Dream Dictionary
Dream Dictionary
Online Dream Dictionary & Encyclopedia
by Tony Crisp
The Spanish Dictionary is all the work and effort placed in it, as well as many excellent dream interpretations all by Anna Hoser,
Introduction
The latest edition of the Dream Dictionary and Dream Encylopedia is the result of some sixty years experience of working with dreams and their understanding. The Dream Dictionary encompassing articles on a vast range of topics. This gives the reader an unparalleled insight into the study of dreams and the inner life. But there are an enormous amount of Features in the Dream Encylopedia that cover a range of topics about dreams and the inner life.
The aim of the Dream Dictionary is to help you make connections between your dreams and your everyday life; to discover more fully the powerful emotions and reactions that unconsciously direct your decisions and responses in waking. This is not an attempt to give you merely ideas to play with, to agree or disagree with, like fortune telling. It can lead to real insights which empower you to make more of yourself, and find your way through the many decisions with which life confronts you.
Useful Links
Your Guru Your Body
What Are Dreams
Learn how to Interpret Your Dream
What does my dream mean? – How to explore your dream meaning
Personal Dream Interpretation
A Note About the Author: Tony Crisp
Mind Watching and Dreams
Introduction to Using the Dream Dictionary
Using the Dictionary
The Discovery of Dreams – Things We Need to Remember About Us
Gaining Insight into Your Dreams
Acknowledgement to this Edition
What Is Offered In The Dictionary
The Discovery of Dreams
Deepening Dream Understanding
Seeing under the Surface
Exploring Inner Space
Things I Wished I Had Had Been Taught Earlier in My Life
Features Found on Site: this is a full list of the topics covered by the Dream Encyclopedia (not a list of dream dictionary words).
What Are Dreams?
Dreams are one of nature’s miracles, not the result of a wandering mind in sleep. A dream is an interface between the process of life, our core self and our conscious personality. Life existed quite capably for millions of years before the self-aware human personality came on the scene. In all that time the ancestors of the modern human being survived without having a rational mind to reason with, or self consciousness to ask such questions as ‘What do I do about this?’ Nevertheless survival strategies were still developed in their unconscious intelligence. Dreams express this unconscious wisdom that was developed in humans and animals through millions of years of Life experience.
Life’s age old unconscious processes are still the major part of our being, yet we seldom consciously meet them – except in dreams. As our physical and psychological health depend upon a reasonable co-operation between the spontaneous processes of life – such as breathing, digestion and the thousands of other life sustaining activities and our conscious decisions and actions, the encounter in dreams is vital. As I often point out to those I am advising we are a human face on a long line of beautiful animals. In fact “You ride an ancient beast.” The ancient beast is your body, and your conscious self is the modern and recent rider of it. Some ‘riders’ do not understand their animal needs – and the fact that we have several levels of brain that are independent of each other proves this. Still active in us are our Reptile Brain, Our mammalian Brain, and our Human Brain, and the reptile and mammalian brains are still very active and constitute a large part of our human unconscious. See – Brain Levels and Dreams – Life’s Little Secrets and Levels of Awareness in Sleeping and Waking.
So, no plant or creature grows from a dead seed, and each living seed carries within it all the past gathered from all its forebears. So, the seed in your mother’s womb is as old as and even older than human kind, and you carry that wisdom or memories in you. But in this life you developed a new brain, and the memories you gathered this time are what you built your personality from, but beneath that is a very ancient self. To meet this ancient self try using Opening to Life
That suggests that dreams cannot be defined under any one heading. Like human beings, they are enormously varied in what they express. Just as one cannot say the human mind is simply a system of memory, one cannot say dreams are just the reflection of experienced events. The mind also deals with problem solving, predicting outcomes of action, playing with possibilities via imagination, creating the new out of old material, replaying traumatic and disturbing events in order to find ways of meeting them constructively. Dreams, being the mental phenomena they are, deal with all of these issues and more. The following definitions give the main functions observable in dreams.
Dreams are:-
- Dreams are one of nature’s miracles, not the result of a wandering mind in sleep. A dream is an interface between the process of life, our core self and our conscious personality. Life existed quite capably for millions of years before the self-aware human personality came on the scene. In all that time the ancestors of the modern human being survived without having a rational mind to reason with, or self consciousness to ask such questions as ‘What do I do about this?’ Nevertheless survival strategies were still developed in their unconscious intelligence. Dreams express this unconscious wisdom that was developed in humans and animals through millions of years of Life experience.
- Recently I have come to see dreams as the lonely voice of Life calling out to us in our often frantic search for meaning. It calls out from its vastness that is beyond our understanding, and in its loving efforts gathers the fragments of our memory and associations and forms dreams with them. It does this in its efforts to instruct, guide and even heal us; but often we miss seeing that just as Life reaches to us from its vastness using things we might understand, we too must reach beyond our often pitiful understanding to move toward and touch the wonder of Life within us.
- An expression of what is happening in the physical body. Some doctors consider dreams to show signs of illness long before they are evident in other ways. Women frequently know they are pregnant very early on through sleep awareness in a dream. See: body; body dreams; Kasatkin_Vasily; consciousness-mind body split.
- A link between the sleeping mind and what is occurring externally. For instance, a person may be falling out of bed and dream of flying or falling.
- A way of balancing the physiological and psychological activities in us. When a person is deprived of dreaming in experiments, a breakdown in mind and body quickly occurs. This type of dreaming, or even nightmares, can often be a safety valve releasing tension and emotion not dealt with in waking life. See: compensation theory; self-regulation dreams and fantasy; science and dreams.
- An enormously original source of insight and information. Dreams tap our memory, our experience, and scan information held in our unconscious to form new insights from old experience. Dreams often present to us summaries or details of experience we have been unable to access consciously. Sometimes this is as early as life in the womb. See: creativity and problem solving in dreams.
- That insight comes from an amazing ability dreams have. Mostly we are lost in being aware of this moment or cares of recent events, and of our present environment, but the dream process has another view, that is of our whole life, like flying high and so have a huge view. We have taken in so much life experience, but many of us have not learnt the amazing lessons we gained by it. But the overall view we get from dreams, visions and our intuition gives us a view that synthesises or whole life and highlights its wonder, its destiny, our real purpose and our life’s real work. See Intuition – Using It
- A means of compensating for failure or deprivation in everyday life, and as a means of expressing the otherwise unacknowledged aspects of oneself. Such dreams are a move toward wholeness. See: compensation theory.
- In dreams we may be integrating new experience with what we have already gathered and digested. In this way our abilities, such as social skills, are gradually upgraded. See: computer, computer-dream process as a; Evans, Christopher.
- Dreams often stand in place of actual experience. So through dreams we may experiment with new experience or practice things we have not yet done externally. For instance many young women dream in detail of giving birth. This function of what might be called ‘imagination’ is tremendously undervalued, but is a foundation upon which human survival is built. See: imagination and dreaming.
- An means of exercise for the psyche or soul. Just as the body will become sick if not moved and stressed, so the mind and emotions need stimulus and exercise. Dreams fulfill this need. See Opening to Life
- An expression of human supersenses. Humans have an unconscious ability to read body language – so they can assess other humans very quickly. Humans have an unimaginable ability to absorb information, not simply from books, but from everyday events – for example science now tells us that we collect information at an enormous rate, millions of bits every second, but unfortunately we do not synthesis it to see what it means, for most of it is unconscious, only dreams access and use it. With it they constantly arrive at new insights and realisations. Humans frequently correctly predict the future – not out of a bizarre ability, but from the information gathered about the present. All these abilities and more show in our dreams. See: esp in dreams.
- A means of solving problems, or formulating creative ideas, both in our personal life, and also in relationships and work. Many people have produced highly creative work directly from dreams. See Creative Dreaming and Problem Solving
- A presentation in symbols of past traumatic experience. If met this can lead to deep psychological healing. Such dreams are therefore an attempt on the part of our spontaneous inner processes to bring about healing change. See: abreaction; compensation theory; nightmares.
- In the widest sense nearly all dreams act as a process of growth or a move toward maturing. Some dreams are very obviously presenting internal forces or dimensions of experience that might lead the conscious personality toward a greater balance and inclusiveness. See: individuation; LifeStream.
- A way of reaching beyond the known world of experience and presenting intimations from the unknown. Many people have dreams in which ESP, out of the body experiences, and knowledge transcending time and space occur. This type of dream may indicate a link between the present person and people who had lived in the distant past; or between the dreamer and all existing life. Some of these dreams present powerful insights into how the transitory human personality may arise out of an eternal consciousness. They thus deal with the spiritual aspects of human nature. See: Dimensions of Human Experience; Buddhism and dreams; Cayce, Edgar; collective unconscious; Bible and dreams; esp in dreams; hallucinations; history of dreaming; religion and dreams; yoga and dreams; Dream Yoga.
Learn how to Explore Your Dream
I know how much you might like to skip the Introduction to Dream Dictionary, and if you are tempted to do so, I wholeheartedly ask you to read Summing Up. Without understanding the things given there you are likely to completely miss the point of understanding your dreams. The best technique to enter you dream world – Peer Dream Work
You can start using the Dream Dictionary by entering the word you wish to research into the Search Box on the top right of most pages and clicking the search symbol – or you can read some fuller information below about the dictionary and how best to use it.
But the quickest way is to put your word in the search box.
Your dreams can become vortexes of power to transform your life, and to enhance your perceptions. There is no ‘wave a magic wand’ route to this. It will not happen because you read a great book or look at a good dream dictionary. Those things might help, but the real magic lies in whether you can enter into your dream in the right way. (Try using Being the Person or Thing and Meaning of Your Dream).
What does my dream mean? – How to explore your dream meanings
It is important in reading the definitions of dream images to realise that not every possible meaning can be covered in this dictionary. So please see if you get the idea of what is being said and allow your own imagination/feelings to fill in the meaning.
There are several ways you can understand the meanings held in your dreams, and there are several levels.
The first is an easily understood level, followed by greater depths:
For instance, speaking as an object or dream person, one needs to take time with it. Learn how to actually describe what you are as that dream object or person. If I dream of a dog, don’t simply describe what you think a dog feels like, but actually take time to tune into the dream image and describe the dog dreamt about. Is it an old or young dog? What is it doing in the dream? Listen to your feelings and describe what it/you feel. Remember that each image is a creation of your own mind and unconscious, so you are really describing yourself. Say whatever comes and consider its value afterwards. Below is a quote from Tiziana Stupia’s book Meeting Shiva
Tony taught me a process in which a dream could be interpreted and understood by assuming that everything, people and objects alike, in a dream represented aspects of the Self. Sitting cross-legged on the squishy, old-fashioned sofa in the living room of my sadhu’s cave opposite Tony, I’d close my eyes and mentally return to a dream I had the previous night. He would ask me questions about the dream, which I’d answer in the first person. So if I dreamt about a tree, I would ‘become’ the tree, assume its personality and respond from its viewpoint. He’d ask ‘So what kind of tree are you? Are you big or small, old or young? What do you look like? Where are you growing? Why are you in Tiziana’s dream?’
This sounded like a silly exercise at first, but I was soon enough convinced of its validity. It was fascinating to discover a wealth of insight and emotion emerging from my responses, and understand how they related to my current situation. They also pinpointed exactly where I was in my growth process. Sometimes, the dreams would uncover unconscious fears and intuitions. Often, they also held important clues and offered solutions to my problems. It was like doing detective’s work – arduous at times, but rewarding beyond belief.
So below are listed several ways to gain insight and information from your dreams. Take your time with each approach until you get the feel for it, and then experiment with other approaches.
You can enter a key word in the search box. The Dream Dictionary contains interpretations on almost any type of dream subject. So, if you dreamt of a flying saucer landing in a field, and aliens getting out and taking a baby, a snake, and a pregnant dog back into the saucer, you could search separately for each of these subjects in the Dream Dictionary. Find the entry for flying saucer; then the entry for dog, baby, snake, pregnant, and so on. For each entry, find further related entries by looking under ‘Similar Articles’ on the right-hand side of the page. Then see Techniques for Exploring your Dreams.
Each entry gives the general meaning of the dream subject, just as an encyclopedia or dictionary does for a word. Several possible meanings are given. This is because as with our speech the position of the word – the context – gives it special meanings. So, a hot dog would be quite different to a black dog, dog-end or dead dog. Therefore, when you read an entry which has several different meanings, sometimes with a ‘;’ between, it simply means any one of them could apply, which means you need to think about the feelings in your dream, the context, the other imagery used. Please do not fall into the trap that one reviewer made of saying that the whole dictionary is about sex. Of course, sex is one meaning among many others. So, use your own sense of your dream as well as any definitions given.
To really explore the meaning, it is useful to use the Dream Dictionary as it is designed, rather than arrive at a ‘thought out’ interpretation. To see a working example of this see ‘Dream Interpretation Example One‘.
Personal Dream Interpretation
I no longer offer a personal dream interpretation service, but only occasionally if you manage to send an interesting dream I will respond – the reason is I am getting past my sell by date being 84.
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In the meantime, here is a way to work out your own dream – Getting at Your Dream’s Meaning.
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A Note About the Author: Tony Crisp
I have been interested in the health of mind and body since my early teens. I began writing about these subjects in 1956. My fascination for what lay under the surface of the mind led me personally to explore the unconscious using dreams and other mental and physical disciplines. From 1972 – 94 I worked as a psychotherapist using an eclectic, Humanistic Psychology approach which included dream work and releasing the secrets the body holds. My books include Do You Dream; Mind and Movement; The Instant Dream Book; Dream Dictionary; Life’s Little Secrets –Liberating The Body – and many more. See My Books.
During those years I worked as a dream columnist for The Daily Mail and She Magazine. I was the regular dream interpreter for the London Broadcasting Company; I ran Teletext’s dream page on UK television’s Channel Four; and for New Zealand Teletext, and now I run this website giving dream help in the many replies to peoples dreams and in as well as many features on subjects connected with the human inner world. See Features
Throughout more than five decades I have been involved in a personal search for the secrets of mind and spirit. In those years I have also taught thousands of people techniques of deep relaxation, meditation, and methods of self exploration using dreams. Wanting to dig deep I explored the use of dreams and taught individuals and groups of people how to use these visions of the night to discover and heal the deepest issues in themselves, and to touch the high ground of their spiritual awareness. I worked for twenty years as a psychotherapist using several approaches, one of which was a way of honouring the body as a doorway to the unconscious mind, the emotions and spiritual experience. See Self-Regulation – Recognition – Life’s Little Secrets – The LifeStream and Opening to Life
During the sixty years of seeking the wild wondrous beasts of the mind and spirit I dared my own inner adventure. But I also travelled with other people as an ordinary person, not a therapist, sharing their experience of fear and wonder as they unveiled and set loose their fountain of perception. I have travelled countless dream pathways, traversed the timeless with those using awareness enhancing drugs, and wrestled with the vitality of the body as people mimed and shouted their deepest intuitions through movement, dance and voice. See Tony’s Biography
My aim has always to share my findings – actually what I was shown or given from within – was given freely; I never had any teacher or attended a course, of course I read an enormous amount, so I cannot ask for money. If you wish to donate anything to the running of the site you can do so by clicking on https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&hosted_button_id=JYTWAMC4LQLQ4&source=url
My teacher has been from exploring dreams and occasionally touching the wonder we were born as – not from words written in books about that but by meeting it. See Enlightenment
Introduction to Using the Dream Dictionary
Diccionario de los Sueños
Profundización de la comprensión de un sueño; Introducción
What Is Offered In The Dictionary
In a similar way, by observing dreams and laying bare the emotions and associated ideas and memories we have with the dream imagery, we gradually define our personality, its strengths and weaknesses, we discover new abilities and we grow beyond our old problems, and that in a depth we had never managed previously. I have called this mind watching, but it covers every aspect of human nature, not simply the intellect or thinking.
This mind watching through observation of our dreams first presents information about our personal experiences and memories and how they influenced our growth and influence present responses. Gradually the information arising from such watching leads beyond ones personal self. It shows in many cases how our unique self has arisen from, and has indissoluble links with our forebears, with our culture, with the past as a whole, and with the cosmos itself. It leads from oneself to the edge of the known, and perhaps helps us take a few steps beyond that edge into the unknown, to create new understanding.
This mind watching gradually reveals to us the many aspects of the mind’s working, and with such insight may come the growing ability to use these facets of ourselves. Not only may we discover great vistas of personal memory, but also the roots of our creativity, the subtle senses of our emotions and unconscious, and the treasures of experience we have gathered. See Your Amazing Circle – Self Observation
So how can we get into this magical world of our dreams and start to harvest the possibilities held there? The following pages of this book are designed to help, guide and inform on how to do this. The book is also a counsellor on what you may find in your dream adventure.
The information about dreams presented in this book has been gathered during fifty years of working with and studying dreams and the dream process. It synthesises the experience of personally helping hundreds of individuals explore their dreams. The examples used have been taken from a collection of over 8000 dreams put onto a computer filing system. The filing system was also used to define general associations with commonly used dream images.
The major input for definition however has arisen from the actual exploration of dreams undertaken by individuals. These are either people I have worked with personally who have deeply felt the emotions and issues behind their dreams, not simply talked them over and come to an intellectual interpretation but a deep insight, or are people who have written up their findings arising from similar work. Added to this is the commonly held associations we have through our language and the way we use imagery within speech. Of course your personal dream imagery may not be using the commonly held associations, or those used by other people, and so you must read the definitions with care and consider if these fit what is implied or dramatised in your dream.
In the entries in the Dictionary are explanations of the many different types of dreams and dream images. Despite some people’s attempt to explain dreams in one simple formula, dreams cover a huge range of phenomena and human experience. Amongst subjects covered in the book are thousands of entries on the researched meaning of the things, people, creatures and places we dream about. There are also many entries on special subjects such as symbols and dreaming; interpreting dreams; recurring dreams; nightmares; sex while asleep; teenage girls love dreams; precognitive dreams; talking in ones sleep; the dream as an adventure; Occultism and Dreams; science sleep and dreams; and many more.
There are a compete list of these Features and the Archetypes covered.
Therefore, if you have dreamt of such things as your teeth falling out; being chased; or your marriage partner dying, you will find an explanation of your dream in the following pages.
The aim of the book is to help you make connections between your dreams and your everyday life; to discover more fully the powerful emotions and reactions that unconsciously direct your decisions and responses in waking. The book is not an attempt to give you merely ideas to play with, to agree or disagree with, like fortune telling. It can lead to real insights which empower you to make more of yourself, and find your way through the many decisions life confronts you with.
But you can move directly on to Using the Dictionary – or better still read Meaning of Your Dream.
The Discovery of Dreams
Dreams are a magical mirror in which your innermost hopes, longings, fears/terrors and genius are made real. They are made real as external environments, people, animals and relationships. It is as if all your deepest feelings, hopes, fear and wonder are projected outward onto a multidimensional screen. It is a world of virtual reality that you feel is real. Unfortunately this wonderful virtual reality world is usually felt as dealing with other people, as externals, like something that can damage us, or something like the Devil that can possess us.
But the greatest truth I have found in exploring dreams – not interpreting them – is that we are alone with ourselves in the world of our dream. If we can acknowledge and admit that our terrors we dream are actually our past hurts that we have not faced presenting themselves for us to heal; that the ghosts and demons that can rampage about our night are embodiments of our fears; that our wonderful visions and insights are an expression of our own infinite potential, then we can walk a pathway to finding what we really are. Audio Introduction to Exploring a Dream
- Dreams are virtual realities that we create in our sleep. Even the wonderful dreams of God and angels are an external virtual reality, and mirror of our own inner immensity and our enormous variety. Unfortunately people either accept them as externally real, or as fantasy. But they are reflections of your potential, that cannot be seen in your daily life that is so dominated by your physical senses and hungers and fears.
- See The Magical Dream Machine. So the images and fears we experience in our dreams are projection upon the vast screen of our mind. They are all projections from you. Running from them is like trying to escape from yourself.
- In life and sleep we have two powerful actions working in us. The first is our waking experience based on having a body, its limitations, vulnerabilities and a particular gender. Our second is the power that gave us life and continues to express as dreams.
- While we sleep our conscious self is largely or totally unconscious, and while we sleep our voluntary muscles are paralysed – therefore another will or motivating force moves our body. So we have a Conscious Will, and what I will call a Life Will. The first one we have experience of as we can move our arm or speak in everyday activities; but the second will takes over when we sleep. See Sleep Paralysis
- This Life will can move us to speak, to move our body, and in fact do things that we cannot do with our Conscious Will. As Freud pointed out this inner will has full access to our memories. It can do so many other things that are described else where – See ESP in Dreams; Edgar Cayce and the Cosmic Mind.
- This Life Will or motivator has been active for millions of years and we see it working all the time in animals. We are partly split in half because we are often opposed to what our Life Will in us wants. So the only way to express what is good for us is in dreams when our conscious will is largely passive.
- Life Will created your body and pre-existed you as a person you know today. It was working in you prior to your ability to speak or know in the way you do now. But of course it has fantastic wisdom and skills, as can be seen in animals.
- Life, if you look around you at Life’s creature, they can take any form. So Life itself is without form. In fact the recent advances in quantum physics suggest that what gives us existence is beyond space and time – beyond understanding.
- So dreams do not come from the human unconscious, but from the formless origins of Life – our Core Self. To express in a way that is understandable to us as a person with limited understanding, dreams use all the common imagery and ideas. So people who say that dreams are a mish mash of common everyday events are mistaken. See LifeStream; Levels of Awareness in Sleeping and Waking; .
- Our core self can be explained by realising that we are all dependent on the universe. We often feel that the universe is way beyond our understanding, but a few simple facts may help. The first is that the universe as we know it began with what had been called the Big Bang. But before that there was a situation prior to the creation of time and space. That situation is very much like the experience of Edgar Cayce who had an awareness reaching beyond time and space. See God and the Big Bang are the Same Thing
- Irish physicist John Stewart Bell put forward a quantum theorem that has revolutionised the way reality is considered. In brief, the theorem states that when two sub-microscopic particles are split and moved to a distance from each other, the action on, or of, particle ‘A’, is instantaneously reproduced with particle ‘B’. This interaction does not rely on any known link or communication and is considered to stand above normal physical laws of nature, as it is faster than light. Prior to such findings it was thought nothing could transcend the speed of light. Nick Herbert, in an interview published in High Frontiers writes: ‘THERE ARE LOTS OF THINGS that are being kept from the public as far as the subjects of physics and consciousness are concerned. Bell’s Theorem was proved in 1964, and it is still not taught in physics classes, and you don’t hear it on your science news programs. A theorem is a proof, and no one has found a flaw in this theorem. It’s such a simple proof that a high school kid can understand it. So physicists can understand it. They have various ways of trying to ignore it, but it can’t be refuted because it’s so simple.’
Our Core self is that amazing part of us existing beyond time and space, and was within us from the start of our universe.
- In the world of dreams our most intimate fears and longings are given an exterior life of their own in the form of the people, objects and places of our dream. Therefore our sexual drive may be shown as a person and how we relate to them; or given shape and colour as an object; or given mood as a scene. Our feeling of ambition might thus be portrayed as a business person in our dream – our changing emotions as the sea or a river; while the present relationship we have with our ambition or emotions is expressed in the events or plot of the dream.
- You cannot be killed in a dream. All you can experience is the anguish and perhaps fear of dying, but in dreams you cannot die – or drown, or burn or any other threatening thing. We make the mistake of taking our very real values from our outer life into our inner life of dreams.
- In dreams, what ever moves away from you in our dreams is going out of your awareness or even life; and whatever moves toward us is emerging into consciousness. Whatever it is that is coming toward us is giving us something whether it is energy, insight, or a frightening dream that is trying to shock us to wake up and clear out the inner mess we are in. The fact we give it a frightening image is because we are brought up to be scared of ourselves and to not trust Life/Core. If you know the tenets of the AA, you will see that is what they are about – to trust Life.
- Most people are frightened of life. I see this in so many dreams sent to me. They do not trust themselves to the powerful action of Life flowing through them. See Life’s Little Secrets.
- We have been brain washed to believe that our existence depends upon nothing but accidental events, the survival of the fittest, the chemical and biological mechanical actions. Yet every time I have gone deeply into my ‘unconscious’ and yet maintained awareness, I have found a wonderful power of Life there.
- So if your dreams frighten you, I want to say you are frightened of something wonderful that could have grown you and enlarged your experience of yourself. The thing that was full of fear was your own fear put into an image, and yet was a wonderful gift that you avoided receiving.
- I too was full of fears and often woke up screaming. Then I learned to trust Life. It is like learning to swim. So please go back into your dream and let the fearful thing be fully experienced instead of waking up in fear. Then it will unveil itself as a thing of light and love.
Deepening Dream Understanding
I suggest you only try one method at a time and use it until you are capable or it or it doesn’t work for you, then move on to other methods taking time with them until you find what works best for you.
Although the process of dreams might not be a direct attempt to present MEANING, a dream may nevertheless have a great deal of INFORMATION in it. This becomes clearer if we remember that not many years ago it would have appeared highly superstitious or suspect to claim to be able to tell a person details of their health and parentage from a sample of their urine or blood. Today it is common practice. We accept that a growing amount of information can be gained from these unlikely sources. Blood doesn’t contain meaning, but we can gain information from it. In a similar way a sample of our dreams can also tell us an enormous amount. Sometimes this data is obvious, sometimes it needs processing to uncover, as with urine and blood.
Dream Processing – The following dream needs no deep techniques of processing. The word ‘processing’ is used throughout the book instead of analysis. Analysis has the connotation of giving our own thoughts or opinions to the dream. Processing is used to suggest extraction of information which leads to insight. With this particular dream, all it needs is a few facts brought to it to make clear what information it holds. The dream is that of a young woman, Mrs C. L.
It is a bright sunny day. I am walking across a large concrete car park. It is empty except for a huge trailer from a truck. It has BOOTS written on the side, and stands high off the ground. Being 4’ 9’ tall myself I decide to walk underneath. As I am half way the trailer starts to be lowered on top of me. I try to shout but cannot. I get onto my hands and knees and the trailer still kept coming down. I am now lying on my stomach, convinced it is going to crush me. Then it suddenly stops a couple of inches from my head. I wake feeling terrible.
The dream is interesting, although the information it holds may at first not be obvious. But with a minimum of processing the dream information will become clear. The first technique of processing the dream is to recognise some of the key statements within it. These are I AM WALKING – I TRY TO SHOUT – CONVINCED IT IS GOING TO CRUSH ME.
The reason these are key statements is because the dreamer is saying ‘I am walking’ – ‘I try to shout’ – ‘I …am convinced’. The word ‘I’ is important.
This form of processing has not added anything to the dream. It has simply drawn attention to the information already there in the dreamer’s description of her experience – this is why it is useful to write the dream out fully. If we add a little more information which the dreamer herself connects with the dream, then it becomes even clearer. Mrs C. L. says, ‘I work for BOOTS the chemist. The employees at the shop I work in were told at the beginning of the year that Boots are selling our shop. When that happens I will be made redundant. We were supposed to finish on May 26th. It is now the end of July. The deal fell through so we are now just left hanging indefinitely until a new buyer comes along. I feel very unsettled as I can’t make any plans for the future.’
Having read these comments, it would be difficult not to see the dream as relating to the woman’s work situation, and to her strong anxiety connected with it. She herself says – through her dream – she is ‘convinced it – the situation – is going to crush’ her. She also feels her strong emotions about this – expressed in her attempt to shout – are not being expressed or ‘heard’. From just this one dream, we can be forgiven if we assume that dreams may express in dramatic form our feeling reaction to the circumstances of our everyday life. Taking this dream as information, Mrs. C. L. could see she is feeling crushed by the situation, yet not stating her feelings loudly enough to be heard. She might therefore speak to the manager to clarify the situation for herself.
Here is an even shorter and less complex dream. It has been left just as it was written so its information is immediately apparent. The key words here might be TRYING TO CONTACT HIM and NOT UNDERSTANDING WHY HE LEFT ME. The dream is from Mrs C. J.
Years ago I lost my first husband at twenty nine. I had the same dream continually of being in a phone box trying to contact him, not understanding why he had left me. He died of cancer. Later I remarried and this husband died of a heart attack. Once again the same dream came back so much.
On speculating about the dream from what is immediately apparent, we might say that although it is irrational to continually try to contact her husband when there has never be any success, nevertheless, her desire to be with him continues year after year. This same part of her cannot understand why he died. We might put such feelings into words as, ‘But what had he done to die so young? Why should it happen to me twice?’ We can also assume that her desire to understand these questions, which is what contacting her husband represents, is expressed in the dream as the telephone.
The dream process has dramatised her situation and inner feelings – given them form and made them experiential. Looking at this dream helps us see how an image, such as the telephone, performs exactly the same sort of function as a spoken word, although in a different way. Namely, it represents feelings and thoughts. That the woman’s questions remain, that her problem is unsolved, is apparent from the fact she does NOT make contact on the telephone, and does not find peace. Understanding her dream shows her the importance of the questions she continually asks herself, and the need to release the emotions behind them. With this she could be free of the dream. If she cannot manage this by herself, taking advantage of the professional help of a therapist might help.
To make it clear how everything is a dream holds personal information, to give an example, I was recently asked by a man who had given no thought to dreams how on earth you could extract any meaning from them. He was wearing a fairly old T-shirt, so I said, “OK, let’s imagine you dreamt of your T-shirt, what would you make of that?”
After a while he said, “I don’t know that I would make anything of it.”
My response was to say, “Right, but now tell me where you bought the T-shirt, and what memories it has for you.” Whereupon he told me memories of being abroad, and that the shirt was part of those memories, and he wasn’t prepared to say what they were as they were so personal.
The important point is that everything we see and deal with, every person, every imagined scene, has such a background of feelings and perhaps memories. It is exactly this background of feelings and information that the dream weaves its story from. To understand it you need to become aware of the usually unconscious feeling responses you have in connection with every thing, place, person and animal you fill your dreams with.
For fuller Dream Processing – Below are described simple techniques that make it possible to quickly gain information from your dreams. They have been put as a series of questions. If you take time to consider and answer the question you will find your way into a new experience of dream understanding.
Read it in: Processing Your Dream
Seeing under the Surface
Acting on your Dreams – Extracting more from your dream by letting your body and feelings express it can provide a remarkable release of insight. There are several ways of doing this.
Do see the instructions see: Acting on Your Dreams
The Peer Dream Group – This method is the most powerful and deepest method. It includes some of the other techniques mentioned.
The way of working known as the Peer Dream Group came about from our experience that dreams are largely self explanatory if approached in the right way. An exterior expert or authority is not necessary for a profound experience of and insight into dreams and into oneself if certain rules are respected and used. The dreamer is the ultimate expert on their own dream and themselves but only when we break through to what is usually unconscious mental states, and when treated as such, and supported in their investigation of their dream drama, they can powerfully explore and manifest the resources of their inner life.
To use it see: The Peer Dream Group and What I Have Seen In Dreams
For the Dictionary put the word you want to look up in the search box at the top right of all pages
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Hi Tony,
Hope you are well. I previously contacted you regarding a dream I had about the baby and you did respond which was very helpful. I did try to take on board what you said alot, since I have not had that dream at all I guess it may be because it has come to my conscious awareness.
However I still have alot of vivid dreams which do bother my daily life and Im not sure if its the “power of attraction” or pure coincidence that life events relate to previous dreams I have.
I have tried to consult psychotherapists, read books and generally find a way to deal with it as it affects me hugely but no joy! I am very disheartened as I write this, because I feel my dreams are becoming my life and taking all my focus away. I understand its all telling me something but i cannot work it out by myself!
Afew of my recent dreams are below and I would be grateful if you could perhaps point me to the right direction of dealing with this. Having said this it is very uncomfortable to disclose personal stuff online however i couldnt find a more private way to get in touch with you.
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Som
2011-03-19 17:32:03
Since a young age i have had dreams that tend to cme true , its hard
to believe even for myself.
I keep having dreams about a baby, its my baby. When I was younger, In
my dream i used to hold the baby so close to me and try to find the
father …I loved the baby so much.
But recently I had a few dreams about being pregnant …other dreams of
giving birth and finally having the baby (in seperate dreams which is
so weird). In my dreams I didnt want to be pregant but my mother was
saying how its okay and shes there and it seemed everyone cared more
about the baby than me. Even when i had the baby i was so embaressed
to say im a mother despite the love i felt for her i ignored her (my
mum looked after her).
The other night i had a long dream, In my dream i was tired i wanted
to sleep and i saw a friend come over but I said Im tired and that
baby is so annoying just slap her ( i never abuse kids, i love them…i
love my niece and cousins…) he said no and instead tried to calm her
and looked after her when i was asleep. when i woke up (still
dreaming) and the next day i told my mum , she said no dont u dare
touch her, shes a kid she needs attention, and she was holding the
little girl (abour 2 yrs old)………..and i said but shes so annoying and
i was neglecting her so much.
The even more weird part is , my mother had a similar dream where she
saw me have a baby girl, who i then was neglecting and she was worried
sick about her and had to look after her. She told me this after I had
my dreams and she wasnt aware of my dream,
My family is quite traditional and me having a baby at this age (21)
and not married is impossible unless otherwise. So it doesnt much of
reality. At the moment I am finishing my final year of psychology at
uni. Im abit depressed (for so many different reason in life), dont
socialise as much either. But I try to be a good person ,
Its really bothering me now, why am I having these dreams, what do
they mean. Could the little girl be me? why did my mum have a related
dream?
Thank you for your time.
Som
Reply
-Tony Crisp
2011-03-24 12:24:02
Som – Your mother had a similar dream because she cares for you and
you are family. We usually think of ourselves as so separate, but in
fact sees us like fingers on the one hand. Fingers move separately,
but they are all connected to the one hand, and the hand is connected
to the one body of Life. So everything you think and feel that is of
any importance is filtered through to the hand/family, and then
through to the Body/Life.
And the fact that you had a whole sequence of dreams about having a
baby, then giving birth and not caring for it is very important. And
yes, the baby is you! It is a part of you that is trying to be born
and have a life, but you are neglecting it. I guess your mother can
see what is going one even though she might not be able to put it into
words.
The baby is a part of you that you find irritating and annoying. If
you can focus on what it is that you notice annoying you, then you are
on the right track. I think you ought to have a talk with the baby,
and don’ tell me the baby can’t talk – they can in your dreams and in
you. You just need to loosen up and try it.
In fact I think that you should try the following, especially as you
are psychology student.
http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/acting-in-your-dream/
Tony
Dreams Diary, afew dreams:
In my dream I was in my current house and the living room looked like a dinning room with a very big dining table with many guests all of them female and there was only one guy sitting there, the guy I have been “seeing” (as he doesnt want to date me so we refrain from using “dating” term). He seemed not to notice me or perhaps ignore me. the room was all white and walls were so dull. the table was simple and as i was so hurt by this attitude of his I felt so sad but as there were guests at MY house I carried on not showing how i felt. I served the guests, i tried to set the table and greet the guests! (I was invited to his birthday which was a week after my dream, i had never met any of his friend, but anyway i did not attend his party).
In my dream I was at a bar, quite light so it was maybe in the afternoon. The weather was okay as it was not raining ( London weather is generally bad so in my dream i was content with the weather). Behind the bar there was also my sister next to me, I was observing myself almost from afar in the dream, as I got up to stand on the bar i realized I was drunk and someone was filming this and putting it on the website or laptop at the bar, at the same time my sister was pulling my arm to not to stand on the bar. The entrance of the place looked like the entrance of the town hall and next room to the bar was a room with some furniture and loads of people, maybe someone was getting married? I tried to get the video on the screen away from there but how could i? I had no way of doing it or maybe i didnt try hard enough or did anything pro active to remove it. Later I was sober and devastated by the video there as everyone could see it. My dad came after work and he was eating at the bar, i was in the other room pretending to be asleep but got tired and it was no good so i went up to tell him “dad I’m sorry i never drink, i had two shots and got drunk already)
Had such a disturbing dream last night where I was immensely angry.
In my dream we (I live with my parents) had a nice house in a
beautiful English village kinda out of town, there was a mental health
hospital near by (Im studying to be a psychologist and work in such
environments), and these people would run away and the nurse used to
chase them around without hurting them because they were dangerous!
When they were near my house or me the nurse would get so rude to me
and shout at me saying dont provoke him he was almost like a dog ( or
so i felt as i get scared of them attacking me) i Would stand still
and look away! Even my mum started telling me to not to provoke them
(even though I wasnt) and avoid them but it got to me I had enough,
one day I got mad and didn’t care what the nurse (male) or the patient
would do so I turned around and screamed/shouted I dont care what you
do f off let me be I had enough of all this nonsense :s!!! This is not
a normal behavior for me I do not curse or use foul language and
certainly do not get angry like this at anyone let alone vulnerable
people. But the place was so peaceful and beautiful and there were
other people in my dream not sure why but they were just around in the
neighborhood. I particularly remember this guy whom is sort of dating
was also in the dream but had no part in any of what was happening.
But I hate that dream Gave me a weird feeling when I woke up.
Last night yet again another disturbing dream where I was in the current house and my childhood home (the two houses somehow were one). In the living room we had these small (kids) chairs and I was with my siblings ( 6 of us all now in our 20s) and it was dark late at night. I was thinking about how we are all getting on with each other compare to before. We were making coffins out of cardboard! we were preparing memorials but for no one in particular. The coffins were empty so we would take the pictures of the people the memorial was for and we would make them out of cardboard and put them in the coffins! :s this is very disturbing as you can imagine! I was then in my room with my older sister looking out of the window! it was dark and VERY cold outside, snowing! there was a river and a rocky landscape there. People were standing around all dressed up (as if going to a party). These people were some of the people I know but not close to etc! In the river there was a naked girl swimming against the flow of the river and I told my sister WOW that must be freezing! my sister said apparently it is very good for your body! I had a feeling these people were perhaps going to the memorial! I woke up with an extremely bad headache!
Last night I had a dream i was at my current house but it was bigger than it actually is with the ground floor being like a staple for animals (I live in the city so no pets let alone other animals). All my family were home, my dad was in the living room watching tv or relaxing! I was on the stairs leading to the top floor with my boyfriend (dont have a boyfriend in real life) as he was holding me he said my dad has to fix the stairs because they are terrible, we cant get married until its fixed and that if my father doesn’t fix he will take care of it! I just didnt care and wanted him to get over it! I noted my dad was smiling to himself and our guests were wearing black!
My last dream was I was at the amazing apartment which seemed to be where I or maybe someone close to me lives. As I looked out I could see the city and the night sky, it was beautiful. there were alot of people around again all dressed in black! the next thing I remember is being on a bridge walking and speaking to my sister about how excited I am about where we going ( i think we were going to Dubai where I really wanted to be at right now as its my best friends birthday and she lives there) but I felt very lose in the darkness of the night and I was walking there, not sure where I was at.
I look forward to hear from you.
For the second time i dream of my grandmother,always i am telling her that i want to be a christiaan,firstly she didnt respond ,then secondly she respond and she denied my request.I am a christiaan and I want to Serve My Lord for the rest of my life,what does this dream mean.Please help
Tony- I have had your book for over twenty five years and worn it until the binding has to be held together with a rubber band. How helpful it has been for me time and time again when I just needed a new perspective to help be reach understanding. Dreams have helped me overcome tremendous challenges and been my guiding light. Thanks for helping to facilitate this critical connection for me and for so many others. This website is fantastic!
Barbara – Thank you so much for your encouraging words. This website is a blessing to me for it brings news to me of the journeys into people’s lives my books have made.
Tony
dream about school which i am in trouble with nasty people inside
Maureen – I wish you would give a little more information. Every word helps in understanding your dream.
It sounds as if you are not in a good place regarding other people; either because you are still in school or because you are still dealing with the feelings you carry with you. See – http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/what-we-need-to-remember-about-us/#Victims
Tony
Last night I had a dream that a beautiful woman wanted to break free of an intense party and as people pursued her because they wanted her to stay, she turned into a golden mare. s she was followed, she lifted her tail and I thought she would defecate as to communicate to the followers her that she was not interested. But she began to give birth. She bore a beautiful white colt that was stillborn and it was devastating. She was followed by two golden colts with blazes that were stillborn. Suddenly, I became the mare, and a fourth golden colt with a blaze started to be born.It stopped halfway and started licking the mare’s back and spoke and said Mama please let me out, I am so hungry. He was born and the mare began to lick him as he stood up.
What was that all about??
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I dreamt like im cleaning my wardrobe,taking out all rubbish clothes i dnt use,mine kids and sisters,to be burnt away,then while busy sorting out my closet i see myself outside flying up wearing a long yellow dress floating in the air(i have that dress)ppl watching me then suddenly i went down one foot against the wall,then i walk again.what does this dream mean?
Dreamed i was fishing and caught a human head
Dreamed i was fishing and caught my boyfriends head.
I seek guidance for a dream I experienced last evening – I am unable to identify which words to seek in your dream dictionary. My dream centered around a town in which I lived some years ago – on two different occasions. In my awakened life (and dreams) this place is very dear to my heart. The circumstances in which I moved from there were shattering and sad. In the place I presently live, I have been putting much thought into seeking a new physcial place to call home. Yesterday morning I visited an area in which I had an enjoyable time, and entertained thoughts of what it would be like to live there. My dream last evening involved my past town – seeing an old friend, slowing driving the streets, seeing the store fronts. In my dream, and when I awoke, I felt strong emotional stimulation – grief, sadness, regret. My first initial awakened thoughts were am I wanting to move back there? Intuition is telling me thatthis represents something more and different. This is something I struggle with.
Thank you for reading.
Teresa – My feeling is that it may not be the actual place that would be best to live in. The feelings you experienced are the key to the dream, and with most dreams, are a way of healing and clearing the debris of emotions from the past.
I also sense that you are seeking to build that home in yourself – for that is the best place to be at home in. So I suggest you try using http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/acting-on-your-dream/ and see if you can allow the feelings and action of the dream to carry on clearing the debris. Perhaps it might be useful to read http://dreamhawk.com/approaches-to-being/lifes-little-secrets/
Tony
My dream – I was looking down on earth from outer space and earth was made up of stars. there were other people with me discussing the meaning of it and how it related to their religion but i remember thinking how it was a shame they were disagreeing because i was very comfortable with my understanding of it all. I felt very at peace…..
Any ideas?
I had a strange dream last night where I went to a University open day with my boyfriend, somehow i lost him, i think i went to buy a snack. when i tried to find him i found at least ten people who looked like him (hair and clothes) but had different faces. they were wearing exactly the same clothes he always wears (the same 1 outfit) and their hair was done the same way as his. but no matter how much i looked i couldn’t find him among all these other lookalikes.
what does this mean?
When I was a kid my biggest dream was to bcmeoe a doctor, a surgeon. I’m a sales & marketing person now but I have never given up my dream. The truth is, my dream has changed a bit and it looks as follows: I will build my own hospital and hire several surgeons to help even more people! I call it leverage
Just read your biography – clearly you have a purpose here. It was fun to see your life flash before me, at a glance.
You are inspiring. Keep up the Good work!
Thank you. Your words are encouraging.
Tony
I’m 24 weeks pregnant and had a dream the other night that my son and i was riding and a green miniature flying duck with a black beak was trying to fly into our window. I was able to roll up my window to keep it from coming in. I went to call my mother when my friend’s boyfriend on the passenger side said to be careful because it was a sign of death. I didn’t pay it any mind until I saw myself in the hospital dying. I didn’t get a chance to see if I did because my alarm clock woke me up.
Ola – The only dreams where death is coming are a lot more detailed and certain than your dream. I think you are facing your fear of death and need to read http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/near-death-experiences/ and http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/questions/#TalkingDead
Tony
I am pregnant with a boy. I have three other young sons. I have continuously had the same dreams that I give birth to a girl, or about a baby girl that I know is my daughter, and all kinds of dreams like that. ALL THE TIME. I have always wanted a baby girl. But I just don’t know what this recurring dream means. I don’t think its as simple as because I have always wanted a girl and really need to find the meaning. Please help…