Dream Dictionary
Dream Dictionary
Online Dream Dictionary & Encyclopedia
by Tony Crisp
The Spanish Dictionary is all the work and effort placed in it, as well as many excellent dream interpretations all by Anna Hoser,
Introduction
The latest edition of the Dream Dictionary and Dream Encylopedia is the result of some sixty years experience of working with dreams and their understanding. The Dream Dictionary encompassing articles on a vast range of topics. This gives the reader an unparalleled insight into the study of dreams and the inner life. But there are an enormous amount of Features in the Dream Encylopedia that cover a range of topics about dreams and the inner life.
The aim of the Dream Dictionary is to help you make connections between your dreams and your everyday life; to discover more fully the powerful emotions and reactions that unconsciously direct your decisions and responses in waking. This is not an attempt to give you merely ideas to play with, to agree or disagree with, like fortune telling. It can lead to real insights which empower you to make more of yourself, and find your way through the many decisions with which life confronts you.
Useful Links
Your Guru Your Body
What Are Dreams
Learn how to Interpret Your Dream
What does my dream mean? – How to explore your dream meaning
Personal Dream Interpretation
A Note About the Author: Tony Crisp
Mind Watching and Dreams
Introduction to Using the Dream Dictionary
Using the Dictionary
The Discovery of Dreams – Things We Need to Remember About Us
Gaining Insight into Your Dreams
Acknowledgement to this Edition
What Is Offered In The Dictionary
The Discovery of Dreams
Deepening Dream Understanding
Seeing under the Surface
Exploring Inner Space
Things I Wished I Had Had Been Taught Earlier in My Life
Features Found on Site: this is a full list of the topics covered by the Dream Encyclopedia (not a list of dream dictionary words).
What Are Dreams?
Dreams are one of nature’s miracles, not the result of a wandering mind in sleep. A dream is an interface between the process of life, our core self and our conscious personality. Life existed quite capably for millions of years before the self-aware human personality came on the scene. In all that time the ancestors of the modern human being survived without having a rational mind to reason with, or self consciousness to ask such questions as ‘What do I do about this?’ Nevertheless survival strategies were still developed in their unconscious intelligence. Dreams express this unconscious wisdom that was developed in humans and animals through millions of years of Life experience.
Life’s age old unconscious processes are still the major part of our being, yet we seldom consciously meet them – except in dreams. As our physical and psychological health depend upon a reasonable co-operation between the spontaneous processes of life – such as breathing, digestion and the thousands of other life sustaining activities and our conscious decisions and actions, the encounter in dreams is vital. As I often point out to those I am advising we are a human face on a long line of beautiful animals. In fact “You ride an ancient beast.” The ancient beast is your body, and your conscious self is the modern and recent rider of it. Some ‘riders’ do not understand their animal needs – and the fact that we have several levels of brain that are independent of each other proves this. Still active in us are our Reptile Brain, Our mammalian Brain, and our Human Brain, and the reptile and mammalian brains are still very active and constitute a large part of our human unconscious. See – Brain Levels and Dreams – Life’s Little Secrets and Levels of Awareness in Sleeping and Waking.
So, no plant or creature grows from a dead seed, and each living seed carries within it all the past gathered from all its forebears. So, the seed in your mother’s womb is as old as and even older than human kind, and you carry that wisdom or memories in you. But in this life you developed a new brain, and the memories you gathered this time are what you built your personality from, but beneath that is a very ancient self. To meet this ancient self try using Opening to Life
That suggests that dreams cannot be defined under any one heading. Like human beings, they are enormously varied in what they express. Just as one cannot say the human mind is simply a system of memory, one cannot say dreams are just the reflection of experienced events. The mind also deals with problem solving, predicting outcomes of action, playing with possibilities via imagination, creating the new out of old material, replaying traumatic and disturbing events in order to find ways of meeting them constructively. Dreams, being the mental phenomena they are, deal with all of these issues and more. The following definitions give the main functions observable in dreams.
Dreams are:-
- Dreams are one of nature’s miracles, not the result of a wandering mind in sleep. A dream is an interface between the process of life, our core self and our conscious personality. Life existed quite capably for millions of years before the self-aware human personality came on the scene. In all that time the ancestors of the modern human being survived without having a rational mind to reason with, or self consciousness to ask such questions as ‘What do I do about this?’ Nevertheless survival strategies were still developed in their unconscious intelligence. Dreams express this unconscious wisdom that was developed in humans and animals through millions of years of Life experience.
- Recently I have come to see dreams as the lonely voice of Life calling out to us in our often frantic search for meaning. It calls out from its vastness that is beyond our understanding, and in its loving efforts gathers the fragments of our memory and associations and forms dreams with them. It does this in its efforts to instruct, guide and even heal us; but often we miss seeing that just as Life reaches to us from its vastness using things we might understand, we too must reach beyond our often pitiful understanding to move toward and touch the wonder of Life within us.
- An expression of what is happening in the physical body. Some doctors consider dreams to show signs of illness long before they are evident in other ways. Women frequently know they are pregnant very early on through sleep awareness in a dream. See: body; body dreams; Kasatkin_Vasily; consciousness-mind body split.
- A link between the sleeping mind and what is occurring externally. For instance, a person may be falling out of bed and dream of flying or falling.
- A way of balancing the physiological and psychological activities in us. When a person is deprived of dreaming in experiments, a breakdown in mind and body quickly occurs. This type of dreaming, or even nightmares, can often be a safety valve releasing tension and emotion not dealt with in waking life. See: compensation theory; self-regulation dreams and fantasy; science and dreams.
- An enormously original source of insight and information. Dreams tap our memory, our experience, and scan information held in our unconscious to form new insights from old experience. Dreams often present to us summaries or details of experience we have been unable to access consciously. Sometimes this is as early as life in the womb. See: creativity and problem solving in dreams.
- That insight comes from an amazing ability dreams have. Mostly we are lost in being aware of this moment or cares of recent events, and of our present environment, but the dream process has another view, that is of our whole life, like flying high and so have a huge view. We have taken in so much life experience, but many of us have not learnt the amazing lessons we gained by it. But the overall view we get from dreams, visions and our intuition gives us a view that synthesises or whole life and highlights its wonder, its destiny, our real purpose and our life’s real work. See Intuition – Using It
- A means of compensating for failure or deprivation in everyday life, and as a means of expressing the otherwise unacknowledged aspects of oneself. Such dreams are a move toward wholeness. See: compensation theory.
- In dreams we may be integrating new experience with what we have already gathered and digested. In this way our abilities, such as social skills, are gradually upgraded. See: computer, computer-dream process as a; Evans, Christopher.
- Dreams often stand in place of actual experience. So through dreams we may experiment with new experience or practice things we have not yet done externally. For instance many young women dream in detail of giving birth. This function of what might be called ‘imagination’ is tremendously undervalued, but is a foundation upon which human survival is built. See: imagination and dreaming.
- An means of exercise for the psyche or soul. Just as the body will become sick if not moved and stressed, so the mind and emotions need stimulus and exercise. Dreams fulfill this need. See Opening to Life
- An expression of human supersenses. Humans have an unconscious ability to read body language – so they can assess other humans very quickly. Humans have an unimaginable ability to absorb information, not simply from books, but from everyday events – for example science now tells us that we collect information at an enormous rate, millions of bits every second, but unfortunately we do not synthesis it to see what it means, for most of it is unconscious, only dreams access and use it. With it they constantly arrive at new insights and realisations. Humans frequently correctly predict the future – not out of a bizarre ability, but from the information gathered about the present. All these abilities and more show in our dreams. See: esp in dreams.
- A means of solving problems, or formulating creative ideas, both in our personal life, and also in relationships and work. Many people have produced highly creative work directly from dreams. See Creative Dreaming and Problem Solving
- A presentation in symbols of past traumatic experience. If met this can lead to deep psychological healing. Such dreams are therefore an attempt on the part of our spontaneous inner processes to bring about healing change. See: abreaction; compensation theory; nightmares.
- In the widest sense nearly all dreams act as a process of growth or a move toward maturing. Some dreams are very obviously presenting internal forces or dimensions of experience that might lead the conscious personality toward a greater balance and inclusiveness. See: individuation; LifeStream.
- A way of reaching beyond the known world of experience and presenting intimations from the unknown. Many people have dreams in which ESP, out of the body experiences, and knowledge transcending time and space occur. This type of dream may indicate a link between the present person and people who had lived in the distant past; or between the dreamer and all existing life. Some of these dreams present powerful insights into how the transitory human personality may arise out of an eternal consciousness. They thus deal with the spiritual aspects of human nature. See: Dimensions of Human Experience; Buddhism and dreams; Cayce, Edgar; collective unconscious; Bible and dreams; esp in dreams; hallucinations; history of dreaming; religion and dreams; yoga and dreams; Dream Yoga.
Learn how to Explore Your Dream
I know how much you might like to skip the Introduction to Dream Dictionary, and if you are tempted to do so, I wholeheartedly ask you to read Summing Up. Without understanding the things given there you are likely to completely miss the point of understanding your dreams. The best technique to enter you dream world – Peer Dream Work
You can start using the Dream Dictionary by entering the word you wish to research into the Search Box on the top right of most pages and clicking the search symbol – or you can read some fuller information below about the dictionary and how best to use it.
But the quickest way is to put your word in the search box.
Your dreams can become vortexes of power to transform your life, and to enhance your perceptions. There is no ‘wave a magic wand’ route to this. It will not happen because you read a great book or look at a good dream dictionary. Those things might help, but the real magic lies in whether you can enter into your dream in the right way. (Try using Being the Person or Thing and Meaning of Your Dream).
What does my dream mean? – How to explore your dream meanings
It is important in reading the definitions of dream images to realise that not every possible meaning can be covered in this dictionary. So please see if you get the idea of what is being said and allow your own imagination/feelings to fill in the meaning.
There are several ways you can understand the meanings held in your dreams, and there are several levels.
The first is an easily understood level, followed by greater depths:
For instance, speaking as an object or dream person, one needs to take time with it. Learn how to actually describe what you are as that dream object or person. If I dream of a dog, don’t simply describe what you think a dog feels like, but actually take time to tune into the dream image and describe the dog dreamt about. Is it an old or young dog? What is it doing in the dream? Listen to your feelings and describe what it/you feel. Remember that each image is a creation of your own mind and unconscious, so you are really describing yourself. Say whatever comes and consider its value afterwards. Below is a quote from Tiziana Stupia’s book Meeting Shiva
Tony taught me a process in which a dream could be interpreted and understood by assuming that everything, people and objects alike, in a dream represented aspects of the Self. Sitting cross-legged on the squishy, old-fashioned sofa in the living room of my sadhu’s cave opposite Tony, I’d close my eyes and mentally return to a dream I had the previous night. He would ask me questions about the dream, which I’d answer in the first person. So if I dreamt about a tree, I would ‘become’ the tree, assume its personality and respond from its viewpoint. He’d ask ‘So what kind of tree are you? Are you big or small, old or young? What do you look like? Where are you growing? Why are you in Tiziana’s dream?’
This sounded like a silly exercise at first, but I was soon enough convinced of its validity. It was fascinating to discover a wealth of insight and emotion emerging from my responses, and understand how they related to my current situation. They also pinpointed exactly where I was in my growth process. Sometimes, the dreams would uncover unconscious fears and intuitions. Often, they also held important clues and offered solutions to my problems. It was like doing detective’s work – arduous at times, but rewarding beyond belief.
So below are listed several ways to gain insight and information from your dreams. Take your time with each approach until you get the feel for it, and then experiment with other approaches.
You can enter a key word in the search box. The Dream Dictionary contains interpretations on almost any type of dream subject. So, if you dreamt of a flying saucer landing in a field, and aliens getting out and taking a baby, a snake, and a pregnant dog back into the saucer, you could search separately for each of these subjects in the Dream Dictionary. Find the entry for flying saucer; then the entry for dog, baby, snake, pregnant, and so on. For each entry, find further related entries by looking under ‘Similar Articles’ on the right-hand side of the page. Then see Techniques for Exploring your Dreams.
Each entry gives the general meaning of the dream subject, just as an encyclopedia or dictionary does for a word. Several possible meanings are given. This is because as with our speech the position of the word – the context – gives it special meanings. So, a hot dog would be quite different to a black dog, dog-end or dead dog. Therefore, when you read an entry which has several different meanings, sometimes with a ‘;’ between, it simply means any one of them could apply, which means you need to think about the feelings in your dream, the context, the other imagery used. Please do not fall into the trap that one reviewer made of saying that the whole dictionary is about sex. Of course, sex is one meaning among many others. So, use your own sense of your dream as well as any definitions given.
To really explore the meaning, it is useful to use the Dream Dictionary as it is designed, rather than arrive at a ‘thought out’ interpretation. To see a working example of this see ‘Dream Interpretation Example One‘.
Personal Dream Interpretation
I no longer offer a personal dream interpretation service, but only occasionally if you manage to send an interesting dream I will respond – the reason is I am getting past my sell by date being 84.
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In the meantime, here is a way to work out your own dream – Getting at Your Dream’s Meaning.
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A Note About the Author: Tony Crisp
I have been interested in the health of mind and body since my early teens. I began writing about these subjects in 1956. My fascination for what lay under the surface of the mind led me personally to explore the unconscious using dreams and other mental and physical disciplines. From 1972 – 94 I worked as a psychotherapist using an eclectic, Humanistic Psychology approach which included dream work and releasing the secrets the body holds. My books include Do You Dream; Mind and Movement; The Instant Dream Book; Dream Dictionary; Life’s Little Secrets –Liberating The Body – and many more. See My Books.
During those years I worked as a dream columnist for The Daily Mail and She Magazine. I was the regular dream interpreter for the London Broadcasting Company; I ran Teletext’s dream page on UK television’s Channel Four; and for New Zealand Teletext, and now I run this website giving dream help in the many replies to peoples dreams and in as well as many features on subjects connected with the human inner world. See Features
Throughout more than five decades I have been involved in a personal search for the secrets of mind and spirit. In those years I have also taught thousands of people techniques of deep relaxation, meditation, and methods of self exploration using dreams. Wanting to dig deep I explored the use of dreams and taught individuals and groups of people how to use these visions of the night to discover and heal the deepest issues in themselves, and to touch the high ground of their spiritual awareness. I worked for twenty years as a psychotherapist using several approaches, one of which was a way of honouring the body as a doorway to the unconscious mind, the emotions and spiritual experience. See Self-Regulation – Recognition – Life’s Little Secrets – The LifeStream and Opening to Life
During the sixty years of seeking the wild wondrous beasts of the mind and spirit I dared my own inner adventure. But I also travelled with other people as an ordinary person, not a therapist, sharing their experience of fear and wonder as they unveiled and set loose their fountain of perception. I have travelled countless dream pathways, traversed the timeless with those using awareness enhancing drugs, and wrestled with the vitality of the body as people mimed and shouted their deepest intuitions through movement, dance and voice. See Tony’s Biography
My aim has always to share my findings – actually what I was shown or given from within – was given freely; I never had any teacher or attended a course, of course I read an enormous amount, so I cannot ask for money. If you wish to donate anything to the running of the site you can do so by clicking on https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&hosted_button_id=JYTWAMC4LQLQ4&source=url
My teacher has been from exploring dreams and occasionally touching the wonder we were born as – not from words written in books about that but by meeting it. See Enlightenment
Introduction to Using the Dream Dictionary
Diccionario de los Sueños
Profundización de la comprensión de un sueño; Introducción
What Is Offered In The Dictionary
In a similar way, by observing dreams and laying bare the emotions and associated ideas and memories we have with the dream imagery, we gradually define our personality, its strengths and weaknesses, we discover new abilities and we grow beyond our old problems, and that in a depth we had never managed previously. I have called this mind watching, but it covers every aspect of human nature, not simply the intellect or thinking.
This mind watching through observation of our dreams first presents information about our personal experiences and memories and how they influenced our growth and influence present responses. Gradually the information arising from such watching leads beyond ones personal self. It shows in many cases how our unique self has arisen from, and has indissoluble links with our forebears, with our culture, with the past as a whole, and with the cosmos itself. It leads from oneself to the edge of the known, and perhaps helps us take a few steps beyond that edge into the unknown, to create new understanding.
This mind watching gradually reveals to us the many aspects of the mind’s working, and with such insight may come the growing ability to use these facets of ourselves. Not only may we discover great vistas of personal memory, but also the roots of our creativity, the subtle senses of our emotions and unconscious, and the treasures of experience we have gathered. See Your Amazing Circle – Self Observation
So how can we get into this magical world of our dreams and start to harvest the possibilities held there? The following pages of this book are designed to help, guide and inform on how to do this. The book is also a counsellor on what you may find in your dream adventure.
The information about dreams presented in this book has been gathered during fifty years of working with and studying dreams and the dream process. It synthesises the experience of personally helping hundreds of individuals explore their dreams. The examples used have been taken from a collection of over 8000 dreams put onto a computer filing system. The filing system was also used to define general associations with commonly used dream images.
The major input for definition however has arisen from the actual exploration of dreams undertaken by individuals. These are either people I have worked with personally who have deeply felt the emotions and issues behind their dreams, not simply talked them over and come to an intellectual interpretation but a deep insight, or are people who have written up their findings arising from similar work. Added to this is the commonly held associations we have through our language and the way we use imagery within speech. Of course your personal dream imagery may not be using the commonly held associations, or those used by other people, and so you must read the definitions with care and consider if these fit what is implied or dramatised in your dream.
In the entries in the Dictionary are explanations of the many different types of dreams and dream images. Despite some people’s attempt to explain dreams in one simple formula, dreams cover a huge range of phenomena and human experience. Amongst subjects covered in the book are thousands of entries on the researched meaning of the things, people, creatures and places we dream about. There are also many entries on special subjects such as symbols and dreaming; interpreting dreams; recurring dreams; nightmares; sex while asleep; teenage girls love dreams; precognitive dreams; talking in ones sleep; the dream as an adventure; Occultism and Dreams; science sleep and dreams; and many more.
There are a compete list of these Features and the Archetypes covered.
Therefore, if you have dreamt of such things as your teeth falling out; being chased; or your marriage partner dying, you will find an explanation of your dream in the following pages.
The aim of the book is to help you make connections between your dreams and your everyday life; to discover more fully the powerful emotions and reactions that unconsciously direct your decisions and responses in waking. The book is not an attempt to give you merely ideas to play with, to agree or disagree with, like fortune telling. It can lead to real insights which empower you to make more of yourself, and find your way through the many decisions life confronts you with.
But you can move directly on to Using the Dictionary – or better still read Meaning of Your Dream.
The Discovery of Dreams
Dreams are a magical mirror in which your innermost hopes, longings, fears/terrors and genius are made real. They are made real as external environments, people, animals and relationships. It is as if all your deepest feelings, hopes, fear and wonder are projected outward onto a multidimensional screen. It is a world of virtual reality that you feel is real. Unfortunately this wonderful virtual reality world is usually felt as dealing with other people, as externals, like something that can damage us, or something like the Devil that can possess us.
But the greatest truth I have found in exploring dreams – not interpreting them – is that we are alone with ourselves in the world of our dream. If we can acknowledge and admit that our terrors we dream are actually our past hurts that we have not faced presenting themselves for us to heal; that the ghosts and demons that can rampage about our night are embodiments of our fears; that our wonderful visions and insights are an expression of our own infinite potential, then we can walk a pathway to finding what we really are. Audio Introduction to Exploring a Dream
- Dreams are virtual realities that we create in our sleep. Even the wonderful dreams of God and angels are an external virtual reality, and mirror of our own inner immensity and our enormous variety. Unfortunately people either accept them as externally real, or as fantasy. But they are reflections of your potential, that cannot be seen in your daily life that is so dominated by your physical senses and hungers and fears.
- See The Magical Dream Machine. So the images and fears we experience in our dreams are projection upon the vast screen of our mind. They are all projections from you. Running from them is like trying to escape from yourself.
- In life and sleep we have two powerful actions working in us. The first is our waking experience based on having a body, its limitations, vulnerabilities and a particular gender. Our second is the power that gave us life and continues to express as dreams.
- While we sleep our conscious self is largely or totally unconscious, and while we sleep our voluntary muscles are paralysed – therefore another will or motivating force moves our body. So we have a Conscious Will, and what I will call a Life Will. The first one we have experience of as we can move our arm or speak in everyday activities; but the second will takes over when we sleep. See Sleep Paralysis
- This Life will can move us to speak, to move our body, and in fact do things that we cannot do with our Conscious Will. As Freud pointed out this inner will has full access to our memories. It can do so many other things that are described else where – See ESP in Dreams; Edgar Cayce and the Cosmic Mind.
- This Life Will or motivator has been active for millions of years and we see it working all the time in animals. We are partly split in half because we are often opposed to what our Life Will in us wants. So the only way to express what is good for us is in dreams when our conscious will is largely passive.
- Life Will created your body and pre-existed you as a person you know today. It was working in you prior to your ability to speak or know in the way you do now. But of course it has fantastic wisdom and skills, as can be seen in animals.
- Life, if you look around you at Life’s creature, they can take any form. So Life itself is without form. In fact the recent advances in quantum physics suggest that what gives us existence is beyond space and time – beyond understanding.
- So dreams do not come from the human unconscious, but from the formless origins of Life – our Core Self. To express in a way that is understandable to us as a person with limited understanding, dreams use all the common imagery and ideas. So people who say that dreams are a mish mash of common everyday events are mistaken. See LifeStream; Levels of Awareness in Sleeping and Waking; .
- Our core self can be explained by realising that we are all dependent on the universe. We often feel that the universe is way beyond our understanding, but a few simple facts may help. The first is that the universe as we know it began with what had been called the Big Bang. But before that there was a situation prior to the creation of time and space. That situation is very much like the experience of Edgar Cayce who had an awareness reaching beyond time and space. See God and the Big Bang are the Same Thing
- Irish physicist John Stewart Bell put forward a quantum theorem that has revolutionised the way reality is considered. In brief, the theorem states that when two sub-microscopic particles are split and moved to a distance from each other, the action on, or of, particle ‘A’, is instantaneously reproduced with particle ‘B’. This interaction does not rely on any known link or communication and is considered to stand above normal physical laws of nature, as it is faster than light. Prior to such findings it was thought nothing could transcend the speed of light. Nick Herbert, in an interview published in High Frontiers writes: ‘THERE ARE LOTS OF THINGS that are being kept from the public as far as the subjects of physics and consciousness are concerned. Bell’s Theorem was proved in 1964, and it is still not taught in physics classes, and you don’t hear it on your science news programs. A theorem is a proof, and no one has found a flaw in this theorem. It’s such a simple proof that a high school kid can understand it. So physicists can understand it. They have various ways of trying to ignore it, but it can’t be refuted because it’s so simple.’
Our Core self is that amazing part of us existing beyond time and space, and was within us from the start of our universe.
- In the world of dreams our most intimate fears and longings are given an exterior life of their own in the form of the people, objects and places of our dream. Therefore our sexual drive may be shown as a person and how we relate to them; or given shape and colour as an object; or given mood as a scene. Our feeling of ambition might thus be portrayed as a business person in our dream – our changing emotions as the sea or a river; while the present relationship we have with our ambition or emotions is expressed in the events or plot of the dream.
- You cannot be killed in a dream. All you can experience is the anguish and perhaps fear of dying, but in dreams you cannot die – or drown, or burn or any other threatening thing. We make the mistake of taking our very real values from our outer life into our inner life of dreams.
- In dreams, what ever moves away from you in our dreams is going out of your awareness or even life; and whatever moves toward us is emerging into consciousness. Whatever it is that is coming toward us is giving us something whether it is energy, insight, or a frightening dream that is trying to shock us to wake up and clear out the inner mess we are in. The fact we give it a frightening image is because we are brought up to be scared of ourselves and to not trust Life/Core. If you know the tenets of the AA, you will see that is what they are about – to trust Life.
- Most people are frightened of life. I see this in so many dreams sent to me. They do not trust themselves to the powerful action of Life flowing through them. See Life’s Little Secrets.
- We have been brain washed to believe that our existence depends upon nothing but accidental events, the survival of the fittest, the chemical and biological mechanical actions. Yet every time I have gone deeply into my ‘unconscious’ and yet maintained awareness, I have found a wonderful power of Life there.
- So if your dreams frighten you, I want to say you are frightened of something wonderful that could have grown you and enlarged your experience of yourself. The thing that was full of fear was your own fear put into an image, and yet was a wonderful gift that you avoided receiving.
- I too was full of fears and often woke up screaming. Then I learned to trust Life. It is like learning to swim. So please go back into your dream and let the fearful thing be fully experienced instead of waking up in fear. Then it will unveil itself as a thing of light and love.
Deepening Dream Understanding
I suggest you only try one method at a time and use it until you are capable or it or it doesn’t work for you, then move on to other methods taking time with them until you find what works best for you.
Although the process of dreams might not be a direct attempt to present MEANING, a dream may nevertheless have a great deal of INFORMATION in it. This becomes clearer if we remember that not many years ago it would have appeared highly superstitious or suspect to claim to be able to tell a person details of their health and parentage from a sample of their urine or blood. Today it is common practice. We accept that a growing amount of information can be gained from these unlikely sources. Blood doesn’t contain meaning, but we can gain information from it. In a similar way a sample of our dreams can also tell us an enormous amount. Sometimes this data is obvious, sometimes it needs processing to uncover, as with urine and blood.
Dream Processing – The following dream needs no deep techniques of processing. The word ‘processing’ is used throughout the book instead of analysis. Analysis has the connotation of giving our own thoughts or opinions to the dream. Processing is used to suggest extraction of information which leads to insight. With this particular dream, all it needs is a few facts brought to it to make clear what information it holds. The dream is that of a young woman, Mrs C. L.
It is a bright sunny day. I am walking across a large concrete car park. It is empty except for a huge trailer from a truck. It has BOOTS written on the side, and stands high off the ground. Being 4’ 9’ tall myself I decide to walk underneath. As I am half way the trailer starts to be lowered on top of me. I try to shout but cannot. I get onto my hands and knees and the trailer still kept coming down. I am now lying on my stomach, convinced it is going to crush me. Then it suddenly stops a couple of inches from my head. I wake feeling terrible.
The dream is interesting, although the information it holds may at first not be obvious. But with a minimum of processing the dream information will become clear. The first technique of processing the dream is to recognise some of the key statements within it. These are I AM WALKING – I TRY TO SHOUT – CONVINCED IT IS GOING TO CRUSH ME.
The reason these are key statements is because the dreamer is saying ‘I am walking’ – ‘I try to shout’ – ‘I …am convinced’. The word ‘I’ is important.
This form of processing has not added anything to the dream. It has simply drawn attention to the information already there in the dreamer’s description of her experience – this is why it is useful to write the dream out fully. If we add a little more information which the dreamer herself connects with the dream, then it becomes even clearer. Mrs C. L. says, ‘I work for BOOTS the chemist. The employees at the shop I work in were told at the beginning of the year that Boots are selling our shop. When that happens I will be made redundant. We were supposed to finish on May 26th. It is now the end of July. The deal fell through so we are now just left hanging indefinitely until a new buyer comes along. I feel very unsettled as I can’t make any plans for the future.’
Having read these comments, it would be difficult not to see the dream as relating to the woman’s work situation, and to her strong anxiety connected with it. She herself says – through her dream – she is ‘convinced it – the situation – is going to crush’ her. She also feels her strong emotions about this – expressed in her attempt to shout – are not being expressed or ‘heard’. From just this one dream, we can be forgiven if we assume that dreams may express in dramatic form our feeling reaction to the circumstances of our everyday life. Taking this dream as information, Mrs. C. L. could see she is feeling crushed by the situation, yet not stating her feelings loudly enough to be heard. She might therefore speak to the manager to clarify the situation for herself.
Here is an even shorter and less complex dream. It has been left just as it was written so its information is immediately apparent. The key words here might be TRYING TO CONTACT HIM and NOT UNDERSTANDING WHY HE LEFT ME. The dream is from Mrs C. J.
Years ago I lost my first husband at twenty nine. I had the same dream continually of being in a phone box trying to contact him, not understanding why he had left me. He died of cancer. Later I remarried and this husband died of a heart attack. Once again the same dream came back so much.
On speculating about the dream from what is immediately apparent, we might say that although it is irrational to continually try to contact her husband when there has never be any success, nevertheless, her desire to be with him continues year after year. This same part of her cannot understand why he died. We might put such feelings into words as, ‘But what had he done to die so young? Why should it happen to me twice?’ We can also assume that her desire to understand these questions, which is what contacting her husband represents, is expressed in the dream as the telephone.
The dream process has dramatised her situation and inner feelings – given them form and made them experiential. Looking at this dream helps us see how an image, such as the telephone, performs exactly the same sort of function as a spoken word, although in a different way. Namely, it represents feelings and thoughts. That the woman’s questions remain, that her problem is unsolved, is apparent from the fact she does NOT make contact on the telephone, and does not find peace. Understanding her dream shows her the importance of the questions she continually asks herself, and the need to release the emotions behind them. With this she could be free of the dream. If she cannot manage this by herself, taking advantage of the professional help of a therapist might help.
To make it clear how everything is a dream holds personal information, to give an example, I was recently asked by a man who had given no thought to dreams how on earth you could extract any meaning from them. He was wearing a fairly old T-shirt, so I said, “OK, let’s imagine you dreamt of your T-shirt, what would you make of that?”
After a while he said, “I don’t know that I would make anything of it.”
My response was to say, “Right, but now tell me where you bought the T-shirt, and what memories it has for you.” Whereupon he told me memories of being abroad, and that the shirt was part of those memories, and he wasn’t prepared to say what they were as they were so personal.
The important point is that everything we see and deal with, every person, every imagined scene, has such a background of feelings and perhaps memories. It is exactly this background of feelings and information that the dream weaves its story from. To understand it you need to become aware of the usually unconscious feeling responses you have in connection with every thing, place, person and animal you fill your dreams with.
For fuller Dream Processing – Below are described simple techniques that make it possible to quickly gain information from your dreams. They have been put as a series of questions. If you take time to consider and answer the question you will find your way into a new experience of dream understanding.
Read it in: Processing Your Dream
Seeing under the Surface
Acting on your Dreams – Extracting more from your dream by letting your body and feelings express it can provide a remarkable release of insight. There are several ways of doing this.
Do see the instructions see: Acting on Your Dreams
The Peer Dream Group – This method is the most powerful and deepest method. It includes some of the other techniques mentioned.
The way of working known as the Peer Dream Group came about from our experience that dreams are largely self explanatory if approached in the right way. An exterior expert or authority is not necessary for a profound experience of and insight into dreams and into oneself if certain rules are respected and used. The dreamer is the ultimate expert on their own dream and themselves but only when we break through to what is usually unconscious mental states, and when treated as such, and supported in their investigation of their dream drama, they can powerfully explore and manifest the resources of their inner life.
To use it see: The Peer Dream Group and What I Have Seen In Dreams
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I had a dream last night that a live chicken was loose in my house so I picked it up then put it in a box. I put the box in the garage and went back inside to do something and when I went back into the garage my dog had eaten it. The white feathers were everywhere. Any ideas of what that could mean?
Last night I had a two different dreams. First one about driving a car that I don’t recognize (It was a used, slightly beat up red car). Upon driving the car, I realize that there are a few issues in the car including the lack of oil in the car, coolant and the gas tank was left open. Despite such obstacles, I was able to return home.
2nd dream is one of my boyfriend (who I currently have problems with) his ex girlfriend, who in the dream is pregnant and about to be in labor. In the dream, they seem to be a happy couple. I happen to be in the backseat, as they drive to a hospital about four hours away.
I had a dream a few nights ago that is still bothering me. I dreamt that I was in a supermarket running an errand for my mom who had called and asked me to assist her with purchasing some items but when I got there I saw her and my sister. I was quite angry that she asked me to come out if she was already here especially since she knew about a storm coming. Which I briefly recalling watching on the tv in my dream. Anyhow, we went our separate ways I was trying to hurry but there was this woman in front of me who kept walking slow and whenever I would try to pass she would move in that direction. Finally when I was able to get out of the aisle I went racing down the aisle and all of a sudden there was an older male who was there and then his wife came around the corner and it was the same woman and the two continued to move about slowly. I finally was able to get all of my things but just as I exited the store I saw the tornado and everything went black. I awoke to total darkness all around I heard peoples muffled talks “that we were dead” there was a woman who stood right in front of me who I swear I have never seen before and all I could see was her I asked if it was true and she replied “yes sugar you are dead”. I immediately started crying Jesus please no, no, no I can’t be dead I have to get back to my son I have to raise him, he needs me. Then as if God snapped his fingers I was in the super market again. I exited the store without seeing any tornadoes or anyone hindering me, got in my car and drove away.
I awoke and was very frightened. My thing is in most of my dreams I am always allowed a do over. Whether someone broken in my house or if I am walking down the street. I always go back and restart but there is always something different that I must do. I don’t understand!!!
Al – Your dream starts of with a message that you are still very involved with your mother. The involvement is probably that you still feel she has a hold on you. So then the dream shows that it is all wrong, that she doesn’t care that much what you do. It is your sister you feel, rightly or wrongly, who is the favourite.
Even so you try to fulfil your daughterly obligations, but are blocked by the elderly woman and man. These are probably parent figures – your parents who you are trying to become independent from. Eventually you do, after the anger and frustration, mange to break free.
This freedom is connected with your need for enthusiastic parental love and recognition of oneself as a unique person. If you have not received this love you carry in you such pain and need, it influences all your decisions. Even without any maltreatment, the lack of love traumatises us. There are so few of us who have actually received this love to the degree we need it that the dealing with this inner lack is one of the major tasks before us if we are to reach our full potential.
You knew this was coming because you heard a storm was coming. This is a powerful arising of emotions trapped behind your needs for your mother. And when it comes it feels like death.
I know it often happens that to begin a new life we have to die – not physically – to the old life. But I am not sure of what it means that you experienced what is very much like a near death experience. I known mothers who have died and been revived who have told me exactly the same story. They wanted to live for the sake of their children and wouldn’t go into the wonder before them.
So then you DID make a tremendous change. Take time to see if it has made any changes in the way you relate to your mother and life.
Tony
I had a dream that my grandpa came back to life and that i was afraid that he would be mad for giving away his suits.
Tamara – I a sure your grandpa would not be needing his suits. Where he is you do not need the; you create them out of the way you are and feel.
Also I feel that you are feeling some guilt about the suits. Why is that? Again, in the after life things are so different I am sure all he has for you in love.
Tony
I’ve had several bizarre lucid dreams/astral projections where I am drinking this “blue goo” or I am in a situation and I am filling up with this “goo” so I can’t speak even scooping it out of my mouth. I have no idea what this is and it ruins my lucid/astral experiences. Sometimes I am enjoying my experience and then can’t speak or take in everything because of this “goo” situtation. What is it and why is it showing up in both lucid/astral situations?
JC – As I said to someone recently we think we are in control, and I wonder if you understand what dreaming and lucid dreaming is.
When you dream you have surrendered your conscious control and that allows a deeper influence to cause dreams. If this deeper influence from your core is interfered with it will block you in all manner ways – like blue goo.
When you sleep and dream your voluntary muscles are switched. If we have any awareness or lucidity at that time it can feel as is some awful alien force has taken possession of you. Also dreams arise from a very deep part of us, the Core, from which all the impulses of existing, growing and surviving originate. Even when you are awake you are controlled by such processes – for instance your breathing is only partly under your control, but all the vital things are purely unconscious and you are thereby controlled all the time. You have very limited free will.
But of course you are used to those massive controls. However, sometimes our Core wishes to make us move, to control our movement, usually in sleep, but sometimes while awake. These movements are in fact as natural as the urge to breathe, but because in our culture we are so out of touch with how life works we are often terrified of spontaneous movements. Such movement are about growth of some part of us that we have not allowed before. If we can allow these and not react fearfully, then we will be shown the wonders of our life and how it originated – what is usually called the unconscious. For a fuller description see LifeStream.
So I would try allowing whatever feelings and actions come, and learn to respect the fact that is Life is actually in control – try holding your breath.
Tony
I have a dream that im on the bus with the boy i like and i start to feel on him and he let me and he smiled and when we got off the bus he led me into a abandoned building and we continued feeling on eacher for a few days in my dream until i woke up!!!!!
Shannon – That unrestrained sensual and sexual pleasure is certainly needed sometimes, but you do need to wake up – as you did. It would be a pity to think that that is all there is to life.
Tony
I’ve been having this recurring dream for a couple months with increased frequency, I’m 20 and am 2 years away from graduating with my bachelor’s degree, my life has been very stressful.
In my dream, I’m walking through a dark, seemingly abandoned cathedral-like hall. I’m walking alone, but I can see shadow figures in the darkened wings; they’re trying to tell me something, but all I can hear are muddled whispers. I keep walking for what seems like forever, through grand hall after grand hall, and doorways that reach to the ceilings. Eventually I see that one of the doors is opened, but there’s only blackness beyond. The closer i get to the door, the more windy it becomes, as if I’m being pushed forward. I’m almost dragged through the door by the gale, but I grab onto the floor of the doorway as if i’m hanging off a cliff; one of the shadow figures comes and grabs my hands while I’m thinking it intends to help me up, but it only throws me into the blackness.
I always wake with a start after that.
Sarah – This is a very big dream and one that is difficult to bring down to size. But it is about a very big opportunity you have that you are not feeling ‘at home’ with. The massive building and the darkness are showing you that you have a great space to do things with, a tremendous potential, but somehow you feel in the dark. You are in a new environment and you fail to understand or know what it is or how to relate to it. Even the doorways are showing you that you have enormous headspace.
You are obviously a brilliant person but you are finding the territory it is leading you into – emotionally, mentally, philosophically or even personally – challenging. It is a new territory and you need new attitudes to deal with it. It is like growing, when you are a teenager, and you are faced by new feelings, new urges, and can you dare to trust them? In fact I wonder if you feel you are alone and without support in all this.
And that is the message of the last doorway the wind is dragging you through. The wind is the power of growth, but you are resisting it – though another part of you understands and loosens your hold. And the darkness is the unknown – of course it is unknown, it is new, and you will know it if you explore it and make it your own.
You haven’t got the ready made responses for where you are. So you must stand up and create them. I mean it! You have it in you to do, your dream shows it. The darkness you fall into is your enormous potential – and potential means that. The potential is like latent, it is unknown until we make it ours. So make it yours!
So imagine yourself back at the point you woke up with a start and drop into the experience. I know it is scary, but you will pass through. Do it several times till it feels easy and you can begin to understand where you are going. Understanding is a light, and you can walk with confidence. See http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/acting-in-your-dream/
Tony
Thank you for all your lifes work! I have recommended your Dream Dictionary to many of my friends. Your biography is quite inspirational. Thank you again for sharing your knowledge to the world.
Sandra – Thank you so much for your words of encouragement.
I see you are a Handwriting Examiner/Specialist. I had a wonderful reading done some 50 years ago and still read through it occasionally to see how it still applies to me today. I include your site address in case people are interested. http://writefacts.com/
Tony
I have been having dreams about being with my ex-husband who is the absent father of our daughter. He hasn’t seen her since she was 2 months old over 5 years ago and has since signed his rights over to my husband to adopt her, which he has. We were married young and divorced after just a few years because after I found out I was pregnant he cheated on me and got her pregnant. I haven’t spoken with him in over a year because he never calls or has contact with my daughter but I’ve constantly been having dreams about either re-marrying him or getting back together with him because, as I’ll say in the dream, we’ve both grown up and matured and can start again as adults. My daughter has never been in the dream until last night which is what prompted me to look for help because it’s so frustrating and I want them to stop. Last night she called him “daddy” in the dream even though she’s called my husband daddy all of her life. (he’s known her since she was 8 months old). That freaked me out and I’d give anything in the world to make these dreams go away. They’re so real and I recall in every dream saying that I miss my current husband and still love him. Almost like I’m torn between the two but I have absolutely no desire to be with my ex-husband ever again. Please help me, I’m desparate.
Megan – I hope you do not think I am talking foreign language, but the ex you dreamt about is not about your actual ex. Dreams create a virtual reality as we sleep, a reality created out of your memories and emotions. So the ex you dreamt about is a living part of you, your memories and experiences, and cannot be erased without damaging you.
Of course you need to honor your memories, and accept that within you and your memories he is the father of your child. To do otherwise is to be creating a fiction. But that is all within you, and of course outside of you he has never been a proper father. I know it is difficult to get ones head around this, but you need to recognise the difference between your inner world and your outer.
So it is important to love that part of you (your ex as an inner reality) because otherwise you will tear yourself apart. And of course you have grown up and now it is time to integrate what you couldn’t accept before. And of course you have no desire to be with your ex outwardly. But you do inwardly otherwise you will not be a whole person.
Perhaps it might be easier to see that if you had an awful mother, one you could never want to be with now, but yet she is an incredible slice of your experiences and learning, inwardly. Yet to refuse to meet her as an inner influence is to be missing being a whole person. If you accept them they can then grow within you.
Tony
Hi. May i commend you for the great job you’re doing. Kudos!
How do your dreams interpretation match african meanings & belief system to dreams. In african social cultural setting and metaphysic are peculiar to its people. How effective are your interpretations to african daily activities.
Thank you.
Bare – Thank you for you words.
I have collected a few African dreams, but not enough. And I do not think the written dictionary is a good reflection of African cultural views and symbols. But I do believe that a dream, if not interpreted by thinking about the images, but by seeing if one can feel the spirit of the dreams and comment on it might work.
I also believe that if we get under the surface of our mind, we have a soul or spirit that knows all cultures – because we have lived them.
Tony
The dream that I had last night seems significant to a few areas of my life. The first, that singing is extremely important to me, and have just sent an audition video to the X Factor UK. The second, that I am an 18 year old gay male and am feeling very lonely, and looking for love.
So my dream:
I am walking through town with my parents who are apparently still happily together (in reality I have not seen my father, or had a relationship with him in 9 years.). We see a boy on a rooftop, who is singing to his girlfriend, both as a romantic gesture and practice for his X Factor audition. He is singing the same song that I am planning on singing and immediately I become very jealous, very loudly stating “I am so much better than him”, even though I was thinking otherwise. So his song comes to an end and his girlfriend seems unimpressed and, i’m guessing, breaks up with him. I can’t remember what happens next, only somehow the boy is now staying with us, I think somthing to do with his family not being able to afford to feed him, or something like that. I am not pleased about this, seeing him as competition, and make no secret about the fact that I don’t like him and keep commenting to my parents that he is my competition and I don’t want him here. Myself, my mother and the boy seem to have gone out to lunch, until I get upset and walk off into a building that seems maze-like and has lots of hidden rooms, one of which I hide in whilst they look for me. During all of this, the boy reveals to somebody that he is falling in love with me and asks advice on how to win me over. This is all I can remember. I found the whole thing really bizarre and was wondering if somebody could have a go at telling me what it means??
Kiri – There is some sort of complicated conflict gong on in you that I guess needs fixing before you can be the person you feel you can be.
Your parents, strangely, are shown as being okay within you. Don’t forget that in dreams we are looking at not the real people, but a synthesis of how you feel about them. Then the jealousy, which is a form of conflict with yourself; for you are the guy on the roof singing to his girlfriend – for there is nobody else playing all the parts in your dreams except you.
This is obvious when you and your other singing self are in the same house. This is so important for you I suggest you explore being him to see what of yourself he is reflecting. See http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/acting-in-your-dream/ to help with this.
Being in the same house represents being in the same body. There may be a split between the heterosexual guy and the gay you. What was the cause of so much jealousy? The in the end you resort to childhood ways of dealing with the conflicting feelings. Maybe it would be good idea for the other you to fall in love with you and you to him. That would at least unite you. You do need to learn to love yourself.
Tony
I recently heard of the new theory about the end of the world. I was a complete skeptic yesterday. I thought that there was no way a man could predict the end of the world, mostly because of my religion. However, last night was the first night in many that I cannot remember anything that I dreamt. I keep a dream log, and write down everything that I can remember. The average entry is around two pages long, or one front and back. I have only had very few blank memories since I began this log nearly 6 years ago. I would not have been frightened by this at all, but all day today I have had the strangest gut feeling. Instead of my usual optimistic outlook on life, I have felt like someone was about to die all day. I feel that some terribly bad news will be revealed to me, or that I will be in a tragic event very soon. I was wondering if you could interpret the lack of a dream the same as you could interpret the dream itself. I’m sorry for any inconvenience, Tony, but I am worried about the near future.
Sincerely,
Jake
Jake – It is well known that we block out the memory of some dreams, especially if they are disturbing.
But if you open yourself to God, and expose your difficult feeling, it is usually dealt with – especially if you allow your emotions to be felt. And of course for some people it is the end of the world for many because they die. But if you are open to God’s guidance I feel that you need not fear the end of the world. Big changes, yes.
Tony
Greetings. Last night I had a dream that I was at my best friend’s ex-hubby house. It was late and while I couldn’t see his face I knew it was him. He asked if I wanted to go on a roller coaster. I said yes and as I went to bathroom to get ready I passed thru a room full of upside down bikes (not on the ceiling). In the bathroom i viewed myself fully and loved it. I reached for a pair of sock but they had holes. I finally found the perfect pair and put them on. And then I woke up
Curlyscales – I wondered about how you felt about your best friend’s ex-husband. From the rest of the dream I have a sense that you fancied him. So then he suggests a roller coaster ride – and that could mean anything. In any case it suggests something that will be a thrill and most likely sexual.
I am not sure of the upside down bikes, except they are for a ride for only two people, and you perhaps feel a bit upside down.
And down forget that in your dreams people, such as the ex hubby, are not the actual person, but a life sized replica you have created out of your memories, desires, and hopes. So when you see how lovely you look it all felt right. Even the socks are a way of suggesting getting ready to go somewhere, making a change or trying something/someone on.
Tony
I don’t remember the first part of my dream, but it seemed to have some kind of tension to it. Then I was outside walking some place. It was a bright night and I looked up to the sky. To my amazement the planets were HUGE and aligned in the sky except two, which sat right above the others on the right hand side. I was so excited, but no one was around to tell. I continued to walk and look at them in amazement. I was not afraid. Then I looked down to a large house on the right of the road and all the rooms seemed to light up in a rythamic way. I could tell they were watching the event or connected to it. Then the lights seemed to turn off and the front porch where a sports car sat turned on. I felt nervous and hurried ahead so I was not in front of the house when the occupant came out. Then I woke up.
Sherleen – This is a huge dream, and I feel you must have felt something like this coming; for it is a massive cosmic event. What that means is that, as Shakespeare said, “There is a tide in the affairs of men. Which, taken at the flood, leads on to fortune; Omitted, all the voyage of their life Is bound in shallows and in miseries. On such a full sea are we now afloat, And we must take the current when it serves, Or lose our ventures.”
There is a rhythmic activity set up in you that is producing great changes. If this is true you will see such changes come about in the next month or so. The house you see is actually yourself, your body, which is the way dreams portray us. But the changes will possible cause you to ‘hurry by’ to avoid them.
The dream suggests that it is in the area of expressing the changes you feel, and making them real, that the dream points out. For you can easily feel that you are nor capable of being what is arising. Don’t believe that. And there may be a meeting that will occur, but I am not sure of that.
Tony
I had a dream about a dog whom walked into my house. I was sitting on my couch talking to a friend and the female dog layed right next to my feet. I knew something was wrong and the next thing I knew she was having babies then I woke up could not go back to sleep.
Jamila – I have to try to see how your dream fits together with an explanation. So excuse me if I might say strange things.
But talking to a friend suggests ‘women’s talk’- often intimate things. And so I feel that before this dream you were thinking about or had talked about how you felt about having babies. That is where the dog comes in.
I wonder if you were uncertain if you could have a baby, and the dog, which is representing you instinctive and physical self, is there showing you that you could have a litter.
Tony