hope – Granma’s are seldom wrong about things, especially things like being pregnant. They are even better at it when they are dead and full of life like your grandma was in your dream.

    So I would get yourself fit for having a baby – and also for giving that smartass kid what for. Maybe that wonderful parachute trick was the baby coming to visit – as an adult.

    Tony

      -Hope Coleman 2011-03-16 18:57:21

      Thank you so much for at least giving me a idea.. what she meant… *laughs* Well when she was living she wanted me to have a baby so bad… and would ask me all the time about it…. I believe I was always her favorite granddaughter so I understand why she was determine for me to have one…

-camille 2011-03-09 18:36:09

I had a dream last night an I was wondering if you could tell me what it meant. Well I don’t know exactly where the dream started but I was living in my old house located in Miami, fl. But i haven’t been to Miami in about 5 years. So I walked out side and I was holding a little black puppy, and I was wearing a dress that had flowers on it. And when I went outside I seen my two brothers and they was wearing black suits. And they was excited about this car that was sitting in my drive way ( it was a SUV) and I walked up to the car and started to look inside with them. And I was still holding the puppy. I started to sit in the drivers sit but I changed my mind and walked back to the front door and I looked to the other side and I seen my sister car moving in circles and it kept backing up like someone was driving it but i couldn’t see inside. Then my brother walked up to me and said ” I hate when they always leaving me” and I just turned around and I opened the front door then I looked to my left and I seen a big bird starting to fly away. But the bird was flying in slow motion. And when I was watching it fly away I started thinking about a plane taking off. Then I went inside the house and I woke up. What does that dream mean?

    -Tony Crisp 2011-03-16 9:26:53

    Camille – I believe this dream, overall, is about leaving.

    The black car and your brothers all dressed up ready for something, and their remark about ‘I hate it when they always leaving me’ all point in that direction.

    Lastly the big bird starting to fly away and the plane taking off, I would be ready for someone to go on a journey.

    Tony

-nandini 2011-03-09 17:09:36

For the last 3 days I have been having an unusual dream. Unusual I say because I see a good friend of mine.
It goes like this – I am with a group of people going somewhere – looks like a forest for camping and the only person I recognize is this friend of mine. All is well, but what I find disturbing is that he is trying to get too cozy with me – tries caressing me… cozying up…. and I just wake up… its been the same dream for the last 3 nights.
This friend who’s been in my dreams is a very good pal and we’ve never had any infatuation or attraction for each other.
then why is this I am seeing us in such a weird way? And it felt so real, I could almost feel his touch… the warmth & his nearness.

Please help…

-Nicole Melson 2011-03-09 8:39:33

This is the first time having a dream like this. In my dream I’m not really there, I’m more of an observer. It takes place around a teenage girl. She has blonde hair pulled up into a ponytail. She is surrounded by friends and family. But it seems the main object of the dream is the girl for I can’t remember any details of the others. Another oddity…I’ve never seen her or the others before in my life. Help?

    -Tony Crisp 2011-03-15 13:39:20

    Nicole – This is important. Of course you are born into a body and are a female. But unfortunately we then identify ourselves as female or male depending on the body we have. Also we tend to think of ourselves as looking like that also. And if our body is not well formed or we are born with a deformity, we tend to think as ourselves as not as good as others.

    But what you are seeing is that as YOU – not the body you use in life – you are not anything in particular. You are an observer of life – a silent watcher.

    And in the dream you are watching a young girl. Maybe you haven’t seen her before, but maybe you have ideas about her. Or do you feel you are out if your body watching a scene?

    I am not sure of the ending because I would need a lot more description. But it is important that you know you can exist as a silent watcher.

    Tony

-Eva 2011-03-07 19:21:32

Please decipher my dream. I was holding a small black dog when it bit my right shoulder. the bite got harder and harder. I grabbed its neck and it unwillingly released. I saw a psychic and she told me I would never be with the one I loved ever again. I felt a very strong sadness and feel of hopelessness, I cried. Then I was being chased around my house by an evil woman who wanted to kill me. She had dark brown hair and brown eyes. She was very attractive. I ran upstairs to my room and climbed out of my window onto the roof and she continued to chase me. I jumped off the roof and she followed me. She threw knives at me and I threw them back. she grabbed both of my wrists. I managed to stab her in the eye and 3 other places but she never died. then i woke up.

    -Tony Crisp 2011-03-15 10:58:07

    Have you ever felt as if you have had a hard time with your mother? Maybe not all the time. Anyway you certainly put up a fight with the evil woman, who could represent your mother or another powerful woman in you life. And the fight you are putting on is a fight for your independence, a fight for your own will.

    She never died because she is inside you. Dreams take our inner problems and feelings and take them out while we sleep and confront us with them. So the woman is something you feel is a threat to you. A mother is built into you through so many memories and habits you take on.

    The psychic could be another aspect of your mother or powerful person who says or suggests that you will never be loved and are not lovable. And the dog is probably the depressed feelings you feel at times that makes you less effective in what you do outwardly. Again you are a fighter, which is good, but fighting has another side to it that you can hide your vulnerability and need for love.

    If you think about it you have survived all of it. So a way out of it is to say to all the horrors Eva you are attacked by, “Okay you lot, you haven’t actually hurt me. So come and do your worst and I will not fight you, because I know that in the end I am still here. All you can ever do is frighten me with these images, and if I can stand them, then I win.”

    Tony

-marlon 2011-03-07 14:54:34

as far as i know i was dreaming,started like this….. i was in school with my block mates but usually there would be tables and chairs but there is non and they were in their sleeping bags when Ms. “A” told me that the kid told her that the kid is 33 years old and then suddenly my backs’ on the wall then something dark came in, they were all gone and i was having a really terrible headache like someones trying to possess me and then i was struggling fighting back when i started to pray the CREED and pain in my head started ceasing when i was in the heaven part of the prayer it started to hurt again ….. i was awaken my feet’s cold and i saw a silhouette in my room i covered myself with my blanket then i peeped and it was gone…. and i prayed so hard until i fell asleep

    -Tony Crisp 2011-03-14 14:26:10

    Marlon – It’s sounds as if you had a pretty rough nightmare. The something that frightened you is, strangely enough, a very alive thing. It was awful because of your fear of it.

    It is as if you had a bad experience and so you are seeing it as a dark thing and the headache is the struggle inside of you trying to fight it off. And I wonder what Ms ‘A’ has to do with it. Of course it doesn’t have to do with her as a person, but it has something to do with a woman. Do you have a difficult time with women?

    Tony

-Dashiell manley 2011-03-05 22:28:28

I woke up in a very dark place, there was grass, trees and other natural elements, but the place was nonetheless dark, both in sight, and in feeling. It had an unrelenting east coast vibe to it, and for some reason, I always associate the east coast with darkness and evil. At first the vision of this place resembled a kind of makeshift shantytown, but on further inspection, it was a fort like community contained, or rather surrounded by a series of hills. After a minute or so, it became clear that we were at war, but the place seemed timeless, it could have been the 1940’s, late 60’s, 1990, or 2011, I am not really sure. You were all there, with me. I took quite a bit of time for me to figure out if I was part of the army, or a prisoner of it, but a gentleman in his early fifties came along, and quickly clarified the matter. It didn’t matter what I was, or used to be, all that mattered is what I was after I met him, a pawn. He captured me, and brought me into a grey canvas tent, where he sat, and ordered me to do so as well. At this moment, a close friend sat, or rather, appeared at my left. I don’t remember who this person sitting next to me was, but he must have been someone I know relatively well, because I felt a deep sense of fear that our captor was going to force us to enact some twisted, violent play, and I remember feeling sorry that anyone other than my self was involved. A gun was set upon a table, next to it an empty clip, next the clip, seven bullets were placed, and I was instructed to load the gun. I’m not sure what kind of gun it was, but it felt cheap, and quite unlike the handguns I am used to. I loaded the gun, and my companion and me were lead out of the tent with the man. Perched under a café awning, my friend was instructed to walk twenty paces down a slight slope. This man instructed me that I would have seven chances to make my friend bleed, seven shots, that’s it. He was rather vague with his instructions, at least in the sense that he didn’t tell me to kill my friend, but I seemed to think that he would be fairly pissed if I missed completely. At this point, I came up with a plan, I would purposely miss the first three shots, nick the arms on the fourth and fifth, and score direct hits to the flesh of both arms on the sixth and seventh. With absolute surgical precision, I carried out my plan, on the seventh shot how ever, simultaneous to the echo of the chamber, I awoke.

    -Tony Crisp 2011-03-12 8:12:48

    Dashiell – Excuse me if I get this wrong, but I need to say what I see in this dream.

    The setting of the dream shows you trapped in a situation that you feel unable to get out of. And also it is almost timeless. In other words this battle within yourself has a long history, maybe even longer than your life. Of course we could say it came from past lives, but there are past lives through ones ancestors.

    Considering that all the characters are you – for nobody else created the dream, even if it came from an exterior force you still have the power of response. And your response was to go along with the mans promptings.

    And that all these characters are you, it seems like a scene of self harm. It isn’t self harming with a killer motive, but certainly one that is calculated.

    So without being able to talk with you I would ask yourself the question of what situation are you feeling trapped within.

    Tony

-Tonja 2011-03-05 12:57:31

Hello Tony,

I awoke this morning from a very vivid dream In the dream. I was at my mothers house with some family members and I looked at her walls that were white, and I noticed that red paint had appeared on the wall. The paint formed into the shape of what looked like a eagle and a Mayan warrior. There also appeared writing on the wall that I could not understand. I stepped outside with my brother and told him that I recognized the picture that appeared on the wall from the Mayan Indians. All of a sudden a large Mayan temple appeared and began to descend out of the sky with a lot of smoke and red clouds surrounding it. Then as quickly as it appeared, there was a loud noise and it disappered. When I entered the apartment where the rest of the family was, the red painted images that were on the wall were gone also.
I never have dreams like this. But it was so vivid that when I woke up it was like I could still see the smoke and paint. What could this mean?

    -Tony Crisp 2011-03-10 13:26:24

    Tonja – Have you any ancestors who are form South America? If so this might explain your dream.

    But it seems you are opening to an influence from an ancestral source. These openings are quite mysterious and difficult to interpret because they are so personal. But usually it is about guidance and strength from above.

    The reason it disappeared is that these openings are like sun appearing in a cloudy day. The sun shines and it then disappears.

    The only way to really understand the dream is to explore it by being each symbol and seeing what it produces in you. See http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/peer-dream-group/

    Tony

-Maja 2011-03-04 15:30:09

Start: I walk down the street unknown (there are old, small houses), next to me unknown black girl, she tells me something .. At the other end of the street are strange people.

We pass near store window with candlesticks and chandeliers. I saw him! I knew who he was. Vampire. (I had to think about nice things that me he would not be persuaded to believe him. I do not know why but in the dream is all that should be.)

I entered with him. He had the protection, a loyal man. He wanted that kill me, but could not if I think the nice clean things. There were also two yellow snakes. large. I’m just thinking about those nice things, family and love. I sat next to him. I do not know how but the time has passed, I watched him, he liked .. I know it’s stupid but in the dream we are fell in love. But he was a prince with some enemies. We are not allowed to be together. He kissed me difficult. We make love but he not kissed me then. Touched my hair. He had that kill me. I am fought with love. He let the snakes to kill me. They are bitten me several times. I’ve felt it. I thought about love and I’m not dead.

I do not know the end of the story. I know that I do not know that man in real life and then I did not watched movies about vampires. Two months ago I re-dreaming the same dream. I hope you understand everything. This is strange dream, at the same time terrible and with a lot of emotions, all people in the dream that I do not know.

    -Tony Crisp 2011-03-09 12:00:56

    Maja – Before I can describe what I feel about your dream, you need to realise that every dream is a wonderful play, and actors and creatures, even the objects, are actually our own emotions, fears, hopes – and even more that that they are the very forces of life in us as they struggle for balance – and so show as all sorts of monsters, conflicts, wars and many forms of love and learning.
    So the black girl was probably your own intuition arising from you close contact with nature. The strange people are parts of you not recognised. You are not aware of all the incredible things going on inside your body to keep you alive – and what of the mind, what is happening there you are not aware of?
    And the Vampire is a part of you full of life and power that you have turned against at some time. Love it the key to bringing him back fro his awful life style. Any flow of our own life, if turned back, fought with, repressed, becomes some sort of demon. Thus devil is lived spelled backwards, because we have turned the life in us back on itself.

    Therefore if a person is afraid of sex – afraid his mother/lover will disapprove if he has any sexual feelings of their own – the fear and perhaps anger, will sap any good feelings about sexual relationship. Such a man or woman, every time they have sex – because they still do not really wish to give of themselves – feel bad after sex, perhaps sucked dry, even ‘dead’. The fear or anger about not having a will of their own, and still emotionally dependent on mother/father, turns back upon them, depicted as the vampire.

    The answer is to love the vampire, and confront him with the fact that at sometime you have wrong him and turned him into backwards flowing life.

    Here is an example of someone meeting the devil in their dream:

    It seemed I was fighting against the Devil for hours in my sleep last night. I was with a group of people doing this. The only parts I can remember clearly are that we had got hold of the Devil’s sword, put it in a church and locked the door. We had then thrown the key down a well, thus preventing the Devil from getting his main power or weapon. At one point he was forcing a man down the well and under the water to get the key, but he didn’t get it. I think being forced made the operation difficult. In another scene I was in a dormitory with the group of people. The Devil attacked a woman. He was invisible. The woman turned black as he raped her. She didn’t die. At this point I woke and went to the toilet. On returning to bed I continued the dream, particularly wondering what I was in conflict with in the image of the Devil. I found it disturbing and frightening to be confronted by such a powerful opponent. Partly because of the rape, I realised it was my held back sexual needs. I then approached the ‘black’ woman with tenderness and this transformed the Devil into available energy, sexual or emotional. I tried this again and again. Each time it worked, and I could observe the connection between the Devil and how I repress my sexual needs.

    The Devil, as in the example, is usually connected with repressed natural drives, particularly sexual (one can express sex physically yet still repress sexual longing and feelings of real connection and tenderness). It is what is unlived in us – ‘devil’ is ‘lived’ spelt backwards. The reason the devil is such a useful symbol of our struggle with our own urges, is that if you have a conflict with an urge such as eating or sex, you can make up your mind to stop, but if you do so it feels as if a force other than your own will pushes you in another direction. This otherness/Life is depicted as the devil.

    Tony

-malka c.cantor 2011-03-02 20:38:23

i had 3 dreams of this man.
2/he was sitting and reading a book while i was taking a shower1/told us we need to open a bank account.\3/he asked me out for coffee.
no we are not married to each other,but he is.
he always gives me long stares,and always points in me direction

    -Tony Crisp 2011-03-08 9:41:08

    Malka – It seems that you would like to share this man’s money – the bank; that you want to be more connected and intimate with him, and you want to be the centre of his attention.

    But Malka, these are just hopes. To make them into a reality – supposing this man is not just a dream figure but someone you know – it will take a lot of work and changes. So if you want it then try for it. But there are a lot of barriers to overcome between the end result and where you are.

    Tony

-Ivette 2011-03-02 16:48:18

My beloved deceased dad was in a hallway and I was running after him to ask about my mom.

    -Tony Crisp 2011-03-08 9:27:00

    Ivette – I believe you have left out vital information here and it makes it difficult to comment on your dream. I have to assume that your mother is dead and so you were running after him to see how your mother is now she is dead?

    Your father is in a hallway – a passage between one place and another. Maybe he is going through a change. The best thing you can do is to pray for a dream about your mother, and ask what you want to know. I say this because there is no information in the dream about your mother, only that you are worried about her.

    Tony

-candy 2011-03-01 14:43:28

I come to you today Mr.Crisp with a confusion. I usually dream rather unusual dreams but, this one was really weird. First I saw my mother it was black and white and we were arguing about money and if the bills were going to be paid, and if I had enough money to do laundry. Then she said F it I, have to go to work. Then I was in my room.. my personal space. There was some student who eats at my job daily. I started freaking out. My man came knocking on the door with this bright green jacket… by the way, everything else is still black and white.Anyways he came knocking on my door usually wanting sex or whatnot. Not in a barbaric “Oh woman I need you blah blah blah”. He respects me. We talk, do things, like eachother, look out for others needs, good or bad we, just both like doing eachother any chance we get. Anyways, he wanted me and he’s here knocking on my door, idk what to do. I tell this fucker to leave because I don’t even know him. He keeps yelling at me telling me his cock is bigger then that junkie knocking on the door than all of a sudden a huge crash through my door (Literally he broke my door down) and the walls turned yellow when he crashed through the door (everything is still black and white by the way… Just making sure u remember). Anyways, he stated snarling and screaming at the top of his lungs and then started coughing because, he’s a smoker. And, we all know the troubles of smoking. Anywho I was freaking out and I started yelling and me and him were arguing and this weird random student was smiling. My man look at me and said idk what your doing kid but, I love you and why would you and why would you hurt me like this? He touched me by the way and I i didn’t change color. I actually saw him cry in the dream and his tears made my carpet turn blue. He never crys… unless he’s really upset. Otherwise if he’s mad over something hes angry as hell. Then this weird random student looks at me and smiles.. Push me on the bed I kick him.. he feels no pain.. I scream my boyfriends name.. He grabs the student and throws him into one of the yellow walls and it turns really dark black. . . Now, I’m really freaking out. I grab my man and assure him Idk what this boy is doing in my room. He looks at me and shakes his head we hug and I start crying. This student grabs me and throws me into a wall.. it doesn’t turn colors because, I don’t have an awesome color turning power like they do.. Then they start fighting.. I start touching things like my bed.. my books… my fake flowers seeing if they would turn colors.. Then I find out that my man lost the fight. The student comes up to me.. I throw books at him.. candles.. Anything i see and it keeps turning dark black.. I mean really dark like endless bliss black. he takes his pants off and his penis is an end of a rattle snake except its a white rattle snake.. and there’s red and yellow beads on the end. He told me to grab it.. I told him no. He told me to grab it woman because he knows I want it and I threw a book at it. he jumps on me and i try to beat him up but, I’m not that strong and scream my mans name. I start kicking him and pushing and spitting and crying and screaming and idk what to do.. my clothes start turning dark black till I grabbed his rattle snake cock and he starts crying. I grab a knife and stab him in the heart and he falls… Black blood comes out by the way. I go to my man and start crying asking him to wake up.. He’s snoring… He really got knock out… Then the student grabs he from behind and rips my clothes off and throws me on the bed. . . I can move.. Black blood is coming out of his chest… I cant move… He smiles, and lays on top of me touches my personal area and starts bitching that i’m not wet. He punches me in the stomache. I still cant move I start crying.. He spits black blood in my cooch and starts raping me blah blah blah.. I cry not fun it hurts.. bascially.. Only lasted two seconds because DUN DUN DUN DUN DUN… My colorful boyfriend wakes up. But, hes bitching because he thinks I want it. he doesn’t help me. I star crying and my tears are blue… He looks at me and the student looks at me.. My man comes over and grabs the fucker and they fight.. I still cant move.. I cant see some of the fight and I’m just hoping my guy is okay. Then silence…. I see this dark black thing get up. He comes closer to me.. and jumps on me and I start crying nooo and start spitting and screaming and trying with all my might to kick him. I start shaking and prying for something. then he lifts my arms from off the bed. . . They turn my awesome olive pale-ish color.. I hear this voice… Why are you crying babe. . . (Now in his werid french accent he always does and thinks it turns me on which it does).. You beings rethared.. He turns back to his color wearing that weird green coat and I start crying we start kissing and then… I wake up.. THE BEST PART OF THE DREAM I WAKE UP!! I wake up to a text message from my mom telling me she left laundry money on the kitchen table and that to make sure I have the money for the car in my account.

    -Tony Crisp 2011-03-07 11:52:40

    Candy – Well, you have a start of an interesting novel here. Maybe you should try writing it up.

    This is such a detailed dream, I can only give you an impression of it. And that impression is that you have a fight going on within you about your very powerful sexual needs. On the one side, in the black and white world of your feelings about sex, you have the lover in the bright green jacket. He represents growth and good things. But then you have feelings about sex that are very black and you fight them like hell – but actually you cannot resist them. You cannot move.

    Having had this fight going on in me for most of my life, I recognise it. The strange thing is that the very thing you fight against inside you is the very things full of life – the snake. If you could come to terms with it, it would be a very healing thing. Things could look very black for a while, but they all the colours of life would appear. Of course when that student grabs you, you probably feel depressed – black. But that is only because you have not got the strength yet to fight back. I found some of the yoga practises can gradually bring that strength.

    As you see, the green and the black at the end are revealed as two sides of the ONE thing.

    Tony

-Alex 2011-03-01 0:38:53

So, the dream starts out like a Home Alone 2 plot only instead being in New York, I’m in San Francisco. My parents are stuck in Lansing, Michigan, though were from Southern California, and they have all my stuff, yet I have all their money. I call them and they let me take out some money to get myself a hotel and yada yada yada.

Now I’m in the city for four days, going around doing whatever and apparently it was the day before James Blunt was scheduled to be in the city so I get a ticket at last minute and get a really bad seat. I’m sitting next to this guy and we start talking about talking about our horrible seats and get along swimmingly. The weirdest part of that was I was able to recall the man’s exact appearance and his name as if I’ve seen him in real life.

    -Tony Crisp 2011-03-04 11:12:22

    Alex – You start the dream feeling somewhat ‘left’ or even abandoned. Then you realise that you still are dependent on your parents. Yet in some way you know that you have all their money. In other words you have it in you to have all their power to earn and supply your needs.

    I feel the concert is a place of transformation in some way, a reaching a new awareness.

    But the last part of the dream I cannot help you with. You see I never started out trying to interpret dreams because I found or was introduced to a way for me and others to take the masks off all the dream images and expose ourselves so fully; so fully that they knew the meaning of their dreams, not in words but in touching their own self beyond words and interpretations. And you can do this with the man you know from some other time.

    To do it you need to step into his body in your imagination. Step into him fully and do not give me any excuses that you cannot do it. That man is important to you. So be quiet and be that man, and without thinking up who he is allow yourself to let him grow in your feelings and spontaneous imagery. Then you will know.

    If you cannot do it the first time do it again and again. It took me many times to unmask myself.

    Tony

-ruth 2011-02-28 14:17:51

I dreamt about a guy i like but I could only see him from behind what does this mean as in real life I havent seen him in weeks

    -Tony Crisp 2011-03-03 13:11:35

    Ruth – It sounds very much as if you have “seen the back of him”. In other words your dream might be telling you that he is out of your life now.

    Tony

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