Dream Dictionary
Dream Dictionary
Online Dream Dictionary & Encyclopedia
by Tony Crisp
The Spanish Dictionary is all the work and effort placed in it, as well as many excellent dream interpretations all by Anna Hoser,
Introduction
The latest edition of the Dream Dictionary and Dream Encylopedia is the result of some sixty years experience of working with dreams and their understanding. The Dream Dictionary encompassing articles on a vast range of topics. This gives the reader an unparalleled insight into the study of dreams and the inner life. But there are an enormous amount of Features in the Dream Encylopedia that cover a range of topics about dreams and the inner life.
The aim of the Dream Dictionary is to help you make connections between your dreams and your everyday life; to discover more fully the powerful emotions and reactions that unconsciously direct your decisions and responses in waking. This is not an attempt to give you merely ideas to play with, to agree or disagree with, like fortune telling. It can lead to real insights which empower you to make more of yourself, and find your way through the many decisions with which life confronts you.
Useful Links
Your Guru Your Body
What Are Dreams
Learn how to Interpret Your Dream
What does my dream mean? – How to explore your dream meaning
Personal Dream Interpretation
A Note About the Author: Tony Crisp
Mind Watching and Dreams
Introduction to Using the Dream Dictionary
Using the Dictionary
The Discovery of Dreams – Things We Need to Remember About Us
Gaining Insight into Your Dreams
Acknowledgement to this Edition
What Is Offered In The Dictionary
The Discovery of Dreams
Deepening Dream Understanding
Seeing under the Surface
Exploring Inner Space
Things I Wished I Had Had Been Taught Earlier in My Life
Features Found on Site: this is a full list of the topics covered by the Dream Encyclopedia (not a list of dream dictionary words).
What Are Dreams?
Dreams are one of nature’s miracles, not the result of a wandering mind in sleep. A dream is an interface between the process of life, our core self and our conscious personality. Life existed quite capably for millions of years before the self-aware human personality came on the scene. In all that time the ancestors of the modern human being survived without having a rational mind to reason with, or self consciousness to ask such questions as ‘What do I do about this?’ Nevertheless survival strategies were still developed in their unconscious intelligence. Dreams express this unconscious wisdom that was developed in humans and animals through millions of years of Life experience.
Life’s age old unconscious processes are still the major part of our being, yet we seldom consciously meet them – except in dreams. As our physical and psychological health depend upon a reasonable co-operation between the spontaneous processes of life – such as breathing, digestion and the thousands of other life sustaining activities and our conscious decisions and actions, the encounter in dreams is vital. As I often point out to those I am advising we are a human face on a long line of beautiful animals. In fact “You ride an ancient beast.” The ancient beast is your body, and your conscious self is the modern and recent rider of it. Some ‘riders’ do not understand their animal needs – and the fact that we have several levels of brain that are independent of each other proves this. Still active in us are our Reptile Brain, Our mammalian Brain, and our Human Brain, and the reptile and mammalian brains are still very active and constitute a large part of our human unconscious. See – Brain Levels and Dreams – Life’s Little Secrets and Levels of Awareness in Sleeping and Waking.
So, no plant or creature grows from a dead seed, and each living seed carries within it all the past gathered from all its forebears. So, the seed in your mother’s womb is as old as and even older than human kind, and you carry that wisdom or memories in you. But in this life you developed a new brain, and the memories you gathered this time are what you built your personality from, but beneath that is a very ancient self. To meet this ancient self try using Opening to Life
That suggests that dreams cannot be defined under any one heading. Like human beings, they are enormously varied in what they express. Just as one cannot say the human mind is simply a system of memory, one cannot say dreams are just the reflection of experienced events. The mind also deals with problem solving, predicting outcomes of action, playing with possibilities via imagination, creating the new out of old material, replaying traumatic and disturbing events in order to find ways of meeting them constructively. Dreams, being the mental phenomena they are, deal with all of these issues and more. The following definitions give the main functions observable in dreams.
Dreams are:-
- Dreams are one of nature’s miracles, not the result of a wandering mind in sleep. A dream is an interface between the process of life, our core self and our conscious personality. Life existed quite capably for millions of years before the self-aware human personality came on the scene. In all that time the ancestors of the modern human being survived without having a rational mind to reason with, or self consciousness to ask such questions as ‘What do I do about this?’ Nevertheless survival strategies were still developed in their unconscious intelligence. Dreams express this unconscious wisdom that was developed in humans and animals through millions of years of Life experience.
- Recently I have come to see dreams as the lonely voice of Life calling out to us in our often frantic search for meaning. It calls out from its vastness that is beyond our understanding, and in its loving efforts gathers the fragments of our memory and associations and forms dreams with them. It does this in its efforts to instruct, guide and even heal us; but often we miss seeing that just as Life reaches to us from its vastness using things we might understand, we too must reach beyond our often pitiful understanding to move toward and touch the wonder of Life within us.
- An expression of what is happening in the physical body. Some doctors consider dreams to show signs of illness long before they are evident in other ways. Women frequently know they are pregnant very early on through sleep awareness in a dream. See: body; body dreams; Kasatkin_Vasily; consciousness-mind body split.
- A link between the sleeping mind and what is occurring externally. For instance, a person may be falling out of bed and dream of flying or falling.
- A way of balancing the physiological and psychological activities in us. When a person is deprived of dreaming in experiments, a breakdown in mind and body quickly occurs. This type of dreaming, or even nightmares, can often be a safety valve releasing tension and emotion not dealt with in waking life. See: compensation theory; self-regulation dreams and fantasy; science and dreams.
- An enormously original source of insight and information. Dreams tap our memory, our experience, and scan information held in our unconscious to form new insights from old experience. Dreams often present to us summaries or details of experience we have been unable to access consciously. Sometimes this is as early as life in the womb. See: creativity and problem solving in dreams.
- That insight comes from an amazing ability dreams have. Mostly we are lost in being aware of this moment or cares of recent events, and of our present environment, but the dream process has another view, that is of our whole life, like flying high and so have a huge view. We have taken in so much life experience, but many of us have not learnt the amazing lessons we gained by it. But the overall view we get from dreams, visions and our intuition gives us a view that synthesises or whole life and highlights its wonder, its destiny, our real purpose and our life’s real work. See Intuition – Using It
- A means of compensating for failure or deprivation in everyday life, and as a means of expressing the otherwise unacknowledged aspects of oneself. Such dreams are a move toward wholeness. See: compensation theory.
- In dreams we may be integrating new experience with what we have already gathered and digested. In this way our abilities, such as social skills, are gradually upgraded. See: computer, computer-dream process as a; Evans, Christopher.
- Dreams often stand in place of actual experience. So through dreams we may experiment with new experience or practice things we have not yet done externally. For instance many young women dream in detail of giving birth. This function of what might be called ‘imagination’ is tremendously undervalued, but is a foundation upon which human survival is built. See: imagination and dreaming.
- An means of exercise for the psyche or soul. Just as the body will become sick if not moved and stressed, so the mind and emotions need stimulus and exercise. Dreams fulfill this need. See Opening to Life
- An expression of human supersenses. Humans have an unconscious ability to read body language – so they can assess other humans very quickly. Humans have an unimaginable ability to absorb information, not simply from books, but from everyday events – for example science now tells us that we collect information at an enormous rate, millions of bits every second, but unfortunately we do not synthesis it to see what it means, for most of it is unconscious, only dreams access and use it. With it they constantly arrive at new insights and realisations. Humans frequently correctly predict the future – not out of a bizarre ability, but from the information gathered about the present. All these abilities and more show in our dreams. See: esp in dreams.
- A means of solving problems, or formulating creative ideas, both in our personal life, and also in relationships and work. Many people have produced highly creative work directly from dreams. See Creative Dreaming and Problem Solving
- A presentation in symbols of past traumatic experience. If met this can lead to deep psychological healing. Such dreams are therefore an attempt on the part of our spontaneous inner processes to bring about healing change. See: abreaction; compensation theory; nightmares.
- In the widest sense nearly all dreams act as a process of growth or a move toward maturing. Some dreams are very obviously presenting internal forces or dimensions of experience that might lead the conscious personality toward a greater balance and inclusiveness. See: individuation; LifeStream.
- A way of reaching beyond the known world of experience and presenting intimations from the unknown. Many people have dreams in which ESP, out of the body experiences, and knowledge transcending time and space occur. This type of dream may indicate a link between the present person and people who had lived in the distant past; or between the dreamer and all existing life. Some of these dreams present powerful insights into how the transitory human personality may arise out of an eternal consciousness. They thus deal with the spiritual aspects of human nature. See: Dimensions of Human Experience; Buddhism and dreams; Cayce, Edgar; collective unconscious; Bible and dreams; esp in dreams; hallucinations; history of dreaming; religion and dreams; yoga and dreams; Dream Yoga.
Learn how to Explore Your Dream
I know how much you might like to skip the Introduction to Dream Dictionary, and if you are tempted to do so, I wholeheartedly ask you to read Summing Up. Without understanding the things given there you are likely to completely miss the point of understanding your dreams. The best technique to enter you dream world – Peer Dream Work
You can start using the Dream Dictionary by entering the word you wish to research into the Search Box on the top right of most pages and clicking the search symbol – or you can read some fuller information below about the dictionary and how best to use it.
But the quickest way is to put your word in the search box.
Your dreams can become vortexes of power to transform your life, and to enhance your perceptions. There is no ‘wave a magic wand’ route to this. It will not happen because you read a great book or look at a good dream dictionary. Those things might help, but the real magic lies in whether you can enter into your dream in the right way. (Try using Being the Person or Thing and Meaning of Your Dream).
What does my dream mean? – How to explore your dream meanings
It is important in reading the definitions of dream images to realise that not every possible meaning can be covered in this dictionary. So please see if you get the idea of what is being said and allow your own imagination/feelings to fill in the meaning.
There are several ways you can understand the meanings held in your dreams, and there are several levels.
The first is an easily understood level, followed by greater depths:
For instance, speaking as an object or dream person, one needs to take time with it. Learn how to actually describe what you are as that dream object or person. If I dream of a dog, don’t simply describe what you think a dog feels like, but actually take time to tune into the dream image and describe the dog dreamt about. Is it an old or young dog? What is it doing in the dream? Listen to your feelings and describe what it/you feel. Remember that each image is a creation of your own mind and unconscious, so you are really describing yourself. Say whatever comes and consider its value afterwards. Below is a quote from Tiziana Stupia’s book Meeting Shiva
Tony taught me a process in which a dream could be interpreted and understood by assuming that everything, people and objects alike, in a dream represented aspects of the Self. Sitting cross-legged on the squishy, old-fashioned sofa in the living room of my sadhu’s cave opposite Tony, I’d close my eyes and mentally return to a dream I had the previous night. He would ask me questions about the dream, which I’d answer in the first person. So if I dreamt about a tree, I would ‘become’ the tree, assume its personality and respond from its viewpoint. He’d ask ‘So what kind of tree are you? Are you big or small, old or young? What do you look like? Where are you growing? Why are you in Tiziana’s dream?’
This sounded like a silly exercise at first, but I was soon enough convinced of its validity. It was fascinating to discover a wealth of insight and emotion emerging from my responses, and understand how they related to my current situation. They also pinpointed exactly where I was in my growth process. Sometimes, the dreams would uncover unconscious fears and intuitions. Often, they also held important clues and offered solutions to my problems. It was like doing detective’s work – arduous at times, but rewarding beyond belief.
So below are listed several ways to gain insight and information from your dreams. Take your time with each approach until you get the feel for it, and then experiment with other approaches.
You can enter a key word in the search box. The Dream Dictionary contains interpretations on almost any type of dream subject. So, if you dreamt of a flying saucer landing in a field, and aliens getting out and taking a baby, a snake, and a pregnant dog back into the saucer, you could search separately for each of these subjects in the Dream Dictionary. Find the entry for flying saucer; then the entry for dog, baby, snake, pregnant, and so on. For each entry, find further related entries by looking under ‘Similar Articles’ on the right-hand side of the page. Then see Techniques for Exploring your Dreams.
Each entry gives the general meaning of the dream subject, just as an encyclopedia or dictionary does for a word. Several possible meanings are given. This is because as with our speech the position of the word – the context – gives it special meanings. So, a hot dog would be quite different to a black dog, dog-end or dead dog. Therefore, when you read an entry which has several different meanings, sometimes with a ‘;’ between, it simply means any one of them could apply, which means you need to think about the feelings in your dream, the context, the other imagery used. Please do not fall into the trap that one reviewer made of saying that the whole dictionary is about sex. Of course, sex is one meaning among many others. So, use your own sense of your dream as well as any definitions given.
To really explore the meaning, it is useful to use the Dream Dictionary as it is designed, rather than arrive at a ‘thought out’ interpretation. To see a working example of this see ‘Dream Interpretation Example One‘.
Personal Dream Interpretation
I no longer offer a personal dream interpretation service, but only occasionally if you manage to send an interesting dream I will respond – the reason is I am getting past my sell by date being 84.
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In the meantime, here is a way to work out your own dream – Getting at Your Dream’s Meaning.
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A Note About the Author: Tony Crisp
I have been interested in the health of mind and body since my early teens. I began writing about these subjects in 1956. My fascination for what lay under the surface of the mind led me personally to explore the unconscious using dreams and other mental and physical disciplines. From 1972 – 94 I worked as a psychotherapist using an eclectic, Humanistic Psychology approach which included dream work and releasing the secrets the body holds. My books include Do You Dream; Mind and Movement; The Instant Dream Book; Dream Dictionary; Life’s Little Secrets –Liberating The Body – and many more. See My Books.
During those years I worked as a dream columnist for The Daily Mail and She Magazine. I was the regular dream interpreter for the London Broadcasting Company; I ran Teletext’s dream page on UK television’s Channel Four; and for New Zealand Teletext, and now I run this website giving dream help in the many replies to peoples dreams and in as well as many features on subjects connected with the human inner world. See Features
Throughout more than five decades I have been involved in a personal search for the secrets of mind and spirit. In those years I have also taught thousands of people techniques of deep relaxation, meditation, and methods of self exploration using dreams. Wanting to dig deep I explored the use of dreams and taught individuals and groups of people how to use these visions of the night to discover and heal the deepest issues in themselves, and to touch the high ground of their spiritual awareness. I worked for twenty years as a psychotherapist using several approaches, one of which was a way of honouring the body as a doorway to the unconscious mind, the emotions and spiritual experience. See Self-Regulation – Recognition – Life’s Little Secrets – The LifeStream and Opening to Life
During the sixty years of seeking the wild wondrous beasts of the mind and spirit I dared my own inner adventure. But I also travelled with other people as an ordinary person, not a therapist, sharing their experience of fear and wonder as they unveiled and set loose their fountain of perception. I have travelled countless dream pathways, traversed the timeless with those using awareness enhancing drugs, and wrestled with the vitality of the body as people mimed and shouted their deepest intuitions through movement, dance and voice. See Tony’s Biography
My aim has always to share my findings – actually what I was shown or given from within – was given freely; I never had any teacher or attended a course, of course I read an enormous amount, so I cannot ask for money. If you wish to donate anything to the running of the site you can do so by clicking on https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&hosted_button_id=JYTWAMC4LQLQ4&source=url
My teacher has been from exploring dreams and occasionally touching the wonder we were born as – not from words written in books about that but by meeting it. See Enlightenment
Introduction to Using the Dream Dictionary
Diccionario de los Sueños
Profundización de la comprensión de un sueño; Introducción
What Is Offered In The Dictionary
In a similar way, by observing dreams and laying bare the emotions and associated ideas and memories we have with the dream imagery, we gradually define our personality, its strengths and weaknesses, we discover new abilities and we grow beyond our old problems, and that in a depth we had never managed previously. I have called this mind watching, but it covers every aspect of human nature, not simply the intellect or thinking.
This mind watching through observation of our dreams first presents information about our personal experiences and memories and how they influenced our growth and influence present responses. Gradually the information arising from such watching leads beyond ones personal self. It shows in many cases how our unique self has arisen from, and has indissoluble links with our forebears, with our culture, with the past as a whole, and with the cosmos itself. It leads from oneself to the edge of the known, and perhaps helps us take a few steps beyond that edge into the unknown, to create new understanding.
This mind watching gradually reveals to us the many aspects of the mind’s working, and with such insight may come the growing ability to use these facets of ourselves. Not only may we discover great vistas of personal memory, but also the roots of our creativity, the subtle senses of our emotions and unconscious, and the treasures of experience we have gathered. See Your Amazing Circle – Self Observation
So how can we get into this magical world of our dreams and start to harvest the possibilities held there? The following pages of this book are designed to help, guide and inform on how to do this. The book is also a counsellor on what you may find in your dream adventure.
The information about dreams presented in this book has been gathered during fifty years of working with and studying dreams and the dream process. It synthesises the experience of personally helping hundreds of individuals explore their dreams. The examples used have been taken from a collection of over 8000 dreams put onto a computer filing system. The filing system was also used to define general associations with commonly used dream images.
The major input for definition however has arisen from the actual exploration of dreams undertaken by individuals. These are either people I have worked with personally who have deeply felt the emotions and issues behind their dreams, not simply talked them over and come to an intellectual interpretation but a deep insight, or are people who have written up their findings arising from similar work. Added to this is the commonly held associations we have through our language and the way we use imagery within speech. Of course your personal dream imagery may not be using the commonly held associations, or those used by other people, and so you must read the definitions with care and consider if these fit what is implied or dramatised in your dream.
In the entries in the Dictionary are explanations of the many different types of dreams and dream images. Despite some people’s attempt to explain dreams in one simple formula, dreams cover a huge range of phenomena and human experience. Amongst subjects covered in the book are thousands of entries on the researched meaning of the things, people, creatures and places we dream about. There are also many entries on special subjects such as symbols and dreaming; interpreting dreams; recurring dreams; nightmares; sex while asleep; teenage girls love dreams; precognitive dreams; talking in ones sleep; the dream as an adventure; Occultism and Dreams; science sleep and dreams; and many more.
There are a compete list of these Features and the Archetypes covered.
Therefore, if you have dreamt of such things as your teeth falling out; being chased; or your marriage partner dying, you will find an explanation of your dream in the following pages.
The aim of the book is to help you make connections between your dreams and your everyday life; to discover more fully the powerful emotions and reactions that unconsciously direct your decisions and responses in waking. The book is not an attempt to give you merely ideas to play with, to agree or disagree with, like fortune telling. It can lead to real insights which empower you to make more of yourself, and find your way through the many decisions life confronts you with.
But you can move directly on to Using the Dictionary – or better still read Meaning of Your Dream.
The Discovery of Dreams
Dreams are a magical mirror in which your innermost hopes, longings, fears/terrors and genius are made real. They are made real as external environments, people, animals and relationships. It is as if all your deepest feelings, hopes, fear and wonder are projected outward onto a multidimensional screen. It is a world of virtual reality that you feel is real. Unfortunately this wonderful virtual reality world is usually felt as dealing with other people, as externals, like something that can damage us, or something like the Devil that can possess us.
But the greatest truth I have found in exploring dreams – not interpreting them – is that we are alone with ourselves in the world of our dream. If we can acknowledge and admit that our terrors we dream are actually our past hurts that we have not faced presenting themselves for us to heal; that the ghosts and demons that can rampage about our night are embodiments of our fears; that our wonderful visions and insights are an expression of our own infinite potential, then we can walk a pathway to finding what we really are. Audio Introduction to Exploring a Dream
- Dreams are virtual realities that we create in our sleep. Even the wonderful dreams of God and angels are an external virtual reality, and mirror of our own inner immensity and our enormous variety. Unfortunately people either accept them as externally real, or as fantasy. But they are reflections of your potential, that cannot be seen in your daily life that is so dominated by your physical senses and hungers and fears.
- See The Magical Dream Machine. So the images and fears we experience in our dreams are projection upon the vast screen of our mind. They are all projections from you. Running from them is like trying to escape from yourself.
- In life and sleep we have two powerful actions working in us. The first is our waking experience based on having a body, its limitations, vulnerabilities and a particular gender. Our second is the power that gave us life and continues to express as dreams.
- While we sleep our conscious self is largely or totally unconscious, and while we sleep our voluntary muscles are paralysed – therefore another will or motivating force moves our body. So we have a Conscious Will, and what I will call a Life Will. The first one we have experience of as we can move our arm or speak in everyday activities; but the second will takes over when we sleep. See Sleep Paralysis
- This Life will can move us to speak, to move our body, and in fact do things that we cannot do with our Conscious Will. As Freud pointed out this inner will has full access to our memories. It can do so many other things that are described else where – See ESP in Dreams; Edgar Cayce and the Cosmic Mind.
- This Life Will or motivator has been active for millions of years and we see it working all the time in animals. We are partly split in half because we are often opposed to what our Life Will in us wants. So the only way to express what is good for us is in dreams when our conscious will is largely passive.
- Life Will created your body and pre-existed you as a person you know today. It was working in you prior to your ability to speak or know in the way you do now. But of course it has fantastic wisdom and skills, as can be seen in animals.
- Life, if you look around you at Life’s creature, they can take any form. So Life itself is without form. In fact the recent advances in quantum physics suggest that what gives us existence is beyond space and time – beyond understanding.
- So dreams do not come from the human unconscious, but from the formless origins of Life – our Core Self. To express in a way that is understandable to us as a person with limited understanding, dreams use all the common imagery and ideas. So people who say that dreams are a mish mash of common everyday events are mistaken. See LifeStream; Levels of Awareness in Sleeping and Waking; .
- Our core self can be explained by realising that we are all dependent on the universe. We often feel that the universe is way beyond our understanding, but a few simple facts may help. The first is that the universe as we know it began with what had been called the Big Bang. But before that there was a situation prior to the creation of time and space. That situation is very much like the experience of Edgar Cayce who had an awareness reaching beyond time and space. See God and the Big Bang are the Same Thing
- Irish physicist John Stewart Bell put forward a quantum theorem that has revolutionised the way reality is considered. In brief, the theorem states that when two sub-microscopic particles are split and moved to a distance from each other, the action on, or of, particle ‘A’, is instantaneously reproduced with particle ‘B’. This interaction does not rely on any known link or communication and is considered to stand above normal physical laws of nature, as it is faster than light. Prior to such findings it was thought nothing could transcend the speed of light. Nick Herbert, in an interview published in High Frontiers writes: ‘THERE ARE LOTS OF THINGS that are being kept from the public as far as the subjects of physics and consciousness are concerned. Bell’s Theorem was proved in 1964, and it is still not taught in physics classes, and you don’t hear it on your science news programs. A theorem is a proof, and no one has found a flaw in this theorem. It’s such a simple proof that a high school kid can understand it. So physicists can understand it. They have various ways of trying to ignore it, but it can’t be refuted because it’s so simple.’
Our Core self is that amazing part of us existing beyond time and space, and was within us from the start of our universe.
- In the world of dreams our most intimate fears and longings are given an exterior life of their own in the form of the people, objects and places of our dream. Therefore our sexual drive may be shown as a person and how we relate to them; or given shape and colour as an object; or given mood as a scene. Our feeling of ambition might thus be portrayed as a business person in our dream – our changing emotions as the sea or a river; while the present relationship we have with our ambition or emotions is expressed in the events or plot of the dream.
- You cannot be killed in a dream. All you can experience is the anguish and perhaps fear of dying, but in dreams you cannot die – or drown, or burn or any other threatening thing. We make the mistake of taking our very real values from our outer life into our inner life of dreams.
- In dreams, what ever moves away from you in our dreams is going out of your awareness or even life; and whatever moves toward us is emerging into consciousness. Whatever it is that is coming toward us is giving us something whether it is energy, insight, or a frightening dream that is trying to shock us to wake up and clear out the inner mess we are in. The fact we give it a frightening image is because we are brought up to be scared of ourselves and to not trust Life/Core. If you know the tenets of the AA, you will see that is what they are about – to trust Life.
- Most people are frightened of life. I see this in so many dreams sent to me. They do not trust themselves to the powerful action of Life flowing through them. See Life’s Little Secrets.
- We have been brain washed to believe that our existence depends upon nothing but accidental events, the survival of the fittest, the chemical and biological mechanical actions. Yet every time I have gone deeply into my ‘unconscious’ and yet maintained awareness, I have found a wonderful power of Life there.
- So if your dreams frighten you, I want to say you are frightened of something wonderful that could have grown you and enlarged your experience of yourself. The thing that was full of fear was your own fear put into an image, and yet was a wonderful gift that you avoided receiving.
- I too was full of fears and often woke up screaming. Then I learned to trust Life. It is like learning to swim. So please go back into your dream and let the fearful thing be fully experienced instead of waking up in fear. Then it will unveil itself as a thing of light and love.
Deepening Dream Understanding
I suggest you only try one method at a time and use it until you are capable or it or it doesn’t work for you, then move on to other methods taking time with them until you find what works best for you.
Although the process of dreams might not be a direct attempt to present MEANING, a dream may nevertheless have a great deal of INFORMATION in it. This becomes clearer if we remember that not many years ago it would have appeared highly superstitious or suspect to claim to be able to tell a person details of their health and parentage from a sample of their urine or blood. Today it is common practice. We accept that a growing amount of information can be gained from these unlikely sources. Blood doesn’t contain meaning, but we can gain information from it. In a similar way a sample of our dreams can also tell us an enormous amount. Sometimes this data is obvious, sometimes it needs processing to uncover, as with urine and blood.
Dream Processing – The following dream needs no deep techniques of processing. The word ‘processing’ is used throughout the book instead of analysis. Analysis has the connotation of giving our own thoughts or opinions to the dream. Processing is used to suggest extraction of information which leads to insight. With this particular dream, all it needs is a few facts brought to it to make clear what information it holds. The dream is that of a young woman, Mrs C. L.
It is a bright sunny day. I am walking across a large concrete car park. It is empty except for a huge trailer from a truck. It has BOOTS written on the side, and stands high off the ground. Being 4’ 9’ tall myself I decide to walk underneath. As I am half way the trailer starts to be lowered on top of me. I try to shout but cannot. I get onto my hands and knees and the trailer still kept coming down. I am now lying on my stomach, convinced it is going to crush me. Then it suddenly stops a couple of inches from my head. I wake feeling terrible.
The dream is interesting, although the information it holds may at first not be obvious. But with a minimum of processing the dream information will become clear. The first technique of processing the dream is to recognise some of the key statements within it. These are I AM WALKING – I TRY TO SHOUT – CONVINCED IT IS GOING TO CRUSH ME.
The reason these are key statements is because the dreamer is saying ‘I am walking’ – ‘I try to shout’ – ‘I …am convinced’. The word ‘I’ is important.
This form of processing has not added anything to the dream. It has simply drawn attention to the information already there in the dreamer’s description of her experience – this is why it is useful to write the dream out fully. If we add a little more information which the dreamer herself connects with the dream, then it becomes even clearer. Mrs C. L. says, ‘I work for BOOTS the chemist. The employees at the shop I work in were told at the beginning of the year that Boots are selling our shop. When that happens I will be made redundant. We were supposed to finish on May 26th. It is now the end of July. The deal fell through so we are now just left hanging indefinitely until a new buyer comes along. I feel very unsettled as I can’t make any plans for the future.’
Having read these comments, it would be difficult not to see the dream as relating to the woman’s work situation, and to her strong anxiety connected with it. She herself says – through her dream – she is ‘convinced it – the situation – is going to crush’ her. She also feels her strong emotions about this – expressed in her attempt to shout – are not being expressed or ‘heard’. From just this one dream, we can be forgiven if we assume that dreams may express in dramatic form our feeling reaction to the circumstances of our everyday life. Taking this dream as information, Mrs. C. L. could see she is feeling crushed by the situation, yet not stating her feelings loudly enough to be heard. She might therefore speak to the manager to clarify the situation for herself.
Here is an even shorter and less complex dream. It has been left just as it was written so its information is immediately apparent. The key words here might be TRYING TO CONTACT HIM and NOT UNDERSTANDING WHY HE LEFT ME. The dream is from Mrs C. J.
Years ago I lost my first husband at twenty nine. I had the same dream continually of being in a phone box trying to contact him, not understanding why he had left me. He died of cancer. Later I remarried and this husband died of a heart attack. Once again the same dream came back so much.
On speculating about the dream from what is immediately apparent, we might say that although it is irrational to continually try to contact her husband when there has never be any success, nevertheless, her desire to be with him continues year after year. This same part of her cannot understand why he died. We might put such feelings into words as, ‘But what had he done to die so young? Why should it happen to me twice?’ We can also assume that her desire to understand these questions, which is what contacting her husband represents, is expressed in the dream as the telephone.
The dream process has dramatised her situation and inner feelings – given them form and made them experiential. Looking at this dream helps us see how an image, such as the telephone, performs exactly the same sort of function as a spoken word, although in a different way. Namely, it represents feelings and thoughts. That the woman’s questions remain, that her problem is unsolved, is apparent from the fact she does NOT make contact on the telephone, and does not find peace. Understanding her dream shows her the importance of the questions she continually asks herself, and the need to release the emotions behind them. With this she could be free of the dream. If she cannot manage this by herself, taking advantage of the professional help of a therapist might help.
To make it clear how everything is a dream holds personal information, to give an example, I was recently asked by a man who had given no thought to dreams how on earth you could extract any meaning from them. He was wearing a fairly old T-shirt, so I said, “OK, let’s imagine you dreamt of your T-shirt, what would you make of that?”
After a while he said, “I don’t know that I would make anything of it.”
My response was to say, “Right, but now tell me where you bought the T-shirt, and what memories it has for you.” Whereupon he told me memories of being abroad, and that the shirt was part of those memories, and he wasn’t prepared to say what they were as they were so personal.
The important point is that everything we see and deal with, every person, every imagined scene, has such a background of feelings and perhaps memories. It is exactly this background of feelings and information that the dream weaves its story from. To understand it you need to become aware of the usually unconscious feeling responses you have in connection with every thing, place, person and animal you fill your dreams with.
For fuller Dream Processing – Below are described simple techniques that make it possible to quickly gain information from your dreams. They have been put as a series of questions. If you take time to consider and answer the question you will find your way into a new experience of dream understanding.
Read it in: Processing Your Dream
Seeing under the Surface
Acting on your Dreams – Extracting more from your dream by letting your body and feelings express it can provide a remarkable release of insight. There are several ways of doing this.
Do see the instructions see: Acting on Your Dreams
The Peer Dream Group – This method is the most powerful and deepest method. It includes some of the other techniques mentioned.
The way of working known as the Peer Dream Group came about from our experience that dreams are largely self explanatory if approached in the right way. An exterior expert or authority is not necessary for a profound experience of and insight into dreams and into oneself if certain rules are respected and used. The dreamer is the ultimate expert on their own dream and themselves but only when we break through to what is usually unconscious mental states, and when treated as such, and supported in their investigation of their dream drama, they can powerfully explore and manifest the resources of their inner life.
To use it see: The Peer Dream Group and What I Have Seen In Dreams
For the Dictionary put the word you want to look up in the search box at the top right of all pages
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Hi Tony, here is another dream that I had recently, after the underground dream. In my waking life I have been thinking about a career change that my dreams actually first helped me recognize and it is as though I’m being pulled in a different direction somehow. However, I have a feeling that this dream is more about my perception of others’ judgements about me as well as my own harsh judgements about myself. In the dream I was sitting in a hallway waiting for a job interview at some kind of large corporation (unlike any job I am interested in or have had). A random male school mate from university almost ten years ago (more like an acquaintance – an easy going, friendly fellow) left the interview room before me and wished me luck. I went in and sat down and there were a lot of people in the interview room including my mom, a recent teaching colleague, school children and then a few more formal interview team people. It was silent and nobody spoke so I just started to describe my work experience, trying to make myself sound great by describing the variety of job experiences I have had and my experience working with special needs children. After speaking for awhile I could sense that I wasn’t going to get the job. Specifically there was a stylish looking homosexual man who seemed very critical of me but also wanted to help me understand how I needed to improve. ( He reminded me of my best friend from university. We have lost touch over the years but still talk and visit each other occasionally.) He was critical of my shoes, which looked fine to me. They were black with small grey metal rings all over them and appeared new. He showed me his designer shoes which were also black but had a fancy/artistic gold pattern print on them and I also noticed a larger diamond shape around the gold pattern. The diamond shape was confusing because I’m not sure how it went with the shoes exactly? The last thing I recall was that I noticed a pimple on my right nostril and I was touching it self-consciously or else just noticing that it was there. I’m really not sure what to make of this dream exactly but I sense that it relates to my sensitivity to others judgements or possibly my own judgements. Perhaps that my self judgements are somehow the cause of anxiety I experience. I’m still trying to understand exactly what the significance of the shoe comparison is. Again, I would really appreciate your thoughts or any guiding questions you might have Tony! Thanks!
Sarah
Sarah – Because we usually create our dreams out of unconscous traits and beliefs we have, and you mentioned your self judgement, and there is that, but I think you are also a little passive in the way you dealt with the criticism of your shoes. See http://dreamhawk.com/dream-dictionary/active-passive/
It would have been different if you could see the criticism, but you couldn’t and you took it. To quote from the piece I suggested seeing – In the ancient view of dreams recorded in the Atharva Veda, being active or even actively aggressive, was seen as a positive sign, even if one was injured or mutilated as a result of ones active stance; whereas if the dreamer passively accepted injury in a dream this was seen as a negative implication. This was because it was felt that the active or passive stance within the dreams indicated a similar disposition during waking life. As the active person is generally more successful, the dream sign of an active disposition was seen as fortunate.
The shoe shows how you presented yourself and that was criticised, so you then notice the spot on your nose, which may be a sign that not only are u worried how you appear to others, but your ability to smell something was not right was impaired.
Listen dear Sarah, you are a lovely woman, and you ought to stand as if you are with your chest out. And don’t start thinking about how beautiful you look to others. I am not talking about that. I am talking about you as a woman. To be a woman is a wonderful thing, not be criticised by anyone. Also we all have a fantastic potential, which we do not call on it by being insecure. And we do not need to be overbearing either. I watched a documentary recently about Super Smart Animals. It seems to me from that, that every living thing has been born with a divine intelligence. There was just one example of a parrot that was brought up like a child, explaining everything – this is a book, that is red, this is a key – and the parrot could talk, not just repeating things. It brought tears to my eyes.
We all put ourselves down, day after day. And we do it to animals also. So please shine Sarah.
Tony
Thanks once again Tony! Your response gives me a lot to think about and compliments the ideas and self-concepts I’ve been examining recently. I am coming to discover and nurture the fantastic potential within myself. It goes hand in hand with releasing all of the false notions, limitations and fear that we all seem to be carrying insides of us. I do realize that I have been too passive when it comes to embracing my inner gifts and listening to my heart/spirit. I believe that as I focus my heart and mind on the divine intelligence within myself, my path will be made clear and I will shine brighter than I can even now imagine. I am excited to see where my new beliefs and attitudes will take me as I continue the journey! Many thanks for all of your insights and all the light you shine on so many inner worlds through your work! 🙂
Sarah
Sarah – thank you for sharing so much of you in the words you sent.
I am excited to see where you go too.
I send much love.
Tony
I send much love straight back to you Tony! You’re an amazing blessing to so many, more than you can probably imagine! 🙂
Sarah
Sarah – That means so much to me.
Thank you.
Tony
Hi Tony,
Here is a recent dream that I would appreciate your thoughts on. It began with me driving a new, blue car (which I have been hoping to be able to afford in my waking life) into an underground parking area and I had the sense that I was on my way to shop at a mall in a large city (I live in a small city that does not have malls like this).I was alone and didn’t see any other characters in this dream. I chose to park near the entrance/exit because I thought the car would be safer there and it would be easier to exit the parking lot later, so I wouldn’t get lost in the city. After I parked I removed the steering wheel, which was a safety feature of the car meant to prevent theft. Afterward the car disappeared from the dream but that didn’t concern me. I hid the wheel in a small pile of old looking junk that was the parking stall I had parked the car in. After hiding it I wanted to double check that I could find it again but I couldn’t. It was dark and I couldn’t see it. I looked and looked but I still couldn’t find it and I couldn’t see it, which made me a bit frustrated. A room then appeared on my right (beside the entrance/exit) and I entered it thinking that maybe somehow my steering wheel was inside. The room looked like a room in a cabin (again the cabin appears like in my kitten dream). In the room there were photographs of abused women on the wall. The pictures showed the wounds rather than the actual people…just close up photos of wounds and I wondered what dark person lived in the room. However, I recall not being fearful because somehow I knew that the resident of the room would not be returning while I was there and that I was safe. The wheel was not in the room so I left. After that I found my wheel in the junk pile easily and I was happy that I found it. That is all I recall. I have a sense that the underground setting represents going into my subconscious and maybe the fact I parked near the entrance is because I am apprehensive about going too deep. Also, I think the steering wheel relates to how I feel like I have misplaced my direction in life or that I have hidden it in my ‘inner’ junk. I have been feeling stuck lately, unsure how to move forward and the car disappearing seems related to opportunities I am seeking that seem to elude me. Also, I believe that the pictures on the walls are symbolic of wounds I have suffered in the past that I carry within me that are now surfacing for healing. The reason I wasn’t afraid of the resident coming back is because that’s my room within myself. I would appreciate any thoughts you have Tony. Thanks! 🙂
Sarah – Hello again. It’s good to be considering another of your dreams. It is also good to see you are really looking into your dreams – the comments at the end.
The new car is obviously your hopes or plans for the future of your inner life. And the mall in the big city suggests that you will be entering an area of our experience with much wider choices. Such changes are usually subtle but can be seen when you look back after several months.
The underground parking area I think you have it already understood. Also I get the impression you are a very independent and self sufficient person. But there is a hint of anxiety shown in a couple of places – the worry about getting lost; the idea that your car could be stolen, and that you didn’t want to go too deep.
I think it is the junk we have within us that hides the steering wheel – the ability to go where you want – not that you hide it. It is my experience that junk is near the surface of our mind, and the deeper you get the clearer it gets. You couldn’t find the steering wheel there because it was dark – no understanding or insight. So you go back to the cabin type room returning to the lessons from your past maybe. Whatever, it brings clearness and you find the wheel.
Because you entered the fairly surface level of your inner life, you met the images of the wounds, a positive step.
I feel as if you are now moving towards a dazzling light; dazzling because you are not used to it. But it soon become normal for you and in it you will find healing.
Tony
Thank you for sharing your thoughts Tony! My ability to understand my dreams has been gradually improving and it’s greatly supporting my healing, learning and spiritual growth. As I turn inward the light only gets brighter! 🙂 I’m still working on understanding exactly what my gifts are but the teachers are showing up and my lessons are becoming more easy to recognize. I’ve come to recognize patience and perseverance are both key. Many thanks for your thoughts!
Sarah
Dear Tony,
no matter where I look, I cannot find a hint to interpret a dream of mine I had last night. I was at a train station with some friends of mine, but I didn’t try to take a train, we were watching trains arriving from distant destinations, guessing where a train was coming from. There was quite a lot of turmoil and chaos, but I was good at spotting the starting destination of the train.
After that I went out of the train station along the rails and down the sandy hill with a great view on a big city. It was difficult to walk back up the hill because my feet got stuck in the sand, and still I made it up the hill.
Please, help me to understand my dream. Thank you for your time!
Audrey – An interesting dream that is, I believe a form of intuition or ‘sight’.
A group of you are guessing where were a train has come from. And a train is often about something that can only go where the rails take it. And so knowing where the train came from is knowledge of the past, perhaps your own past and where it has led you.
The interesting part of the dream for me is that after that you went out of the station down a sandy hill with a great view of a big city. Any hill gives you a good view of your surroundings, and so is like having a view of your future choices, where you can go and even how to get there. And of course it was difficult to get up the hill again because a higher vision is difficult to achieve.
The turmoil and chaos were things you may have to face in the future, but it was not difficult for you – because you have the sight.
Tony
Hello, I’ve been dreaming of the younger version of a guy I’ve gotten back into contact with and I used to love him when I was twelve. In all my dreams I’m speaking to him and then he turns into the twelve year-old version of himself.
Are my dreams telling me that I’m still in love with who he was at 12-14 years old?
happy new year,
Kara
Hello! Dreamed as my husband one feeds with hearts of the snakes, huge black, they choke.
I run in a room and I pray to god. I hear an echo of the prayer. Light is over me shed. I feel calm.
Alex – I think I understand that you dreamt of eating hearts of black snakes, and he chokes.
It is a good thing that you prayed to God for help, for that took away all the poisonous blackness and gave you peace and light.
Tony
i had this dream like a few nights ago & this is what happened…
so i was in the car with my ex boyfriend & my boyfriend and my sisters and my cousins and i was inside the car i cant remember what i was doing but the point is that my boyfriend was outside and this girl i dont like got there with her mom and her aunt and then my boyfriend started talking to her and touvhing her like if she was his girlfroend and they got in the car and she was sitting on top of him and they were both facing us(everyone i mentioned earlier in the car) and i wa just staring at them so i told all the kids (sisters and cousins) to go outside and play so they went out to play and my ex boyriend and i went outside the car to this house we were parked outside of and we were in there for a while just watching my boyfriend and that girl act like they were dating. so them a bit after my sisters and cousins came back saying that they wanted to leave so we all got in the car and my boyfriend didnt know that i was watching him do what he was doing and when we got to the car i wouldnt let him in the car i locked the doors on him and then he kept playing with that girl that i dont like so then he told her that he hoped to see her again and all i did was i reversed the car all fast about it and opened the door and grabbed her when i was passing by her, i pulled her hair and that swhen my boyfriend noticed i had been watching him and he just ran off and so then i pulled the girls hair and i got out of the car and i can remember telling her “dont fucking try talking to my man again bitch” and i slapped her and then i put her to the floor and just started scratching her face on the street floor and i said “i hope you try pulling some shit like this again” and when i turned her over so that i would be looking at her face sh ehad no face. well at least i couldnt see it she had something black covering it. and then i said to her okay so andres(my boyfriend) wanted to see you, ill let him see you. but the thing i cant explain is that when i lloked at her face i couldnt see it it was covered with something black hen i out ther in the car and started driving off and then i called my boyfriend and asked him where he was and he told me and i drove over there and i got out of he car and told him you wanted to see her again motherfucker well here she is and i pulled her out of the front seat and she was dead and i just closed the door and got in my car and drove off with my ex and my sisters and cousins. what does this mean???
Magalynoemi – Wow!! You have a lot of fear that you will lose your boyfriend to another girl. Also you are full of envy, anger and hate, and that is not good for you. Those sorts of emotions poison your system and lead to illness. See http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/emotions/
And in the end you did not get what you wanted – your boyfriend. Also dreams are a video game sort of thing that you create in you sleep. There is nobody else there with you while you dream. So your dream may simply be a poisonous experience without any outside influence.
Tony
well i had this dream just last night. i was carrying my unborn babygirl (shes still in my stomach) well in the dream she was born and well i was trying to feed her and she wouldnt want me to and then she started to throw out this yellow stuff from her nose then i went to this one store and i asked them if they had a bed and the lady said yes and she brought a ladder and she put it up and i climbed up then i layed down my baby but she kind of like cryed she didnt want the milk and then i woke up. what does this mean?
Aurora – The dream is about being rejected by someone – the baby – that you are trying out care for. I have a sense that this is a way of showing you what you felt as a baby. Such dreams are difficult but are a way of healing the past. I have explored such dreams myself, where I dreamt of deformed young girls. But when I felt the feelings behind the image it was all about my own hurt baby self. A quick way of doing this is to realise that the images in our dreams are just emotions, thoughts and feeling taking or presenting themselves as images and drama, and if you take away the images of the baby and see what you feel you have the real meaning. See http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/acting-on-your-dream/
Tony
I CAN FLY IN MY DREAMS
Charles – Wonderful.
Keep it up.
Tony
Hey Tony,
I really like this site. I’ve been coming on here all year. Always amazed on what i will find on this site. Your a true friend of spirit.
Thank you
Nathan – Thank you for what you said. I feel we all need encouragement, myself included.
Today I added http://dreamhawk.com/stories/the-house-of-the-ancestors/ It is under stories, but is about a bit of my story.
Tony
im 16 n ive been having 1 weird but enjoying n uh lot of other nightmare stuff pretty cool tho, the weird one pretty simple, its dark out, in my room, on the bed bangin sum girl n idk who it it but she’s fine, blond hair smooth back, n i had it couple times throughout my life 1st 6th age idk,2nd not sur i just remember, but this time was different, this time she turned around saw her face,when i woke up i 4got wut she looked lik, 3rd year ago mybe all same except she was black, hmm, nlt sure wht was goin on, but yea enjoying b nice 2 kno y… now the weird creepy, the dreams tht wake me up n stuff but there kindov cool, one was me, dad his gf, her son n my bro were in a red convertable,on a high fricking bridge, errbodys havein uh good time then all of a sudden we turn break through side of bridge n sum how launch up as if hittin the side was a jump but thers debris n were just nose diving this car n i cnt friken breath, loud as if jupin out uh plan, inches b4 hitih,lights ,blackness,wake screami n im lik w
Smokey/Jamez – The only thing you need to be scared of is fear. Nothing can hurt you in dreams – it is like computer games, you can be killed over and over and play again. Falling is an old way too create your own scary dream images. But once you get the hang of it you can fall without fear. As one dream expert says, ‘If you feel yourself falling spread your arms and learn how to fly’.
Tony
i’m only 14 and i have been having the oddest dream lately and i cant understgand why. it’s of me running now a street from where i live, but it’s dark and all i can see is a shadow behind me , running after me and from no wear my best friend appears and looks at me , then walks away. what does this mean ? i’ve had this dream for almost 4 weeks now, and i’m kind scared of scared.
please with all hope awnser , thannkyou!
im 16 years old, n dnt but shit confuses me wen i was lik 9 or 10 or sumshit i would have dreams, like lots of people, tht u see the future ,ur future idk it varies, but the thing tht confuses me most is tht ive lived tht same dream 3 differnt times all diff ages idk wut 2 mke of it but each time was excactly the same except, there wurnt fukin aliens wen i lived it, just the dream, idk might be goin crazy lots weird shit n dreams, almost lik there altered or sumshit
Jamez – I doubt very much that you are crazy, but I do know that some of the ideas and information that are put about can really create the shit you are meeting.
Tony
I don’t know if this was a dream or not but it happened about an hour ago. I fell asleep around 1 am when all the sudden I saw a red/orange light coming through my window and eventually lighting up my whole room. I woke up very quickly (around 2) cause I started to feel uncomfortable. I then received a text from my boyfriend and my best friend within a minute of each other. My friend needed help with a situation and my boyfriend all the sudden became very ill and needed to talk to me. Im a very heavy sleeper, and now I am wide awake wondering what this light was. Can you explain this please? Thanks!
I’m only 14 years old and I had this very odd dream and was wondering what it means . Here’s the dream I was at a dinner or tea party I was the only human the rest were dogs talking and acting like human’s even smoking and eating with a knife and folk and them I rung a bell to get a drink and a waiter came out of no wear and it was my dog coco walking like a human and talking too that’s all i remember . Coco’s my best friend and hes an amazing dog and its funny because everyone tells me how he’s like a real baby he’s only 3 years old and very well trained . Please tell me what this means
Hi no matter what i dream a man the same man appears in my dreams. He stands with his back to me so i do not see his face. He appeared in every dream so far for 3 weeks now. What does this mean? Kind Regards. Nicolene
i need to know what does my dream mean. i keep dreaming that my friend leaves her baby daddy & then he and my boyfriend start looking for each other.