Dream Dictionary
Dream Dictionary
Online Dream Dictionary & Encyclopedia
by Tony Crisp
The Spanish Dictionary is all the work and effort placed in it, as well as many excellent dream interpretations all by Anna Hoser,
Introduction
The latest edition of the Dream Dictionary and Dream Encylopedia is the result of some sixty years experience of working with dreams and their understanding. The Dream Dictionary encompassing articles on a vast range of topics. This gives the reader an unparalleled insight into the study of dreams and the inner life. But there are an enormous amount of Features in the Dream Encylopedia that cover a range of topics about dreams and the inner life.
The aim of the Dream Dictionary is to help you make connections between your dreams and your everyday life; to discover more fully the powerful emotions and reactions that unconsciously direct your decisions and responses in waking. This is not an attempt to give you merely ideas to play with, to agree or disagree with, like fortune telling. It can lead to real insights which empower you to make more of yourself, and find your way through the many decisions with which life confronts you.
Useful Links
Your Guru Your Body
What Are Dreams
Learn how to Interpret Your Dream
What does my dream mean? – How to explore your dream meaning
Personal Dream Interpretation
A Note About the Author: Tony Crisp
Mind Watching and Dreams
Introduction to Using the Dream Dictionary
Using the Dictionary
The Discovery of Dreams – Things We Need to Remember About Us
Gaining Insight into Your Dreams
Acknowledgement to this Edition
What Is Offered In The Dictionary
The Discovery of Dreams
Deepening Dream Understanding
Seeing under the Surface
Exploring Inner Space
Things I Wished I Had Had Been Taught Earlier in My Life
Features Found on Site: this is a full list of the topics covered by the Dream Encyclopedia (not a list of dream dictionary words).
What Are Dreams?
Dreams are one of nature’s miracles, not the result of a wandering mind in sleep. A dream is an interface between the process of life, our core self and our conscious personality. Life existed quite capably for millions of years before the self-aware human personality came on the scene. In all that time the ancestors of the modern human being survived without having a rational mind to reason with, or self consciousness to ask such questions as ‘What do I do about this?’ Nevertheless survival strategies were still developed in their unconscious intelligence. Dreams express this unconscious wisdom that was developed in humans and animals through millions of years of Life experience.
Life’s age old unconscious processes are still the major part of our being, yet we seldom consciously meet them – except in dreams. As our physical and psychological health depend upon a reasonable co-operation between the spontaneous processes of life – such as breathing, digestion and the thousands of other life sustaining activities and our conscious decisions and actions, the encounter in dreams is vital. As I often point out to those I am advising we are a human face on a long line of beautiful animals. In fact “You ride an ancient beast.” The ancient beast is your body, and your conscious self is the modern and recent rider of it. Some ‘riders’ do not understand their animal needs – and the fact that we have several levels of brain that are independent of each other proves this. Still active in us are our Reptile Brain, Our mammalian Brain, and our Human Brain, and the reptile and mammalian brains are still very active and constitute a large part of our human unconscious. See – Brain Levels and Dreams – Life’s Little Secrets and Levels of Awareness in Sleeping and Waking.
So, no plant or creature grows from a dead seed, and each living seed carries within it all the past gathered from all its forebears. So, the seed in your mother’s womb is as old as and even older than human kind, and you carry that wisdom or memories in you. But in this life you developed a new brain, and the memories you gathered this time are what you built your personality from, but beneath that is a very ancient self. To meet this ancient self try using Opening to Life
That suggests that dreams cannot be defined under any one heading. Like human beings, they are enormously varied in what they express. Just as one cannot say the human mind is simply a system of memory, one cannot say dreams are just the reflection of experienced events. The mind also deals with problem solving, predicting outcomes of action, playing with possibilities via imagination, creating the new out of old material, replaying traumatic and disturbing events in order to find ways of meeting them constructively. Dreams, being the mental phenomena they are, deal with all of these issues and more. The following definitions give the main functions observable in dreams.
Dreams are:-
- Dreams are one of nature’s miracles, not the result of a wandering mind in sleep. A dream is an interface between the process of life, our core self and our conscious personality. Life existed quite capably for millions of years before the self-aware human personality came on the scene. In all that time the ancestors of the modern human being survived without having a rational mind to reason with, or self consciousness to ask such questions as ‘What do I do about this?’ Nevertheless survival strategies were still developed in their unconscious intelligence. Dreams express this unconscious wisdom that was developed in humans and animals through millions of years of Life experience.
- Recently I have come to see dreams as the lonely voice of Life calling out to us in our often frantic search for meaning. It calls out from its vastness that is beyond our understanding, and in its loving efforts gathers the fragments of our memory and associations and forms dreams with them. It does this in its efforts to instruct, guide and even heal us; but often we miss seeing that just as Life reaches to us from its vastness using things we might understand, we too must reach beyond our often pitiful understanding to move toward and touch the wonder of Life within us.
- An expression of what is happening in the physical body. Some doctors consider dreams to show signs of illness long before they are evident in other ways. Women frequently know they are pregnant very early on through sleep awareness in a dream. See: body; body dreams; Kasatkin_Vasily; consciousness-mind body split.
- A link between the sleeping mind and what is occurring externally. For instance, a person may be falling out of bed and dream of flying or falling.
- A way of balancing the physiological and psychological activities in us. When a person is deprived of dreaming in experiments, a breakdown in mind and body quickly occurs. This type of dreaming, or even nightmares, can often be a safety valve releasing tension and emotion not dealt with in waking life. See: compensation theory; self-regulation dreams and fantasy; science and dreams.
- An enormously original source of insight and information. Dreams tap our memory, our experience, and scan information held in our unconscious to form new insights from old experience. Dreams often present to us summaries or details of experience we have been unable to access consciously. Sometimes this is as early as life in the womb. See: creativity and problem solving in dreams.
- That insight comes from an amazing ability dreams have. Mostly we are lost in being aware of this moment or cares of recent events, and of our present environment, but the dream process has another view, that is of our whole life, like flying high and so have a huge view. We have taken in so much life experience, but many of us have not learnt the amazing lessons we gained by it. But the overall view we get from dreams, visions and our intuition gives us a view that synthesises or whole life and highlights its wonder, its destiny, our real purpose and our life’s real work. See Intuition – Using It
- A means of compensating for failure or deprivation in everyday life, and as a means of expressing the otherwise unacknowledged aspects of oneself. Such dreams are a move toward wholeness. See: compensation theory.
- In dreams we may be integrating new experience with what we have already gathered and digested. In this way our abilities, such as social skills, are gradually upgraded. See: computer, computer-dream process as a; Evans, Christopher.
- Dreams often stand in place of actual experience. So through dreams we may experiment with new experience or practice things we have not yet done externally. For instance many young women dream in detail of giving birth. This function of what might be called ‘imagination’ is tremendously undervalued, but is a foundation upon which human survival is built. See: imagination and dreaming.
- An means of exercise for the psyche or soul. Just as the body will become sick if not moved and stressed, so the mind and emotions need stimulus and exercise. Dreams fulfill this need. See Opening to Life
- An expression of human supersenses. Humans have an unconscious ability to read body language – so they can assess other humans very quickly. Humans have an unimaginable ability to absorb information, not simply from books, but from everyday events – for example science now tells us that we collect information at an enormous rate, millions of bits every second, but unfortunately we do not synthesis it to see what it means, for most of it is unconscious, only dreams access and use it. With it they constantly arrive at new insights and realisations. Humans frequently correctly predict the future – not out of a bizarre ability, but from the information gathered about the present. All these abilities and more show in our dreams. See: esp in dreams.
- A means of solving problems, or formulating creative ideas, both in our personal life, and also in relationships and work. Many people have produced highly creative work directly from dreams. See Creative Dreaming and Problem Solving
- A presentation in symbols of past traumatic experience. If met this can lead to deep psychological healing. Such dreams are therefore an attempt on the part of our spontaneous inner processes to bring about healing change. See: abreaction; compensation theory; nightmares.
- In the widest sense nearly all dreams act as a process of growth or a move toward maturing. Some dreams are very obviously presenting internal forces or dimensions of experience that might lead the conscious personality toward a greater balance and inclusiveness. See: individuation; LifeStream.
- A way of reaching beyond the known world of experience and presenting intimations from the unknown. Many people have dreams in which ESP, out of the body experiences, and knowledge transcending time and space occur. This type of dream may indicate a link between the present person and people who had lived in the distant past; or between the dreamer and all existing life. Some of these dreams present powerful insights into how the transitory human personality may arise out of an eternal consciousness. They thus deal with the spiritual aspects of human nature. See: Dimensions of Human Experience; Buddhism and dreams; Cayce, Edgar; collective unconscious; Bible and dreams; esp in dreams; hallucinations; history of dreaming; religion and dreams; yoga and dreams; Dream Yoga.
Learn how to Explore Your Dream
I know how much you might like to skip the Introduction to Dream Dictionary, and if you are tempted to do so, I wholeheartedly ask you to read Summing Up. Without understanding the things given there you are likely to completely miss the point of understanding your dreams. The best technique to enter you dream world – Peer Dream Work
You can start using the Dream Dictionary by entering the word you wish to research into the Search Box on the top right of most pages and clicking the search symbol – or you can read some fuller information below about the dictionary and how best to use it.
But the quickest way is to put your word in the search box.
Your dreams can become vortexes of power to transform your life, and to enhance your perceptions. There is no ‘wave a magic wand’ route to this. It will not happen because you read a great book or look at a good dream dictionary. Those things might help, but the real magic lies in whether you can enter into your dream in the right way. (Try using Being the Person or Thing and Meaning of Your Dream).
What does my dream mean? – How to explore your dream meanings
It is important in reading the definitions of dream images to realise that not every possible meaning can be covered in this dictionary. So please see if you get the idea of what is being said and allow your own imagination/feelings to fill in the meaning.
There are several ways you can understand the meanings held in your dreams, and there are several levels.
The first is an easily understood level, followed by greater depths:
For instance, speaking as an object or dream person, one needs to take time with it. Learn how to actually describe what you are as that dream object or person. If I dream of a dog, don’t simply describe what you think a dog feels like, but actually take time to tune into the dream image and describe the dog dreamt about. Is it an old or young dog? What is it doing in the dream? Listen to your feelings and describe what it/you feel. Remember that each image is a creation of your own mind and unconscious, so you are really describing yourself. Say whatever comes and consider its value afterwards. Below is a quote from Tiziana Stupia’s book Meeting Shiva
Tony taught me a process in which a dream could be interpreted and understood by assuming that everything, people and objects alike, in a dream represented aspects of the Self. Sitting cross-legged on the squishy, old-fashioned sofa in the living room of my sadhu’s cave opposite Tony, I’d close my eyes and mentally return to a dream I had the previous night. He would ask me questions about the dream, which I’d answer in the first person. So if I dreamt about a tree, I would ‘become’ the tree, assume its personality and respond from its viewpoint. He’d ask ‘So what kind of tree are you? Are you big or small, old or young? What do you look like? Where are you growing? Why are you in Tiziana’s dream?’
This sounded like a silly exercise at first, but I was soon enough convinced of its validity. It was fascinating to discover a wealth of insight and emotion emerging from my responses, and understand how they related to my current situation. They also pinpointed exactly where I was in my growth process. Sometimes, the dreams would uncover unconscious fears and intuitions. Often, they also held important clues and offered solutions to my problems. It was like doing detective’s work – arduous at times, but rewarding beyond belief.
So below are listed several ways to gain insight and information from your dreams. Take your time with each approach until you get the feel for it, and then experiment with other approaches.
You can enter a key word in the search box. The Dream Dictionary contains interpretations on almost any type of dream subject. So, if you dreamt of a flying saucer landing in a field, and aliens getting out and taking a baby, a snake, and a pregnant dog back into the saucer, you could search separately for each of these subjects in the Dream Dictionary. Find the entry for flying saucer; then the entry for dog, baby, snake, pregnant, and so on. For each entry, find further related entries by looking under ‘Similar Articles’ on the right-hand side of the page. Then see Techniques for Exploring your Dreams.
Each entry gives the general meaning of the dream subject, just as an encyclopedia or dictionary does for a word. Several possible meanings are given. This is because as with our speech the position of the word – the context – gives it special meanings. So, a hot dog would be quite different to a black dog, dog-end or dead dog. Therefore, when you read an entry which has several different meanings, sometimes with a ‘;’ between, it simply means any one of them could apply, which means you need to think about the feelings in your dream, the context, the other imagery used. Please do not fall into the trap that one reviewer made of saying that the whole dictionary is about sex. Of course, sex is one meaning among many others. So, use your own sense of your dream as well as any definitions given.
To really explore the meaning, it is useful to use the Dream Dictionary as it is designed, rather than arrive at a ‘thought out’ interpretation. To see a working example of this see ‘Dream Interpretation Example One‘.
Personal Dream Interpretation
I no longer offer a personal dream interpretation service, but only occasionally if you manage to send an interesting dream I will respond – the reason is I am getting past my sell by date being 84.
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In the meantime, here is a way to work out your own dream – Getting at Your Dream’s Meaning.
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A Note About the Author: Tony Crisp
I have been interested in the health of mind and body since my early teens. I began writing about these subjects in 1956. My fascination for what lay under the surface of the mind led me personally to explore the unconscious using dreams and other mental and physical disciplines. From 1972 – 94 I worked as a psychotherapist using an eclectic, Humanistic Psychology approach which included dream work and releasing the secrets the body holds. My books include Do You Dream; Mind and Movement; The Instant Dream Book; Dream Dictionary; Life’s Little Secrets –Liberating The Body – and many more. See My Books.
During those years I worked as a dream columnist for The Daily Mail and She Magazine. I was the regular dream interpreter for the London Broadcasting Company; I ran Teletext’s dream page on UK television’s Channel Four; and for New Zealand Teletext, and now I run this website giving dream help in the many replies to peoples dreams and in as well as many features on subjects connected with the human inner world. See Features
Throughout more than five decades I have been involved in a personal search for the secrets of mind and spirit. In those years I have also taught thousands of people techniques of deep relaxation, meditation, and methods of self exploration using dreams. Wanting to dig deep I explored the use of dreams and taught individuals and groups of people how to use these visions of the night to discover and heal the deepest issues in themselves, and to touch the high ground of their spiritual awareness. I worked for twenty years as a psychotherapist using several approaches, one of which was a way of honouring the body as a doorway to the unconscious mind, the emotions and spiritual experience. See Self-Regulation – Recognition – Life’s Little Secrets – The LifeStream and Opening to Life
During the sixty years of seeking the wild wondrous beasts of the mind and spirit I dared my own inner adventure. But I also travelled with other people as an ordinary person, not a therapist, sharing their experience of fear and wonder as they unveiled and set loose their fountain of perception. I have travelled countless dream pathways, traversed the timeless with those using awareness enhancing drugs, and wrestled with the vitality of the body as people mimed and shouted their deepest intuitions through movement, dance and voice. See Tony’s Biography
My aim has always to share my findings – actually what I was shown or given from within – was given freely; I never had any teacher or attended a course, of course I read an enormous amount, so I cannot ask for money. If you wish to donate anything to the running of the site you can do so by clicking on https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&hosted_button_id=JYTWAMC4LQLQ4&source=url
My teacher has been from exploring dreams and occasionally touching the wonder we were born as – not from words written in books about that but by meeting it. See Enlightenment
Introduction to Using the Dream Dictionary
Diccionario de los Sueños
Profundización de la comprensión de un sueño; Introducción
What Is Offered In The Dictionary
In a similar way, by observing dreams and laying bare the emotions and associated ideas and memories we have with the dream imagery, we gradually define our personality, its strengths and weaknesses, we discover new abilities and we grow beyond our old problems, and that in a depth we had never managed previously. I have called this mind watching, but it covers every aspect of human nature, not simply the intellect or thinking.
This mind watching through observation of our dreams first presents information about our personal experiences and memories and how they influenced our growth and influence present responses. Gradually the information arising from such watching leads beyond ones personal self. It shows in many cases how our unique self has arisen from, and has indissoluble links with our forebears, with our culture, with the past as a whole, and with the cosmos itself. It leads from oneself to the edge of the known, and perhaps helps us take a few steps beyond that edge into the unknown, to create new understanding.
This mind watching gradually reveals to us the many aspects of the mind’s working, and with such insight may come the growing ability to use these facets of ourselves. Not only may we discover great vistas of personal memory, but also the roots of our creativity, the subtle senses of our emotions and unconscious, and the treasures of experience we have gathered. See Your Amazing Circle – Self Observation
So how can we get into this magical world of our dreams and start to harvest the possibilities held there? The following pages of this book are designed to help, guide and inform on how to do this. The book is also a counsellor on what you may find in your dream adventure.
The information about dreams presented in this book has been gathered during fifty years of working with and studying dreams and the dream process. It synthesises the experience of personally helping hundreds of individuals explore their dreams. The examples used have been taken from a collection of over 8000 dreams put onto a computer filing system. The filing system was also used to define general associations with commonly used dream images.
The major input for definition however has arisen from the actual exploration of dreams undertaken by individuals. These are either people I have worked with personally who have deeply felt the emotions and issues behind their dreams, not simply talked them over and come to an intellectual interpretation but a deep insight, or are people who have written up their findings arising from similar work. Added to this is the commonly held associations we have through our language and the way we use imagery within speech. Of course your personal dream imagery may not be using the commonly held associations, or those used by other people, and so you must read the definitions with care and consider if these fit what is implied or dramatised in your dream.
In the entries in the Dictionary are explanations of the many different types of dreams and dream images. Despite some people’s attempt to explain dreams in one simple formula, dreams cover a huge range of phenomena and human experience. Amongst subjects covered in the book are thousands of entries on the researched meaning of the things, people, creatures and places we dream about. There are also many entries on special subjects such as symbols and dreaming; interpreting dreams; recurring dreams; nightmares; sex while asleep; teenage girls love dreams; precognitive dreams; talking in ones sleep; the dream as an adventure; Occultism and Dreams; science sleep and dreams; and many more.
There are a compete list of these Features and the Archetypes covered.
Therefore, if you have dreamt of such things as your teeth falling out; being chased; or your marriage partner dying, you will find an explanation of your dream in the following pages.
The aim of the book is to help you make connections between your dreams and your everyday life; to discover more fully the powerful emotions and reactions that unconsciously direct your decisions and responses in waking. The book is not an attempt to give you merely ideas to play with, to agree or disagree with, like fortune telling. It can lead to real insights which empower you to make more of yourself, and find your way through the many decisions life confronts you with.
But you can move directly on to Using the Dictionary – or better still read Meaning of Your Dream.
The Discovery of Dreams
Dreams are a magical mirror in which your innermost hopes, longings, fears/terrors and genius are made real. They are made real as external environments, people, animals and relationships. It is as if all your deepest feelings, hopes, fear and wonder are projected outward onto a multidimensional screen. It is a world of virtual reality that you feel is real. Unfortunately this wonderful virtual reality world is usually felt as dealing with other people, as externals, like something that can damage us, or something like the Devil that can possess us.
But the greatest truth I have found in exploring dreams – not interpreting them – is that we are alone with ourselves in the world of our dream. If we can acknowledge and admit that our terrors we dream are actually our past hurts that we have not faced presenting themselves for us to heal; that the ghosts and demons that can rampage about our night are embodiments of our fears; that our wonderful visions and insights are an expression of our own infinite potential, then we can walk a pathway to finding what we really are. Audio Introduction to Exploring a Dream
- Dreams are virtual realities that we create in our sleep. Even the wonderful dreams of God and angels are an external virtual reality, and mirror of our own inner immensity and our enormous variety. Unfortunately people either accept them as externally real, or as fantasy. But they are reflections of your potential, that cannot be seen in your daily life that is so dominated by your physical senses and hungers and fears.
- See The Magical Dream Machine. So the images and fears we experience in our dreams are projection upon the vast screen of our mind. They are all projections from you. Running from them is like trying to escape from yourself.
- In life and sleep we have two powerful actions working in us. The first is our waking experience based on having a body, its limitations, vulnerabilities and a particular gender. Our second is the power that gave us life and continues to express as dreams.
- While we sleep our conscious self is largely or totally unconscious, and while we sleep our voluntary muscles are paralysed – therefore another will or motivating force moves our body. So we have a Conscious Will, and what I will call a Life Will. The first one we have experience of as we can move our arm or speak in everyday activities; but the second will takes over when we sleep. See Sleep Paralysis
- This Life will can move us to speak, to move our body, and in fact do things that we cannot do with our Conscious Will. As Freud pointed out this inner will has full access to our memories. It can do so many other things that are described else where – See ESP in Dreams; Edgar Cayce and the Cosmic Mind.
- This Life Will or motivator has been active for millions of years and we see it working all the time in animals. We are partly split in half because we are often opposed to what our Life Will in us wants. So the only way to express what is good for us is in dreams when our conscious will is largely passive.
- Life Will created your body and pre-existed you as a person you know today. It was working in you prior to your ability to speak or know in the way you do now. But of course it has fantastic wisdom and skills, as can be seen in animals.
- Life, if you look around you at Life’s creature, they can take any form. So Life itself is without form. In fact the recent advances in quantum physics suggest that what gives us existence is beyond space and time – beyond understanding.
- So dreams do not come from the human unconscious, but from the formless origins of Life – our Core Self. To express in a way that is understandable to us as a person with limited understanding, dreams use all the common imagery and ideas. So people who say that dreams are a mish mash of common everyday events are mistaken. See LifeStream; Levels of Awareness in Sleeping and Waking; .
- Our core self can be explained by realising that we are all dependent on the universe. We often feel that the universe is way beyond our understanding, but a few simple facts may help. The first is that the universe as we know it began with what had been called the Big Bang. But before that there was a situation prior to the creation of time and space. That situation is very much like the experience of Edgar Cayce who had an awareness reaching beyond time and space. See God and the Big Bang are the Same Thing
- Irish physicist John Stewart Bell put forward a quantum theorem that has revolutionised the way reality is considered. In brief, the theorem states that when two sub-microscopic particles are split and moved to a distance from each other, the action on, or of, particle ‘A’, is instantaneously reproduced with particle ‘B’. This interaction does not rely on any known link or communication and is considered to stand above normal physical laws of nature, as it is faster than light. Prior to such findings it was thought nothing could transcend the speed of light. Nick Herbert, in an interview published in High Frontiers writes: ‘THERE ARE LOTS OF THINGS that are being kept from the public as far as the subjects of physics and consciousness are concerned. Bell’s Theorem was proved in 1964, and it is still not taught in physics classes, and you don’t hear it on your science news programs. A theorem is a proof, and no one has found a flaw in this theorem. It’s such a simple proof that a high school kid can understand it. So physicists can understand it. They have various ways of trying to ignore it, but it can’t be refuted because it’s so simple.’
Our Core self is that amazing part of us existing beyond time and space, and was within us from the start of our universe.
- In the world of dreams our most intimate fears and longings are given an exterior life of their own in the form of the people, objects and places of our dream. Therefore our sexual drive may be shown as a person and how we relate to them; or given shape and colour as an object; or given mood as a scene. Our feeling of ambition might thus be portrayed as a business person in our dream – our changing emotions as the sea or a river; while the present relationship we have with our ambition or emotions is expressed in the events or plot of the dream.
- You cannot be killed in a dream. All you can experience is the anguish and perhaps fear of dying, but in dreams you cannot die – or drown, or burn or any other threatening thing. We make the mistake of taking our very real values from our outer life into our inner life of dreams.
- In dreams, what ever moves away from you in our dreams is going out of your awareness or even life; and whatever moves toward us is emerging into consciousness. Whatever it is that is coming toward us is giving us something whether it is energy, insight, or a frightening dream that is trying to shock us to wake up and clear out the inner mess we are in. The fact we give it a frightening image is because we are brought up to be scared of ourselves and to not trust Life/Core. If you know the tenets of the AA, you will see that is what they are about – to trust Life.
- Most people are frightened of life. I see this in so many dreams sent to me. They do not trust themselves to the powerful action of Life flowing through them. See Life’s Little Secrets.
- We have been brain washed to believe that our existence depends upon nothing but accidental events, the survival of the fittest, the chemical and biological mechanical actions. Yet every time I have gone deeply into my ‘unconscious’ and yet maintained awareness, I have found a wonderful power of Life there.
- So if your dreams frighten you, I want to say you are frightened of something wonderful that could have grown you and enlarged your experience of yourself. The thing that was full of fear was your own fear put into an image, and yet was a wonderful gift that you avoided receiving.
- I too was full of fears and often woke up screaming. Then I learned to trust Life. It is like learning to swim. So please go back into your dream and let the fearful thing be fully experienced instead of waking up in fear. Then it will unveil itself as a thing of light and love.
Deepening Dream Understanding
I suggest you only try one method at a time and use it until you are capable or it or it doesn’t work for you, then move on to other methods taking time with them until you find what works best for you.
Although the process of dreams might not be a direct attempt to present MEANING, a dream may nevertheless have a great deal of INFORMATION in it. This becomes clearer if we remember that not many years ago it would have appeared highly superstitious or suspect to claim to be able to tell a person details of their health and parentage from a sample of their urine or blood. Today it is common practice. We accept that a growing amount of information can be gained from these unlikely sources. Blood doesn’t contain meaning, but we can gain information from it. In a similar way a sample of our dreams can also tell us an enormous amount. Sometimes this data is obvious, sometimes it needs processing to uncover, as with urine and blood.
Dream Processing – The following dream needs no deep techniques of processing. The word ‘processing’ is used throughout the book instead of analysis. Analysis has the connotation of giving our own thoughts or opinions to the dream. Processing is used to suggest extraction of information which leads to insight. With this particular dream, all it needs is a few facts brought to it to make clear what information it holds. The dream is that of a young woman, Mrs C. L.
It is a bright sunny day. I am walking across a large concrete car park. It is empty except for a huge trailer from a truck. It has BOOTS written on the side, and stands high off the ground. Being 4’ 9’ tall myself I decide to walk underneath. As I am half way the trailer starts to be lowered on top of me. I try to shout but cannot. I get onto my hands and knees and the trailer still kept coming down. I am now lying on my stomach, convinced it is going to crush me. Then it suddenly stops a couple of inches from my head. I wake feeling terrible.
The dream is interesting, although the information it holds may at first not be obvious. But with a minimum of processing the dream information will become clear. The first technique of processing the dream is to recognise some of the key statements within it. These are I AM WALKING – I TRY TO SHOUT – CONVINCED IT IS GOING TO CRUSH ME.
The reason these are key statements is because the dreamer is saying ‘I am walking’ – ‘I try to shout’ – ‘I …am convinced’. The word ‘I’ is important.
This form of processing has not added anything to the dream. It has simply drawn attention to the information already there in the dreamer’s description of her experience – this is why it is useful to write the dream out fully. If we add a little more information which the dreamer herself connects with the dream, then it becomes even clearer. Mrs C. L. says, ‘I work for BOOTS the chemist. The employees at the shop I work in were told at the beginning of the year that Boots are selling our shop. When that happens I will be made redundant. We were supposed to finish on May 26th. It is now the end of July. The deal fell through so we are now just left hanging indefinitely until a new buyer comes along. I feel very unsettled as I can’t make any plans for the future.’
Having read these comments, it would be difficult not to see the dream as relating to the woman’s work situation, and to her strong anxiety connected with it. She herself says – through her dream – she is ‘convinced it – the situation – is going to crush’ her. She also feels her strong emotions about this – expressed in her attempt to shout – are not being expressed or ‘heard’. From just this one dream, we can be forgiven if we assume that dreams may express in dramatic form our feeling reaction to the circumstances of our everyday life. Taking this dream as information, Mrs. C. L. could see she is feeling crushed by the situation, yet not stating her feelings loudly enough to be heard. She might therefore speak to the manager to clarify the situation for herself.
Here is an even shorter and less complex dream. It has been left just as it was written so its information is immediately apparent. The key words here might be TRYING TO CONTACT HIM and NOT UNDERSTANDING WHY HE LEFT ME. The dream is from Mrs C. J.
Years ago I lost my first husband at twenty nine. I had the same dream continually of being in a phone box trying to contact him, not understanding why he had left me. He died of cancer. Later I remarried and this husband died of a heart attack. Once again the same dream came back so much.
On speculating about the dream from what is immediately apparent, we might say that although it is irrational to continually try to contact her husband when there has never be any success, nevertheless, her desire to be with him continues year after year. This same part of her cannot understand why he died. We might put such feelings into words as, ‘But what had he done to die so young? Why should it happen to me twice?’ We can also assume that her desire to understand these questions, which is what contacting her husband represents, is expressed in the dream as the telephone.
The dream process has dramatised her situation and inner feelings – given them form and made them experiential. Looking at this dream helps us see how an image, such as the telephone, performs exactly the same sort of function as a spoken word, although in a different way. Namely, it represents feelings and thoughts. That the woman’s questions remain, that her problem is unsolved, is apparent from the fact she does NOT make contact on the telephone, and does not find peace. Understanding her dream shows her the importance of the questions she continually asks herself, and the need to release the emotions behind them. With this she could be free of the dream. If she cannot manage this by herself, taking advantage of the professional help of a therapist might help.
To make it clear how everything is a dream holds personal information, to give an example, I was recently asked by a man who had given no thought to dreams how on earth you could extract any meaning from them. He was wearing a fairly old T-shirt, so I said, “OK, let’s imagine you dreamt of your T-shirt, what would you make of that?”
After a while he said, “I don’t know that I would make anything of it.”
My response was to say, “Right, but now tell me where you bought the T-shirt, and what memories it has for you.” Whereupon he told me memories of being abroad, and that the shirt was part of those memories, and he wasn’t prepared to say what they were as they were so personal.
The important point is that everything we see and deal with, every person, every imagined scene, has such a background of feelings and perhaps memories. It is exactly this background of feelings and information that the dream weaves its story from. To understand it you need to become aware of the usually unconscious feeling responses you have in connection with every thing, place, person and animal you fill your dreams with.
For fuller Dream Processing – Below are described simple techniques that make it possible to quickly gain information from your dreams. They have been put as a series of questions. If you take time to consider and answer the question you will find your way into a new experience of dream understanding.
Read it in: Processing Your Dream
Seeing under the Surface
Acting on your Dreams – Extracting more from your dream by letting your body and feelings express it can provide a remarkable release of insight. There are several ways of doing this.
Do see the instructions see: Acting on Your Dreams
The Peer Dream Group – This method is the most powerful and deepest method. It includes some of the other techniques mentioned.
The way of working known as the Peer Dream Group came about from our experience that dreams are largely self explanatory if approached in the right way. An exterior expert or authority is not necessary for a profound experience of and insight into dreams and into oneself if certain rules are respected and used. The dreamer is the ultimate expert on their own dream and themselves but only when we break through to what is usually unconscious mental states, and when treated as such, and supported in their investigation of their dream drama, they can powerfully explore and manifest the resources of their inner life.
To use it see: The Peer Dream Group and What I Have Seen In Dreams
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Hi,
I was hoping someone could tell me what this dream means.
Last night I dreamt that I was in my work setting at the cash register with a group of people on line paying for their items. I kept punching in 12 dollars on the register but it wasn’t taking it for some reason, it was like I couldn’t hit the cash button after I put in 12.00. It was stuck. I got frustrated and the people on line you could tell were getting annoyed with me. But as I continued to put in 12, two girls who were customers also in the dream, came up from behind me and were pushing my back, and before I knew it I was pushed up against the register trying to push them back away from me. Using all my strength, it was almost like they were trying to fight me. Then while all this is going on I’m hearing the people on line sputtering… “Yeah, somethings not right. There’s something wrong with her.” about me.
My dream flashed to another place that looked like it could’ve been my work, but it was really a mixture of my work and a restaurant/hotel of some sort. I don’t remember much from this part, but that I placed my pockabook(handbag) down at my feet, and this person came and stole my bag. I looked down and my bag was gone! I freaked out, got out of my seat, and yelled frantically, “Somebody stole my bag!”. It pretty much brought me to tears almost automatically. All of a sudden my dad appears. And he’s just sitting down with his attention fixated on something else. Yet, I’m still in panic that my bag was stolen. I tried to get my fathers attention to tell him that my bag was stolen, but he never really even looked up at me. I couldn’t get his attention, and I was crying thinking, he doesn’t care?
I then turned and looked back to see the person who I thought to be the one that took my bag. They had a huge grin on their face and I slowly approached them as they walked up to me to give me my bag back. I quickly took my bag back, and as she/he turned to walk away, I kicked her/him in the butt with my foot. She/he didn’t show much of a reaction to that and continued on her/his way.
Dream all of a sudden turns again. But I’m in the same place. However, I’m with my dad, and there’s food. I remember specifically ziti, and pizza. My dad was telling me to try something. “You should try this…” (I don’t remember which food he was talking about.) But I took a slice of pizza, and was eating it. For some reason when I swallowed, my swallowing felt weird. Like I was about to choke, but I didn’t. I remember taking one bite, and then turned around again to see that same person who stole my bag, standing in a crowd grinning with a bow(like a bow and arrow) in their hand. It looked like she or he, because the person looked kinda strange. I couldn’t really make out it if they were a man or woman. I think I saw the arrow once, but it was weird because it was with the person standing next to the person with the bow. And the person with the bow, was stretching the bow out, and almost seemed like they were getting ready/preparing to strike me, although they weren’t making complete eye contact with me. It looked like, they were about to shoot me, but I couldn’t see where the arrow was because it looked like they just had the bow in hand. I got scared and began to run away. I remember seeing my dad again, but for some reason he was crouched down in this tight spot.
Dream flashes. I’m at the same place running into the parking lot, getting in my car with my bag, and driving away. It was night time. I remember just looking at the road ahead of me and the dashboard was lit up.
Then I’m somehow at this place again. And I see my dad, and again, he’s in an awkward position, but speaking normally, and this time there were other people around him, just talking with him. I noticed blood on his stomach, like a gash was there, and I pointed it out to him. He kind of nonchalantly made it appear as though, it was no big deal. Next thing I know, I’m leaving again, except this time not really in a panic at all.
I go out into the parking lot, and it almost looks like a vacation resort/hotel. I remember two men or a man and his son, leaving into their car as I also left in mine.
Dream flashes. I’m in a bedroom. There’s a lot of pink. I didn’t know who’s bedroom it was, but this girl was there who I don’t really like all that much in real life. She’s just kind of a conceited type who I work with. I’m assuming it was probably supposed to be her bedroom. Why I was there? I don’t know.
Well, in the dream she’s sitting down with her hair pulled back in a bun, and makeup on. She’s talking about herself with makeup on. And she says; “This is me with makeup on.” Then it somehow changes, I’m still in the same bedroom, but she changes. She suddenly isn’t there in person anymore, but on a screen, kind of like a webcam. And she’s blogging. Her appearance changed a little because now, she didn’t have any makeup on, and her hair was down. She was talking on the video about herself with no makeup on. She said; “This is me with no makeup on.”
Then I woke up.
What do you think this might mean?
Also, I apologize for the length. I just wanted to get in every little detail I remembered in case it meant something. Thank you.
i would realy like to know my dreams
Nelson – If you mean that you would like to be able to remember your dreams you can do it like this – So to ‘catch a dream’, the ‘non-dreamer’ could set an alarm to go off after about six hours of sleep. This should catch them well into the fourth dream of the night. Realising that such cycles begin only from the time one went to sleep, this would have to be accounted for. Also, the alarm would have to rouse the person suddenly, due to their mechanism of forgetfulness. If this did not work first time, then the alarm could be set below or above the six hours. One would naturally have to make some record of the dream, as a further period of sleep could easily obliterate the hard won memory.
Fortunately, this ambush type technique to catch a dream may not be necessary. It has been noticed time and time again by those working on dreams, that once a sincere interest in dreams has been aroused, one usually begins to remember them. While you are reading this book for instance, you are undoubtedly unaware of your big toe. However, now that your big toe is mentioned, you begin to become aware of the sensations of its form, clothing upon it, position in relationship to the rest of your body, etc. Similarly, when one’s interest is aroused regarding dreams, one begins to become far more aware of them. If one subsequently writes them down and tries to understand them, then such remembrance becomes even easier.
Tony
In the dream I was at a home that I am not familiar with now that I am awake but in the dream it seemed like I did know it.. at some point I realized I hadn’t seen my dog for awhile.. the last I remembered seeing the dog earlier, I was looking outside a window I believe and I saw the dog run by and for some reason thought to myself he might have left with my friend… so I was trying to contact my friend to see if he had taken the dog with him when he left this home.. also in the dream were my friends sisters whom I barely know and have not seen in 10 years or so.. I have also, not seen or talked to this friend in many years either but he did know my dog very well.. I was becoming annoyed as no one seemed to want to help me, finally, one of his sisters told me the dog was not with him when he left.. when his sister told me this, I became sad and anxious and said we have to go look for him and asked if his sister would let my friend (her brother) know this and I thought for sure he would help.. this is about the last of the dream I remember.. weird thing is, the dog died about 12 years ago and I have seen this friend since this but haven’t spoken to him now for about 6 years..
I had a really disturbing dream last night where my boyfriend was dying. It’s hard to explain but when he felt he was dying he had to lie down, and he almost looked posessed. We all surrounded him and watched him passing away. Although this happened about 5 times he never actually died. One of the times he told us to play really loud heavy metal music so he could die to that, and another of the times I told him I wanted to take him fishing so he could die doing the one thing he loves most. Myself and his family were extremely upset about what was happening and continually comforted eachother. What does this dream mean?
I felt like I was in House M.D the series, and one of his Doctors. (Semi-lucid. Semi.) And the children who were my patients kept saying they were seeing shadows and ghosts. I figured to myself ‘This is House, there’s always a logical explanation – it must be hallucinations!’
So when I went into the ward full of children, they were getting read a bedtime story by a… Some responsible adult, and I laughed and said ‘Well I’ve never seen any ghosts – but what do I know, I’ve never been in hospital overnight!’ Because I never have in real life. Which I then realized made no sense as I left the hospital because of course I’m a doctor so I would have been, right?
So I popped into the room with all of the other consultants of House, feeling cheerful because I was pretty damn certain there was nothing to worry about. I then leave the room and turn left, heading down a corridoor – which by the way, was the spitting layout of the humanities department at the building I study in at university.
And then I see one of the children being dragged down a corridoor by something invisible. I raced after the child, trying to grab the shadow once and missing, and then twice, and succeeding. The shadow becomes a small child, whom I hold under my arm, who is entirely black.
I feel relieved, and lean up against the wall for a moment, the shadow regarding as something inanimate and I am fully capable of restraining it – it does not fight to free itself, though it does not express contentedness I feel that the shadow-child will not attempt to escape, even if I let it go, and I am holding it tightly. A child from another dream, a small blonde girl who I recall is the sister of someone in another dream comes up to me and latches onto me, saying hello again and that she missed me, and that I was warm. She is comfortable with me, and I have a great desire to protect this child from danger.
Then a large shadow appears and chases me, I know instinctively that this shadow is strong enough to kill me, and that it either wants the small shadow back or desires to kill me, so I flee, taking both the shadow child and the child I know with me. I descend stairs, and flee the hospital and into an outside reception area, where it is raining quite heavily. The shadow stops at the automatic door- unable to leave, despite the small shadow child still being with me. I eye it warily, and it stares back with hostile intent. I have no car and wish to return to the hospital, and I am concerned about the children (For now I care for both of them) getting wet and cold. I wonder if the large shadow will follow me, and make towards going inside the other side of the square, directly across the square from where the large shadow is waiting… He starts to move around the building through the connecting part of the building, and I stop, as it isn’t safe to enter.
I wake up.
I am a 19-year old 1st year English literature student in Britain.
Mair – Thank you for your excellent description of your dream. You are obviously a writer.
I wish Mair that I could help you understand fully what scary shadows and dark shapes are, and also how dreams and our mind work. But hopefully some of this will become clear if you read http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/dream-yoga/
Hopefully you will see there is nothing that you need to be frightened of. Here is an example from my own journal from 1983.
I was by myself, with a young boy, in a rather stark, lonely house. I called it Bleak House. There was something about. While I was in a small room with my boy the “thing” came and tried to get in the door. I was so terrified I put my back against the wall and pushed the door tight with my feet. My terror was so great though, I felt paralysed and weak, but I just managed to hold the door closed. The fear was awful though, and I tried to call for help, but at first no sound came out. Then a strangled cry emerged, and eventually I screamed out for help. This woke my wife, who woke me.
Then I went back into the dream to explore it. Working on my dream, the house is my individual estate, my disposition – like a cliff face, meeting the wind and sea. It is my lonely bleak house. The child is a feeling part of me that has grown up with me, understands my ways. The door is all my attitudes, fears, emotions that I use to keep people out of my life, or let them in. It is a fear of life itself. It is a dislike, a pain of being hit for loving. And anger at being picked at by vultures who want to live on ones life. The “thing” is people I know, life, death. I don’t need to be afraid or forcibly hold them off. I am the door. By asking what is wanted I can decide whether I have something I can share or not.
Then the real breakthrough came. I feel and saw and felt the “thing” to be the fear of bombing that occurred in my childhood. And when I opened the door to let the terrifying creature in, I felt like a child that had closed the door to the fear of the bombs dropping. In fact I had closed the door to Life, and now I could live again and carry on growing. The child I then saw was the part of me I was protecting for all those years.
So I see your dream as something similar. The hospital is a place of healing. But healing needs you to face the childhood fears that are transformed into ghosts. And you too wanted a door to protect y from really knowing that fear. You are in fact trying to protect the child part of you. Maybe reading http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/acting-on-your-dream/ could help.
Tony
Thanks for the swift reply! It’s all very fascinating.
The first link is extremely interesting! It’s interesting (to me) that the door itself was not an actual physical impediment, although it was a boundary that for some reason it couldn’t cross. I suspect that might indicate some form of denial… It’s probably relevant that the small shadow was initially perceived as a threat to my patient, but that as soon as I subdued it it became a child much as the non-shadow child, which needed protection. I have a pretty good idea what both of the shadows represent, so thank you for your help!
Hopefully I can eat that big shadow, as the article puts it, and solve these issues, thanks again!
Mair – Thank you too. It is so helpful to hear, whether it is good advice or I missed the target. Also, when an interesting question is posed it brings out information from me I may not have realised before, and your words did that.
Tony
I had a dream that felt as if i was partilly awake atleast i know i was during the very end when i was waking up. Anyway i was in my home except it was not the exact same( livingroom was downstairs ) i was really scared all i wanted to do was leave the house fast but i couldnt because something unknown in the fireplace wanted my 4 yr old son! i felt scared and very protective of my son. … i awoke from my dream in chills litterally about to cry but whats odd is that night i shut my 4r old sons tv off while he was asleep and when i awoke from my dream it was his tv that awoke me! ..which has been happening alot lately , i shut off his t.v at like 230 3 in the morning before i go to bed and it turns back on . its a new house im in i just bought it, ive only been here for maybe 2wks now. im just really bothered by this dream and nervous also for my kid. was hoping somebody may know a reason for this dream or a way of interpeting it.
Having a recurring dream that I’m driving beside my ex boyfriend and in it he always has either his back or head turned away.
I’m 33 years old, divorced mother of one. Over the last few years I’ve been in a couple of relationships, none have woked out. I put premature trust into this fellow as I knew him since highschool and didn’t expect him to treat me disrespectfully. He works close-by to where I live and run into him from time to time.
Hope you can help me to understand this dream and why it is recurring. Have a great day.
I had a dream that I was sleeping at my new boyfriends place. I lifted the blankets of his bed and underneath the covers were three large oval eggs they looked like they would have come from a very large bird. I am very curious what this would signify.
Thank you
Nadine – Good to see you again on DreamHawk.
I think the very large bird is you!! Seriously, you pull back the covers on your boyfriend’s bed – looking at what was hidden – and there are three eggs. And I feel this is either you looking ahead at the three eggs/children you will have – or that that is what you would like to happen.
Tony
Thank you for your response! Yes, that is what I would like to see happen!! Thank you.
I never usually dream but lately ive been having a crazy recurring dream and would like some input if possible.
Some background information on the situation of the dreams ive been having lately. I was engaged to be married about a year ago, in a living together situation. She became pregnant with twins and left me about two weeks there after. I soon discovered that she had been cheating with an ex she was with right before we had gotten together. I was told by her relatives that the twins were the other guys and her and I havent spoke since the day she left.(she changed her number moved away so on). Her relatives also told me that I would never be in the childrens lives before they were born. ( I wasnt a violent man towards her I was actually enrolled at the police academy at that time and treated her like a queen).
Anyway on to my dreams, for the past month and a half or so i have been having basically the same dream but small details change. The first one I had she came to me while i was working in a warehouse with the children. She told me they were mine and she wasnt happy with her ex and wanted me back. i told her too little too late and then the ex boyfriend walks into the warehouse. He says something to me that isnt clear but in the dream it makes me rather angry and i start choking him. She asked me to stop and I did and woke up. The kids face were fuzzy and I could really see them.
I have also as recent as last night been having a dream ( almost the same about twice this month thus far) that I am seeking these kids basically hiding to try and get a glimpse of what they look like and am always found by her parents and they tell me to leave and I oblige. I can never see what they actually look like though. I do not really think they are mine because the dates she had them dont really add up and besides these dreams she is never on my mind anymore i have moved on and in no way want anything to do with her. If the twins were in fact mine it would be different and i would care for them though.
Vince – There is no way you can ‘have nothing to do’ with someone you have been intimately involved with. It doesn’t work like that. Remember that we are not just a conscious personality, we are Life itself expressing as Vince. We have a massive unconscious self which takes care of all the things like heartbeat that keeps you functioning. As such we are always feeding on something, food, water and EXPERIENCE. Most people are often totally unaware of the experience they take in and how it interacts with them.
It sounds as if you are not honouring what you have taken into you, and it is giving you indigestion of the soul. What I have found over years of investigation that everything we take in, experience as well as food, needs to be dealt with in a particular way. We are a living process like all living things. We have to transform what we take in into living processes.
For instance when a plant takes in water and nourishment it changes it into living cells the same with us if we are healthy, we change food into our living body and awareness. As I wrote years ago, “We often take for granted some of the most astounding facts about our everyday life. They seem so normal we barely notice them. But just think, the potatoes or rice you ate yesterday, is today capable of sitting and laughing at a television program. When you digested the food you ate, in some way that is truly astounding it transformed into your movements, and feelings, and being able to do maths and enjoy a video”. (Quoted from SuperMinds).
How we do that with our experience is slightly different – we have to digest it fully by experiencing it fully. If we do not do that it is like plastering stuff/experience on ourselves that is like thick coating which leads to all sorts of mental disorders. Look around you and see the massive crap many people are carrying.
Experiencing it fully is a life process like digesting our food. We cannot do it consciously because Life in us does it – as you can see in your disturbing dreams. You interfered by trying to kill the guy – in your dreams – and also shut out any further contact with the memories. So, as a start you can imagine taking him, her and the children into you. Literally imagine that they are going into your body and you are accepting them – not as outside people, but as the experience you took into you. Then you mst allow any feeling to surface fully – that is how we digest experience. In our culture we have been taught to repress everything, that is why we have so much social sickness. See http://dreamhawk.com/approaches-to-being/the-lifestream/ and http://dreamhawk.com/body-and-mind/peoples-experiences-of-lifestream/
Tony
I am not a regular dreamer. Yet I have been having a reoccurring dream since 2005. It comes to me when I am in complete distress over my life issues (and when I am in a relationship). I always wake up feeling a complete inner peace. Its always the same boring dream though. I am merely looking at a man standing in front of me. When I first saw him, he was far away and I could only see the shape of his figure. As the years have gone by, he is getting closer and closer to me. As he is getting closer, his face is becoming more vivid. I am never trying to walk towards him but he seems to be shifting forward. The last time I had this dream, I could clearly see his face, he was smiling, and reaching his palm out to me. Strangely enough, a few months ago I met the real life person in my dream. Have him and I been linked? Or was I merely meant to meet him? (By the way, I have predicted things in the past and people I’ve met before meeting them in person.) What’s odd is I recently moved clear across the country and had no way of seeing this familiar face before. What does it all mean? I don’t know if I believe in soul mates but both of us have stated that we feel drawn to each other. I have also had Deja Vu countless of times while being with the real man. I don’t understand because we always go to unknown locations for me. Please help me understand it all.
My dream was of me parking a parking a semi tractor in an ajoining driveway. while doing so I saw my neighbor place a plate of cookies for the patio table for me.
I saw her through the kitchen screen door. I knocked and entered. Introduced myself. We talked for some time. There was chemitry between us. She introduced me to her younger daughter. We had a pleasant visit. A male platonic friend came by. He was also a likeable person. He refered to jill as being widowed.
i had a dream about my ex and we dont talk to each other like i cant even remember the las time i talked to him. My dream was basically about me looking out a window and i saw him walk up to this girl and kiss her and then they both left together and then i talked to my room mate and i asked her for some advice and she could not give me an answer so i went out to look for him and he was nowhere to be found
I am not a regular dreamer, yet over the past three nights I have had some dream/nightmares that leave me waking up rather uncomfortable and fairly unsafe. The first night I dreamt that I was living with my mother and I got into an argument at school. My life was threatened and I told my mother I wanted to be transferred out on that regard. She laughed and said everything would be okay. I woke up feeling terrified that my life was in danger. The second night I was part of some weird dinosaur apocalypse that involved a ton of children, adolescents and I trying to survive without being eaten. Our parents and other adults were sacrificing themselves right and left to this dinosaur so the kids and teens could get away. Again I woke myself feeling like I was going to die. Tonight was an especially strange dream for it’s lack of detail. My ex-husband and I were driving around what looked like my storage lot in deep night. I locked my door and told him to do the same. He did and then we drove around the corner and almost hit a man asking for change(in the middle of the night, in a gated storage complex). When my ex kept driving my heart sank in my dream and yet again, I woke up feeling threatened and unsafe. Being that I do not usually wake up with any recollection of my dreams, can you explain this new trend of unpleasant dreams?
i have reoccuring dreams of purple cats and blue cats, and i am always amazed in my dreams at what i see, they r dark in color.
hi. i was looking for a site that could help me with what i have been experiencing the past nights. the latest was, i was dreaming that i am dreaming i am in the house of one of my relative. i was trying to tell them i am around but they don’t seem to notice me. i said i have to wake up because i was only dreaming. but then i was brought to a place with family also. same that they still don;t see me. i was shouting in my dream already asking help that i want to go back to realty. when i woke up my hands was cold. and then i realize i could not remember that i was sleeping in that time.
please help me…
Enna – It is difficult to be sure about this dream. It is obviously a lucid dream in which you are conscious that you are dreaming, but it seems that you are unused to it and do not know how to deal with it.
The other thing is that it might not be simply a lucid dream but an out of body experience, which would explain that you were shouting and could not be heard or seen. But if your family would have been asleep at the time maybe that is not the right description.
This such a huge subject and it would be good to read a little about it. For instance see http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/out-of-body-experiences/
But if it is all about simply dreaming, why were you drawn to the relatives you were? And did you feel, or do you feel they ignore you in general?
See also http://dreamhawk.com/inner-life/life-and-death-chapter-links/ and http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/dreaming-of-death/#Talking and http://dreamhawk.com/dream-encyclopedia/lucid-dreams/
Tony